Archive for August, 2011

Are You Surprising Yourself With Your Actions?

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com

Overview of Brenda’s 15-minute, free, channeled show Creation Energies on http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com:Yesterday’s channeled radio show returned to the theme of  last week’s Brenda’s Blog available at http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com  titled Letting Go of a Piece of Your Heart. Relationship sharing means asking yourself what you want or need in a relationship. You’ve been trained to give without expectations for eons. It’s time to review that pattern along with your beliefs about your self-worth.

 

Dear Ones,

Even though you may understand intellectually what is happening to those relationships that no longer feel loving or valuable – whether human, animal or other entity – emotionally, you are exhausted and devastated. That person or entity might have been your touchstones of security for decades or eons. Please know that they are not bad or evil, they just do not fit within your being in a comfortable and loving fashion.

Perhaps it would be easier to understand if you think of yourself as  a round puzzle with round puzzle pieces and the other person or entity as a square puzzle with square puzzle pieces. One shape is not better than the other, merely different and not interchangeable. So it is for you now.

You do not hate the people or objects you are moving away from, you just do not feel comfortable with them any longer. You cannot understand them and they cannot understand you.

What are you to do about the void left in your heart now that they are no longer part of you – at least at the level they were before the shift? What indeed? Who or what do you want in your life and why?

You see we have returned to the basics again. Who are you? Do you wish to be with someone who makes you uncomfortable? Why? And if not, why not? What is different about you…or them? Create the relationships that fit the new you much as you did when you left home or starting dating. You are not alone. You merely have to set your personal radar to a station that matches like-minded people or entities.

The key phrase is self-worth. For eons, you have accepted without question the phrase, “To give is better than to receive.” Do you realize how many belief patterns are attached to that phrase – including gender, race, religion, age, government and economics?

Historically, women were protected by their male relatives or spouses to the extent that they were not able to vote, hold office or own property. Such beliefs seem ludicrous now given that women are voting, serving in the military, owning property and serving in office. But many belief patterns needed to shift before such dramatic societal changes occurred. Such changes required decades of dedicated work by those who believed men and women were equal intellectually and physically.

Your recent shift feels so dramatic – and exhausting – because it occurred within days instead of decades. It was not something you planned for or protested for to obtain. The shift happened without your conscious awareness. And that is how shifts will continue to occur throughout this transition process – easily and naturally, but surprising to you in terms of your reactions and actions.

There is no historical perspective for this shift. Nor are there texts or professors to help you wade through the materials. Merely you acting and reacting according to your inner-being.

Now you ask what else will be expected of you in this transition? You have already given up a great deal in the last few days by moving beyond the people or objects you once held dear. In the not-to-distant future, you will review what you gave up recently and realize the person, entity or object did not expect or accept an equal relationship. For if it were equal, you would not have given it up.

Have you dated someone wonderful until you started noting discrepancies in their words and actions and you needed to let them go? So it was for you in the last few days. But again, there were no self-help books to tell you what to do. You acted from your inner-being not societal dictates – how frightening that is to many. No rules, no guidance – just you knowing who you are and what you need.

In the past, you were inundated with correct moves and actions provided your psychologists, self-help gurus, parents and religious leaders. Even though they may have had somewhat different viewpoints, they all provided a “correct” framework for who you were and how you acted. Those few people who dared to move beyond those rules laid down by others found themselves justifying their actions by pointing out a philosophy or text that indicated a similar activity. Such safety nets no longer apply.

How can a societal safety net apply when you have transferred your power to your inner-being? And how can your moves be correct for anyone else?

Allow yourself to know that you are a powerful, self-governing entity – as is everyone else. Then allow yourself to know that what occurred in the past few days was you allowing your self-governing being to move in a direction that was and is correct for you.

Your self-governing being is not mean, vicious or self-aggrandizing. It merely wishes to help your physical being move into the place that will encompass the joy, love and peace you have long hoped for. Your self-governing being is slowly but surely waking up to the New Age.

