Don’t Put Yourself in a New Age Box

October 30, 2012 at 9:21 am 29 comments

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for www.LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s October 21, 2012 free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman Your core fear – the fear that allowed you to be human – is being explored by you now. Your assignment is to discover that core fear and remove the contract that binds you to it.

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for www.LifeTapestryCreations.com: ”Remove Your Core Fear; Claim Your Super Powers”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” BlogTalkRadio.com show presents different channeled material than “Brenda’s Blog” even though both might be about a similar topic.

 

Dear Ones,

Your emotions will swirl in the next few days. Some days you will feel as if you are filled with a sparkling substance and you are capable of anything. Other days you will feel as if you never left the third dimension.

All is well.

Perhaps some of you remember your feelings during the birth process. You did not care if you gave birth as long as the pain stopped – yet within seconds you were joyously excited about your baby’s birth. So it will be for you in the next few days.

The emotions you feel will not last for more than a few minutes or days. But they will be erratic and for some, frightening. Not because those emotions are abnormal, but because you thought you had moved beyond them.

You are, in a sense, running your fingers up and down a piano keyboard determining if you prefer high notes, low notes or a combination thereof. Even though every lifetime you lived on earth, you were capable of playing all the notes, at different points in earth history, either high notes/emotions or low notes/emotions were expected by your society. So you granted yourself very little power when selecting the notes most comfortable and right for you. And if you did not hit the correct note of the times, you were likely ostracized, physically injured or thought odd.

Perhaps you want to know if high or low notes are now the notes your should aspire to. Yet another societal thought process. “How should I feel and act in this New Age?”

The New Age is freedom. Freedom from society and even your own rules and beliefs. Many of you will feel anger this week – perhaps for a few moments, hours or even days. And as you do, you will chide yourself for not being a better Lightworker; for not being or doing enough to put those “bad” emotions aside.

All emotions are part of your personal rainbow. In all likelihood, you will eventually feel most comfortable with joy, peace and love. But you cannot know until you test your personal emotions.

We have stated you moved through your fear and pain lessons. And so you have. But those lessons were in relationship to how you “should” act in your society. The emotions you are speeding through in the next few days are your personal emotions. Emotions that have not been dictated by society or “dummied” down by you for whatever reason. They will be raw and free emotions that belong to only you.

Think of the birthing process. Perhaps the new mother in question is a demur, quiet, gentle soul – that is until labor begins. Then her personal pain and fear create a persona her significant other has never seen, nor quite knows how to interact with. So it will be for you.

Not that you will be screaming in pain or raging at others. But that the emotions you feel in the next few days will not be stifled by what you should feel or created by environments that are not of your making.

Many of you believe you should interact with other Lightworkers or Wayshowers. Yet not all Lightworkers or Wayshowers feel comfortable to you. To force yourself to be around them or explore their materials because you feel you should is no different from how you acted in the Old Age.

Your emotions are experiencing a full range of possibilities. Possibilities not tied to your society, or even your expectations – often another cage or limitation. Your emotions are instead like that of a toddler’s, “What happens if I push that or pull this?” You are being born anew.

Allow that freedom, that joy in being. Do not replace the emotional boxes of the Old Age with New Age emotional boxes.

We have stressed that joy will be your ultimate demeanor. That joy is based on your freedom to laugh, cry, be angry and feel sad. You will be joyful because your emotions no longer need to be sifted by society dictates or personal preferences.

New Age freedom is being who you are in all your glory. It is perfectly acceptable to be angry some days or hours. Just as it is perfectly acceptable to laugh out loud and run, skip and jump. Does a toddler not cry when they are angry or upset? Have we not told you on many occasions that you are moving into your second and glorious childhood?

Allow yourself to express what you feel. Allow yourself the freedom to be you.

Some days you may be sad because someone does not wish to play with you. Other days you will be joyously happy because you see the beauty of nature.

