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January 18, 2016 at 11:11 am 61 comments

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Summary of Brenda’s January 15, 2016, channeled, 15-minute “Creation Energies” show at  http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com / brenda-hoffman:  Your self-love will push you to the end of the love continuum so you eventually become enamored of the middle – the love of self as well as others. You’re also creating a continuum of joy – barely touching the middle of that continuum now, but destined to reach the end and not return. For joy is your new you. Fear has been the earth’s keynote for eons resulting in victims. Even though perhaps within your being you wish to caretake others in some form, victimhood is no longer of you or any moving from fear to joy on their personal continuum.

“Earth Dreams Require Dedicated Self-love” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly, channeled blog forwww.LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Many of you wish to transition more rapidly than your physicality will allow. When you were a youngster, you wanted to be a teen. And when you were in your teens, you wanted to be an adult.  So it is now.

You wish to fly through the dimensions even though you have not yet created your earth dream. There is indeed a time for you to fly, but only after you have completed the preparatory step of creating your earth dream. And so you shall – at the time correct for you. A time that is hours, days or weeks from now.

For you to fly into the dimensions without the security of your earth dream is similar to you leaving your home of earth origin to live in the work-a-day world at age 12. Altering your earth life in so many ways because you did not have the freedom to discover yourself as is paramount in your teen years.

There are stages and progressions throughout the Universes.

Many of you doubt your god/goddess/star being. You perhaps give credence to the possibility that even though others might be of that exciting possibility, you are just you. Going to work, caring for your family, paying bills.

Once you internalize your importance in this amazing transition, you will allow yourself to create your earth security knowing that such is required before floating into the ethers.

You fully accept that others might have the skills you wish to have. That others are flying into various dimensions, frequencies, and times. Maybe you will too someday – far in the future. For you continue to believe you are not good enough or skilled enough to be a god/goddess/star.

Even the slightest doubt of your abilities informs your totality that you do not yet love yourself enough to move to the next stage.

You continue to wish for a future skill you already have.

But then, was it not always easier to dream of a future boyfriend than to clean your room? So it is for you now. Dreaming of future possibilities without completing the steps to get there including knowing and accepting how powerful you are. Indeed, loving yourself enough to know you can create whatever you wish.

That creation, for now, is your earth dream. For you require a stable, loving environment to return to as you adjust to the next phase of your transition. Perhaps it might help to better understand this concept if you remember your college years. Even though not true for some of you reading this message, the overall image of a college student is returning home for summers and holidays during that first step into adulthood. A home that allowed you to know you belonged somewhere beyond your short-lived college life.

So it is for you now. It is time for you to create that nest, that security blanket so you can easily and comfortably return to your home base whenever you feel uncomfortable in your next stage of transition development.

The keys to creating that security blanket are knowing without question how powerful you are – and that you love yourself enough to gift you with an earth security blanket. Some of you have reported tip-toeing into that place by shopping just for the fun of shopping. Or dancing, interacting with others or doing whatever creates a bubbling laughter of joy within you.

Continue on that same vein until that bubbling laughter of joy is part of your being. For such informs you that you are loved by you.

Perhaps that last sentence appears a bit silly, for most of you believe you love yourself – maybe not as deeply as you would like, but certainly enough to laugh and play a bit. For you continue to put others and their needs before your own. “Oh, I can’t spend any money because that will make him or her uncomfortable.” “I can’t laugh too loud or play too much because others will think I’m immature.” “I can’t approach that nice woman in my office because if she’s not interested in me – I would feel so silly and she would think poorly of me.” So you continue your earth life putting restrictions on your joy, your self-love.

Who cares what anyone thinks of you? You are a god/goddess/star.

Do you not realize how much freedom you have given to your gods just because you labeled them gods – how much freedom you have given to anyone you admire? You allow them to laugh joyfully and think, “Aren’t they fun?” You allow them to bully others and think, “How wonderful that they are so honest.” You allow others to approach you even though they do not provide you with joy and think, “Those poor souls, someone has to care for them. I guess that’s me.” All the while denying your god/goddess/star power – at the expense of your joy.

If you put anyone before yourself in this earth creation stage, you have not yet grasped the self-love piece required.

For some,  part of your self-love is caring for others. So be it if doing so gives you great joy – like smelling a baby or touching their soft skin. But it is perfectly permissible in this self-love stage to admit to yourself that you are not enamored of changing that baby’s diaper or listening to their cries at 3 am. That does not mean you do not change the diaper or hold the crying child, merely that you allow yourself to know throughout your being that you do not like doing so.

Be honest with yourself. Then know, with every cell of your being, that you are a god/goddess/star where any action is valued by the whole of society. Most notably now, to love youself enough to surround yourself with joy and to use that joy and self-love to create your earth security blanket.

You did not expect to attend college without a high school diploma. By the same token, do not expect to create your earth dream until you fully love yourself as much or more than you love others. And such is not possible until you acknowledge and fully accept that you are a god/goddess/star with the complete and necessary freedom to be. So be it. Amen.

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  • 1. CRISTINA  |  January 18, 2016 at 11:56 am

    Dear Brenda, In this wonderful post, I underline two phrases that summarize perfectly the meaning of the message:
    “Who cares what anyone thinks of you?” and “Continue on that same vein until that bubbling laughter of joy is part of your being.”

    The bubbling of joy had not yet entirely experiment but be myself, to say what I have to say and do what I have to do and no matter who the opinions of others not caring I’m really starting to do. And I do so for tax or angry, if not with such naturalness and innocence that only give me consciously aware of it when I see the astonishment of some people around me.

