Get Over Yourself – Accept Joy

July 22, 2014 at 1:57 pm 47 comments

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Summary of Brenda’s July 18, 2014 channeled, free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at  http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman: Those of you who cleared your core fear in the past few days will discover that your next big piece is expecting and accepting joy. A seemingly easy task until you attempt to do so.

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for  www.LifeTapestryCreations.com: “What’ and ‘Why’ – New Earth Clearing Tools”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Many fear outcomes despite moving beyond the need to do so. You expect the same result true for this lifetime – before your transition – and many, if not all, previous lifetimes. It is as if someone has gifted you millions of dollars and you wonder when it will be taken away. Or you gamble with your winnings believing it does not matter, as all will be gone soon.

Then, there are those who will relish and enjoy the gifted millions – without embarrassment or apologies.

And so it is that you are at a belief crossroads. Do you truly believe in this transition? Or have you merely been voicing your belief in joy, but maintaining fears deep within you?

Perhaps you feel such is unfair for you have suffered for eons for the core belief embedded deep within you and just learned a few days ago what that core belief was – so you need more processing time.

In the 3D world you are most familiar with, you indeed would require and be allowed more time, But this is now, this is new earth. It is time to get ‘over yourself’ You have a beacon of light within you that you promised the Universes to shine. 

That last statement appears to be yet another care taking role and so it is. Only this time, you are care taking yourself. Quite different from past eons when you were at the end of the care taking line. Everyone – parents, children, spouses, friends, community, country – came first. Do you understand that few wars would have been possible if self interests were culturally acceptable?

Perhaps you are thinking we are advising you to be selfish. We are. For once in this life and many others, determine who you are and what you need. 

In the Old Age, lines were drawn. Take care of women, children, country, anyone deemed less powerful than you – and finally you.

Who determined what groups were less powerful or more needy?

Is it not true that only in the past 100 years or so in modern history, women were allowed to experience similar risks, jobs and activities as men? In past centuries were not seven-year-old children – both male and female – considered adults? Have not several female dominated cultures been discovered by archaeologists? Are there not countries who refuse participate in wars?

And yet, you continue believe that current culturally accepted and dominant behavior patterns are cast in stone.

When did those aforementioned cultural patterns change and why? What did those patterns represent that do not require representation in your current life? If changes occurred throughout earth history and were accepted and followed, why can you not believe that you can easily now live in joy?

You do not need to live in joy if you would rather not – but why not? The Universes – and you – are gifting you with love and abundance. It is time to accept and believe. Believing means knowing without a doubt that the pain of yesterday is no more. 

You can fight and argue to live your pain/Old Age beliefs, but joy is here. Maintaining your pain belief is no different from continuing to believe horses are the most important means of transportation even though automobiles, airplanes and trains are readily available.

Shift you thinking process from that of pain to pleasure. Not because you have to – but why would you not want to? 

Perhaps you feel you must accept pleasure. Such is the case for different reasons than you now perhaps imagine.

In past eons, you were forced to accept the beliefs best for society – at any cost to your person hood.

You are now accepting joy because of your person hood. Perhaps it will help you to think of this as a reading or math lesson you might not be particularly like, but something you must complete before progressing to more advanced studies.

For indeed, if you do not accept joy/pleasure/self-love; and the same is true for the next person and the next and the next – your life will remain in a fear mode. Earth and all other earth entities are shifting – whether or not you appreciate that. And it is time for human entities to fully accept their role in this amazing transition.

Even though you do not have to accept your new life of joy, you will be truly out-of-step with your world if you do not. And you will live in fear and pain far beyond the time you need to.

You have completed your fear lessons. You have cleansed – and exited your cocoon. Now allow yourself to accept and yes, enjoy the fruits of your labor.

Accept the Universal gifts being showered upon you. Accept joy, despite old indicators that you need to fear something.

Allow yourself to move beyond first grade. You no longer need to read those painfully boring Dick and Jane books. You can read whatever genre is of interest to you – as long as it is not frightening or painful. Those chapters of your life are long gone.

Accept and allow yourself to grow in the joy of your being. That is your Universal beacon of love and light – closely observed by those pondering whether to follow you.

Allow yourself to be in this new earth.

Accept that you are as powerful as you sometimes now imagine. Your new roles are in joyful drama and comedies. Your in-depth frightening and depressing dramas have successfully been completed. So be it. Amen 

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  • 3. soulspeak2013  |  July 22, 2014 at 2:51 pm

    Reblogged this on At the Table, On my Plate and commented:
    such A BEAUTIFUL MESSAGE OF VALIDATION!!!!

