Do Observers Make You Feel Guilty?

June 29, 2015 at 8:14 am 19 comments

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Summary of Brenda’s June 26, 2015 channeled, 15-minute “Creation Energies” show at  Now that you’ve accepted your totality via your CEO role, you’re visiting with each segment about issues you wish to address – much as you believe happens in the ethers between lives on earth. Such visits negate the need for karma. And return you to, “We’re all one.” For your being is finally all one in the earth plane – something that has never before happened.

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly, channeled blog for ”You’ve Always Been the Motivating CEO of You”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

You are beginning to notice changes within your being. Perhaps you find yourself touched by someone or something as never before. Perhaps you approach a person or experience differently. Indicators that you are not the entity you were even a few months ago.

You have removed the cover of your being. New you is beginning to sparkle in ways you did not necessarily anticipate – and is as surprising to you as to those around you.

Some of you believe you are returning to the you of yesteryear – a younger, more loving version of you. So it may be. But you added elements the past few decades that ensure that new you experiences are deeper and richer in love and joy.

Perhaps you are not yet feeling love or joy. Such is to be expected as you heal/process those energies you so readily incorporated into your being earlier this year. Many of you are/were on the verge of “blowing a fuse”, burn-out – even earth death. You accepted as much energy as you thought your body could take and then asked for more. So it is you may need to heal a bit longer.

Those of you who did not accept as many energies or have a stronger physical being, are beginning to note feelings and action shifts. As if a cement wall around your heart is starting to crumble – so it is.

In this phase, you are adjusting to those new feelings you read about, but have not experienced before in any earth lifetime.

Perhaps as a child you felt more love for others – even yourself. But the years of wear and tear; of accepting that which was not acceptable within your being; of pretending to be something someone else wanted you to be and other earth experiences that created your cement wall of emotional protection, are fading to a memory with fewer feelings of fear, disdain, anger or sadness.

Those memories will soon feel more like a history book than personal reality. A history that is touching, sad or even joyous, but not directly connected to you.

Your heart cannot be free to float into new you until you accept and love all that is you. Such is not possible if you continue to ruminate consciously or subconsciously about all you did wrong earth life after earth life.

This shift from personal memory to an impersonal history was the thrust of the April/May energy bursts – gifts from the Universes that you en masse requested. For you realized you could not clear the many pieces of fear and pain related to your unique path in this lifetime without Universal assistance.

You accepted that Universal assistance only to discover pieces of former 3D pain you needed to address and clear before moving on. And so you are with astonishing results.

Some of you have become almost a new entity within your physical body. Your thoughts, beliefs, perceptions and actions are as new to you as they are to others. You are discovering new depths, fewer fears and amazing directions almost daily.

Perhaps you are tired. Such would be understandable given all you experienced and are experiencing. Allow that to be. Do not push yourself to exhaustion. At the same time, know that the you that is starting to percolate, to feel, think and believe differently, is truly new you in all your glory.

Do not be frightened by new you. Relish the new soft, loving being that you are discovering hidden beneath your concrete protection. Protection that was necessary for you to maintain a physical earth life through your 3D fears and expectations.

Those new to earth – experiencing earth for the first or one of the first times – are not experiencing the shifts you are. Such is so because they do not have need for protective covers. But then, neither have they experienced earth love or fear to the depth you have or anticipate experiencing.

Perhaps you will better understand those entities who do not seem to care much about anything if you realize they are strangers in a strange land. They are from other places – not repeat earthlings as is true for most of you reading these words.

They are not interested in healing or expanding their love channels. They are merely noting the shifts – much as a traveler to a foreign country might. They find this or that intriguing, but not enough to dedicate themselves to earth or earth transition as is true for you.

To you, they feel disconnected because they are. They do not expect to become an earthling – at least not now. But instead, enjoy the novelty of a new land.

They are earth observers only. But once they entered the heaviness of earth’s atmosphere, they forgot their Universal purpose and became one of those distant earthlings you find astounding.

They do not seem to be attached to anything or anyone. Perhaps they say the right words or act the right way, but there is nothing you can sense beyond their facade. Even though they may have auras, they are a blank slate otherwise.

Some of you light holders have brought such beings into this world through childbirth or other means and are now becoming more and more astounded at their disconnect from you. Observe them for a few hours and you will note that they are also disconnected from all or most others. There is nothing there for you to tap into.

