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Holidays – Another Should?

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Special Event: Brenda is a featured guest this week of BlogTalkRadio.com/DoubleDutchRadio – the Netherlands based Internet show of Lucas2012Infos.WordPress.com.

Summary of Brenda’s November 19, 2013 free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman: The goals of last week’s vehicle creation exercise was a reminder that creations aren’t permanent and you can create in whatever medium you wish. Your child-self used to create with freedom and joy. Your adult dreams are often encased in shoulds. Your new assignment is to create in your mind your most joyful Thanksgiving or special day.

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for  http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com:   “Between Comfort Zones and Fear”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” BlogTalkRadio.com show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

The media, your community and family encourage you to believe that most, if not all, of your friends, relatives and neighbors are enjoying a loving holiday season, that all is wonderful in their lives.

Such is not the case – but deep within the recesses of your being you feel as if it is. Your belief is that you and you alone are wondering where love and joy is.

Even though you might have moments of joy and love throughout this holiday season, you do not seem to have the level of joy others are displaying.

Perhaps it is difficult for you to decorate, shop and prepare to host or take part in holiday festivities. It is as if you are watching from the outside wondering why you feel little or nothing. Or a dull ache of loneliness as others laugh and party their way to the new year.

Your sense of not fully participating in festivities is more about your transition than loneliness. You have detached from friends and relatives in small and large increments. Somewhat like a being from the outside looking in. Perhaps an old-fashioned snow globe is an apt analogy – the kind you shake so sparkly snow falls upon the little village or house within. Even though you enjoy the effects of the globe, you are not in or of the globe.

Your joy is shifting to different places than the somewhat hollow joy of the traditional holiday season.

Perhaps the phrase, ‘hollow joy’ is not appropriate for you love family gatherings. So you might and so you can. But many of you feel less joy than before, or wished you felt, as you participate in this year’s holiday festivities.

Your Old-Age joy was condensed to a few days near the end of the year and labeled the holiday season. Even though there were other holidays and gatherings, those gatherings were not featured throughout your society as is true for the last few weeks or first few weeks – depending on your country of origin – of the calendar year. According to society myth, anger and fear disappear once the holiday season begins only to be replaced with a loving need to give to others emotionally and physically.

That myth was never accurate for many – and is especially not accurate now.

Perhaps you used to enjoy the holidays. Perhaps they were a respite from family disagreements. Perhaps you were alone and lonely. Perhaps you felt harried and confused. Perhaps you tried to enjoy the holidays for others. Perhaps you enmeshed yourself in the love and joy that seem to permeate your world during this period. You always felt something because your society set an extremely high emotional bar for what you should feel.

You may feel little or nothing this year. You might enjoy the company of family and friends – or not. But most likely, you will not muster the energy of joy, fear, anger or disdain that carried you through previous holiday seasons.

You have not become a zombie, Instead, you are declaring yourself independent of society dictates. You are reclaiming your right to be.

That does not mean you must stop loving during this time or that your love is limited to a day or two a year. But instead, that you are beginning to feel holiday joy throughout the year. No longer do you need to have a few days a year set aside for love. No longer do you need to care for others or to be nice so others can enjoy the holidays.

You are not tied to society shoulds. You are a free agent.

If you wish to share holiday joy, please do so. It is indeed a lovely time of year for many. But do not be pressured into feeling something that is society driven – whether joy, angst or sadness. It is not your holiday season, it is society’s holiday season.

Your new holidays are every day you wish to experience joy. Create festivities that fit your joy, interests and needs.

In the Old Age, joys were limited to a few days to help you remember what joy was – a dictate that was only appropriate if you felt joy. Many of you were depressed or sad because your (society) expectations did not meet your reality.

You can now declare “the king wears no clothes.” That the hype around the holidays may be wonderful for some, but not all. That it is perfectly appropriate to not celebrate the holidays, to do so in a different way or to shift the shoulds to fun.

Holiday shoulds are no different from any other should. They were designed to herd you into a pen of assimilation.

Perhaps you feel this message spoils your holidays. Such is not true. We are merely pointing out that some of you are preparing for the holidays with dread, sadness or feelings of “just more work.” None of which speak to joy.

Why are you not encouraged to feel holiday spirit in March or August? Why are holidays limited to a few days each year?

Of course there are holidays throughout the year with different feelings of joy perpetuated by your society. But because you should feel joy on a specific day does not mean you have to – you can feel loving joy when you wish.

As you distance yourself from your 3D world, you will find it more difficult to feel what society tells you that you should.

Perhaps you are now feeling sadness or loneliness when none is warranted. You are creating a new life of joy not encased in society shoulds – including holidays and other occasions.

You are free to declare joy when you wish. The same is true for sadness. Your new feelings are generated from within you – not society. Review your joy and sadness to discover their origins – society’s or inner-directed?