Much of what has transpired pertaining to the New Age/new energy/new earth in the past forty years has been an intellectual discussion of the possibilities. In the last few years, your physical being began shifting – but not to the extent that you felt or acted much differently. Perhaps you visualized, had your favorite mantras or associated with others who felt similarly – but your life continued much as was before you found the materials.

Your physical being is shifting to meet the intellectual thoughts you have processed for a few decades. You are becoming the person you wanted to be, and hoped to be, in the New Age/new earth. To do that you must move away from those people and entities that force or urge you to physically act as you always have. The New Age you is physically coming into being with all the twists of your personality such changes require.

Can you remain happily involved in what you term “dysfunctional relationships?” Not if you are moving into the New Age. You cannot be an alcoholic, spouse beater, thief, murderer or any similar activity and comfortably move into the New Age/new earth. Not that any of those labels are terrible in themselves, but rather do not include love, joy and peace. New actions for the new you. Paramount of which is self-worth. And self-worth is not synonymous with a dysfunctional relationship, rage, hate and anger.

You took a major physical step into the new earth/New Age in the past few days by acting on feelings that you no longer wish to be part of a dysfunctional anything. You brave souls in a matter of months moved into a place that would normally take hundreds of years.

No wonder you are starting to surprise yourself with your actions – you continually surprise us. So be it. Amen.

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August 31, 2011 at 5:39 pm 2 comments

Letting Go of A Piece of Your Heart

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for www.LifeTapestryCreations.com

Dear Ones,

In the past few days, many of you have let go of people, objects and communities that have been a central part of your life. And so you are once again exhausted.

Perhaps you lost a favorite pair of earrings; or your perceptions of your family or community shifted. Whatever it was, that piece tugged at your heart and brought tears to your eyes. You let go of a part of your being, your heart.

If you are moving towards a heart-centered life, how is it possible you needed to let go of something that was in your heart? We have described this new earth/new age shift as that those who wish to move into the New Age will find those who do not much less interesting.

What happened in the last few days is related to this concept in a somewhat convoluted fashion. The pieces or people who you found the need to let go are those who are not interested in being part of the New Age. But you never imagined letting go would be so painful.

What you let go of this week was the last piece of the Old Age you were hoping would continue to be part of your life in a way that did not distract you from your forward moment – somewhat like leaving your home of origin. And so it is to a certain extent, but the pieces you let go in the last few days are pieces you really never wanted to lose.

An analogy would be the many families in World War I Europe who were separated because of their heritage, instead of their beings. It was not uncommon for an English family with German relatives to negate the warm and loving connection the two families had maintained for generations. After the war, those two families were never able to connect on the level that had been true in earlier years – there were too many topics they could not discuss or share.

So it will be with you and that piece or pieces that you let go in the last few days. Perhaps the earrings were an important part of your memory bank that you used as a reminder of loving activities when you looked at yourself in a mirror. Or perhaps it is a family structure you no longer preceive in  the same way. The image/life you wanted to maintain can no longer be maintained by you.

You are exhausted because you are in a period of mourning. To create new structures, the former structures need to be destroyed, shifted or changed. And so it is with you.

Those of you who have long hoped for the new earth/New Age always assumed, or at least hoped, that the transition would be relatively easy emotionally. And so it has been and will be. It just does not feel like that at this moment. It most likely feels as if your heart has been ripped apart and loosely stitched together as a temporary measure.

Please know that such is not the case. You will not be and are not alone. You indeed can reconnect with those people, communities and objects that have so damaged your emotions in the past few days. It is just that you will reconnect on a different level – or not reconnect at all.

Even though you perhaps have not labeled this transition as such, this transition is a revolution of the greatest magnitude. Revolution means change. But then, all of existence is ongoing change. The difference is that the revolution you are now experiencing is happening at a faster rate than you or anyone anticipated. Reading or listening to concepts is easier than moving through the pieces necessary to actualize a revolution.

