Between Comfort Zones and Fear

November 18, 2013 at 10:05 am 59 comments

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Summary of Brenda’s November 9, 2013 free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffmanYour assignment, if you so choose, is to create a vehicle that feels right in preparation for travels to distant places.

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for  http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com: “Recreating Your Physical Body – and Lifespan”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” BlogTalkRadio.com show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Many of you feel as if you are in a murky soup of gloom. As if all you thought you achieved, is not valid. Such is not the case. This is a time of destruction of all that is familiar. But then, this information is not new to you – even though learning it and living it are two different issues.

You assumed you would move from fear and pain to joy with a few adventures into the darker recesses of your being. Such is true, just not as you expected. You did not factor in your 3D fears. You are destroying your 3D being without full knowledge of your new being, so you understandably revert to known fears of yesterday.

Those fears are not based in reality.

Perhaps an apt analogy is deciding to expedite your French language skills by moving to France. Even though you were comfortable in your United States French language classes, now that you live in France it is difficult to quickly remember the phrases you need in day-to-day life. But within a few months of total language immersion, you find yourself speaking, dreaming and living comfortably in a French-speaking world.

Such is happening to you now. You do not understand the nuances of the new you, nor your new world. Some days you feel as if you belong and others as if you are a stranger in a new land. Do not fret. You will soon feel as if the new earth is the right place for you.

This transition is a learning process. It is physically and emotionally impossible for you to shift every part of your being while living a somewhat 3D life within a shifting earth – and not experience at least a few fears.

You are expecting more of yourself than is logical. Your inner and outer worlds are transitioning at warp speed. Allow yourself to know and experience that thought. You will be comfortable. You will feel joy in totality – just perhaps not today or tomorrow.

You are more than halfway to your new being. So you are thinking – perhaps even acting – as a new being, but you still have at least a few difficulties with day-to-day activities. Sometimes you react as a 3D being and sometimes as your new being. Not truly comfortable in either mode.

You see and sense the joy, but sometimes it feel so illusive you cannot understand why you are even trying. At other times, you fear your fears for you thought you had moved beyond that point. All in all, you often feel as if you are a new earth failure. Yet, you have  no interest in returning permanently to your 3D life.

Granted, you return to 3D thoughts in your sleep and wake states when your new earth senses do not seem to apply, but you no longer wish to live in a 3D world. You are between comfort zones – your greatest fear – conscious or subconscious.

You have negated those friends, relatives and co-workers who made you uncomfortable. You have chanted and meditated about your physical being. You have completed every new earth task you could – and yet, the totality of your new world remains illusive.

Do not feel as if you are a slow learner or that you were duped. All is well. Merely that you have landed in France and do not yet feel fully comfortable with the language or culture. You will.

And those you are interacting with are feeling much the same. It is as if a group of Australians landed in a place where the natives do not understand the ramifications of their land, nor that of the strangers.

All are feeling the oddness of this new earth.

Perhaps Europe after World War II is another apt analogy. In 1946, most of Europe was in ruins with no central government, few habitable homes, few crops to harvest and millions of people wondering from place to place trying to find their people and new homes. Total chaos – and then it was not. It is difficult to even envision what that world must have been like. Yet, you lightly skip over that period. World War II ended and reconstruction began is how most history books cover that time. The fears, anger, retaliation, lost families, governments and homes are not discussed in any detail. So it will be for you.

You are feeling some of the same lost hopeless feeling that was true of those in Europe after WWII. Nothing is the same. You have a blank slate to create anew, but sometimes you are too tired to care. You just want to feel joy and comfort.

You do not want to read one more new earth “how to.” You do not want anyone telling you how different you are – nor do you want to feel that. You just want to be comfortable again. And so you shall be – sooner than you now think possible, but not today.

Today is for creating your being anew. So you are. A being that will not feel comfortable in any 3D zone. Such necessitates tearing down your defenses, your boundaries, your comfort zones. So you are. Step by step – like salmon swimming upstream.

You know you need to do something – even if you do not always wish to do so – but you do not yet quite understand why. Your only directive is your dream of moving into joy. Much as those in Europe found food and shelter before they had the energy or need to create new governments.

