Why is She/He Still in My Life?

October 7, 2013 at 5:54 pm 64 comments

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Summary of Brenda’s October 6, 2013 free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman: You’re welcoming those pieces of your totality that help make your current life easier and more creative. “I am that I am. I am all that I am. I welcome all segments of my being appropriate for me now.”

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for  http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com: “What Creation Area is Your Bogeyman Under the Bed?”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” BlogTalkRadio.com show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled materials.

Dear Ones,

You are fearful that those you love are not shifting with you, that you need to leave them behind.

We have told you on several occasions that those you were close to in 3D may not be an important part of your new earth life. Many of you have used that thought to place a barrier between yourself and those you connect with so when the parting occurs you will not feel pain.

You have misunderstood the intent of that message. There are many who are no longer in your sphere of close contacts. Perhaps you talk with or even interact with them often, but when you think of connections of the heart, they are no longer part of that group. They are more acquaintances than close to your heart.

Now that you are deeper into your new earth/new life, it is highly unlikely you will find a need to remove many more, if any, people from your heart.

During the beginning stages of this transition, you were probably surrounded by those who were a convenience or should. For instance, perhaps your work environment required you to interact with someone filled with fear. But as you moved deeper into this transition, those people shifted or, in a sense, disappeared from your life. Even though you might have contact with them – it is minimal and certainly not heart-centered.

Those remaining in your heart are Lightworkers who have not yet switched on their light or are on a different path.

You could not have completed the shifts of the past few months if entities maintaining their Old Age beings and lifestyles were deeply in your heart.

The Old Age and new earth are too dissimilar for you to interact heart to heart with someone who remains solidly of the Old Age.

Your task of moving into the new earth was extremely difficult as you cleansed yourself of Old Age beliefs, actions and thoughts. You did and do not have additional energy to fend off the fear and anger of Old Age personalities who do not wish to shift.

This does not mean you will not learn or read about Old Age entities continuing their Old Age antics. But instead, that you do not need to cut them from your heart – you already completed that phase with those you were in direct contact with. They are no longer an important part of your heart – other than in general humanity terms.

Spouses, friends, co-workers, significant others, neighbors and family who remain part of your being/your heart, in whatever fashion, are Lightworkers waiting to turn on their light or on a different path.

Perhaps part of their role is to play devil’s advocate as you make your transition. They do not necessarily believe all or even most of what you believe, but somehow you cannot let them go. You sense something, somewhere within them – and you – that encourages you to remain steadfast in your beliefs that they too are part of the new earth – just at a different stage or place

How you can know this – for at times, they make you uncomfortable?

You cannot understand why they do not wish to know more about new earth – or you – as you make your transition. They seem disinterested and yet – you find them an important part of your heart. Not in the general terms of “all are one,” but in specific relationship terms that seem to be at odds with what you believe.

Perhaps you two argue. Perhaps not. You just know deep within you that you cannot remove that relationship from your being. Nor do you want to – despite all indicators that you should. Such is true because they are indeed Lightworkers taking a much different path than you.

Even now – with all the information to the contrary relayed by many channels – you believe your path is the one true path. Perhaps you meditate, visualize, channel, only allow certain foods in your body or whatever. And those you think should be removed from your being, but continue to be part of it despite your wonderment that such is so, are not at all interested in your path. Perhaps the two of you connect spiritually at times, but for the most part, this relationship seems like blending oil and water.

This relationship is water and water – only perhaps blue water and red water. It is of the heart – just different parts of the heart.

Why do you continue this relationship? The answer is quite logical.

To fully understand that “all are one,” you requested a helpmate unlike you in terms of the path they are traveling. They are moving as rapidly as you, only they do not display the same indicators along the way. They have different markers and paths. You will end-up together at some point, just not now. As you open your belief systems to alternate methods of claiming new earth, you will understand the beauty of your decision to select a mate, friend, co-worker, neighbor, significant other or relative who opted for a different path.

The only requirement to step upon a new earth path is an open heart. Those you continue to interact with have an open heart – despite so many indicators to YOU that they are not on a path. They are yet another stage of your clearing. They are with you to help you broaden your beliefs and skills. Patience is required as they (you think) flounder about the new earth. You (you think) have the direct path and you are in wonderment that they are not at all interested in your path.

