Is Your Emotional World in Upheaval?

April 17, 2012 at 5:48 pm 3 comments

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for

Summary of Brenda’s April 15, 2012 free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at Many are now leaving earth. Are you mourning deeply – or not at all? “Shoulds” are judgements. Judgement is not part of joy.

Title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for “Are You Crossing Your Joy Bridge?”

Dear Ones,

You are letting go of so many pieces of your Old Age life. Some of you are excited to do so. Others feel as if parts of you are torn from you.

As you move further into this New Age, such shifts will become easier.

Moving into joy requires reviewing all parts of your being – including those no longer right for the new you. But by doing so, you might find yourself releasing pieces you believed were your strength, purpose or joy.

With bittersweet joy, you may be letting go of pieces and people you once thought would be in your current earth life forever.

Or you may find that those pieces or people you thought would leave becoming a loving part of your new life.

It is all very confusing. That which you thought would stay is leaving; and that which you thought would leave is staying. Your emotional world may be in an upheaval you did not anticipate when you accepted your New Age/new earth role.

Maybe you are wishing to return to what was. That is not possible. Like early United States pioneers, you have come too far to turn back and yet not far enough to fully reap the rewards of your new life.

You have many more skills than was true even a few months ago. But those skills do not yet allow you to create the relationships you are starting to crave. Such skills have to be developed.

You are beginning to experience joy through your manifestation skills – discovering that if  you think of an object or activity it soon appears. But you have yet to master the totality of manifestation. Those objects or activities you are now manifesting may be surprising to you, but often forgettable because your manifestations are not “big” enough.

If you could created a two hundred room mansion by merely raising your arm, you would believe in your manifestation powers. Instead, you are creating the environment which will eventually produce a lovely home or finding the dress you have searched for. Not big, “CAN YOU BELIEVE IT!” manifestations. But little synchronicities that are starting to create the life of ease you dream of. A bit like Jack in the Beanstalk’s mother throwing out Jack’s  magic beans because she could not envision the glorious rewards the beanstalk would produce.

Your magic beans are sprouting. And your mature beanstalk will be obvious in the not-to-distant future.

In the meantime, many of your loved ones are leaving earth.

Perhaps you feel that your magic beans hold no joy without that certain someone. Please remember that all entities are on unique paths leading to the same place – but not in the same way or time.

Of course, you pine for loved ones who leave earth – you are human. In truth, the New Age has expanded your humanness by encouraging you to feel more. That is the dichotomy of the pain you feel for loved ones who leave earth before you are comfortable with them doing so.

You are pining to interact physically with loved ones who left the earth plane. Such is not possible. No matter how many dimensional veils lift, your loved one will never again be in the same physical form in this lifetime. You can shift YOUR dimension to interact with them in a format comfortable for both of you – but your loved one cannot return to physical form without a rebirth.

Even though you have an earth body, soon – if it is not already happening – you will “travel” to other dimensions and interact with your loved one in an appropriate meeting place. You have the magic beans. You just have not yet allowed those beans to grow into the beanstalk that will transport you through the dimensional veils.

Your loved ones leave earth when it is correct for them. They do not do so to make you lonely or unable to cope. They continue to be with you in so many ways. You just cannot yet discern their new methods of interacting with you – but you soon will.

Is our discussion comforting for those of you who have recently lost a loved one?  Most likely not. You cry and mourn and thrust your fists to the sky for taking your loved one from you. Not yet understanding that they wanted/needed to leave to fulfill their New Age role.

What if you depended on them for emotional, physical or spiritual assistance and their gift to you is allowing you to know that you no longer need care taking?

Even though pain and fear remain part of your emotional repertoire, both are now painted with less vibrant colors. Joy is the brightest color possible.

Will you grieve for years? Perhaps – but not likely. For as you become accustomed to your loved one’s transition, you will understand the beauty of that person knowing you were capable of  living on earth without them. A bit like wishing your first grade teacher would follow you from grade to grade, only to discover that the information offered by your new teachers is more than your first grade teacher is capable of teaching you.

Does that mean that those of you who have lost a loved one will wake up tomorrow in joy because they have transitioned? No. But you will realize eventually that you are fully capable of living in joy without their physical presence. For trying to hold on to them emotionally is to reduce your learning during this wondrous transition.

Your loved one was not “bad” for you – merely a stepping stone to your glorious New Age being. Yes, you can communicate with them in your sleep and wake states – and you will do so more and more as you expand your New Age skills. But that communication in this lifetime will never again be physical. Nor will you find the need to rely on their wisdom more than your own.

It is perhaps difficult for you to read these words for the entity we are speaking of may have been the love of your life.

Your loved one has released you so you can move forward. In turn, they have released their earth body so they can move forward.

That is not to say you cannot mourn. Mourning is an emotion that is perhaps more colorful now than was true when it was a societal dictate. Cry for months if that feels right. Or go on with your life if that is correct for you. There are no rules for mourning or recovery. There is just you.

Your loved one left because it was time for him or her to do so. Nothing more or less. So be it. Amen.  If you would like to receive Brenda’s free blogs when posted, please click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her subscribe and blog page and then click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by e-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation.


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3 Comments Add your own

  • 1. Brenda Hoffman « dreamweaver333  |  April 18, 2012 at 7:05 pm

    […] Is Your Emotional World in Upheaval? […]


  • 2. Jacqui Derbecker (@jacquiderbecker)  |  May 1, 2012 at 10:05 am

    “With bittersweet joy, you may be letting go of pieces and people you once thought would be in your current earth life forever.” That was so powerful. And so true! Your insights are truly amazing! I agree that this world and everyone in it will be experiencing an energetic shift in the year 2012. I am so curious about your thoughts on the Mayan Calendar!


  • 3. lifetapestrycreations  |  May 1, 2012 at 10:26 am

    Hi Jacqui,
    I think the Mayan Calendar is a wonderful way to mark this transition, but I haven’t felt the need to study it in great detail.

    My intuitive sense is that it marks the ending of one period of time – the Old Age. That ending was once thought to be a dramatic ending of earth, but such is no longer the case.

    Hope that answers your question.
    Blessings and Joy,



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