But again, you are not alone, nor are you forced to let go of the something or someone you are now mourning.

This is not a physical revolution. It is an inner-directed revolution. So if you find the pain too deep to let go – do not do so. But if you find through your tears that you now understand that the relationship was never quite as you envisioned it to be – that you had created something loving that the other persons, communities or entities did not reciprocate, you will find that after your tears dry you will not wish to return – at least at the same depth as was true before the trauma of the past few days.

You are a unique person with unique needs and directions. You do not have to continue the thought processes that you are now feeling. You can return to the relationship, your community, your job or replace the object. That is and always has been your choice. But we will venture to guess that you will either not do so or will do so on a much different level than was true before you started this mourning process.

Some of you are upset for you want us to tell you that what you let go in the past few days is either gone forever or will return as it was before. Neither is an accurate projection of your new life.

First, we cannot tell you what is correct for you – only you know. That information is stored in your inner-being and can be accessed when you are in a quandary such as you are now. Secondly, you are evolving so rapidly that what was lovely yesterday may not even warrant a second glance today.

So do not feel as if you have given up all of your loving relationships and memories to move into the New Age. But then again, do not necessarily expect that the life that was a great joy to you a few years ago is reality for who you are now.

Listen to your heart, you inner-being and you will know what is correct for you. And as you are doing so, allow yourself to fully mourn what was and may no longer be.

But know that whatever your future holds, it will be based on the love and joy you are feeling more and more within your being. And then know that whatever you let go of recently needed to be shifted, removed or altered in order for you to be the New Age being you are becoming. 

Mourn as you did when you put your favorite doll in storage because you were too old to play with dolls. Perhaps you still have that doll and when you find her in her special box, you smile with the fond memories you have of the times you played with her. But you have no need to play with her. And so it is now with the persons or objects you are mourning. So be it. Amen.

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August 25, 2011 at 1:05 pm 4 comments

Free at Last!

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com

Special Event: Carl O. Helvie, PhD, “Holistic Health Show” on BBSRadio.com Saturday August 20, 2011 at 3 pm Eastern Time – noon Pacific Time. Dee Wallace (actress in 130 movies including the role of mother in the movie, ET) and Brenda are Dr. Helvie’s guests this week. Brenda channels the last thirty minutes of this one-hour ascension show. 

Overview of this week’s Creation Energies, Brenda’s 15-minute, free, channeled program on http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com: Many just shifted from the THOUGHT that victimization and care taking are not appropriate, to the BELIEF that victimization and care taking are no longer appropriate.  

 

Dear Ones,

Let us begin by acknowledging that many of you are exhausted. These past few weeks have been almost more than you could process physically, but not as much as you would like to process.

You want to know who, what, where and when regarding the ascension/New Age/new earth NOW. But your physical being must process for a few days before the next piece is introduced. So we will review what has occurred on earth to date and then we will project what will happen as soon as you are rested physically.

You have altered your DNA to allow more energy into your being. You have started to “glow” a bit. Not so much that most will notice, but enough so those who have not seen you for a while will wonder why you look so attractive – much like a pregnant woman excited about the new life growing within her. This glow will deepen and expand, as we have noted before, but not today or tomorrow because it is time for you to rest your physical being.

You have also accepted your new earth/New Age tool kit even though most of you have not yet downloaded it. So your wondrous tool kit of surprises continues to be on hold for a bit.

Finally, you are moving through your need for victimization and care taking. When we first introduced you to those topics, you pondered and meditated – but did not necessarily change your behavior. You have since accepted the need to move beyond victimization and care taking in all the forms they have taken in your life.

Perhaps what you have achieved beyond accepting the New Age/new earth as a reality does not seem like much change when you read our words. But we will tell you that you have achieved much more than we – and you before this life on earth – thought possible.

In the next few months, you will move into communities physically, emotionally or mentally that support your new being. You will wish to be around those entities – in whatever form – who have similar belief patterns and interests. As we stated earlier, you will find less need or interest in surrounding yourself with those entities who do not.