But now, some of you are putting yourself in New Age boxes of who and what you should be.

To do so is to ignore and deny the very New Age you are moving into. Anger, fear and pain will not be eliminated from your emotional repertoire – merely less dominant. But such cannot be if you are afraid to feel them because you believe a true Lightworker cannot feel such emotions. All emotions remain in your rainbow, repertoire.

In the next few days you will run your emotional fingers up and down the scales to determine which notes feel most comfortable.

What if anger is your favorite key? Allow that to be. You are feeling comfortable with that emotion for a reason. Perhaps it is part of removing your core fear. Perhaps it is because you have never allowed yourself to truly tap that feeling. Or perhaps you need to do so as a last gasp of something you no longer wish to explore in depth.

Does a two-year-old ask themselves or others if they should feel an emotion? Or are they just themselves in all their “terrible two” glory? So it is for you.

Allow yourself to be, explore and feel what you need to feel. Trust that your inner-being will lead you to the joy of you in all your glory. You truly are a unique person – which cannot possible if you believe you should experience only joy.

You have left the Old Age. Do not place yourself in another box labeled New Age. Explore and glory in yourself – with your full range of emotions. So be it. Amen.

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  • 1. beloved  |  October 30, 2012 at 1:26 pm

    Amen Sister! I couldn’t agree more. I use to teach classes at a New Thought church but stopped because they were mostly so indoctrinated that “it is all good” that it was very difficult for me to support them in releasing their fears. They tended to deny they had any! I actually had a student tell me in church on Sunday that she was “fabulous” and on Monday she reveled she was actually suicidal. I found that, despite the fact that they were all supposedly New Age, I could not resonate with the vibe there as it often felt false to me. I couldn’t feel people’s authenticity. I just let that be and stopped teaching there.

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    • 2. lifetapestrycreations  |  October 30, 2012 at 10:29 pm

      Isn’t it an odd feeling the first time you ask yourself if you’re in the “right” place even though everyone is telling you that you should be there or should want to be there? Found this wonderful quote on a t-shirt recently: “In a world where you can be anything – be yourself” Doesn’t that say it all!
      Blessings and Joy,
      Brenda

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  • 4. nadinemarie33  |  October 30, 2012 at 11:44 pm

    Hey Brenda, thank you for this! It spoke to my core and I feel so validated. There has been a lot of anger that has been coming up for me and yes, I have been acknowledging it, owning it and simply allowing the emotion to find its rightful place. When we deny ourselves of the experience, we go through “spiritual bypassing”.

    “Anger, fear and pain will not be eliminated from your emotional repertoire – merely less dominant.” — That’s very comforting and reassuring.

    Thank you for your work!

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  • 5. lifetapestrycreations  |  October 31, 2012 at 10:03 am

    Hey Nadinemarie!
    My childhood didn’t allow a lot of anger. It wasn’t until I was an adult that I started expressing anger. A healing process for me….and probably a number of others. And I’m guessing the opposite is true for yet others with many in between. We’re finally allowing ourselves to be. How wonderful is that!
    Blessings and True Feelings!
    Brenda

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  • 6. Maurice Turmel  |  October 31, 2012 at 1:32 pm

    Excellent message! I’ve been feeling all those things this week. I know something powerful is going on. For example I have truly felt my ego’s dominance finally fall away. I knew I was 90% there when I connected with my inner child last week. This happy little boy image kept coming to mind and I could see him as an 8 month old scurrying around, exploring, having a great time – something the prison created by my protector ego would not allow. I knew he (little me) was finally out of the box. Since he was now free, why would I need a protector ego? Asked and answered this week, right in the middle of superstorm Sandy, clearing away the final remnants of that cocoon I was wrapped in. I’ve arrived, disoriented somewhat, unsure how to function without my ego dictates, but certainly willing to learn The New Way. Well stated here in this article.

