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You’re Not a Child Asking for an Allowance

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Summary of Brenda’s February 17, 2013 free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at Your inner physical changes are encouraging you to test various personalities in your outer world. If you don’t like the personality you find yourself displaying, go within and request assistance to display that personality in an inner-directed way.

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for “Ceremonies Don’t Create Lightworkers – You Do”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled materials.”

Dear Ones,

You have channeled, meditated and done whatever you felt necessary to achieve what you want – whether a new home or an improved relationship. We could respond with the answer you have heard for so long – “Have patience.” But we will not for you are more mature than when we started discussing New Age shifts.

You are no longer children of the Universes, you are adults.

You are now able to accept and expect specific deadlines.

As a child, your parents told you when to expect Christmas. Perhaps they even helped you cross off  days on a calendar. But without their help, you did not know when to celebrate Christmas. Adults kept track of time. So it is for you now.

You want to know when the life you dream of will arrive. You are tired, angry – and you want answers. Think of yourselves as having passed your due date  in the 9th month of pregnancy. Few pregnant women find that situation humorous – or acceptable. So it is for you now.

If you remember, you first shift spiritually,then emotionally and finally, physically in all aspects of this transition. We have been discussing your physical shifts for a few weeks now. So you are most likely past your due date.

What can you do to force the issue, to create your dreams? There is little to do other than wait as is true for the birth of a baby.

The difference is what has happened to you before this wait period. Previously, you depended on angels, guides, animal totems or any outer-directed format to create. You were comfortable completing whatever exercise or program “they” told you was appropriate. You emphasized color therapy one day, a reading the next, meditation the next and after many such activities, your dream was either realized or you had outgrown it.

The scenario is now different. Even though you can follow whatever anyone tells you to do, that will not produce the reward you are expecting. In truth, such efforts are counterproductive. A bit like copying someone’s homework only to fail the test because you did not understand the coursework.

How did your dreams materialize if you created on the basis of what others told you? Quite frankly, the results were haphazard. If you tried hard enough and long enough, your dreams would materialize – maybe not quite as you wished but close enough for you to declare that you could manifest whatever you wanted.

You created by accident and not intention. If you try enough exercises, one will eventually work. But to do so takes so much time and effort – and escalates your discomfort with your current life.

Now it is as if you have a billion dollars in the bank and you can spend that money any way you like. You are no longer a child asking for an allowance, you are the adult in control of the checkbook.

What good is a checkbook without the rewards attached to spending those resources?

This is the point of our discussion. You have unlimited funds in your checking account. And only your signature will open those funds. Your signature consists of whatever piece or activity feels right for you. It is no longer appropriate for someone to tell you how to access those funds. No one is more wise than you. It is time to test your creation skills. Right here. Right now. You are an adult who knows when Christmas is, but who also can change that date on a whim.

There are no exercises more powerful than the ones you create or are attracted to. There is no one outside of you who knows what you need better than you.

Perhaps you are in a crisis mode and nothing is changing. What should you do? Who should you see? Listen to your inner-being. The answers are within you – as are all the manifestation skills you can imagine.

Perhaps you have asked for assistance repeatedly to no avail. Have you asked yourself why? By continuing the belief that you only receive gifts when you have done something special or find the right guru, you are maintaining your Old Age belief of hard work and little play.

Your inner-being is part of you, just as is true for your toenails. Your higher self, inner-being or soul are not greater than you. You are as important to the totality of your being as any other cell, as any other part.

Do you need two legs? You can always purchase prosthetic legs, but they would not function as well as the legs you lost.

Even though you do not think much about your legs, you would miss them if they were not there. Or you would not feel right if you had a knee injury or an ingrown toenail. Your physical being supports you in so many ways without requests or complaints. When it does complain or request help, you try to provide what it needs.

Your higher self, soul, and inner-being are no different. If you expect them to reward you for just being you, think how often you do the same for your limbs that work so diligently with little or no complaint.

Let us clarify. You are an extremely important element of your soul, higher self and inner-being. But your belief patterns have encouraged you to treat those parts of your being as gods or somehow better and more advanced than you. You are them. And they are you.

Allow that thought to become firmly entrenched in your belief patterns. Then know without a doubt that you have the right to request whatever support you need to feel comfortable. Is that not what an ingrown toenail does? “I need new shoes.” “I need a podiatrist.” You listen and follow through – do you not? So it is for you.

You are uncomfortable. Expect your higher self, inner-being and soul to direct you to the place that alleviates your discomfort for you are as an important element as any other of your totality. You no longer need to feel like a child waiting for his parent to allow him to celebrate Christmas.

You are a full adult in the vibrations of your soul, higher self and inner-being. Believe that. Know that. And act accordingly. Does that mean you will scream for attention. Perhaps. But more likely, you will merely shift your perception from that of a child hoping her parent will provide what she needs to an adult who knows they can create what they want. So be it. Amen.    If you would like to receive Brenda’s free blogs when posted, please click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her subscribe and blog page and then click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation.

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