Do you find it delightful to shop for Christmas gifts on Thanksgiving Day? Then do so. Are you shopping for Christmas gifts on Thanksgiving Day because you are so harried with holiday preparations you need to crunch the holidays together? Then perhaps you wish to review your need to fill society dictates. So be it. Amen.

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November 25, 2013 at 3:17 pm 27 comments

Between Comfort Zones and Fear

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Summary of Brenda’s November 9, 2013 free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffmanYour assignment, if you so choose, is to create a vehicle that feels right in preparation for travels to distant places.

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for  http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com: “Recreating Your Physical Body – and Lifespan”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” BlogTalkRadio.com show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Many of you feel as if you are in a murky soup of gloom. As if all you thought you achieved, is not valid. Such is not the case. This is a time of destruction of all that is familiar. But then, this information is not new to you – even though learning it and living it are two different issues.

You assumed you would move from fear and pain to joy with a few adventures into the darker recesses of your being. Such is true, just not as you expected. You did not factor in your 3D fears. You are destroying your 3D being without full knowledge of your new being, so you understandably revert to known fears of yesterday.

Those fears are not based in reality.

Perhaps an apt analogy is deciding to expedite your French language skills by moving to France. Even though you were comfortable in your United States French language classes, now that you live in France it is difficult to quickly remember the phrases you need in day-to-day life. But within a few months of total language immersion, you find yourself speaking, dreaming and living comfortably in a French-speaking world.

Such is happening to you now. You do not understand the nuances of the new you, nor your new world. Some days you feel as if you belong and others as if you are a stranger in a new land. Do not fret. You will soon feel as if the new earth is the right place for you.

This transition is a learning process. It is physically and emotionally impossible for you to shift every part of your being while living a somewhat 3D life within a shifting earth – and not experience at least a few fears.

You are expecting more of yourself than is logical. Your inner and outer worlds are transitioning at warp speed. Allow yourself to know and experience that thought. You will be comfortable. You will feel joy in totality – just perhaps not today or tomorrow.

You are more than halfway to your new being. So you are thinking – perhaps even acting – as a new being, but you still have at least a few difficulties with day-to-day activities. Sometimes you react as a 3D being and sometimes as your new being. Not truly comfortable in either mode.

You see and sense the joy, but sometimes it feel so illusive you cannot understand why you are even trying. At other times, you fear your fears for you thought you had moved beyond that point. All in all, you often feel as if you are a new earth failure. Yet, you have  no interest in returning permanently to your 3D life.

Granted, you return to 3D thoughts in your sleep and wake states when your new earth senses do not seem to apply, but you no longer wish to live in a 3D world. You are between comfort zones – your greatest fear – conscious or subconscious.

You have negated those friends, relatives and co-workers who made you uncomfortable. You have chanted and meditated about your physical being. You have completed every new earth task you could – and yet, the totality of your new world remains illusive.

Do not feel as if you are a slow learner or that you were duped. All is well. Merely that you have landed in France and do not yet feel fully comfortable with the language or culture. You will.

And those you are interacting with are feeling much the same. It is as if a group of Australians landed in a place where the natives do not understand the ramifications of their land, nor that of the strangers.

All are feeling the oddness of this new earth.

Perhaps Europe after World War II is another apt analogy. In 1946, most of Europe was in ruins with no central government, few habitable homes, few crops to harvest and millions of people wondering from place to place trying to find their people and new homes. Total chaos – and then it was not. It is difficult to even envision what that world must have been like. Yet, you lightly skip over that period. World War II ended and reconstruction began is how most history books cover that time. The fears, anger, retaliation, lost families, governments and homes are not discussed in any detail. So it will be for you.

You are feeling some of the same lost hopeless feeling that was true of those in Europe after WWII. Nothing is the same. You have a blank slate to create anew, but sometimes you are too tired to care. You just want to feel joy and comfort.

You do not want to read one more new earth “how to.” You do not want anyone telling you how different you are – nor do you want to feel that. You just want to be comfortable again. And so you shall be – sooner than you now think possible, but not today.

Today is for creating your being anew. So you are. A being that will not feel comfortable in any 3D zone. Such necessitates tearing down your defenses, your boundaries, your comfort zones. So you are. Step by step – like salmon swimming upstream.

You know you need to do something – even if you do not always wish to do so – but you do not yet quite understand why. Your only directive is your dream of moving into joy. Much as those in Europe found food and shelter before they had the energy or need to create new governments.

You are in the process of creating your inner-being shelter and comfort. Unless you have an inner urgency to do so, allow your outer world to float for a bit while you adjust to your new being. Your new world will be created as we outlined. But for now, nurture yourself and allow your being to adjust to the new you before you go into the streets to create your new world. So be it. Amen.