How can you separate from your family, friends or co-workers who do not meet your soon-to-be needs for compatibility? Just as you have always done in this lifetime on earth. Many of you started a college degree and found it was not correct for you so you changed life plans. Others  of you moved to homes or communities that were not quite right so you found the opportunities necessary to move. Still others discovered that your mate was not correct so you divorced or left that person. This will be no different. Other than you will now know that you can draw the circumstances to you that will help you create your new community without the fear and pain that was so much a part of your Old Age life.

Those people who do not fit into your new worldview are not bad or evil people. They merely wish to remain in fear and pain longer than you do – or in a different community. Some will return to your community – some will not. There is nothing you can do or say that will shift their decision, just as we could not force you into accepting the New Age/new earth/ascension process.

In the Old Age, free will was discussed but not applied. Your governments, schools, churches, parents and communities told you who and what was a “good” person in their system of control. Because those rules were a group consensus for what was necessary to grow and maintain the institution that created the rules, the rules often changed a bit each generation.

Those of you who were previously enmeshed in the Old Age did not notice that the rules changed to meet the institution’s needs – only that they felt a bit more up-to-date. The changes were accepted as progress, rather than another set of rules you needed to follow in order to be considered a “good and worthwhile” person.

Free will has truly entered your world. It is no longer about what an institution needs, but what you need. How that need is derived has shifted dramatically from thoughts of, “How do I get mine, before everyone takes theirs?” to, “What is my heart, my inner-being directing me to do?”

Listening to your inner-being will direct you to your community. Just as the inner-beings of others will direct those who will be most comfortable in your community to you. Bullying, cajoling, begging, nagging, forcing and threatening will no longer alter the thoughts or directions of anyone who has started their internal New Age/new earth process.

You can only be you. Just as all other entities moving into the New Age internally can only be who they are.

What does such insolence, if you will, mean for your institutions? You are already seeing what will happen to institutions who continue to force you into a little box. No box is now large enough to contain you – or anyone who is listening and acting from their internal messages.

Institutions will begin to project their philosophies and those who feel the need to be part of their philosophy will find them. No longer will institutions force you into roles and activities. Instead you will drive the institutions.

“Free at Last” is such an apt phrase for what is happening to you and your world. So be it. Amen.

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August 15, 2011 at 2:15 pm 6 comments

Communications are Now Internal Contracts With Others

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com

Overview of 8/8/11 channeled, 15-minute http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com “Creation Energies” show: We are shifting internally this week to help with the unveiling of our 12-strand DNA. Those who choose not to transition in this lifetime will notice a glow about us. Those transitioning will not necessarily see the glow, but will sense it.

Special Event: Saturday August 20, 2011 at 3 pm to 4 pm Eastern time; noon to 1 pm Pacific time, Brenda and Dee Wallace (actress in 125 movies including the role of mother in the movie, “ET”) will be the guests of radio show host Carl Helvie, Ph.D., on BBSRadio.com “The Holistic Health Show”. Please join us.

 

Dear Ones,

Communication sharing is the piece you are opening this week. Will you be able to communicate with others without words? Yes and no. Even though you will continue to rely on your words for the present, you now have a method of communications that is more reliable than has been true in the past.

All interactions are an exchange – whether physical, emotional or spiritual.

In the past, fear blocked most of your need for an equal or any type of exchange. Perhaps you have attended functions in which you initiated conversations that ended as soon as you stopped asking questions or as soon as your companion felt the need to find the buffet.

Such interactions will take on more meaning. You will no longer be that interested in interacting with others who do not wish to complete an internal contract with you. If you no longer have the need to be a victim or a caretaker, why would you feel the need to spend time with another human who does not feel the need to give you anything in return?

Perhaps you are confused for your society has encouraged such interactions by creating terms such as “small talk”, “little white lies” and “chit chat”. If such conversations feel complete, a sharing has occurred. But if you are bored – one of the best words to describe an non-interaction – you will know your communication partner is not internally involved.