This is a lesson in love. Not love within the limits and shoulds of the Old Age, but love in new earth terms. All have the freedom to be for all are moving to the same place on different paths. You elected to be with someone who broadens your new earth horizons. And they are doing so – much to your consternation. So be it. Amen.

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  • 1. Pocahontas  |  October 7, 2013 at 6:19 pm

    I’m not sure the word for me is “fear”. I feel a great need for humanity to know the truth. : ( I find it “disheartening.”

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    • 2. mirinthia  |  October 7, 2013 at 6:40 pm

      Dear Pocahontas,
      As I understand it, there are many truths.

      Don’t be disheartened, as you will resonate THAT frequency. Why not instead feel JOY knowing that each being is on their own path and will find their own truth.

      Blessings of LOVE, Mirinthia

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      • 3. Pocahontas  |  October 7, 2013 at 7:11 pm

        Yes, I understand. I’m just referring to the “One” truth, so to speak.

        As far as feeling disheartened instead of fear at times, I have ascertained that this is where I am on my path.

        I guess I’m just trying to find a balance when it comes to my loved ones.

        Thank you.

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      • 4. lifetapestrycreations  |  October 7, 2013 at 7:29 pm

        Hi Marcie,
        I know. Sometimes most of us feel like that – is it ever going to be the new earth we’ve dreamed of for eons? Then something spectacular happens and I feel excited by the possibilities all over again.

        We’re doing it – despite all odds and while living in a 3D environment. Courageous and dedicated Lightworkers all – despite our seeming in-balance with loved ones.

        We’re learning how to travel new roads and new concept, while allowing others to be in whatever form they wish. New thoughts, new actions and lots of belief shifts. Not easy – but we’re doing it wonderfully and more rapidly than expected according to so many channels. Who “on the ground” would guess that this shift is happening rapidly and more easily than expected???
        Blessings, Love and Hugs,
        Brenda

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    • 5. lifetapestrycreations  |  October 7, 2013 at 7:04 pm

      Dear Marcie,
      It will be ok. We’re shifting as is earth. I can’t tell you how I just KNOW everything will fall into place but I do – as do so many others. This mishmash of Old Age/new earth is shifting more rapidly than we know. Humanity created new earth – the first stage. Now it’s time for the second stage – and it’s happening. People moving into the light…and harmony despite all media info to the contrary.
      Blessings, Love and Hugs,
      Brenda

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  • 6. mirinthia  |  October 7, 2013 at 6:29 pm

    Hello my Dear CS-
    What an Interesting post!

    I am fortunate because when I did my years and years and years of inner work, I released all the people who I truly did not resonate with.

    Over the last 21 years I have been challenged many, many, many times to see if I can truly embody my life motto by Gandhi “Be the change you wish to see in the world”. My best life accomplishments to be the change are releasing my addiction to alcohol (21 years ago) anger (8 years ago) and fear (2 years ago).

    I will not argue with another as it is pointless drama,and very mean way to handle a challenge. The last argument I had was 19 years ago.

    And so I continue on…walking my talk, holding my light,maintaining my sense of humor and sprinkling curse words into sentences as sentence enhancers meant to lighten the load.

    I will leave you with the most powerful mantra I know which is “FUCK IT!”
    The mantra shows detachment, humor and the ability to be my own person by not bowing to preconceived notions of what is proper.

    Love, Mirinthia

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  • 8. tazjima  |  October 7, 2013 at 6:35 pm

    Reblogged this on Blue Dragon Journal and commented:
    Brenda – Good point to bring up. I hold these relationships “lightly”, allowing these individuals their own path and beliefs, while keeping mine to myself. I’m actively trying to convince anyone that “it’s my way or the highway.” I work in a difficult environment with some very open-hearted, healing people and have some wonderful neighbors. They know I’m different, but they don’t ostracize me because of it. There is a lot of allowing going on at many levels. It is a delicate balance to walk for those who like to correct and direct people. Except this time, we need to work on our own stuff, rather than other people’s stuff and allow them the joys and challenges of their own journey. Such is self-mastery… thanks for bringing this up. Love, Elizabeth

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    • 9. lifetapestrycreations  |  October 7, 2013 at 7:10 pm

      Hi Elizabeth,
      I laughed when I channeled the piece about what “We think is the right path and the right way” and thought. Yup. Walk my talk!