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    • 4. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 22, 2014 at 3:09 pm

      Thank you so much SoulSpeak for reblogging my channel on At the Table, On My Plate SoulSpeak2013.WordPress.com

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  • 5. soulspeak2013  |  July 22, 2014 at 3:01 pm

    Namaste’ and beautiful day dear star sister!!♥ Yesterday, as I walked in gratitude, I “knew” that I was in a new way of walking. I entered a brand new path never before witnessed this lifetime. I AM free of the baggage..no more carry on for me!!! It truly was a monumental awareness and in observing the vibration, I realized I am fully involved already, in creating those magnificent echoes of future Now days ahead, there truly is NO LOOKING BACK. As there really is no longer a “past” path. WOW! So then of course here comes your GLORIOUS message and I just became electric!! I have been in such JOY and Gratitude since completely exiting my cocoon…(2 days ago now) What a Grand adventure on the Horizon..Immense LOVE and Blessings for the adventure of your Life!!! IN JOY xoxo

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    • 6. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 22, 2014 at 3:11 pm

      Hi SoulSpeak/Star Sister!
      YAY for daring to move into joy. No looking back, no fearful dramas indeed!
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 7. mirinthia  |  July 22, 2014 at 4:29 pm

    Hello my CS Brenda-
    What a Beautiful blog!!!
    Blessings of LOVE, Kathleen

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    • 8. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 22, 2014 at 6:30 pm

      Hi Kathleen/Mirinthia/CS,
      Thank you! So glad it was right for you.
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 9. Amanda  |  July 22, 2014 at 6:24 pm

    Hi Brenda~ I love the title of this…sums it up perfectly! Very timely message as well. Just had a few good things happen to me, and my first thoughts were about what could go wrong in response to these good things. It’s like that whack a mole game where the moles keep popping up and you have to keep hitting them down again. However, I need to get over myself. 🙂 Thanks Again! Amanda

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    • 10. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 22, 2014 at 6:32 pm

      Hi Amanda,
      I love that mole game!!!! But you’re so right about how we still react. I catch myself doing the same. Who would think moving into joy would require concentration!!!
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 11. ellen  |  July 22, 2014 at 6:26 pm

    Beautiful, so helpful -Thank you! ❤

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  • 13. elizabethsadhu  |  July 22, 2014 at 6:43 pm

    Beautiful dearest Brenda, just beautiful!! I love the synchronicities! I have been writing a lot about joy in my blog posts recently. These are mostly channeled and partially me, which my guides say is from them. So we are all together in it.

    This particular post is called “Find your life of joy” and there is another one I am reminded of called “What boat are you on?”

    http://elizabethsadhu.com/uncategorized/1064/

    http://elizabethsadhu.com/uncategorized/a-sadhu-shares-9/

    love love love to you!!!!!

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    • 14. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 23, 2014 at 4:31 pm

      Hi Sweetie,
      I’ve been reading your posts and yes they are similar messages in your words. I’m not at all surprised. Don’t you just love this transition!!!!!
      Love, Sparkles, Fun and Blessings,
      Brenda

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    • 17. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 23, 2014 at 4:33 pm

      Hey Sweetie, thank you so much for reblogging my channel on ElizabethSadhu.WordPress.Com This channel is one of my favorites!

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  • 18. Free Up Singer  |  July 22, 2014 at 7:13 pm

    Wow, did I ever need that, thank you! Tests coming fast and furious. Do you get it yet? Do you get it yet? Get over yourself! Thanks, Brenda, finding your blog sure is big-time for me, and I’m changing my name from Back Up Singer to Free Up Singer! Thanks again. Love ex-BUS, now FUS, as in stop your fussing and get over yourself!

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    • 19. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 23, 2014 at 4:36 pm

      Hi Former BUS and Now Announcing FUS!
      You make me laugh. I loved this one too – I need to get over myself!!! Amazing how we’re affected in so many similar ways by this transition – yet have unique paths.
      Blessings, Sparkles and Love,
      Brenda

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  • 20. Get Over Yourself – Accept Joy! | emboldenedheart  |  July 22, 2014 at 7:23 pm

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    • 21. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 23, 2014 at 4:37 pm

      Thank you so much for reblogging my channel on EmboldenedHeart.WordPress.com

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  • 22. Mary Chisholm  |  July 22, 2014 at 7:32 pm

    Hi Brenda: About 10 yrs ago I was diagnosed with Type 2 diabetes and of course high blood pressure. In 2012, I had a heart attack shortly after I had to euthanize my beloved mare Chinook. I have followed the Kryon work for some time and fiercely BELIEVED that my body would, not only heal but be enhanced. In the past few months I’ve been reducing and stopping several medications for the above issues…because, s-l-o-w-l-y the light body is emerging and bit by bit each day I KNOW that my DIVINE IS being revealed. So yes, I believe, and I have all the proof I need. I also fiercely believe in this process both within me and all around me, despite the horrors on the news. I Am way past the tipping point, even on days that truly challenge me…what a ride! Nameste to all the beautiful old souls on this and other blogs….even on my truly bitchy days! ❤ ❤ ❤ 😉

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    • 23. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 23, 2014 at 4:42 pm

      Hi Mary,
      Mary that’s absolutely wonderful. Thank you for shining your light so brightly – and sharing with us.

