Self-Love – The New Earth Corner Stone

July 27, 2014 at 7:19 am 41 comments

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Summary of Brenda’s July 25, 2014 channeled, free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at  http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman: You’ve discovered your core fear. Now it’s time to be gifted with elements or entities – your dreams. Once again, you need to ask ‘what’ and ‘why’. Are the gifts part of your core fear or the new you? The next few days you will establish self-love – the basis of the remainder of your life in this new earth.

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for  www.LifeTapestryCreations.com: “Get Over Yourself – Accept Joy”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Let us begin with what you have been pining for for eons – the love and joy of new earth. Yet, you continue to forget or ignore the basic new earth building block – loving yourself.

Of course, you believe you love yourself – and perhaps you do to a certain extent. But do you love your body, your emotions, your very being? Or is that love saturated with, “I’m not smart enough. I’m not thin enough. I’m not healthy enough.” or any other phrase that tells you and others your love is limited to what your culture defines as perfect?

Your self-limitation talk is based on what you learned and accepted in your former 3D world and has little to do with who you are now. 

Such is so for a reason only you know…or at least knew. You are you for reasons you perhaps cannot yet understand – but you will. And you will be amazed once you learn how aptly you designed your being.

Perhaps you are tired of reading or hearing phrases such as, “Love yourself.” But please know that until you truly do – not merely voice that you do, but truly love yourself – you cannot and will not fully assume your new earth role. 

Most of your concerns about defining your new earth role are more about your ego than your true self.

Perhaps you beg to differ. You wish to save the world or help the world move into new earth. A wish no different than any care taking role. It is just on a larger scale.

You cannot save a drowning swimmer if you do not know how to swim. In a similar fashion, you cannot fully play your new earth role if you do not understand and/or accept yourself. 

Perhaps if you wish hard enough, you will lose weight, win money or find a mate. All wishes that tell you that you are not complete in yourself.

This indeed is the time to start fulfilling your dreams. But those dreams need to be clarified. Are they of your 3D ego or of your heart? So it is that you must fully understand yourself before your accept those dreams.

Perhaps such a thought makes you angry. Why must you do anything to accept your dreams/joy? Such is true. But if you accept dreams in your 3D self-contempt being, those dreams will soon not mean anything to you or new earth.

It is time to truly love you – warts and all. You created your being with all the difficulties that have been part of your 3D life for a reason. Allow yourself to accept that. And then allow yourself to accept that you will understand why in the not-too-distant future. 

But for now, focus on loving yourself and the rest will fall into place.

Perhaps you do not know how to better love yourself. You have tried nurturing yourself. You have stopped care taking those who always seem to require care taking, yet you find yourself disliking your body, intelligence level, lack of like-minded friends and on and on.

All indicators that parts of you are not complete or right in your current view.

Stop and ask your inner-being for assistance.

Even though you understand the concept of self-love, you have difficulties practicing it. Ask for assistance from your wise inner-being. Perhaps you wish to use the ‘what’ and ‘why’ concept, “What is it about myself I do not love and why?”  Perhaps you merely wish to ask for assistance and allow that assistance to redirect you.

Just know that it is time for gifts from the Universes for your new being – a being that cannot be fully developed until you love yourself. 

Now there are those who contend that such a promise is yet another carrot in your new earth life. Such is not true.

You will receive the gifts whether you love yourself more completely than is true now. The difference is that those gifts will be ego instead of self-love based.

You do not need to live in a cardboard shack to prove you are worthy of love. Instead, claim your mansion if that is who you are in your new being. For you have denied yourself your true dreams for eons by claiming those things and people your culture decided were right for you.

It is finally time to claim those gifts that are right for you – the gifts you declared important before you entered earth in this lifetime. And only you what those gifts are. So be it. Amen

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  • 1. Cristina  |  July 27, 2014 at 8:20 am

    I read this new post and tears of emotion rolling down my cheeks, perhaps by PMS (sorry, this says my old and disbelieving ego talking cynically … )
    but my Higher Self recognizes it as authentically true … not another carrot on a stick, this time not!!!
    Blesses and sparkles to you Brenda
    Cristina 😉

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    • 2. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 27, 2014 at 6:52 pm

      Hi Cristina,
      Oh I’m so pleased. Thank you for letting me know. Sometimes when I’ve completed a channel, I kind of think, “Really?” This channel felt right for me also – even though it sounded too good to be true (isn’t that just a perfect Old Age line?).
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 3. Sirian Heaven  |  July 27, 2014 at 8:22 am