You are in the process of creating your inner-being shelter and comfort. Unless you have an inner urgency to do so, allow your outer world to float for a bit while you adjust to your new being. Your new world will be created as we outlined. But for now, nurture yourself and allow your being to adjust to the new you before you go into the streets to create your new world. So be it. Amen.

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  • 1. Chyau Inn // Portia  |  November 18, 2013 at 10:17 am

    Reblogged this on .

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  • 4. MaryAnn Fry  |  November 18, 2013 at 10:22 am

    Thank you. I feel this deeply.

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    • 5. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 18, 2013 at 10:33 am

      Hi Mary Ann,
      I’m guessing most of us do.
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 6. Phil  |  November 18, 2013 at 11:02 am

    Oooh, How I needed that one – although I always feel at my core that I knew this already! Part of the great remembering I guess
    Thank you so much Brenda. Love to you and every single one of us.

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    • 7. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 18, 2013 at 11:56 am

      Hi Phil,
      I know. Isn’t it an interesting sensation when we find something we already know somewhere within us but have just forgotten? Ahas big and small are some of my favorite pieces of this transition.
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 8. mirinthia  |  November 18, 2013 at 12:10 pm

    Hello my dear CS Brenda-
    LOL….Soooooo looking forward to being fluent in 5D.
    Thank you for the timely info.
    Love, Mirinthia

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  • 10. Barb  |  November 18, 2013 at 2:23 pm

    Wow Brenda, so timely once again. It’s sometimes confusing when I sense these grand “future” elements yet I’m still struggling with some basic present ones, and these analogies are great. In between two worlds, indeed!

    I personally feel the strong need for some external change right now, but having it on the level of new basics vs. the whole package at once is fine. I think I might have been holding back, fearing it would all happen in a flood — or that I had to be ready for everything at once — and I’m *not* prepared for that, given the wobbles and changes still going on inside. The outer mirrors the inner, or vice versa, or whatever!

    Thanks so much for this validating message and the great images to explain where we are now. It’s a great help.

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    • 11. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 18, 2013 at 3:44 pm

      Hey Barb,
      From my channels and so many others, I don’t think any of us are really ready for the entire package – even though that’s my style “Let’s just get it over with and then deal with it.”

      Looks like we’re in the midst of a respite/nurture period until the next big energy burst. Whew. Whole lot of shifting going on.
      Blessings, Love, Sparkles and Peace,
      Brenda

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  • 12. Lady Pinkrose  |  November 18, 2013 at 3:05 pm

    I am quietly laughing as write this I do. Just yesterday I said out loud in a “desperate moment”, ……. “OMG! I just want to feel and BE normal!” And then I stopped, for I didn’t even know how to begin to define normal. I haven’t been normal my whole life through. And to start now? Not going to happen.

    Yes, Brenda, I truly am a foreigner in a foreign land. Today I feel more grounded, and really good about me, for yesterday, I chose to let go an area of my life that needed letting go of. I found myself close to hysteria, asking “but how?”

    I took a walk. And in the walk, I just let go. I cannot explain it any other way then that. And boy oh boy, did the “Universe” ever give me SO many clues, that the decision I made to let go, truly was the Highest One. (I wrote that experience at Petals Unfolding today) 🙂

    This time is all about finding out what works, what doesn’t work, and all the in-between.

    Hhehehehehehehe Are we having fun yet? Thank you, Brenda, for a message that I truly enJOYed reading. And oh, yes, absolutely without a doubt, do relate to. The energy that comes through your messages is very on the level where I am at. Bless you!

    With JOY and Love,
    Amy
    http://www.herladypinkrose.wordpress.com

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    • 13. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 18, 2013 at 3:39 pm

      Hi Amy,
      What I continuously find so amazing is that so many of us are at the same place at the same or similar time and yet each has a unique path. We really are outstanding project/transition coordinators aren’t we? So glad you were able to say and feel, “out damned spot” – to badly quote Shakespeare.
      Blessings, Light, Love and a Gentle Peace,
      Brenda

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      • 14. Lady Pinkrose  |  November 18, 2013 at 3:51 pm

        Gentle Peace to you as well, Brenda. There seems to be a “big” shift today. Even my cats are chilling. 🙂 JOY! Amy

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      • 15. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 18, 2013 at 4:48 pm

        Hey Amy,
        Yay to chillin!
        Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
        Brenda

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  • 16. timbush222  |  November 18, 2013 at 8:05 pm

    So helpful for me to hear this Brenda. I feel better knowing it was not just me. I felt that it would never end and the travel back to where I came from was frightening! At least it felt like a travel back there. I am glad it is just an adjustment phase and I do feel deep down that we are all in a learning and growing phase of re-calibration.