      Thank you yet again for re-blogging on http://www.BlueDragonJournal.com!!!
      Blessings and Love,
      Brenda

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      • 10. tazjima  |  October 7, 2013 at 7:14 pm

        I meant to say… “not actively trying to convince anyone”! Never did feel comfortable with the old bible-thumping routine (and it didn’t have to be a Bible!).

        Yes, we’re certainly being challenged to live with integrity in this New World. It’s a balancing act, but we’ll get better at it with practice!

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      • 11. lifetapestrycreations  |  October 7, 2013 at 7:20 pm

        Dear Elizabeth,
        I’ve also had difficulties with shoulds. My father was very strict so anyone telling me what I should do has usually encouraged me to do the opposite or something different. Living with integrity (our truth at whatever stage we’re at) is our new mantra. And I so agree, we’ll all get better with practice…or more practice!
        Love Brenda

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  • 12. timbush222  |  October 7, 2013 at 6:52 pm

    I can definitely relate to this channel. I have been dealing with difficult family relationships my whole life and still I do. I can see that this was ‘meant for me’ so to speak and I thank you for bringing it to me. When someone is a sore part for me, I am now thinking that it is a signal saying ‘you need to work on what this person is bringing up’. For me it has been judgmental thoughts and ideas. Some people seem so crass and low energy, but really they are dealing with difficult problems of their own and being a part of their struggle is what is helping me to raise my vibration.

    I am able to see the other as needing my help and as having a different perspective that needs some input from none other than me and it really is humbling and enlightening at the same time. Those who are on a different path bring those of us on this path to where we need to go. It is to be of service to this earth plane while we are still here that gets us into those higher dimensions. We need to do the legwork, so to speak before we get the promotion..

    Thank you Brenda, yet again for a great post.

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    • 13. lifetapestrycreations  |  October 7, 2013 at 7:35 pm

      Hi Timbush!
      Judgement does sometimes seem to happen so easily doesn’t it? When it happens, I try to remember that we’ve internalized Old Age beliefs for eons and this wonderful joy stuff is pretty new in comparison (even though the religions I’m somewhat familiar with seem to have a basis in love and joy). Maybe you don’t have to say or do anything other than be your loving self. Which is indeed a new concept for those still enmeshed in 3D fears!
      Blessings, Love and Hugs,
      Brenda

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      • 14. timbush222  |  October 8, 2013 at 1:28 am

        Thanks Brenda. Sounds good to me. 🙂

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  • 15. Lady Pinkrose  |  October 7, 2013 at 8:27 pm

    Brenda, I don’t know how to thank you for these words. As I read these words, my life when Ka-chunk, Ka-chunk, as realization after realization came to me Heart. This journey has been extreme, and you through this channeling, answered a prayer I prayed just this weekend. I asked for “clarity” upon a certain relationship in my life. And now, GOD bless you! I have it!!! (deep sigh of relief!) OH, to know ALL has been taken care of, as I get the Understanding of SO much! You have NO idea how much you have helped me!!!
    Blessings to you, and all my Love,
    Amy

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    • 16. lifetapestrycreations  |  October 7, 2013 at 10:01 pm

      Hi Lady PinkRose/Amy,
      My intent before every channel is to help us all better understand this transition sooooooooooo I learn along with all of you. This channel helped me better understand a relationship also. YAY for us all.
      Blessings, Love and Hugs in Return,
      Brenda

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  • 17. Lady Pinkrose  |  October 7, 2013 at 8:28 pm

    oops……correction…..”my life WENT Ka-chunk”……. OH MAN! Anotherr correction……just so tired as I wrote this……..second line, “MY Heart”……and IF there are any more mistakes, OH WELL! 🙂

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    • 18. lifetapestrycreations  |  October 7, 2013 at 10:02 pm

      Hi Lady Pink Rose/Amy,
      Ha. I’m tired too and didn’t even notice the mistakes you think you made. I read intent not word for word content. All is good for us all!!!
      Love Brenda

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  • 19. pragti  |  October 7, 2013 at 9:00 pm

    You said it Brenda !!
    So beautifully put across !! This channeling has such subtle nuances. Thank u !

