Are You Gifting Everyone But You?

December 21, 2014 at 9:26 am 17 comments


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Summary of Brenda’s December 19, 2014 free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at  “Is that all there is?” might be your theme this holiday season. Your new 3D segments don’t understand holidays to the depth you do after decades of celebrating. Your new totality is somewhat bored by holiday expectations – and much more interested in dimension hopping, frequency shifts and time travel than the required roles of the season. You know deep within your being that you no longer require special days with special rituals created by your 3D world to feel love and joy.

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for “Saviors are SO Yesterday” 

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

This holiday season may be difficult for you. Not because you are not filled with love, but that society dictates what you should feel and do.

This is likely the last holiday season that 3D shoulds invade your being to this extent.

Some of you have moved beyond expectations and rituals created in your 3D world. Others of you continue to struggle with a continuum of shoulds from: “I wish I could share this loving season with someone.” to “Why do I play roles I don’t believe in?”

It is not bad or wrong to express love during this season – if you truly feel it. But to create sensations just because you should is confusing for many. You have moved beyond most of your 3D shoulds and beliefs and yet, this season pushes you into your old life.

This is indeed a wonderful season for love is expressed and shared in many ways. But this season lasts just a few days. The societal message is that you should turn on a love button during this season and not be that concerned or interested in love the remainder of the year.

Perhaps this is a harsh assessment for some. For you love the holiday baking, shopping, tree trimming, candle lighting and loving get-togethers.

Yet, love does not reign for others during this season. You feel a duty to bake, cook, decorate, purchase, gather with family and friends, maintain your 3D existence, as well as adjust to Universal shifts. It is too much. You are on overload and cannot wait until the holidays pass. You are not sharing a loving experience, you are merely sharing another 3D work experience. You should do this, feel that and remember everyone but yourself.

It is time to also gift yourself.

Perhaps such is not possible this year for you have already committed beyond your energy levels. This is the last year you will do so. For the shifts of the next few months will pull you further from 3D thoughts and obligations.

You have recently welcomed new segments into your being who wish to experience your 3D world. By doing so, the remainder of you is better able to play with new frequencies, time travel and dimension hopping.

By this time next year, your 3D segments will have adapted to new you and there will be little need to feed the shoulds of your 3D world.

But for now, for this year, your new 3D segments are confused and dismayed. They are not certain how they should act – pieces of this holiday season do not seem harmonious. Why are you expected to give money to others during this season and neglect them the remainder of the year? Are you giving gifts, time, energy and money because you should or because you feel joy doing so?

Your new 3D segments are bathed in love. So this ‘hit or miss’ holiday season does not compute for them.

And as the remainder of new you is called back into your 3D being to explain and coach, you are frustrated and not a little angry. The net effect is not necessarily one of joy, but of shoulds and have tos.

Such is not true for all. For indeed, many of you have cut back or cut down on your holiday festivities. Others of you have designated this time to share love.

But to believe that as a loving soul you must give and give, is to revert to 3D thinking – where giving is divine and receiving is selfish.

The new you – including your new 3D segments – wishes to share love.

Even though for some such has always been their holiday experience, many find themselves so exhausted, financially depleted or angry that it is not a season of love, but a season of shoulds. Give. Give. Give.

Few have yet addressed the complete continuum of giving and receiving.

But then, this is most likely your last year of emphasizing giving and ignoring or negating receiving. Claim yourself and your worth. And so you shall more and more with every passing day.

This holiday season is the cap as it were, the closure of 3D shoulds you have accepted for so long. So be it. Amen. If you would like to receive Brenda’s free blogs when posted, please click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her blog and subscribe page and then click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation.

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17 Comments Add your own

  • 1. Oracles and Healers  |  December 21, 2014 at 1:38 pm

    Reblogged this on Oracles and Healers.


    • 2. lifetapestrycreations  |  December 22, 2014 at 10:10 am

      Thank you so much Ron for reblogging my channel on Oracles and and as many sparkles as you want or need this season!!!!

      Liked by 1 person

      • 3. Oracles and Healers  |  December 22, 2014 at 12:47 pm

        Sparkles and hugs back. Have a marvelous time!


  • 4. soulspeak2013  |  December 21, 2014 at 5:21 pm

    Reblogged this on At the Table, On my Plate and commented:
    This is so true for me


    • 5. lifetapestrycreations  |  December 22, 2014 at 10:12 am

      Thank you so much for reblogging my channel on At the Table, On my Plate and sparkles forever!

      Liked by 1 person

    • 6. lifetapestrycreations  |  December 22, 2014 at 10:15 am

      Hi SoulSpeak,
      I’m finding my self much less interested in the hupla of this season than ever before. And I’ve always questioned why opening our heart is pretty much only emphasized during this holiday season. To the new us!
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,

      Liked by 1 person

  • 7. Rhonda  |  December 21, 2014 at 6:37 pm

    Wow!!! My life exactly! I have felt this way for many years now but this year is almost unbearable! It just makes no sense to me and my frustration level at having to deal with it all is exhausting! Thanks for your great work.


