You’re Not a Child Asking for an Allowance

February 19, 2013 at 11:19 am 40 comments

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Summary of Brenda’s February 17, 2013 free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman Your inner physical changes are encouraging you to test various personalities in your outer world. If you don’t like the personality you find yourself displaying, go within and request assistance to display that personality in an inner-directed way.

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for www.LifeTapestryCreations.com: “Ceremonies Don’t Create Lightworkers – You Do”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” BlogTalkRadio.com show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled materials.”

Dear Ones,

You have channeled, meditated and done whatever you felt necessary to achieve what you want – whether a new home or an improved relationship. We could respond with the answer you have heard for so long – “Have patience.” But we will not for you are more mature than when we started discussing New Age shifts.

You are no longer children of the Universes, you are adults.

You are now able to accept and expect specific deadlines.

As a child, your parents told you when to expect Christmas. Perhaps they even helped you cross off  days on a calendar. But without their help, you did not know when to celebrate Christmas. Adults kept track of time. So it is for you now.

You want to know when the life you dream of will arrive. You are tired, angry – and you want answers. Think of yourselves as having passed your due date  in the 9th month of pregnancy. Few pregnant women find that situation humorous – or acceptable. So it is for you now.

If you remember, you first shift spiritually,then emotionally and finally, physically in all aspects of this transition. We have been discussing your physical shifts for a few weeks now. So you are most likely past your due date.

What can you do to force the issue, to create your dreams? There is little to do other than wait as is true for the birth of a baby.

The difference is what has happened to you before this wait period. Previously, you depended on angels, guides, animal totems or any outer-directed format to create. You were comfortable completing whatever exercise or program “they” told you was appropriate. You emphasized color therapy one day, a reading the next, meditation the next and after many such activities, your dream was either realized or you had outgrown it.

The scenario is now different. Even though you can follow whatever anyone tells you to do, that will not produce the reward you are expecting. In truth, such efforts are counterproductive. A bit like copying someone’s homework only to fail the test because you did not understand the coursework.

How did your dreams materialize if you created on the basis of what others told you? Quite frankly, the results were haphazard. If you tried hard enough and long enough, your dreams would materialize – maybe not quite as you wished but close enough for you to declare that you could manifest whatever you wanted.

You created by accident and not intention. If you try enough exercises, one will eventually work. But to do so takes so much time and effort – and escalates your discomfort with your current life.

Now it is as if you have a billion dollars in the bank and you can spend that money any way you like. You are no longer a child asking for an allowance, you are the adult in control of the checkbook.

What good is a checkbook without the rewards attached to spending those resources?

This is the point of our discussion. You have unlimited funds in your checking account. And only your signature will open those funds. Your signature consists of whatever piece or activity feels right for you. It is no longer appropriate for someone to tell you how to access those funds. No one is more wise than you. It is time to test your creation skills. Right here. Right now. You are an adult who knows when Christmas is, but who also can change that date on a whim.

There are no exercises more powerful than the ones you create or are attracted to. There is no one outside of you who knows what you need better than you.

Perhaps you are in a crisis mode and nothing is changing. What should you do? Who should you see? Listen to your inner-being. The answers are within you – as are all the manifestation skills you can imagine.

Perhaps you have asked for assistance repeatedly to no avail. Have you asked yourself why? By continuing the belief that you only receive gifts when you have done something special or find the right guru, you are maintaining your Old Age belief of hard work and little play.

Your inner-being is part of you, just as is true for your toenails. Your higher self, inner-being or soul are not greater than you. You are as important to the totality of your being as any other cell, as any other part.

Do you need two legs? You can always purchase prosthetic legs, but they would not function as well as the legs you lost.

Even though you do not think much about your legs, you would miss them if they were not there. Or you would not feel right if you had a knee injury or an ingrown toenail. Your physical being supports you in so many ways without requests or complaints. When it does complain or request help, you try to provide what it needs.

Your higher self, soul, and inner-being are no different. If you expect them to reward you for just being you, think how often you do the same for your limbs that work so diligently with little or no complaint.

Let us clarify. You are an extremely important element of your soul, higher self and inner-being. But your belief patterns have encouraged you to treat those parts of your being as gods or somehow better and more advanced than you. You are them. And they are you.

Allow that thought to become firmly entrenched in your belief patterns. Then know without a doubt that you have the right to request whatever support you need to feel comfortable. Is that not what an ingrown toenail does? “I need new shoes.” “I need a podiatrist.” You listen and follow through – do you not? So it is for you.