    Lots of love
    Pragti

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    • 20. lifetapestrycreations  |  October 7, 2013 at 10:03 pm

      Hey Pragti,
      You know how much I love finding out more about our transition – and our emotional reactions to it! Thank you.
      Love Brenda

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    • 22. lifetapestrycreations  |  October 8, 2013 at 2:11 pm

      Hi Lucas!
      Thank you for re-blogging on Lucas2012infos.wordpress.com.
      Love Brenda

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  • 23. Barbara sandlin  |  October 8, 2013 at 6:11 am

    Thank you Brenda! Loved this..and so much help for me with my relationships.

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    • 24. lifetapestrycreations  |  October 8, 2013 at 2:12 pm

      Hi Barbara,
      I know. This channel answered some questions for me also. Who lot of shifting going on.
      Love Brenda

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  • 25. snowbluedolphin  |  October 8, 2013 at 10:39 am

    Exactly! I love the way you worded this: that they’re like acquaintances now. I’ve definitely experienced that. Emotional bonds that used to run deep with several people in my life (mostly causing anger, grief & frustration) are now completely gone and talking to them isn’t difficult because I feel pleasantly detached. A year ago, I was worried about how to cut off those relationships because it would have been very messy and a lot of drama would have ensued, but now that my heart is removed from the equation, it no longer matters. Those people have no power to tug at my feelings anymore – and their narcissistic supply has been neatly cut off. 🙂 Thank you for the article, it was very helpful as usual!

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    • 26. mirinthia  |  October 8, 2013 at 11:53 am

      Hi Snow Blue Dolphin,
      I can definitely relate to your statement: “Those people have no power to tug at my feelings anymore – and their narcissistic supply has been neatly cut off.”
      Blessings of LOVE, Mirinthia

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      • 27. lifetapestrycreations  |  October 8, 2013 at 2:22 pm

        Hi Mirinthia/CS,
        You’re such a loving person. Thank you.
        Blessings and Sparkles,
        Brenda

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      • 28. snowbluedolphin  |  October 8, 2013 at 4:09 pm

        Hey Mirinthia,
        Isn’t it wonderful that we don’t have to deal with that anymore? Breathe the fresh air of sweet relief! 😉 LOVE! – Snow

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    • 29. lifetapestrycreations  |  October 8, 2013 at 2:20 pm

      Hi SnowBlueDolphin!
      The same has happened to me with a number of relationships. Isn’t it just the oddest sensation – almost as if you’re outside your being watching their drama and wondering why they’re so engaged in playing that role? But then, there are a couple that this channel helped me understand.

      I’ve never quite gotten over the two-year-old “Why?” question. That’s probably why I enjoy channeling so.
      Blessings, Love and Hugs,
      Brenda

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      • 30. snowbluedolphin  |  October 8, 2013 at 4:18 pm

        Hi Brenda,
        YES! “Watching their drama” is an apt description for the feeling. It almost feels like they’re part of a TV program I’m not really invested in, and I can change the channel or turn it off and forget about it for awhile. 😉 The lack of emotional involvement in those ‘characters’ they’re playing and their ‘drama’ is a real relief!

        Asking why is a good thing! When we stop asking questions, that’s when we really get in trouble. 😉 Blessings, love & hugs back!
        – Snow

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      • 31. mirinthia  |  October 8, 2013 at 6:40 pm

        Hi Brenda & Snow,
        LOL…What you both said.
        Blessings of LOVE, Mirinthia

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  • 32. Christine Hoeflich  |  October 8, 2013 at 11:25 am

    I feel this is so true for me and my relationships Brenda. Thanks for the confirmation!

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  • 34. Barb  |  October 8, 2013 at 4:07 pm

    This is a bit tangential but perhaps still relevant to changing relationships: I was reminded recently that shifting/transitioning with the memory of our present lives intact makes it more challenging than leaving physically and coming back, but that this is a whole new canvas to paint on rather than another layer over the old karma drama. We really are in brand new territory. Yesterday I created a mental image of picking a bright color to make the first brushstroke, but it came out in a rainbow with glitter. More beautiful than I imagined and very encouraging.

    P.S. Your blogtalk installment was great this week: I am all that I am!