    ❤ ❤ ❤

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    • 4. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 27, 2014 at 6:55 pm

      Hi Isabel,
      Love back at ya!! Plus blessings and of course, sparkles,
      Brenda

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    • 5. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 27, 2014 at 6:56 pm

      Thank you so much Isabel for reblogging my channel on SirianHeaven.WordPress.com

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  • 6. janis´¯`·.¸ʚįɞ  |  July 27, 2014 at 12:53 pm

    I love your messages, Brenda…thank you for sharing…always… ❤ 🙂

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  • 8. Zoe  |  July 27, 2014 at 1:07 pm

    Thank you thank you very much
    every message from you
    is a response to what is happening to me
    be blessed I love you
    Zoe

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    • 9. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 27, 2014 at 7:01 pm

      Hi Zoe,
      Thank you!!! Sharing my channels with others is one of my great joys.
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 10. Barb  |  July 27, 2014 at 2:37 pm

    Brenda, your messages have been resonating so strongly lately. This morning I wrote: “I accept me” in my journal — a first, I think. So much moved and opened just yesterday, and it all felt so good. Thank you for validating that this is the time of self-love and for all our dreams.

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    • 11. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 27, 2014 at 7:05 pm

      Hi Barb,
      Isn’t self-love such an odd thought? In our 3D world, we often heard the same but – at least for me – it didn’t fully resonate until the past few years. We’re undergoing such an amazing transition.
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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      • 12. Barb  |  July 28, 2014 at 3:03 am

        Exactly. I never quite understood self-love because of old 3D ego teachings that went very deep. I think I’m starting to assimilate it at last, and yes, what an amazing transition!

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      • 13. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 31, 2014 at 9:57 am

        Hi Barb,
        I didn’t get it at first either. Now I’m finding myself removing so many care taking/victim strings that I once thought were just part of being of earth. Surprising myself and others almost daily. Amazing times indeed.
        Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
        Brenda

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  • 14. yogaleigh  |  July 27, 2014 at 5:10 pm

    Reblogged this on Not Just Sassy on the Inside and commented:
    I’ve believed for so long that self love is a key component — it was lovely to read this confirmation, along with some new ideas.

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    • 15. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 27, 2014 at 7:17 pm

      Hi Yoga Leigh,
      I’m so pleased!! And thank you so much for reblogging my channel on BlueGrassNotes.WordPress.com
      Blessings, Sparkles and Love,
      Brenda

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  • 16. Forward Up Singer  |  July 27, 2014 at 7:07 pm

    Hi Brenda,

    I’m smiling big-time. A great, great message, love it and love me, warts and all. Truly things are coming together so fast now, it’s a lot of fun if somewhat exhausting. I’m napping for self-love! Love, FUS

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  • 17. Mary Chisholm  |  July 27, 2014 at 8:03 pm

    Yes, Dearest Brenda, this lesson came up for me too, this week. I got into one of my worst patterns of all…extreme self-loathing for shooting my mouth (writing posts) off! In the midst of this crisis I heard my inner, wise BEING urging me lovingly…to which I responded…”do you mean I must love even this?” Such a release I felt, like I just gave my SELF the golden key! I knew if I can love this, then I can use this experience for all the rest….ALLOW ❤ ❤ ❤

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    • 18. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 31, 2014 at 9:55 am

      Hi Mary,
      I know. I know. I’m growing in great spurts and then returning to small pieces of old talk. What an amazing and sometimes confusing time. ALLOW is perfect for me and so many others now. Thank you.
      Love Brenda

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  • 19. soulspeak2013  |  July 28, 2014 at 9:21 am

    Thank you Brenda for this beautiful message. I can remember when I JUST GOT IT 😁 Loving myself was never even thought about, in the past, and in the “old days”(haha) I was too busy speeding the love to others but neglecting me…. THEN as I of course came to know, THE MAGIC KEY has always been in self love and unconditional acceptance. Once self love began to flow the gifts came pouring in and the magic began. Everything that comes from that Love is so abundant❤ Blessings for a most glorious adventure within your world this fine day dear Star Sister🌟🌟🌟

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    • 20. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 31, 2014 at 10:07 am

      Hi Soulspeak/Star Sister,
      Isn’t it fascinating to discover how we neglected ourselves….and sometimes continue to do so? This self-love is very much a learning curve. The great news is that we’re doing it – more rapidly than we or the Universes thought possible. Let the magic begin.
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 21. soulspeak2013  |  July 28, 2014 at 9:22 am