    Thank you!

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    • 17. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 18, 2013 at 10:05 pm

      Hi Timbush,
      No it’s not just you – it’s us. We’re all in this together – and we’re all trying to figure it out. Sometimes we do and sometimes it feels as if we’re in a fog. What constantly amazes me is that even though we have unique paths to a common goal, we often have similar thoughts and senses along the way. We really are “learning and in a re-calibration stage” Kind of like in puberty when 13 year-olds act like adults one moment and like little children the next – trying to discover who they are in their new body with new sensations.
      Blessings, Love and Hugs,
      Brenda

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  • 18. yogaleigh  |  November 18, 2013 at 8:16 pm

    Another one that’s just what I needed to hear!

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    • 19. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 18, 2013 at 10:07 pm

      Hey YogaLeigh,
      Yay for us all allowing ourselves to grow and shift without shoulds or have tos.
      Blessings, Love and Hugs,
      Brenda

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    • 21. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 19, 2013 at 8:54 am

      Hi Lucas!
      Thank you yet again for re-blogging on Lucas2012infos.WordPress.com
      Blessings, Love and Hugs,
      Brenda

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  • 22. YL Chin  |  November 19, 2013 at 8:01 am

    I wouldn’t mind a new world, new place, new life for my Christmas present………

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    • 23. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 19, 2013 at 8:55 am

      Hi YL Chin,
      What a good idea. Santa????
      Blessings and Love,
      Brenda

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      • 24. YL Chin  |  November 20, 2013 at 3:14 am

        Yeap. And I’m very serious about that present. I want it all!

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      • 25. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 20, 2013 at 8:32 am

        Hi YL Chin,
        Go for it.
        Blessings and Love,
        Brenda

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  • 26. beloved  |  November 19, 2013 at 1:05 pm

    yup, warp speed, yup, new earth failure, yup. I gotta laugh when i catch myself in the act of self rejection or doubt. 😛

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    • 27. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 19, 2013 at 4:02 pm

      Hi Beloved,
      Yup – ya gotta!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And I do too.
      Blessings, Sparkles and Love,
      Brenda

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  • 28. Mary  |  November 19, 2013 at 1:26 pm

    lol ~ I immediately heard the song “Lost in France’ in my head Brenda! 😀 Do you remember it?

    Oh what fun It All Is
    Weeeeeeeeeeee 😀

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    • 29. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 19, 2013 at 4:10 pm

      Hey Mary,
      I don’t remember that song but songs running in my head happens to me so often. Saw the musical Anything Goes this weekend and that’s the song at the top of my head chart right now! And yes I agree – what fun it is.

      The BlogTalk show I did today suggested we create the perfect Thanksgiving – the beach, family, friends, reading a good book in our senses. Play with creation crayons and paints in our mind like children who know they can redo their picture whenever they want. Bet your perfect Thanksgiving would have lots of music in the background..or maybe you would be in a Broadway play. Playtime!!!!!!!!!!
      Love Brenda

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      • 30. mirinthia  |  November 19, 2013 at 4:29 pm

        For your pleasure, here are the links to both songs

        Lost in France- Lyrics Bonnie Tyler

        Anything Goes

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      • 31. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 19, 2013 at 5:53 pm

        Hi Mirinthia/CS,
        What an absolutely loving thing to do. Have company arriving tomorrow so haven’t had much extra time today. Thank you for introducing me to Lost in France and helping me relive memories of Anything Goes!
        Blessings, Sparkles and Fun,
        Brenda

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      • 32. mirinthia  |  November 19, 2013 at 6:10 pm

        I clapped with joy after seeing the Anything Goes video.