You are uncomfortable. Expect your higher self, inner-being and soul to direct you to the place that alleviates your discomfort for you are as an important element as any other of your totality. You no longer need to feel like a child waiting for his parent to allow him to celebrate Christmas.

You are a full adult in the vibrations of your soul, higher self and inner-being. Believe that. Know that. And act accordingly. Does that mean you will scream for attention. Perhaps. But more likely, you will merely shift your perception from that of a child hoping her parent will provide what she needs to an adult who knows they can create what they want. So be it. Amen.

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Ceremonies Don’t Create Lightworkers – You Do Feeling Ill? There’s a Reason

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  • 1. elizabethsadhu  |  February 19, 2013 at 8:29 pm

    Thank you dear Brenda. Love this!! Love your blog.

    I posted today, also.

    Love you dear sis!

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    • 2. lifetapestrycreations  |  February 20, 2013 at 9:52 am

      Dear Elizabeth,
      Thank you!!!

      What are you up to? Why don’t I get copies of your channels?? I keep signing up to no avail.
      Love Brenda

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  • 3. Maurice Turmel  |  February 19, 2013 at 10:37 pm

    Great post Brenda. Your team seems to know what we need to hear at each stage of our ascension journey. Right now “it’s time to grow up and be an adult” That means I can’t be a victim any more. My old self is pissed to hear that. But the rising me knows it’s time to grow up. It’s like bad tasting cold medicine. You take it because you need it, but it sucks going down. Today’s post is bad tasting medicine, but I need it and it’s going down.

    Thanks again for the timely lift,
    Love & Blessings from Dr Moe

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    • 4. lifetapestrycreations  |  February 20, 2013 at 9:54 am

      Dear Dr. Moe,
      Your response made me laugh out loud. How appropriate that you used the analogy of taking medicine DR. MOE!!!

      Honest being an adult is not as bad as it sounds – the freedom to eat chocolate cake for breakfast is wonderful!!!!!
      Blessings and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 6. Debbianne DeRose  |  February 20, 2013 at 7:39 am

    Well done… and woohoo! for all of us in this exciting age of Empowerment.

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    • 7. lifetapestrycreations  |  February 20, 2013 at 9:56 am

      Dear Debbianne,
      I feel the same. WOOHOO for Empowerment!
      Blessings and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 8. ALW  |  February 20, 2013 at 2:12 pm

    Gosh, you are brilliant! Love all of your messages. Thank you!!
    Amanda!

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  • 9. lifetapestrycreations  |  February 20, 2013 at 2:22 pm

    Dear Amanda,
    Thank you! I think of my channels as kind of an instruction manual for me and others as we try to understand what’s happening to us and why.
    Blessings and Sparkles,
    Brenda
    PS I’ve been amazed at the sequential nature of my channels in the past few months – I never know what I’m going to channel before I put my fingers on the keys or start my internet show.

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  • 10. Barb  |  February 20, 2013 at 5:03 pm

    Hi Brenda —

    Wow, so many thoughts on this piece. The comparison to an overdue birth is just perfect.

    I acknowledge that we’re adults now and in charge of ourselves, but at the same time, I frequently feel like a toddler who takes a few successful steps and then falls flat on her face. Then I get up and take a few more steps, and then splat!

    This subject is definitely my weak point. Physical manifestation has been fairly unconscious in the past, and my inability to manage it consciously, still, is a source of great frustration. I have received answers about it, but it’s like toddler-hood combined with the overdue pregnancy! Learning to walk, mixed with a “come on already!” factor, and in the end, having to rather surrender to it all (the last is definitely not one of my better traits). Whew!

    Thanks again for sharing and confirming for us.

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  • 11. lifetapestrycreations  |  February 20, 2013 at 6:45 pm

    Dear Barb,
    I think most of us feel as you do – toddler one hour, adult the next. But guessing we felt the same when we first left home “I can do whatever I want” to “What would Mom and Dad do?”

    Patience is one of my “less strong” areas. In the past, I knew something would happen, but not when. I think I pretty much drove everyone crazy trying to pinpoint a date or trying to push the activity into fruition. I’m getting better at that, just as you seem to be.