    Reblogged this on At the Table, On my Plate and commented:
    Loving yourself unconditionally is mandatory❤❤❤

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    • 22. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 31, 2014 at 10:09 am

      Thank you so much SoulSpeak/Star Sister for reblogging this on At the Table, On my Plate SoulSpeak2013.WordPress.com

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  • 23. mirinthia  |  July 28, 2014 at 12:08 pm

    Hello Dear CS Brenda,
    Love this blog! Love these lines so much I posted them on my facebook page: “You cannot save a drowning swimmer if you do not know how to swim. In a similar fashion, you cannot fully play your new earth role if you do not understand and/or accept yourself.” ~Brenda Hoffman
    Blessings of Love,CS Kathleen/Mirinthia

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    • 24. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 31, 2014 at 10:12 am

      Hi Mirinthia/Kathleen/CS!
      I know. Isn’t it just an amazing piece once you get it? You know we’ve read about self-love for decades in self-help books, etc but somehow we just didn’t grasp the full meaning of “We’re important too” and because of our eons of self-neglect to better fit into society, we’re just starting to really practice it. Funny that self-love is something we have to mindfully address isn’t it??? And so it goes with our 3D conditioning.
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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    • 26. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 31, 2014 at 10:14 am

      Thank you so much Lucas for reblogging my channel on Lucas2012Infos.WordPress.com

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    • 28. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 31, 2014 at 10:14 am

      Thank you so much for reblogging my channel on SpiritualWarriorPath.WordPress.com

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  • 29. miecsha williamms  |  July 29, 2014 at 6:05 pm

    This is so amazing Brenda! Soul was just having this conversation with me about this. I’ve been questioning all my thoughts and majority of them I have no clue why I think them. But I definitely get this love yourself and discovering why you created your look, life, and etc the way you did. This message is so on point! I have a problem with my height and weight now I really need to discover why. I’ve lived so low and limited . All my visions of my true self are the opposite. It is work but worth it. Thank you

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    • 30. lifetapestrycreations  |  July 31, 2014 at 10:24 am

      Hi Miecsha,
      I know. So many days I catch myself not admiring a part of my body. And then, it’s back to step one, I created all for a reason. And all I’ve created has been part of my wonderful me (doesn’t that sound so self-centered in 3D terms – and doesn’t such a thought tell us how deeply enmeshed we were in 3D care taking and victimization?)

      We can finally fly into our glorious totality – we just are taking a few flight lessons now!!!!!
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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      • 31. YL  |  August 1, 2014 at 10:05 am

        I used to think that transition means that you are free from bondage and that you are free to create. Like Miecsha, I also would like to do something about what you wanna do. Come on, doesn’t anyone want to look like goddesses, tall and slim and beautiful, all-knowing and looking dignified. Ha ha. I mean this life is about exploring your creation power. Is it not? I want to create because I want to make a change in my life, to be better than where I am now. So, if I am corpulent, if I “truly” want to be thinner, why accept and not create a slimmer body? If I’m struggling to make ends meet, why accept it as it is? If I have bug teeth, I should accept them? As we go along this journey, it seems that there are limits to what I can create or maybe not?? No wonder none of my creations have manifested. Sob sob sob……….

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      • 32. lifetapestrycreations  |  August 1, 2014 at 3:31 pm

        Hi YL,
        There are no limitations. But we’re all learning how to create so sometimes it feels like baby steps when in truth the Universes have said in so many ways that we’re evolving at warp speed.
        Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
        Brenda

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  • 33. franheal  |  July 31, 2014 at 1:08 pm

    Beautiful, Brenda. Thank you! Sending Love. ❤️

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  • 36. Elizabeth Sadhu  |  July 31, 2014 at 10:58 pm

    Oh my gosh, dearest Brenda! How did I miss this one? My most favorite subject and obsession. Loved it. And of course, as we are ALL ONE, I have been blogging about this subject also.

    This is beautiful!

    I have been saying for years, “how can I love my neighbor as myself, if I don’t love myself?”

    Aren’t we all amazing and awesome beings????

    http://elizabethsadhu.com/blog-2/

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    • 37. lifetapestrycreations  |  August 1, 2014 at 3:28 pm

      Hi Sweetie,
      Yes we are amazing and awesome beings – remembering how to love ourselves after eons of neglect and care taking others.
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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    • 39. lifetapestrycreations  |  August 1, 2014 at 3:29 pm

      Thank you so much Sweetie for reblogging my channel on ElizabethSadhu.WordPress.com

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