    Dr Moe

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    • 7. lifetapestrycreations  |  October 31, 2012 at 4:40 pm

      Dear Dr. Moe,
      Yeah!!!!!! What a beacon you are for us.
      Blessings and Fun,
      Brenda

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  • 8. beloved  |  October 31, 2012 at 2:46 pm

    tried few times to post comment and seems not to post- hope they don’t all show up! if so, I plead the 2012 excuse, my comments are between dimensions!

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  • 9. beloved  |  October 31, 2012 at 3:14 pm

    trying again to ad comment. also thinking about all the women I know with thyroid problems. My sense is for so long women have stuffed their authenticity in the name of social niceties, affecting the 5ht chakra. Guess it is time to start telling our truth.
    Brenda, love the T-shirt quote. In answer to a comment of mine on another of your post, you said it sounded like care-aking to you. It made no sense to me in relation to my comment but still got me thinking. I am seeing many places where my female friends and I care-take. I especially see it with my 12 year old. I am recognizing how I have allowed society to put me in one of my biggest boxes, as a parent. My daughter and her Indigo energy say a big NO! to that, forcing me to begin to recognize where I am rescuing her and how, as Kate was saying, it leads to resentment on both sides. Still no true clarity yet fascinating exploration.
    Dr Moe, wonderful to see your little boy running free!

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  • 10. lifetapestrycreations  |  October 31, 2012 at 4:44 pm

    Dear Beloved,
    Isn’t this exploration of who we are and where we want to be so exhilarating? It’s almost like starting a new graduate level course every few days. Way to go with exploring care taking!
    Blessings and Freedom,
    Brenda

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  • 12. Sylvia Franco  |  November 1, 2012 at 11:11 am

    🙂 Hi Brenda. I too am experiencing such an inner transformation of just being “me” and more than ever I strongly feel that there is not an ounce of me that cares what others think or feel about me. I dance in the elevators when I feel like dancing and then I’m cranky the next day if that is how I feel. 🙂 I don’t answer calls if I don’t feel like speaking to the person. Freedom is feeling so good to me!

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  • 13. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 1, 2012 at 11:25 am

    Dear Sylvia,
    I’ve always been a bit of a maverick but doing so more and more. Isn’t it delicious?
    Blessings and Joy,
    Brenda

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    • 14. Sylvia Franco  |  November 1, 2012 at 11:43 am

      Indeed YES! I feel like a rebel too! Hahahaha

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  • 15. beloved  |  November 1, 2012 at 12:32 pm

    I started a joy practice where I write down a minimum of five things that have brought me joy that day and then share it with my blog family. I have done it for less than a month and it sure is fine tuning my joy filter so I’d like to invite anybody who is interested to join me in writing down what brings them joy. By writing it down, I am developing a greater level of awareness and by then sharing it, my sense it is a wonderful antidote for the fear so many are experiencing now and increases the recognition that often we have a choice about where to focus our attention. (I say often because it is my experience we don’t have choice until we develop enough awareness to recognize the choice.) I’d find much joy if anybody wants to join me and I am sure it will be a blessing for Gaia. Have a joyful day or not, as the mood suits you!

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    • 16. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 1, 2012 at 2:36 pm

      Dear Sweet Beloved,
      What an absolutely wonderful idea. My joys for today – my Mom was released from the hospital; we’ve been out of town and then had guests so I finally have time/energy to catch up on emails.; I’m reading a great book – a bio of Daniel Boone; our new home is just about finished; I have no scheduled appointments or anything today – I can chill!

      Thank you!
      Blessings and Joy,
      Brenda

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  • 17. Elizabeth Sadhu  |  November 1, 2012 at 1:15 pm

    Love this post, dearest sister!! You rock it again. It really spoke to me. Up and down and all around……we go………………wooohooooo!!!! love you tons and tons! AND thank you for being YOU!

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    • 18. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 1, 2012 at 2:32 pm

      Hey Elizabeth!!!
      And me and me and me!!! Don’t you just love this transition! Up and down and all around we go again (should be a song!!)
      Love Brenda
      PS My mother just released from the hospital today. YEAH!!!