    Don’t you just wish sometimes we had a minute-to-minute activity calendar for this transition instead of “soon, very soon” as we’re all getting?
    Blessing and Sparkles,
    Brenda

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    • 12. Barb  |  February 21, 2013 at 2:47 pm

      Yes, especially since “soon” to “them” could mean decades! It sometimes feels like a carrot dangling in front of us that we’ll never actually reach, but I’m not sure we’d be happy with a minute-to-minute plan either. Stretching and making our own choices is a very attractive prospect, but since we’re apparently the ones writing the manual for this, there’s lots of trial and error.

      It feels, well… a bit like the earlier message about blood color changing and most doctors or nurses not being able to see the difference. We’re told we have an unlimited account and can do what we want, but it feels like it’s in theory. I get it, I understand it — I even feel it on occasion — but the ink doesn’t flow through my pen when I try to write that check. And it’s frustrating when ones who can see or manage that process clearly (“they”) say – “just do this; you have the ability now” when some (many?) of us can barely see what “this” is.

      Sorry — these last few days have been rather difficult, feeling squeezed very tightly (energetically) and having barely any space to breathe. Oh, please let it be the overdue birth! (Apologies, too, for all the mixed metaphors!)

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      • 13. lifetapestrycreations  |  February 21, 2013 at 5:05 pm

        Dear Barb,
        I know. Some seem to create/do/be faster or differently than others. I have a friend who can see people and things that I can’t. I would like to be able to do so and maybe I will some day. Others are skilled in areas that my friend is not.

        The best I can figure out for now is that we are skilled in different areas and that when it’s time for us to be in the spotlight, we’ll be prepared, comfortable and excited.

        Please don’t feel as if you are the only one who can’t do what you want – many of us are moving towards the light on faith even though some days we want to forget about the light, the new earth or doing anything other than staying in bed.

        Change is difficult – especially this change. We’re living in a 3D world with 3D expectations and responsibilities as well as transitioning into the 4D and higher. Confusing, frightening and exciting but when those “down” days come – impossible to remember why we’ve put ourselves through this.

        Please know that you’re not alone – we’re all in this confusing and exhilarating ride together.
        Blessings and Hugs,
        Brenda

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  • 14. Angela  |  February 21, 2013 at 1:03 am

    Hi Brenda, I’m still telling my inner child that the adult me is in control now, but that inner child still comes out and saids, “I’ve asked for something now where is it, I want it now!” Stomping her feet lol. I’m not very patient either and I guess that’s one of many of my lessons I need to work on and just “be”. I’m ready to sign that check 😉 Thanks Brenda ❤

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  • 15. lifetapestrycreations  |  February 21, 2013 at 10:14 am

    Dear Angela,
    I know. We’re all ready to sign that check.

    I’m not sure where this came from but – try picking up your wonderful little inner child and telling her that she’s safe and you’ll take care of her, that you’ll help her create what she wants when you’re ready but in the meantime you will hug her and tell her how much you love her.

    Do with that piece what you want.
    Blessings, Hugs and Sparkles,
    Brenda

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    • 16. Angela  |  February 21, 2013 at 7:44 pm

      Thank u Brenda, I will try it that way…love always comforts and heals.

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      • 17. lifetapestrycreations  |  February 21, 2013 at 11:03 pm

        Dear Angela,
        You’re right. Love always comforts and heals but sometimes we forget. We’ve grown up in a world of fear and pain – not an easy place to remember love.
        Blessings and Hugs,
        Brenda

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  • 18. Yoon Lien Chin  |  February 21, 2013 at 10:32 am

    Thank you Brenda for yet another enlightening message. I mostly find it hard to be in union with my soul to materialise what I truly want – the bigger dreams. Albeit knowing who I really am, that I am the creator of my own destiny, and that even as a lightworker, it is so difficult to hold that thought or creation in my heart and materialise it. I still have not been able to fully exploit my inner skills. I fully understand that the self creates in theory, but not so in practical terms. That waiting game, boy it sometimes gets to you.

    These aside, it is of great relief to finally realise that work hard and play little is antediluvian belief system that needs to be discarded NOW. I always thought that if you wanted something or you wanted to create it, you need to work harder, perhaps more meditation, more discipline and the list went on and on until the cows came home. Now, I think I can lift this ‘monkey’ off my back if there’s such an expression. The guilt for never being able to do enough and thus never being able to materialise is released. Thank you for that.

    What I am about to write is purely based on my own experiences and opinion. And experiences and opinion certainly do not apply to everyone.