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      • 33. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 19, 2013 at 7:23 pm

        Hi CS,
        You should have seen the entire production direct from Broadway. After Sunday night performance, Anything Goes was placed in a Broadway vault until the next rendition – possibly decades from now. Seeing it live is one of the things I’m grateful for.
        Love Brenda

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      • 34. mirinthia  |  November 19, 2013 at 7:44 pm

        Hi CS,
        I am grateful just to have seen the video. I can only imagine how wonderful the entire production was.
        Sending you Blessings of LOVE for all your wonderful posts. You are a gift to the Universe.
        Love, Mirinthia

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      • 35. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 19, 2013 at 10:29 pm

        Hi Mirinthia,
        I’m just so grateful for the Internet. Just think how lonely we would be if we couldn’t share our fears, concerns, joy, fun and love during this transition. I’ve thought for years that the Internet was created in our lifetime to help build communities without walls during this transition….and expedite the processes.
        Blessings, Love and Sparkles.
        Brenda

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      • 36. Mary  |  November 20, 2013 at 1:13 pm

        Oh my! Thank you so much for posting those two videos Mirinthia ~ I thoroughly enjoyed them both. You had me singing & dancing in my ‘puter chair! 😀

        Fun! 😀

        Love hugs & sparkles to you Brenda & everyOne!

        xoxoxo

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      • 37. mirinthia  |  November 20, 2013 at 2:38 pm

        Hi Mary, I was also dancing in my computer chair.
        XXOO

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      • 38. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 21, 2013 at 9:34 am

        Hi Mary!
        Dancing right along with you – added Proud Mary Tina Turner version!
        Blessings, Sparkles and Love,
        Brenda

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  • 39. AwakeningtoThePinkRayofLove  |  November 20, 2013 at 10:37 am

    Reblogged this on Awakening to The Pink Ray of Love.

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    • 40. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 21, 2013 at 9:32 am

      Thank you so much for re-blogging on Awakening to The Pink Ray of Love.wordpress.com

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      • 41. AwakeningtoThePinkRayofLove  |  November 21, 2013 at 9:40 am

        Love your blog

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      • 42. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 22, 2013 at 10:48 am

        Hi Awakening to the PinkRay of Love,
        Thank you. This was one of my favorite channels too. Sharing my channels with others is one of my great joys.
        Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
        Brenda

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  • 43. Mary  |  November 20, 2013 at 1:18 pm

    Oh my! Thank you so much for posting those two videos Mirinthia ~ I thoroughly enjoyed them both. You had me singing & dancing in my ‘puter chair! 😀

    Fun! 😀

    Love hugs & sparkles to you Mirinthia, Brenda, & everyOne!

    xoxoxo

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  • 44. Mary  |  November 20, 2013 at 1:21 pm

    Sorry folks ~ my post seems to have appeared twice ~ and I don’t know how to delete one of them!?! Oh well

    xoxoxo

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    • 45. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 21, 2013 at 9:36 am

      Hey Mary,
      Not to worry – I’ve done the same several times PLUS reminders to play and dance is never bad!!!!!!!!!
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 48. franheal  |  November 21, 2013 at 4:19 am

    Reblogged this on franheal and commented:
    Thank you Brenda…wonderful ♥

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    • 49. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 21, 2013 at 10:58 am

      Hi Fran,
      Thank you so much for re-blogging on FranHeal.Wordpress.com!
      Blessings, Sparkles and Love,
      Brenda
      PS Have a guest this week so lots going on.

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  • 50. avalongrailcode  |  November 21, 2013 at 7:04 am

    Brilliantly accurate and so reassuring – thank you so much! ❤

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    • 51. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 21, 2013 at 11:00 am

      Dear AvalonGrialCode,
      I’m so glad my channel resonated for/with you. So many of us are experiencing these roller-coaster emotions.
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 52. Leslie  |  November 21, 2013 at 8:55 am

    Thank you so much Brenda. You had me at “murky soup of gloom”! This is exactly how I feel right now, and I’ve even used the post WWll analogy as well. It’s so good to know I’m not the only one. Really looking forward to moving back into Joy…I know it’s there somewhere but is so frustratingly elusive to me now. Hopefully not too much longer…..
    With love,
    Les

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    • 53. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 21, 2013 at 11:08 am

      Hi Leslie,
      Aren’t the number of emotions we experience weekly/sometimes daily absolutely amazing? I’m thinking that these dramatic shifts are wonderful indicators that something is happening. And I’m constantly amazed how we’re all willing to move through whatever is required to return to love of self and others. We really are a courageous lot.
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda
      PS Also amazed at how deeply ingrained our Old Age fear perceptions are. YAY to us all for creating a new world in a 3D environment despite all.