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      • 19. Sylvia Franco  |  November 1, 2012 at 3:06 pm

        YAY for your mom Brenda!!!!

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  • 20. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 1, 2012 at 3:11 pm

    Dear Sylvia,
    I know! Of course, Mom had a choice and I’m so glad she elected the one she did. My father died/transitioned in January. Love watching Mom create a new life without Dad – they were married 66 years.

    Thank you for caring!
    Blessings and Joy,
    Brenda

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    • 21. Elizabeth Sadhu  |  November 1, 2012 at 4:42 pm

      Dearest Brenda—-so so so so so so happy about your mum!!!! Yayayayayayay! I love it. Wooohoooo for her! love you sister sweetie!!

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    • 22. Sylvia Franco  |  November 1, 2012 at 9:54 pm

      66 years! Wow! My parents celebrated 50 years this past March. I love to hear stories of couples staying together, walking this life together, for so many years. They are so adorable when they are older…I saw the cutest couple the other day at the hospital where I work. They both had wonderful white hair and were both dressed up and they were walking around holding hands!!!! I love that! So sweet! I’m sad to hear about your father. I know that it is a transition we will all make but it is still sad to experience a presence gone and for you mom I’m sure that was so. Such a blessing though to have experienced such a long journey with someone.

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      • 23. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 4, 2012 at 4:05 pm

        Dear Sylvia,
        You are so correct. Even though we know human death is a transition, not an ending, we still can’t always pass through the veils to interact with those who have transitioned. I wonder if when we can in the future, we will need to??
        Blessings and Joy,
        Brenda

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  • 24. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 1, 2012 at 5:01 pm

    Dear Elizabeth,
    Another father-in-law miracle!!!!!!!!
    Love Brenda

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  • 25. beloved  |  November 4, 2012 at 1:32 am

    Brenda, Thank you for sharing your joys and so happy to hear your home is out of the hospital!

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  • 26. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 4, 2012 at 9:23 am

    Dear Beloved,
    I love your exercise!

    My Mom is having fun winning bingo games again; my friend’s son, who had two strokes, a seizure and surgery to remove a brain tumor last month, is starting back to work part-time Tuesday and my friend who was about to lose her job thought ‘outside the box’ and not only kept it, but will probably get a raise. Now we just have to sell our condo!

    This joy stuff is great.
    Blessings and Joy,
    Brenda

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  • 27. beloved  |  November 5, 2012 at 3:57 pm

    right on, hope to pass this exercise around the world! reminds me of a poem about joy- will look for it and post.

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  • 28. beloved  |  November 5, 2012 at 4:03 pm

    Here is the line from the poem by Erica Jong called Testament. You can google it or click my name Beloved and link to my blog of December 21, 2010. Here is part of it.

    …I resolve myself for joy.

         If that resolve means I must live alone,
              I accept aloneness.

         If the joy house I inhabit must be
              a house of my own making,
              I accept that making…

         No joy-denyer can deny me now.
              For what I have is undeniable.
              I inhabit my own house,
              the house of joy…

         The soul is contagious.
              One man catches another’s
              like the plague;
              & and we are all patient spiders
              to each other.

         If we can spin the joy thread
              & also catch it-

         If we can be sufficient to ourselves,
              we need fear no entangling webs…

         How to spin joy out of an empty heart?
         The joy-egg germinates even in despair.

         Orgasms of gloom convulse the world;
              & and the joy-seekers huddle together.

         We meet on the pages of books & by beachwood fires,
         We meet scrawled blackly in many-folded letters.
         We know each other by free & generous hands,
         We swing like spiders on each other’s souls.

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  • 29. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 5, 2012 at 4:30 pm

    Dear Beloved,
    Here’s to the joy of being ourselves!
    Blessings and Joy,
    Brenda

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