If you were speaking to someone who was not engaged, you most likely felt that there was something wrong with your conversation (victim), instead of that your inner-being was informing you that your partner was not engaged.

Perhaps your conversation partner said all the correct words, but their words did not match their body expressions or you did not know how to “bounce off” them in conversation. You said something and they did not respond. Or you said  something and their response was flat leaving you with nothing to attach to. Communication is more than words.

After this week, many of you will begin to notice that you no longer feel the need to communicate with those who do not share their heart/being with you. Are those who do not share your interests bad? Not at all. Merely that communicating because you should, not because it feels right is no longer something you will necessarily care to do.

Societal niceties are falling by the wayside as you move into your true being. Why would you wish to spend time talking with someone because you feel you should, even though they are not reciprocating with feelings or are draining your emotional/physical/spiritual being?

Perhaps they wish to remain in the third dimension. Or perhaps they are pre-occupied with an issue that has nothing to do with you. It does not matter. You will no longer wish to “carry them” just because you should.

Does that mean you will interact with fewer people? No. Merely that you will demand internally to communicate with those who wish to share feelings – to truly communicate with you. Even if that communication is a smile and a nod, you will feel an inner interaction. Small talk for the sake of small talk is no longer part of you easy repertoire. You will demand substance and therefore, will receive it.

Substance is sharing. Chit chat with no meaning is no longer worth your effort no matter how well you have perfected the art. Let us describe what will happen after this week. Your communication partner may say, “I am so happy.” You will sense through your inner-being that their statement is false. It is then your responsibility to either respond with, “Are you happy?”-  or to exit the conversation. For those who wish to remain in the third dimension will not appreciate you sensing their being. Another example is that someone continues to pursue a relationship with you via conversations that leave you drained. That is not a sharing or loving conversation – it is a caretaker interaction.

You might respond that you must continue to interact with certain people because you work for or with them or they are relatives. Continuing to interact with those people despite your feelings of discomfort is as much a victim stance as any other you can envision.

Allow yourself to be in all of your inner honesty. Protect your being from those who wish to continue in the victim/caretaker roles they are so comfortable with. All you have to do is to question the validity of their statement, end the conversation or exit situations that force you to be someone you are not.

Many of you are feeling pressured by this information. You thought this shift would be mean moving into a joyous new life with few, if any, changes. That is not a shift, it is merely a look at the new earth/New Age and jumping back to your old life of fear.

For those of you who have already established a community of joy and love – whether or not that community verbalizes new earth concepts – this transition into open communication will not be that noticeable. But those of you who have continued to hope that your life will not change as you move into the New Age, may be surprised at how difficult your communications will be after this week.

Allow yourself to be and you will move into the joy you have long hoped for. Allow yourself to remain in the Old Age, in whatever format that takes,  and you will remain in the Old Age despite your hopes to the contrary. So be it. Amen.

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August 9, 2011 at 12:25 pm 4 comments

You Whine and Protest as You Give Away Your Power

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com

Dear Everyone – Somehow the paragraph breaks for this blog were removed despite numerous efforts to correct. I apologize for any confusion. Brenda

Overview of 8/1/11 my “Creation Energies” 15-minute, channeled, http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com show: Even though you are combining the slivers of who you are throughout the Universes and your cellular structure is changing, you will continue to be the physical being you are now.

Special Events:

  • Sunday August 7, 2011 at 11 am Brenda will be the guest presenter/channeler for A Class Act; 127 Cleveland Street; Greenville, SC 29601. Call 864.233.3033 for more information. 
  • Saturday August 20, 2011 noon to 1 Pacific Time; 3 pm to 4 pm Eastern Time, Brenda and Dee Wallace (actress in 125 movies including the role of mother in the movie “ET”) will be the guests of radio show host Dr. Carl Helvie on BBS Radio.com “The Holistic Health Show.” 
Dear Ones,

Many of you experienced unexpected feelings, interactions and behaviors in the last few days – maybe even the last two weeks. That is expected. For the energy shifts of July were greater than has been true for shifts of the past.