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  • 35. lifetapestrycreations  |  October 8, 2013 at 4:23 pm

    Hi Barb,
    Love the image and thought of painting a new canvas. I’m going to start my canvas tonight. Thank you!
    Blessings, Love and Hugs,
    Brenda

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  • 38. franheal  |  October 9, 2013 at 2:22 pm

    Thank you dear Brenda for another very inspiring channel…much much love to you ❤

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    • 39. lifetapestrycreations  |  October 9, 2013 at 2:34 pm

      Hi Fran,
      Much love in return. This transition just keeps surprising me. Is it the same for you??
      Blessings and Hugs,
      Brenda

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      • 40. franheal  |  October 10, 2013 at 3:43 am

        OH Yes~~~ Keeping us on our toes 🙂 And am always pleasantly surprised with what comes through in the channelings..Blessings and hugs back .~~ ♥ ~~

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      • 41. lifetapestrycreations  |  October 10, 2013 at 9:18 am

        Hi Fran,
        Gathering information through channeling seems like such a blessing right now. It will be commonplace at some point, but right now I so love knowing a bit more with every channel I blog and every channel I read or watch.
        Love Brenda

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  • 42. dreamweaver333  |  October 9, 2013 at 3:17 pm

    Reblogged this on dreamweaver333.

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  • 44. Lady Pinkrose  |  October 9, 2013 at 3:42 pm

    Brenda, I just had to come on back to reinforce to you how you blessed my Life! Your words, after reading them, gave me a Gift that just writing about, brings tears to my eyes. It is as though this huge chain and ball around my neck, lifted, and in so doing, I have been feeling such JOY, and FREEDOM, yes, even in the same circumstances as prior to reading your channeling.

    I now have such a huge smile on my face, that just will not come off. I feel such Lightness, and happiness, and JOY, and HOPE!!!! God, how do I THANK you for this Gift???? It is SO true when it is said, when the time is “right”, the “teacher” will enter.

    I went for a walk yesterday, and ALL who saw me waved and laughed and smiled. I even had dogs running out to jump on me in sheer JOY…..this to the astonishment of the “owners”! I laughed SO hard as they barked and shared in my JOY! We were like kids! For that matter, I felt like a kid that entire walk, so free, so innocent. And I touched SO many, just because I was smiling and if you ask me, I glowed in sheer happiness! I left a “trail of Light”!

    My God, the tears! I AM so grateful! I bow to you, my Sister Brenda!!! This channeling assisted me to break free of the “old” and BE ME! Glorious ME! My next door neighbor even commented, “Amy, you look SO good! What did you do?” I laughed and told her I am FREE of the chains that had my Heart all tangled!

    With all my Love,
    Amy

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  • 45. lifetapestrycreations  |  October 9, 2013 at 5:10 pm

    Dear Amy,
    And your message made me smile and laugh. Thank you! This transition to love and joy really is amazing – and shared in so many different ways.
    Blessings and Love!
    Brenda

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  • 46. YL Chin  |  October 10, 2013 at 7:47 am

    I’m ok with those around me. I’m not attached. More like bored. But there aren’t any new friends coming my way with whom we think alike. I just feel very strange in every aspect of my current life. I’m uninterested with my work and the usual thing ……but I feel very lethargic, like there’s no energy. I mean I feel bursts of energy lately but it doesn’t energise me, it just makes me very irritated and tired. Scratching here and there and getting more wounds than clear skin. If I see a couch, I’d collapse on it. I just wanna sleep it off. And sometimes I feel pressure on the top of my head and sometimes I don’t. Weird.

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    • 47. lifetapestrycreations  |  October 10, 2013 at 9:22 am

      Dear Yl Chin,
      I’m having some of the same indicators which has always meant for me in the past (I don’t get bored/lethargic often) that a big personal shift of some sort is eminent. I say, “Bring it on. I’m ready for some sparkle.”
      Blessings, Love and Hugs,
      Brenda

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      • 48. YL Chin  |  October 10, 2013 at 11:59 pm

        That’s very encouraging. To brave the storm and wrath of the shift. Tks Brenda.