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November 18, 2013 at 10:05 am 59 comments

Recreating Your Physical Body – and Life Span

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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s November 9, 2013 free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman: Your assignment, if you so choose, is to create a vehicle that feels right in preparation for travels to distant places.

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for  http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com: “You’re Evolving into Infant and Parent”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” BlogTalkRadio.com show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Your DNA is expanding, your cells are changing and your physical body is adjusting to the new being you are creating. But perhaps there are pieces you have not known or understood.

As your cells reformulate, your appearance may shift and you will gravitate to different people, foods, habitats and living conditions.

You are hoping for a more youthful look and so it will be. Those of you wanting to live within the new earth will perhaps (your choice) extend your natural earth life. It is now fairly common for humans to live to 100 years-of-age. Something almost unheard of a generation or two ago.

If you delay your transition in this lifetime, you will not necessarily be bothered with the age deterioration you now believe probable. Someone who maintains their youthful appearance and vigor beyond 80 years of age is now considered an anomaly – such will not be so in just a few years.

Your physical being is changing more rapidly than was true a few decades ago when reaching the age of 100 was a vague possibility. Then many humans changed their diet, living conditions and health regimes.

Of course, there are those who point out that many of your current foods, particularly in the United States, are not healthy. Such is true for many. The difference is you have food to eat. In past generations, food was not necessarily plentiful. And in those parts of the world where food remains limited, longevity is not yet expected. The longevity burst of the 20th century had much to do with consistent food intake.

Your body is again shifting, but in different ways. Such is true throughout the globe, not merely in wealthier nations.

Rather than replicating cells at a lesser strength than original cells, as was true in the Old Age causing your body to deteriorate, your cells will remain strong and complete for decades longer. And just as Baby Boomers and their children shifted their diet from the meat and potatoes of their grandparents to fruits, vegetables, meat and fast food, your body will crave a new diet.

As your food tastes shift, you will discover signs here and there that your physical being is not aging as was expected when you were in your 20s. Those of you 65 or older are already noting you are not interested in sitting in your rocking chair watching the world go by. Sixty-five has become the new 40.

Even though you may not have yet acknowledged it, your body is shifting.

Learn to listen to the directives of your inner-being – and negate the jokes and belief patterns that were a natural part of your Old Age life. Do you remember your 50th birthday when many felt the need to tell you earth death was near with funeral/death decorations and jokes? All Old Age beliefs – and reality then. That reality no longer exists.

Will your gray hair return to its original color? Perhaps. But more likely is your ability to live a natural and healthy life long beyond what is now expected. A 100th birthday celebration may mean paddling a canoe though a rapidly moving river or skiing down a mountain.

As your cells shift and DNA comes alive, you will discover new skills, directions and patterns – including social interactions. Those who beat the drum of aging and limitations will not be of interest to you as you explore your new being.

Even though your food choices will shift, you will not necessarily be a vegetarian, nor wish to eat meat. And not all of you will meditate or participate in new earth gatherings. You are unique individuals with unique paths that will meet at some point in the future.

Suffice it to know, your routines will shift. You will wish to experience new places and things –  to eat different foods. As a result, you will expect to live longer.

Beliefs that pervaded your Old Age life span on earth are shifting. Some of you will transition at a younger age than others, as is true now. But that transition will be the result of inner-directives, not family or community beliefs.

Many of you believe you already decide when to exit earth. Such is true. But part of that personal control is tied to societal beliefs. You should eat this. You should be aging at this rate. You will die in this time frame. Those shoulds or directives no longer apply.

Your inner-being guidance system will re-direct your physical being in ways you cannot yet imagine.

Your cells as becoming crystalline – a more solid structure than was true of your Old Age physical bodies. And instead of receiving information and directives from a few strands of DNA, you have millions more pieces of information flowing through your being. Pieces from other lifetimes, other planets, other Universes. Your new being is the difference between a fifth grade book describing your nerve functions and a neurosurgeon’s knowledge.

You are now a self-contained computer with thousands of bits of additional information available when you feel the need to research, access, shift or change your being. You are not limited to one text, one set of beliefs or one life. You opened your being to the Universes – and all information that ever was and ever will be. And you are sharing that information with all entities throughout the Universes.

You are no longer an isolated human in a limited 3D world. You are a new being with new skills including the ability to shift your physical body if you so choose. Allow yourself to believe in yourself. And then start exploring those pieces that feel like cotton candy.

For those of you who have difficulties believing in your own physical rebirth, others will invent and share new means of allowing your body to recreate itself in joy and life, instead of fear and early earth death. So be it. Amen.

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November 11, 2013 at 10:35 am 105 comments

You’re Evolving into Infant and Parent

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Summary of Brenda’s November 3, 2013 free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman: You’re creating your own parent/child being so you are able to nurture yourself, as well as express childlike joy and love.