Those of you enmeshed with someone not of earth will likely feel guilty for not being able to connect with them. In truth, you have given them all they wanted – access to earth during this great shift.

You have completed your contract with them. They will learn what they wish to learn when they wish to do so. Your only role was allowing them to enter earth via your direction or invitation. Move on as they will. There is no ongoing bond. You will know such in your heart when you try to connect with them and feel little or nothing.

Perhaps you wonder if such an action is counterproductive to the phrases, “We’re all one.” “Love others as yourself”

You cannot force anyone into a love box. Allow yourself to let go of the guilt of trying to force someone to be something they are not – most especially those earth observers who have no intention of returning to earth or becoming part of the healing solution. Interact with those who feel love and loving.

Observers are not interested in that aspect of earth life. They are not zombies, merely observers – like those of you who visit zoos. Even though visiting a zoo can be enriching, you have no need to jump in a cage to interact with the animals or share their experiences.

So it is you are discovering another piece of yourself – guilt related to observer interactions – you can revisit and remove if you so choose. So be it. Amen. If you would like to receive Brenda’s blogs when posted, please click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her blog and subscribe page and then click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation.

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19 Comments Add your own

  • 1. Cristina  |  June 29, 2015 at 8:46 am

    “You accepted as much energy as you thought your body could take and then asked for more…..Perhaps you are tired. Such would be understandable given all you experienced and are experiencing. Allow that to be. Do not push yourself to exhaustion.”
    exact !! that’s me !!
    I have not understood very well what the “observers”.
    But I’m so tired and my brain reset phase, that I do not understand today, perhaps tomorrow full copper sense.
    Love, Blesses and Sparkles ;D


    • 2. LifeTapestryCreations  |  June 29, 2015 at 8:55 am

      Dear Cristina,
      Not to worry. I’m not sure where the observer segment came from either, but it obviously impacts enough readers – including me – to warrant review.

      Rest and more rest with lots of self-nurturing is all you need to be concerned about now – until it isn’t.
      Blessings, Love, Warm Hugs and Sparkles,


  • 3. soulspeak2013  |  June 29, 2015 at 8:55 am

    Reblogged this on At the Table, On my Plate.


    • 4. LifeTapestryCreations  |  June 29, 2015 at 9:13 am

      Thank you so much SoulSpeak/Star Sister/Friend for reblogging my channel on At the Table, On my Plate


  • 5. soulspeak2013  |  June 29, 2015 at 9:18 am

    Thank you Dear Star Sister, Dear Friend for this interesting message. Having an observer child myself…was a deep challange in my early in love I was and am with her…we have been estranged now for 4 years completely..but sincerely…disconnected for so many more. She is now 43 and I had released this grief over and over but truly…completely …just within this last month…was it finally healed…and never did I relate to her being an “observer” but this sincerely was a gentle validation within your message. This actually brought an empowering energy within…a gift indeed… Immense Love and Gratitude dear friend…Deep Peace with the out breath…..💜


    • 6. LifeTapestryCreations  |  June 29, 2015 at 9:54 am

      Hi SoulSpeak/Star Sister/Friend,
      As I relayed to Cristina, even though I was quite surprised by the observer piece of this week’s channel, I realized it must be important for us to understand and release.

      I’m so extremely pleased this message helped you validate what you already knew – as is true for so many of the sometimes uncomfortable pieces we’re addressing now.
      Blessings, Warm Hugs and Love,

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      • 7. soulspeak2013  |  June 29, 2015 at 2:15 pm



  • 8. elizabethsadhu  |  June 29, 2015 at 11:09 am

    Dearest Brenda—I know that I asked for more and more and more…….I am such glutton for growth! 🙂 I have been pet sitting for this last week and continue for this week and being with the dog and chickens is so nurturing for me. They LOVE me very much and they ALL follow me around. It is so healing!

    I also had a friend stay here with me for a few days and this was our first time meeting in person. A little nervy but so wonderful! She was also very healing for me as we had gotten to know each other by phone and email (sound familiar?) and she gets me on a whole level that was wonderful and affirming and so joyful! I wish I could share the movies she took of me doing an interpretive cartwheel and of Dolphin Dancing. First time in water. 🙂

    Anyway, lots of healing going on. I feel the physical changes coming. So much love and joy.