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      • 49. lifetapestrycreations  |  October 11, 2013 at 9:33 am

        Hi YL Chin,
        Not to worry. This feeling is but a blip on the screen of this transition. In a bit of time, you will have forgotten you even felt that way. Just think of all the shifts we’ve been through in the past few years. Most of them I can’t even remember – even though they felt huge at the time. Here’s to a spark of excitement, joy and/or creation!
        Blessings, Love and Hugs,
        Brenda

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  • 50. YL Chin  |  October 10, 2013 at 7:53 am

    Ah… and the films. Nothing strikes my mind as stimulating. Nothing that is showing is great for the kids. Iron man iron man iron man, superman superman, avengers etc etc what’s happened???

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  • 51. YL Chin  |  October 12, 2013 at 9:07 am

    Sometimes simple words that you read can suddenly strike you and break your usual momentum. I kept thinking, oh no, I couldn’t stand all this cleansing, look how ugly I look….ascension sucked…….. When you said “Bring it on. I’m ready for some sparkle” – it did strike a chord with me.

    Yes, I thought of all those sparkles in my meditations but somehow I felt empty, at some point, distant, and then your words just struck me as if “why didn’t I think of it this way” and led me through a time of introspection and I thought, “My God, that’s it.”

    Today, I changed my thoughts and said, “Yeah, bring it on! Bring all the sparkles.” And when I meditated tonight, I felt very light, I just went flying (like I always imagine doing) bringing the others along, through valleys and rolling hills, waterfalls and green green fields, establishing new relationships, imagining a world that shimmers, appearing as if light shining through a thin veil. It may not be 5D, neither here nor there but I felt happy and I didn’t feel ugly, I felt and still feel great actually. Now, it’s a matter of maintaining that feeling.

    Tks Brenda for your loving words. Love and Light.

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    • 52. mirinthia  |  October 12, 2013 at 10:30 am

      Wow YL, your meditation sounds amazing and fun!! You are SPARKLE personified.
      Blessings of LOVE, Mirinthia

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      • 53. YL Chin  |  October 12, 2013 at 9:26 pm

        Wo Wo Wo wait, it’s just imagination and keeping it up is harder. I’m still trying to manifest. LOL.

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  • 54. lifetapestrycreations  |  October 12, 2013 at 9:16 am

    Dear YL Chin,
    That’s wonderful!

    I can remember exactly when I wrote those words – they popped into my head, but I hesitated thinking they were a bit frivolous for your message. Yet they were just right!! Gotta love those inner messages! Sparkle on.
    Blessings, Love and Tons of Sparkles,
    Brenda

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    • 55. YL Chin  |  October 12, 2013 at 9:32 pm

      Sometimes I’m dumb. So, i don’t think any simple advice is frivolous. Wow, I think my “self” just communicated through you to give me this because it couldn’t get through to me cos’ I was thick in the head and gloomy. I pray all of us manifest our own sparkles now! LOL. Tks Brenda.

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      • 56. lifetapestrycreations  |  October 12, 2013 at 9:53 pm

        Dear YL Chin,
        Not to worry. You’re not dumb or slow or anything. It just wasn’t time for you to put it together until now. That happens to me too and I’m guessing many others. We can read, hear or whatever a phrase or thought and it means very little and then one day it’s a big AHA. Welcome to your personal transition on your personal path in your personal time frame!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
        Blessings, Love, Sparkle and Hugs,
        Brenda

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  • 57. YL Chin  |  October 12, 2013 at 9:38 pm

    Brenda, I somehow came across this channelled message. It’s good advice. I guess surrender is the key and not holding on.

    If you wish to make any great change in your life, simply go into a meditative state and imagine finding an energetic aspect of you that already holds all of those desired traits, shining brightly and beautifully. So, for example, let us suppose you wish to lose some weight. Enter into a meditation and find a version of yourself looking happy, healthy and at your ideal weight. (Don’t worry that you will not be able to find that aspect – it is as simple as calling it forth.) Then invite that energetic aspect of yourself to meld into your body. Pay attention to how you feel as you merge – you will likely feel your energy shift as it happens. After that, it is just a matter of surrendering and flowing in your life, knowing you have set your intention and already hold the energy of your desired change. Accept the opportunities the flow presents to you to create and support that change, and before you know it, it will be part of your reality.
    – See more at: http://www.channelcast.tv/archangel-gabriels-daily-message-october-12th-2013/1259256/#sthash.DO0uXOA4.dpuf

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    • 58. lifetapestrycreations  |  October 12, 2013 at 9:56 pm