      So many have reached the tipping point – which is absolutely wonderful. Now some – including me some days – have to believe that such is true. What a lesson. Way, way better than chemistry lessons! My husband is also greatly reducing meds and is healing in so many areas.
      Blessings, Sparkles and Love,
      Brenda

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  • 24. Pragti  |  July 22, 2014 at 11:40 pm

    Really needed this on Brenda. The grounds seem a bit shaky at the moment 🙂
    Thanks and hugs !

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    • 25. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 23, 2014 at 4:48 pm

      Hi Pragti,
      According to the messages I’ve received from so many others – you’re not alone. This week tested my resolve also. We’re experimenting with our new processes – more cumbersome than we anticipated, like learning new computer software.
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 26. ohnwentsya  |  July 23, 2014 at 1:19 am

    Reblogged this on Spirit In Action and commented:
    Thank you Brenda! What a wonderful perspective. Especially in the midst of all the violence and horror in the news. Calculated to drag down the hearts of all caring people in the opposite direction from joy.
    Emma Goldman once said”If I can’t dance, I don’t want to be part of your revolution! “. She was speaking to the Bolsheviks but her meaning applies to all agents of change.
    What kind of change do we want? Well then that’s the kind we have to live and be!
    Growing up in patriarchal colonized society, it truly is revolutionary to think that our being joyful can help create change more than our crying over the suffering and mass murder going on right now. It’s hard to grasp with our minds, but it makes sense.
    There is an old saying “A nation is never truly conquered until the hearts of its women are laying on the ground.”. Our hearts are powerful!

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    • 27. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 23, 2014 at 4:55 pm

      Hi Ohnwentsya,
      I love your quotes. I never heard Emma Goldman’s before, but feels exactly right.

      I have difficulties watching the news anymore – and I used to be a news junkie. Politics seems silly and I used to be a vocal party advocate. Switching our culture, beliefs and very being from fear to joy demands much more effort than I assumed when I first started writing about this transition in the late 80’s.

      Your summation of our transition was wonderful. Thank you.
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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      • 28. ohnwentsya  |  July 26, 2014 at 12:53 am

        Thank you Brenda! It is a lot different than it appeared back in the 80’s. Though I think maybe where we all were back then made the view a bit hazy. As we’ve unlearned so much that we thought we knew, it gets clearer-it seems that process of unlearning is still ongoing. I too am struggling with the news. As an activist I can’t ignore it totally but it takes such effort to balance the negative, the lies etc and keep my focus high frequency and always on love and solutions instead of fear and frustration with what is, or at least what is most apparent just now. I’ve always adored Emma Goldman because she never let the things wrong in the world-or even in her own experience-take away her joy, determination and spark. As a working-class activist, a lifelong blue collar worker in a time (the Gilded Age thru the Depression) when workers and activists were being killed on the job and in the streets I’m sure it would have been easy to get discouraged and worn out but she lit up the world with her faith in a better future.
        I’m so grateful to live this close to Shift rather than so early in the process!
        I think I used to read your writing in a local spiritual magazine. Did you write a regular column for a publication in Tampa Bay years ago?

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      • 29. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 26, 2014 at 11:06 am

        Hi Ohnwentsya,
        I wrote a column for the Minneapolis Twin Cities Reader in the 80s but don’t think it was carried in Florida.

        Yes, Emma was a fascinating woman – bet she was an even earlier Lightworker than those of us who began in the 70s and 80s.

        I often get mixed feelings – esp when I learn that children are injured or in harms way. That’s why I can’t follow the news anymore. Too much fear. I stopped watching horror films 40 years ago and haven’t missed them. Guess the same is happening with the news especially since I can’t always tell truth from fiction – I suppose like a horror film.