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  • 54. Lionheart  |  November 21, 2013 at 4:37 pm

    Hi Brenda,

    Your messages have resonated me many times already, but this time I I found it specially comforting. And I want to thank you for that! ❤ I didnt know I was looking for one, but this week or at least these couple of days has been crappy, not entirely bad, but unpleasant. I have felt sudden doubts crawling back to me, emptiness as well. Where am I, indeed that is the question!

    I Know this will pass, but its like I'm little bit lost and sad at the moment and somewhat estranged as well. I know have made a lot of clearance so I'm awake! And have enjoyed my ride here in its every aspect. So this sharing I hope helps me make peace with myself today as well this makes me feel good. And to remind me big time You all are and We all here. 🙂 so I wish to pass my light on….

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    • 55. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 22, 2013 at 10:40 am

      Hi LionHeart,
      Thank you so much for sharing your light – despite feelings of sadness. How loving. Please remember to nurture yourself too!!!

      So many of us have felt the emotional ups and downs as we move closer to our goal of love and joy. Doesn’t it sometimes feel as if we’re clearing, clearing, clearing? My thought is the deeper we go into this transition, the more we find we WANT to remove. But consciously the resulting emotional upheaval don’t always seem logical. Again – we’re such terribly courageous entities.
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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      • 56. Lady Pinkrose  |  November 22, 2013 at 10:58 am

        Hi, Brenda! Did you by any chance read Denise LeFay’s latest article? It helped me tremendously to understand. As she says, and I agree, we all thought wrong. I thought the higher I go on the “ascension staircase” the easier it will become. If anything, just the opposite is true.

        We either are seriously deranged for what we chose to do or our tremendously brave. Haven’t quite made up my mind which one it is. 🙂

        This is the second time I am sending this. SO if you see this twice you know why. I was told on my end it was never sent. Hehehehehehehe Which is a perfect setup for what I wished to share with you all here. God knows! I had to think of a GOOD reason for what is happening lately! So, I thought, and I thought some more, and my “pearls began to talk to me”. Hehehehehe And this is what I concluded: http://herladypinkrose.wordpress.com/2013/11/21/the-irritant-factor/

        Love you! Hang in there, everybody!

        Love, Amy

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      • 57. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 22, 2013 at 11:35 am

        Hi Amy,
        Haven’t had a chance to read – waaaaaaaaaaaaaay (like 100’s of emails) behind on emails. A friend is visiting so won’t be able to catch up until next week. I know we’re tremendously brave.
        Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
        Brenda

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  • 58. Akinomlightworker  |  November 23, 2013 at 6:19 am

    Hi Brenda,
    I am appreciating your blog from the deepest part of my heart. Two days ago I had a channeling from a high Being. I was told, that I have not made a decision – actively deciding to go the new era path – because I still doubt my worth and do not love myself enough to be worthy on the path. I had to process this a couple of days, feeling that I am the last entity on earth to get ‘IT’. It affected my whole emotional body, my spirit, couldn’t get into meditating, didn’t feel the energies etc. Then, reading your blog with relief I realize that my ‘response’ is being fed from my old belief system and couldn’t translate the information from the High Source and see it as the gift to shift old hang-ups, because I am lacking the new vocabulary (‘French’) and the new and unfamiliar ‘culture’. Thank you so very much for your encouragement and the pictorial. It makes so much sense to me and stops me in my tracks of self-pity, and getting on with walking blindly but in faith in this new World. After all – being a baby boomer generation girl – I surely have waited all my life for this dream come true.
    Akinom.

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    • 59. lifetapestrycreations  |  November 23, 2013 at 7:38 am

      Dear Monika,
      From many of my past channels and other channels, you wouldn’t be interested in these materials if you hadn’t selected new earth and joy. I’m just so sorry you doubted yourself – but as another Baby Boomer I know how difficult it is to overcome those beliefs and perceptions we’ve followed for decades.

      YAY to you for remembering you are a loving, capable, skilled Lightworker despite what your ego tried to tell you!
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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