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for  http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com: “Let’s Remove Global Inner-Power Fear”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” BlogTalkRadio.com show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Please take a moment to process your feelings about living from your heart. Do you believe it is possible? Listen to your inner-being and it will give you the answer – yes or no.

If your response is yes, you merely need to voice your intent to live from your heart to yourself. If your answer is no, please read on.

Loving from your heart does not mean loving all but that dastardly person who wronged you. Nor does it mean you must openly love all.

Many of you worried about opening your heart to yourself, and therefore all, are concerned you will be abused once again for doing so.

As a child, most of you awoke in the morning fully expecting to find loving people and experiences. You walked into the street without supervision, jumped off high playground slides and raced madly about on your tricycle. For you loved and were loved. You braved the odds without a thought of the consequences.

Eventually, adults and older siblings trained you to be careful, to be wary, to not take chances. Security and safety were drummed into your head. You knew someone out there was waiting to harm you.

Some of you also felt that emotional, spiritual or physical fear within your family which encouraged you to broaden your safety net to all but yourself.

Given that your parents, society and the media continued the drumbeat of fear and the need to be ever alert to those “bad people” out there, somewhere, you started doubting your ability to discern bad from the misguided or fearful – including yourself.

Who could you trust? Certainly not yourself if you were not able to quickly distinguish between those who could harm you and those who merely wanted to be with you or love you. This was particularly true if you were afraid of your family members.

You could not trust society – the bogeyman was out there waiting to take what you had or to harm you. You could not trust your family for they were continually informing you of your wrongness, “Don’t touch that. Don’t break that. Be a good girl. Be nice.” and all other phrases drummed into your being that told you over and over that you could not trust yourself to know what was right for you. That you could not be lovable if you were wrong so often.

Many of you feel your family and society were loving. That you live from your heart easily. That is well and good. But we venture to guess that even your heart has a caution sign about it alerting you to danger. Meaning you have placed layers of fear around even the most loving family history.

In the Old Age, you were taught to live a life compatible with your world of fear. You no longer need to maintain the layers of fear in your heart – whether created by you, your family or society.

Does such a thought not seem far-fetched? Perhaps you could be loving towards this person or experience, but certainly must remain cautious around that person or experience.

Not that you need to welcome a stranger into your home to prove you have nothing to fear. Merely that even those of you who feel loving continue to have rings of protection around your heart. Perhaps there is a group of people, entities, political parties, geographic parts of the world, communities, bacteria, illnesses, plants, animals, reptiles or insects you fear.

It does not matter how great or small your ring of protection is –  it is reducing your ability to love yourself.

As an infant, you were overjoyed to watch a snake slither by, or perhaps to eat a spider or you did not care about the color or culture of your playmate. All were loving, learning experiences.  All were interesting and some people and things were more interesting.

That interest was whittled away until your new interests and thoughts were processed though family/society filters. Filters that did not allow you to love openly and quickly, but rather on the basis of, “Let me test out this new entity, experience or person. If it works or feels good, I will move further into the process. If anything frightens or angers me, I will back away quickly.”

Your emotions and experiences allow you to explore a bit, but not too much without filters of right and wrong showing their ugly heads.

Many of you remember we told you to process your experiences and new earth thoughts through your inner-being. It is now time for you to just experience.

In the next few days, you will create a new being that incorporates both parent and child. A parent to nurture you and to create a new set of experience parameters. And a child open to all new experiences.

Is this concept frightening for you? Such are the limitations of your love experiences and your love for yourself.

If you cannot trust yourself to monitor and nurture yourself, who can you trust? The God out there, somewhere who allows you to feel fearful – or the groups that encourage you to feel pain and fear?

Such myths were important in the Old Age when your direction and feelings were created outside yourself. It is time to negate those Old Age thoughts and to once again be the infant who knows that eating a ladybug will produce a new experience – good or bad.

Do you have the ability to know right from wrong?

Right and wrong were removed from the new earth as of this year. You are infants of the new earth in terms of exploration. At the same time, you are adults knowing what is right or wrong for you – not anyone else – for you.

Allow yourself to explore unhindered by your former earth experiences in this life or others. Allow yourself to love yourself – which is only possible once you remove Old Age filters from your heart. Allow yourself to be in innocence – and maturity.  An earth being never before experienced.

You are both the naive infant – soaking up the nuances of life through every cell every day you are alive – and the mature parent who knows when to rush into an experience and when to pull back.

There is nothing truly evil on earth or in the Universes. Merely experiences you wish to explore – good or bad in your current belief patterns. And neutral in Universal terms.

Know that you are wise enough to know the difference. You no longer need your society create parameters of rightness and wrongness. You are your own mature monitor. And that which will give you joy is but a decision away.

Will you move to those pieces of joy that help you sparkle inside and out – or to those established by your family and society that ensure you live in fear? So be it. Amen.

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November 5, 2013 at 11:41 am 60 comments


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