        We were in Europe during this last EU election and the news called it devastating because of this and this and this. I talked to numerous Europeans and they weren’t that concerned. And so it goes. Sex,fear and violence still sells. I can’t wait for joy to be the key selling piece.
        Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
        Brenda

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      • 30. ohnwentsya  |  July 27, 2014 at 5:02 pm

        Wow. Now I’m going to dig through my saved magazines to find where I saw your column in print:-)
        She was amazing. It’s also humbling to realize how many were in those earlier waves of lightworkers. I feel lucky to have their work to build on now!

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      • 31. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 27, 2014 at 7:14 pm

        Hi Ohnwentsya,
        I so feel the same. Shanti Gawin (sp?), Orin, Tobias and so many other wonderful channels and teachers helped me re-discover my interests and direction. How wonderful for us to have found guides, concepts decades ago – before New Age/new earth was ‘cool’
        Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
        Brenda

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    • 32. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 23, 2014 at 4:57 pm

      Thank you so much Ohnwentsya for reblogging my channel on Spirit In Action.WordPress.com

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  • 33. Tanveer Rauf  |  July 23, 2014 at 1:24 am

    “A nation is never truly conquered until the hearts of its women are laying on the ground.”. Our hearts are powerful! very powerful words and true to heart too

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    • 34. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 23, 2014 at 4:58 pm

      Hi Tanveer,
      Yes, our hearts – male and female – are so much more powerful than fear. And we’re finally remembering that such is so!
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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      • 35. Tanveer Rauf  |  July 24, 2014 at 12:08 am

        Brenda dear you are a strong woman:) every woman is and should be. God made us, the women very flexible loving caring and powerful
        love and warm regards:)

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      • 36. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 24, 2014 at 11:01 am

        Hi Tanveer,
        Yes, we Lightworkers are so powerful. I believe Universal beings always have been, but we negated our inner-strength/power to learn the lessons we wanted to learn in our dense 3D environment. Now it’s time for us to fully accept and display our beings. Isn’t that just a delightful thought – we no longer have to pretend to be “less than” we are. And Yes, in the past there have been many powerful women – given the male-dominated society they still dared to be. Now we all are allowing ourselves to be!
        Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
        Brenda

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      • 37. Tanveer Rauf  |  July 24, 2014 at 11:18 am

        we were strong we are strong. we live in man dominated society so being scared of US they have always suppressed us lol but we are aware of our wisdom and power so lets make this mother planet a peaceful beautiful harmonious place to dwell

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      • 38. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 24, 2014 at 3:02 pm

        Hi Tanveer,
        And we are transitioning from a place of fear to one of love. Joyful and peaceful love indeed!!!
        Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
        Brenda

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      • 39. Tanveer Rauf  |  July 25, 2014 at 5:44 am

        love always 🙂 hugs and regards

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      • 40. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 25, 2014 at 11:41 am

        Hi Tanveer,
        And the same to you and about you!
        Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
        Brenda

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      • 41. Tanveer Rauf  |  July 25, 2014 at 11:38 pm

        you are such a sweet gem of a person Robbin:) you know i had a net friend in Newzealand . She was a great human being. but she was a cancer patient and passed away. may her soul rest in peace. our friendship lasted many years.

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  • 42. Jamila  |  July 23, 2014 at 10:50 am

    Very Lovely Brenda!! I am living in my inner joy in the lovely city of Paris!! Nothing beats inner peace and harmony. Beautiful Post❤️

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  • 44. Angela  |  July 23, 2014 at 5:51 pm

    I’m banging my fist on the table with excitement and agreement lol 😀 Finally the pain and fear is over (clean slate). I keep feeling that I’m still in a cocoon, but it’s just a habit of thought. Time to take down the shield and be freeee! Thank you Brenda!!!

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    • 45. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 23, 2014 at 9:36 pm

      Hi Angela,
      YAY!!!! Freedom to the people! Love your line, “Keep feeling I’m still in a cocoon, but it’s just habit of thought” Perfect!
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 46. Anne  |  July 24, 2014 at 11:41 am

    Brenda, I have just received a “margins clear” report from a third traumatic skin surgery on my face. Your words come at the perfect time for me to move out of the fear. Thank you so much for your timely guidance. I felt like your writing was made just for me!
    In Joy,
    Anne

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    • 47. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 24, 2014 at 3:09 pm

      Dear Anne,
      That’s absolutely wonderful!!!!!!!!!!!! Margins clear.

      This channel was for you…and me and all those transitioning into their new peaceful and joyful life. Your message absolutely made my day.

      I hope you have people around you to help you celebrate margins clear. If not, know that I am. CELEBRATE – not only margins clear but your moving into joy. So many songs of joy floating in my head now. I feel as if we should be in a large circle dancing, clapping and laughing. YAY for you – and us Anne.
      Blessings, Love and Dancing Sparkles,
      Brenda

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