    Perhaps this archaic dominant “work hard play little” belief system was planned and programmed carefully by a coterie of power brokers, those in power, be it seen or unseen, since time immemorial to inculcate enslaved mentality in human, which was of course, also necessary for spiritual growth. Since humans live by beliefs and that beliefs can be manipulated and that humans are inherently powerful creators, all that materialises into physical reality are illusion, separation, disunity, discord, dogma and subservience, to the interests of those in power and even to gurus. Humans are living somebody else’s dream, not their own. Humans have forgotten who they really are. They have forgotten their true “self” and its power, all are cloaked by dogma and are swept into the abyss of self-limitation.

    I realise that, in my experiences, gurus are also human in some ways and are far from perfect. Guru worshipping is practiced fervently in some parts of Asia. By putting them on the pedestal is analogous to stalling our spiritual growth as we eagerly await and pray for their guidance rather than looking within for answers. We wait on them hand and foot. Gurus have their own experiences and sermons to deliver. But experiences aren’t divine laws. This I learnt in a hard way and living others’ experiences almost put some of us in mortal danger. When I decided to abandon guru worshipping and learn from many instead, some hinted that my deviation from the “faith” was the result of my lack of spiritual discernment. I was told, one should only worship one guru.

    When it comes to controlling consciousness, there is no better instrument than religious worship, for human still believes that there is only 1and 1 Almighty God, human is not god but subjects and will never be god. Gurus are revered and worshipped as they are representations of gods in human form and they are the only ones who can connect human to other gods. We have forgotten to worship and honour our “self” and it has taken this long to understand and realise it. But somehow or rather, the so called Good versus Evil, we’ve all played out the register and it’s all arranged for realising One-ness. Life is like a theatre and is full of irony. At present, I’ll never ever want to reincarnate and forget my godly nature and start all over again.

    Brenda, sorry for delivering such a long message. Gotta let it all out……
    With lots of love and hugs, thank you so much.

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  • 19. lifetapestrycreations  |  February 21, 2013 at 11:07 am

    Dear Yoon Lien Chin,
    But what if when you reincarnate on earth again you find the new earth/New Age is in full bloom? That’s what I expect.

    We are setting up the new earth and the next generations will feel extremely comfortable in a world that doesn’t encourage or even suggest that one person is better or more god-like than another, that we live in joy and harmony, that play is work and work is play. That joy and harmony – rather than “one is better than another” prevails.

    I’m not sure where I will choose to be in my next life, but I’m thinking that being part of the new earth we created might be kind of fun.
    Blessings, Hugs and Sparkles,
    Brenda

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  • 20. Vickie Buchanan  |  March 20, 2013 at 6:00 pm

    About 2 years ago I went through the door of ascension and discovered myself to be pure abundance , pure magic, & pure power so much so that I experienced what it’s like be able to create universes. Easy … This glimpse terrified me so much I’ve actually been quite traumatised by it .. The portal keeps opening I keep slamming it .. My fear so deep . Over the past few days when I wake I feel a click and the feeling of fear racks my body . Finally I’m FEELING fear, its throwing me around like I’m in a washing machine . I look like a stunned mullet and feel like I’m loosing my sanity which is my insanity .. I can’t stop crying I feel like I’m dying , finally movement .. I feel like the info coming through is love love love joy , etc but what about those of us who are doing pure terror . It can’t be just me . They say the hardest going is at the end of the mountain. I think I’m also there … Thank you for your wonderful channelings they are so helpful .. Love Vickie

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    • 21. Brenda Hoffman  |  March 20, 2013 at 6:15 pm

      Dear Vickie,
      You’re moving too rapidly for your physical being – slow it down. It doesn’t have to be achieved today, tomorrow or even this year.

      When it’s right for you to shift, you’ll do so in joy not the terror you’re currently feeling.

      You have the power to say to your inner-being, higher self, soul and every piece of your being, “I’m transitioning too rapidly. Slow down or STOP”.

      It’s ok. You don’t have to live in fear anymore. This transition is meant to be fun – even though a bit scary at times because it’s the unknown. But certainly not terrifying.

      Slow it down. Stop it. Just soak up the sun and be.
      Blessings, Hugs and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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    Blessings and Sparkles,
    Brenda

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    • 27. Brenda Hoffman  |  June 4, 2013 at 7:49 pm

      Hello Rashad,
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      Blessings and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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    • 29. Brenda Hoffman  |  June 6, 2013 at 4:19 pm

      Dear BloggingandMore,
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      Blessings, Hugs and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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