Communications are Now Internal Contracts With Others

August 9, 2011 at 12:25 pm 4 comments

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com

Overview of 8/8/11 channeled, 15-minute http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com “Creation Energies” show: We are shifting internally this week to help with the unveiling of our 12-strand DNA. Those who choose not to transition in this lifetime will notice a glow about us. Those transitioning will not necessarily see the glow, but will sense it.

Special Event: Saturday August 20, 2011 at 3 pm to 4 pm Eastern time; noon to 1 pm Pacific time, Brenda and Dee Wallace (actress in 125 movies including the role of mother in the movie, “ET”) will be the guests of radio show host Carl Helvie, Ph.D., on BBSRadio.com “The Holistic Health Show”. Please join us.

 

Dear Ones,

Communication sharing is the piece you are opening this week. Will you be able to communicate with others without words? Yes and no. Even though you will continue to rely on your words for the present, you now have a method of communications that is more reliable than has been true in the past.

All interactions are an exchange – whether physical, emotional or spiritual.

In the past, fear blocked most of your need for an equal or any type of exchange. Perhaps you have attended functions in which you initiated conversations that ended as soon as you stopped asking questions or as soon as your companion felt the need to find the buffet.

Such interactions will take on more meaning. You will no longer be that interested in interacting with others who do not wish to complete an internal contract with you. If you no longer have the need to be a victim or a caretaker, why would you feel the need to spend time with another human who does not feel the need to give you anything in return?

Perhaps you are confused for your society has encouraged such interactions by creating terms such as “small talk”, “little white lies” and “chit chat”. If such conversations feel complete, a sharing has occurred. But if you are bored – one of the best words to describe an non-interaction – you will know your communication partner is not internally involved.

If you were speaking to someone who was not engaged, you most likely felt that there was something wrong with your conversation (victim), instead of that your inner-being was informing you that your partner was not engaged.

Perhaps your conversation partner said all the correct words, but their words did not match their body expressions or you did not know how to “bounce off” them in conversation. You said something and they did not respond. Or you said  something and their response was flat leaving you with nothing to attach to. Communication is more than words.

After this week, many of you will begin to notice that you no longer feel the need to communicate with those who do not share their heart/being with you. Are those who do not share your interests bad? Not at all. Merely that communicating because you should, not because it feels right is no longer something you will necessarily care to do.

Societal niceties are falling by the wayside as you move into your true being. Why would you wish to spend time talking with someone because you feel you should, even though they are not reciprocating with feelings or are draining your emotional/physical/spiritual being?

Perhaps they wish to remain in the third dimension. Or perhaps they are pre-occupied with an issue that has nothing to do with you. It does not matter. You will no longer wish to “carry them” just because you should.

Does that mean you will interact with fewer people? No. Merely that you will demand internally to communicate with those who wish to share feelings – to truly communicate with you. Even if that communication is a smile and a nod, you will feel an inner interaction. Small talk for the sake of small talk is no longer part of you easy repertoire. You will demand substance and therefore, will receive it.

Substance is sharing. Chit chat with no meaning is no longer worth your effort no matter how well you have perfected the art. Let us describe what will happen after this week. Your communication partner may say, “I am so happy.” You will sense through your inner-being that their statement is false. It is then your responsibility to either respond with, “Are you happy?”-  or to exit the conversation. For those who wish to remain in the third dimension will not appreciate you sensing their being. Another example is that someone continues to pursue a relationship with you via conversations that leave you drained. That is not a sharing or loving conversation – it is a caretaker interaction.

You might respond that you must continue to interact with certain people because you work for or with them or they are relatives. Continuing to interact with those people despite your feelings of discomfort is as much a victim stance as any other you can envision.

Allow yourself to be in all of your inner honesty. Protect your being from those who wish to continue in the victim/caretaker roles they are so comfortable with. All you have to do is to question the validity of their statement, end the conversation or exit situations that force you to be someone you are not.

Many of you are feeling pressured by this information. You thought this shift would be mean moving into a joyous new life with few, if any, changes. That is not a shift, it is merely a look at the new earth/New Age and jumping back to your old life of fear.

For those of you who have already established a community of joy and love – whether or not that community verbalizes new earth concepts – this transition into open communication will not be that noticeable. But those of you who have continued to hope that your life will not change as you move into the New Age, may be surprised at how difficult your communications will be after this week.

Allow yourself to be and you will move into the joy you have long hoped for. Allow yourself to remain in the Old Age, in whatever format that takes,  and you will remain in the Old Age despite your hopes to the contrary. So be it. Amen.

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  • 1. elizabethsadhu  |  August 9, 2011 at 6:36 pm

    Thanks for this Brenda—this makes me remember being at my 20 year high school reunion and how wonderful when I got to talk to someone in a real kind of way…deeper. AND how exhausting it was when I could not talk at the deeper level. Now that I am past my 35 year reunion…..I just ain’t going there no more! To use incredibly improper English…..:-)

    “…you no longer feel the need to communicate with those who do not share their heart/being with you.” Relief!

    Chit chat exhausting…..heart to heart contact exhilarating!!

    Wahoooo……

    love and light to you dearest Brenda.

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  • 2. lifetapestrycreations  |  August 9, 2011 at 9:26 pm

    Yeah Elizabeth..and all of us! Connection is in – talking for talking sake is out.
    Lots of love,
    Brenda

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  • 3. Meredith  |  August 18, 2011 at 2:49 am

    Brenda…a very spot-on, insightful post. Thank you!

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  • 4. lifetapestrycreations  |  August 18, 2011 at 9:47 am

    Hey Meridith!
    Thank you – this appears to be a mutual admiration society. I always check out your “Expect Wonderful” posts also. It appears as if your new home is perfect!! So many wonderful changes for all of us.
    Blessings,
    Brenda

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