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Your First New Tool Kit Lesson

Dear Ones,

Brenda is not certain that she has any information for you today, but we will tell you that today’s blog is quite dramatic in terms of your future on earth. Let us begin.

In our last blog we discussed how acceptance of yourself and others is a key element during this two-week period following the full moon. Perhaps you are already noting that issues that irritated you in the not-so-distant past are becoming humorous.

A bit like the “nosy” neighbor who is beginning to endear herself to you. Your nosy neighbor constantly provides you with in-depth information that she thinks will be of interest to you or is to her. But instead of irritating you, you are beginning to find value in her observations. Once you find the value, you will realize how fun her constant need to provide you with her latest tidbit of information is. And then you will find yourself labeling your nosy neighbor as a crime stopper or in a similar beneficial fashion. Your perspective has shifted from irritation to welcoming.

So it will be for those who have irritated you in the past. Perhaps we should delineate that last statement just a bit. If you sense the emerging humor in their actions and do not feel the need to run when they appear, those people will, in all likelihood, remain in your life for some time. There are others who make you feel dull and heavy whenever you are in contact with them. Those are the individuals who will soon leave your life.

The shift in perspective we discussed in our last blog is for those people you wish to retain in your life. There will be some relationships you will find too repulsive to continue. Those relationships will be noted via your feelings when you are in their presence and shortly thereafter. Do you feel drained? Tired? Angry? Or any of the other feelings you no longer wish to feel to any degree? Then it is time to move on.

Those people who are to remain in your life have or soon will be seen by you in a different light. Their activities and former irritating behaviors will now seem fun or even become nonexistent given the joy the two of you experience in each other’s company.

Let us be more concise. You have reached the place in this New Age shift in which you now know who is to remain in your life. You have always had this skill.  It is just that you have never had this skill to the degree that you now have. And in the Old Age, you had difficulties trusting this skill because of your society’s need to control actions that you were fully capable of controlling.

We promised you a New Age tool kit. Your ability to discern who is appropriate for you is one of your major New Age tools.

While it is true that you have always created your own reality, that reality was often a “hit or miss” experience. Perhaps you wished to experience anger so you created a “mish mash” of anger possibilities and accessed them all to a certain degree knowing that one of them would be the key to that lesson.

You are now much more focused. You do not have the time nor the interest to throw a number of lessons “out there” hoping that one will meet your needs. Because of the recent energy shifts, you now will create the perfect lesson for the areas you are interested in. And by creating the perfect lesson, you will move through each lesson much more rapidly.

You will know the perfect lesson by the feelings you access when you are with that person or in that environment. You will feel light and bright even though it might appear to be an uncomfortable situation. By the same token, if you are exposing yourself to lessons that are not necessary or not appropriate according to your inner being, you will feel dull and heavy.

Your New Age lessons are to be in joy, rather than pain. So listen to your inner being and follow its dictates. Despite outward appearances, your new lessons will be learned in joy if you listen to your feelings – and then act on those feeling skills.

If you are somewhere or with someone who makes you feel dark and heavy, you are not with the person or in the environment necessary for you to learn your new joy lessons. Rather, you are in an environment of pain that will feel less and less comfortable as you move further into the New Age.

Listen to your inner being and go for the joy. That is your key New Age lesson.

To do otherwise is to try to continue in pain when pain is no longer necessary or appropriate. You have a new tool kit and we are going to help you access it. The first tool is that of listening to your inner being and it will tell you if you are throwing a number of balls in the air hoping that one will be the lesson you wish to experience; or if you have honed your skills to the point that you easily and gracefully move from one lesson to the other.

Listen to your inner voice. Trust your inner voice. And learn to giggle and play with joy with the best of them. This is your first New Age tool kit lesson. So be it. Amen.

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