    • 8. lifetapestrycreations  |  December 22, 2014 at 10:18 am

      Hi Rhonda,
      YAY for recognizing before so many others that this season is filled with 3D shoulds. And thank you for being a beacon before you knew you were!
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,


  • 9. Mary Chisholm  |  December 21, 2014 at 9:22 pm

    My hubby and I have said so many times how grateful we are that we have no one to ‘entertain or please this year but ourselves…our 1st Christmas in 41 yrs. of marriage…just us. Such freedom! Perfect timing for this one Brenda. Blessings and light! ❤ ❤ ❤


    • 10. lifetapestrycreations  |  December 22, 2014 at 10:35 am

      Hi Mary,
      “No one to entertain or please – just us.” Perfect. I’m feeling so much more free – and disinterested this year also.
      We’re shifting so rapidly that we don’t even realize we have until we use a marker like this holiday season. YAY for us.
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,


  • 11. elizabethsadhu  |  December 22, 2014 at 11:30 am

    Thanks for this channel, dearest Brenda! We are in Iowa right now and with my honey’s parents being 94 and 95 I end up doing a lot. Well the Universe conspired bit and now I am sick. 🙂 I get the message. I am now doing less……and then more family arrives tomorrow and more to help and do things. Also, I put my foot down in a couple of areas. So to be delicate, there can be challenges in the bathroom, where some brothers who will not be named, leave MESSES for others to clean up. I hung up a sign above the toilet that said something like: “The Cleaning Committee respecting requests that all activities be done sitting down. We thank you and we love you! The Cleaning Committee”

    It has been so interesting this time to be here. I am all about changing things and moving away from all the mums DOING all of it! I made petition to the whole family to let the next generation take over more duties….no comments, although my hubby thought it was good. I am speaking up and not worrying about it. Sowing seeds of another way to BE.

    This morning Mother and Dad and I laughed and decided that using paper plates for the 23 total who will be here would be a good idea. I suggested that we have everyone bring their own plate and silverware and then they can each wash it (or not). Dad thought that was silly and Mother and I both liked the idea. (I did not ask Dad when was the last time he cleaned up the kitchen!! 🙂 ) Then I suggested that we could have everyone bring their own TP!! 🙂

    After 23 years Mother and Dad are very much appreciating my humor and that is VERY fun!

    Anyway…………I am making it BE okay and taking care of me…..I go for a walk every day and go into my room and read and and and………..and things are shifting.

    This was a most perfect channel.

    I have often been miffed at the idea that at these holiday times we are now supposed to be nice to each other and what about the rest of the time?? Just like at Thanksgiving we are supposed to be grateful! Sheesh! I practice wallowing in gratitude and joy and love ALL the time!

    I remember back when I was a full fledged turban wearing Sikh. There was a lot of guilt trips laid, as in many religions. I was often told “Do your sadhana!” (Sadhana is technically your spiritual practice but in the American Sikh world it meant getting up at 4 am and doing prayers, yoga, chanting and more prayers for two and a half hours every morning.) I ALWAYS have felt that we would best be served by doing our sadhana ALL the time. 24/7. AND it does not have to mean you are chanting all the time. Mindfulness…..

    Okay, I have gone on long enough.

    Many blessings and much love to ALL of us!!!

    love love love love and a big wahe guru* besides!
    Wallowing in gratitude, joy, love and lots of laughter,
    I AM Elizabeth

    *Wahe (Wha-hay) means “Wow” or “Ecstacy.” It’s sort of an exclamation of the joy of existence. Guru (goo-roo) means that force which brings one from darkness.


    • 12. lifetapestrycreations  |  December 22, 2014 at 11:58 am

      Hi Sweetie,
      All I can say is, YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! For finding and expressing new you. I so love that you and your mother-in-law are in this together. I remember just a few years ago when your father-in-law was ill and you and your mother-in-law started understanding one another better. Not only are you gifting yourself, sounds like you’re gifting so many of Jim’s family. YAY for you!!!!!!!!!!
      Blessings, Love and Tons of Sparkles For Now and Forever,


  • 13. Are You Gifting Everyone But You? | elizabethsadhu  |  December 22, 2014 at 11:31 am

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  • 14. elizabethsadhu  |  December 22, 2014 at 11:33 am

    Reblogged this on elizabethsadhu.


    • 15. lifetapestrycreations  |  December 22, 2014 at 11:59 am

      Thank you so much Sweetie for reblogging my channel on Elizabeth


  • 16. Christie  |  December 23, 2014 at 10:22 am

    Oh thanks for this one! I completely feel it for myself too. I cannot spend xmas with my 3d family. Just can’t. I will fall over with boredom or be irrevocably irritated by their 3d ways. It will not feel like connection to me at all. I would not be doing what is meaningful to me. It would feel like my whole being is against it.. so for me, last year was my last 3d holidays 🙂

    What i find quite funny and hilarious is that i found “my aspects” creating a lie to get me out of it. I did not plan to do it or even think about it, but found myself unfolding a lie to my family starting the week before thanksgiving, saying that i have a boyfriend and new spiritual friends that ill be with for the holidays. They know how spiritual i am and they dont get it, but they have noticed that i dont do anything lately unless it’s directly related to my interests and has a spiritual or ‘dimensional’ theme to it. So they have not been pressuring me this past year like they used to.

    It likely is very true, in the future, that my lie will be my reality. Hopefully by next year’s holidays, bc i do like to celebrate. But for now im spending xmas with my future boyfriend and future non-3d friends hehehe. And doing some of the things by myself that i do like about Christmas. Happy 5d Holidays to you Brenda !


    • 17. lifetapestrycreations  |  December 26, 2014 at 12:49 am

      Kudos Christis and more kudos. I unexpectedly am sharing Christmas with my nephew and family. It’s been an absolutely wonderful time filled with love and laughter. Exactly what I wanted. Sounds like our Christmas celebrations were perfect for us – exactly what the ‘doctor’ ordered. Daring to be us – and sharing that self-love with those who wish the same for themselves. Does it get any better?
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,



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