      Hi YL Chin,
      Perfect!!!!!!!! You’re receiving/acknowledging manifestation messages from so many sources. Guess your time to sparkle is NOW!
      Blessings, Hugs, Love, Tons of Manifestations Right for You and SPARKLES,
      Brenda

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      • 59. YL Chin  |  October 15, 2013 at 6:47 am

        Oh Brenda, I’m sorry, I lied when I said I could detach from people. My uncle, like my mum, was a strokee and he died unexpectedly yesterday. My cousin would wake up in the morning and just sat there by the coffin looking at him through the glass.
        I didn’t think I would cry over it, but then the tears finally came today. I cried like a baby. I realised how I would miss my mum if she would die the same way. I thought I was detached but I’m not. I’ve been a caregiver for her for a long time and there have been ugly moments and I’ve been downright cruel. But then I realised that I do love her. All this time, I thought it would be better if she died. Just like how I felt about my brother. He was only a teenager and was found to have terminal cancer. He died too soon. I thought it would be better that he left but I didn’t feel like that when the time came.

        Mum is showing signs of giving away recently and she is not responding well. I am so scared. Even more fearful when my uncle died. And I realised how much I wanted her to be here with/for me. How I’ve always imagined that I would be married and she would hold her first granddaughter. And that she would be better as there is something to look forward to. But that moment never came and I tried so hard to make things better for both of us, really tried. I just hope it’s not too late to take another shot at improving our lives.

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      • 60. lifetapestrycreations  |  October 15, 2013 at 10:11 am

        Dear YL Chin,
        Both my mother and father died last year – Dad in January and Mom in November. I loved them both even though we had some rough patches along the way. I’m so sorry your mother is ill. Like you, I wish the veils between earth death and life were no longer there so we could communicate, check in with them.

        I’m certain your mother knows how much you love her. Heart to heart feelings are felt not necessarily verbalized. You’ve been her caregiver for some time – not at all an easy task. Of course, you were frustrated at times. Of course, you were angry. You envisioned a different life for the two of you – but you stayed with your Mom out of love.

        No matter how much a parent loves a child, there are days and times when children make you furious – but the overall love is felt and known despite the blips of anger. And so it is with your Mom. I don’t know your age or if you continue to dream of a relationship, but anything is possible – there is never an end time for any dream. Allow yourself to be with your mother as long as it feels right or until she no longer needs your earth care…then, move into your dream when you have the interest/need to do so.

        Anything I want to write seems so inadequate for you now. Please know I wish I had a magic wand for you and your mother. Earth transition pain should be easy knowing someone is just in a different place – but for now, we all want one more day, one more year.
        Love Brenda

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  • 61. sandyfreschi  |  October 13, 2013 at 5:17 pm

    Does this apply to marriages too? I have been aware of this dynamic in my relationship with my “helpmate” since we started our experiment together a few years ago. We give each other space to be who we are, and meet in places where we can share love. It’s unusual, and the old age paradigm sometimes creeps in and creates doubt inside my heart. It seems that when I center myself in love I return to the awareness that we have chosen each other for the very reason you mention. Am I just fooling myself?

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    • 62. lifetapestrycreations  |  October 13, 2013 at 6:28 pm

      Hi Sandy,
      Doesn’t sound like you’re fooling yourself. You’re both happy in a unique relationship. Sounds just what the new earth is all about. Creating new perceptions, philosophies and doing away with the shoulds of the Old Age. Kudos for daring to be you.
      Blessings, Hugs and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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      • 63. sandyfreschi  |  October 13, 2013 at 7:59 pm

        Thanks Brenda. It gets painful when I slip into the Old Age illusion of the old partnership paradigm. I suspected that my momentary points of doubt and exasperation were times of release of the old. Because when I release and shift back into the newer lighter energies the experience between us shifts to a more harmonious and evolved connection. I asked if I was fooling myself because it seems unbelievable from the 3d perspective that this is possible.

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      • 64. lifetapestrycreations  |  October 13, 2013 at 10:23 pm

        Hi Sandy,
        I know. I think we all do that 3D dance. “Something shouldn’t be like this but it feels so good, but I should be punished somehow because it doesn’t follow any rules…..and on and on!”

        This shifting from fear and rules to freedom and joy is not always as easy as it reads is it???
        Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
        Brenda

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