    Been really going day by day, second by second and just allowing all that is……………profound allowing I like to call it!

    I AM wallowing in gratitude and joy and dancing and laughter and LOVE!

    Thank you!

    PS. I am with you all on the Observers…..I am sitting with that and seeing what comes through.


    • 9. LifeTapestryCreations  |  June 29, 2015 at 5:18 pm

      Hi Sweetie,
      So you’ve started interactions with someone of like frequency. Wonderful!!!!! Laughter, love and new friends – does it get any better?
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,


  • 10. Oracles and Healers  |  June 29, 2015 at 11:10 am

    Reblogged this on Oracles and Healers.


  • 12. Alisa Petitt  |  June 29, 2015 at 7:28 pm

    Oh Dearest Brenda! How the floodgates of my heart have been opening and continue to open wider–if that is even possible–the depth of love I have been feeling is sometimes overwhelming–but in a good way. 🙂 And, while I am having more energy for exercise, I am finding a late afternoon meditation/nap so very refreshing and needed.

    Many revelations come daily–I’m loving my new CEO role! I cannot wait to see what awaits me in the months ahead–I’m feeling something wonderful on the horizon 🙂

    Thank you for your words of wisdom!

    Love and Light,


    • 13. LifeTapestryCreations  |  June 29, 2015 at 8:03 pm

      Dear Alisa,
      What a wonderful note and beacon of light and love for us all. YAY for the new CEO of us all!
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,


  • 14. Jan  |  June 29, 2015 at 7:33 pm

    Brenda, this is more awesome for me than you could ever know! Thank you from my entire heart!


    • 15. LifeTapestryCreations  |  June 29, 2015 at 8:06 pm

      Dear Jan,
      Thank you! Sharing my channels with others – as you probably already know – is one of my great joys. And learning that this channel resonated with/for you absolutely makes my day!!!
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,


  • 16. Linda  |  June 30, 2015 at 1:08 am

    Dear Brenda , so enjoying this time, savoring it all, loving it all. Understand the observers…different roles we all have. Grateful as we play our parts. Oh, this summer of love is just heating up! Magic is sizzling just below the surface…
    Thank you for the gift of you!


    • 17. LifeTapestryCreations  |  June 30, 2015 at 8:42 am

      Hi Linda,
      Our summer of love – just thinking about it makes my heart sing!!
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,


  • 18. Christina  |  July 31, 2015 at 7:19 pm

    Thank sooooo much sweet Brenda for sharing EVERY part of this. I’m in awe at how rapidly all that I knew to be me is disappearing and the me that was always meant to be is coming closer to full bloom with each passing moment. Just this morning as I was enjoying the sunrise I had an epiphany, one that hurt. I suddenly just KNEW that my boyfriend was about to go his separate way. I have not been able to enjoy experiencing all of this along with my mate as some of us have because he is definitely one of the observers you spoke of. It has been a struggle for several weeks now for us to find any kind of common ground to stand upon. We have both been upset, afraid, and have both made each other feel guilty for not being able to understand each other anymore. We did calmly talk about this all a couple of hours ago and both of us agree that we are no longer evenly yolked and will more than likely be in two separate places as of next month. I’m moving to the Dallas area to The Garden of Eden to mentor under Quinn Eaker, a man of great insight, peace, and pure unconditional love, to learn all the different facets of sustainability and living in harmony with nature and the universe. I am sooooo excited, not only for the opportunity of growth and expansion in the physical and the metaphysical but also because I will be living in a community of like minded people surrounded by glorious wonder and beauty and SOOOOO MUCH LOVE, understanding and support for this brand new me, and the me to come, this “New Earth Pioneer”…I like that. It’s got a nice ring to it 🙂

    Many blessings and
    Much love…Namaste ❤


    • 19. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 1, 2015 at 10:09 am

      Hi Christina,
      Kudos and more KUDOS for daring to be you!!! Separating from what we once thought was perfect is often not as easy as we would like, but you’re doing so with such joy and grace. You’re most definitely a beacon of the future for us all. You realized the life you knew wasn’t what you wanted/needed and instead of mourning the loss in fear and anger, the joy of the new is pulling you into new you. YES to your New Earth Pioneer!!!!!
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,



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