Previous shifts arrived in batches, but never to the extent you just experienced, nor in such a condensed period. With each shift, your physical being becomes stronger which allows you to accept more incoming energy. And so it happened for many of you last month.

You shifted physically and spiritually. In turn, those shifts affected you emotionally. Perhaps you lashed out at a friend or relative. Perhaps you were angry at the Universe, your employer or politicians. It does not matter. You needed to vent to stabilize your being. Were you not shocked by your rage – something you were certain you had by-passed long ago?

We have told you that fear and pain would not disappear – they would merely be painted with smaller and brighter pots of paint. And so it is. Your anger dissipated and you returned to what you think is your normal behavior. And we laugh.

For indeed, as you add slivers of your totality, as you shift and as you become more spiritual, you will also be more real.

Does that thought send a shiver of fear through you? There is no need for such fear. For indeed, more real also means more loving. The caveat is that you will love yourself more. Ah. Now you are beginning to grasp what we mean.

If you truly love yourself, you can no longer play victim or care taker roles. You will also be less interested, if not totally disinterested, in enabling others to play those roles. And if those close to you continue to play those roles or enable others to do so, do not be surprised if you remove them from your circle of special people.

This does not mean you will hide in your home. Rather, you will no longer tolerate those roles in whatever form they take. Observing others continuing those roles or enabling others to do so, will become so painful you will need to remove yourself. For as you continue to grow in loving yourself, you will feel more and more uncomfortable around those who do not.

Perhaps the analogy of someone who decides to stop smoking and finds smoky restaurants unacceptable would be an apt analogy. Even though some who have stopped smoking insist that others follow in their new-found health path, most merely stop attending those events that are in smoke filled environments.

And so shall it be for you. You will not have a need to preach the rightness of your new-found self-love, you merely will not wish to be around those who continue to take part in victim/care taker activities.

Will such new thoughts change your relationships? Most definitely for most relationships you developed in this lifetime – and for eons – have included elements of both care taking and victimization. Even your recent United States congressional anger demonstrated victimhood. “Those bad, mean congress people are taking away our rights.” – or – “Giving rights away.” You whine and you protest – all the while forgetting that you gave them their power and continue to do so every time you vote or do not vote.

Of course, you do not need to start a revolution. But at the same time, all your victim whining will not change the structure of any government. You elected or support them. Take responsibility for your actions. Which is no different from taking responsibility for smoking or not smoking. You cannot claim to have moved from the care taker/victim roles if you continue to allow your governments, churches and corporations to tell you who you are and what you need to do. You placed yourself in those prisons, it is time to release yourself.

Many of you are clamouring, “How am I supposed to change the structures that rule my life?” How indeed? We have long told you that your structures would evolve to meet your new needs. As you shift, allow, encourage and EXPECT your structures to shift also. If those structures are of the people, by the people – which they are – what type of structures best fit the new you, your new society?

Allow those structures to be created. The only way such deeply engrained structures will shift is if you, and everyone who wishes to, decide that care taking and victimhood are no longer part of your repertoire. Many of you are now thinking, “How can I possibly do that?” (victimhood) “But what about those people over there, how can I take care of them?” (care taking).

You have long proclaimed that you create your reality, that you can heal yourself and that you are the creator of your world. Expand those thoughts to realize that you are one of the millions of cells joining together to not only shift your thinking, but that of the earth and all the other entities on the earth who wish to shift. It started with you. Now expand your thoughts and your acceptance of your power to include everything and everyone you interact with daily. That is your right. That is your power. Most importantly, that is your role.

Do such thoughts seem cruel or insurmountable? They are if you are a care taker or a victim. They are not if you fully claim your inner power, inner creativity, inner skills and expect everyone else to do the same. That is the New Age/new earth – the ascension. So be it. Amen.
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August 3, 2011 at 1:52 pm 4 comments


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