    I must say that at first scared and sometimes I wake in the night thinking: oh my God, I will end up becoming a lady of those I call “no filter”, they say or do whatever they come to mind without thinking ??
    then I realized that’s not it, that the times I have lately said / done things a few weeks ago by pure social formalities would never have said / done has been out of respect to myself, I obviously can not tolerate faults respect for self, however small they are, as the tolerated to a small child or other loved one.

    So I guess I started to love above the rest, THINK what they think of me ….. it is likely that I’m getting selfish conceited …. but we know it’s not, really dear sister??? 😉

    And certainly wonderful when publishing your post, the Universe makes us a wink !!!
    Love, bless and sparkles
    Cristina

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    • 2. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 18, 2016 at 2:18 pm

      Hi Cristina,
      I’m finding myself saying things that surprise me also. As if my inner thoughts are released in words.

      Aren’t you proud of both of us – daring to be despite society’s filters that tell us over and over appropriate behavior and speech? I’ve discovered – as I’m guessing have you – those who care about me don’t find the words “wrong” and those who don’t never thought that much of me anyway OR I don’t care to be around.

      Fun and amazing stuff – this finding ourselves. Being honest with ourselves, as well as others – amazing, just as prophesied but not exactly how I expected it to happen!!!!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Energies,
      Brenda

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  • 3. CRISTINA  |  January 18, 2016 at 12:00 pm

    I mean that was released at 11:11 today … That today I explain me in plan I Tarzan , you Jane ….jejeje!!!

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    • 4. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 18, 2016 at 2:20 pm

      Hi Cristina,
      I didn’t even notice that it was 11:11. WOW! Thank you for pointing that out to me.
      Blessings, Lots of Love, Laughter and Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 5. Gunnar  |  January 18, 2016 at 12:39 pm

    Perfect timing,so powerful and inspiring, loved this! Thank you so much Brenda! Love and Light<3

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    • 6. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 18, 2016 at 2:22 pm

      Thank you, Gunnar! I love knowing that my channels help others better understand their transition.
      Blessings, Lots of Love, Laughter and Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 7. Gilbert Cleeton  |  January 18, 2016 at 12:42 pm

    I have succeeded in spite of my education

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    • 8. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 18, 2016 at 2:24 pm

      Hi Gil,
      You made me laugh out loud. Thank you!
      Blessings, Lots of Love, Laughter and Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 9. Barb  |  January 18, 2016 at 3:19 pm

    “Even the slightest doubt of your abilities informs your totality that you do not yet love yourself enough to move to the next stage.”

    “…do not expect to create your earth dream until you fully love yourself as much or more than you love others”
    ———
    I’m afraid I’m not going to play the “Oh, everything is wonderful, I’m so excited” part today. I’ve spent the past couple of days quite angry, and these quotes perfectly demonstrate why.

    For the past few *months*, the focus of so many messages has been on the earth dream, which in itself was unprecedented. At first they said “by the end of the year”. Then it changed to “by or near the end of the year”. There were many reassurances: You’ve graduated! You’re done! You’ve done everything! It will happen! It’s not the end of the year yet; have faith! –Then it changed to: You want a summer vacation first (well, no). Then to: You have to love yourself enough! And in the latest Blog Talk: No, it’s not going to happen (obviously) by the end of the year. –And now, here, still saying days, weeks… whatever. I’ll be frank: Mine now can’t happen for at least a couple of months. There might be a step forward, but not the dream. Not unless I diminish it, which I’m not willing to do. It has expanded in this period, and anything less isn’t enough now. We were told to see no limits; I took it to heart.

    And now, here are the above quotes, which feel like no more than additional dangling carrots. Months of insistence that it will happen, and now: Oh, you don’t love yourself enough yet. Just do that, without any doubt, and then it will happen. That’s far different from: Most of your totality wants to move ahead, and so you *will* create your dream by or near the end of the year.

    I believed. Again. I ended up clearing stuff I didn’t have any idea was still there. I took a giant leap with last week’s message, upon realizing how much I still put others first — it shifted almost instantly, and I realized some very clear statements, if you will, about who I am and who I choose to be. I have been honest for a very long time about the things I still need to do while not liking them (the baby analogy). And I feel like at utter fool. Again.

    I don’t deny that self-love is essential. I don’t deny that it’s important to put ourselves first in a way that many of us haven’t, because we thought others were more important than we were. But this just goes on and on and on. The messages the last few months were different, practically a promise. The emphasis was so strong, and still continues to be the focus. I have known forever that I need the earth dream to be really free; the security is essential. I took this as confirmation that *finally*, we were there. However, if it takes not having *any* doubt… then I think few indeed will get there quickly. Humans have doubt. And now, the carrot continues to dangle, saying: well, if you loved yourself enough….

    Maybe some people will be upset with my comments. I’m being honest about my severe disappointment. I’ll be honest about something else too. I am proud of myself. I have held a particular vision for decades. Long before I knew anything about ascension or the type of spiritual connection I now have, I worked on clearing. I knew I had to resolve my own issues, and I worked diligently on them through everything. It was much slower then; I do appreciate the quicker release that’s possible now. Each thing in turn got attention. I kept holding on to my dream, I kept going, and in the process, grew so much. However, in 09/09, I was about ready to leave the planet because things got so bad. Then one evening I heard, in my head: “The world is going to need joy.” I had a flash image and understanding, and my dream was absolutely part of it. I decided to stay. And everything got even worse. I hated it, but I understood the major piece I still had to resolve. It took years, but I did it. I resolved the matter, found love and compassion, and I know the balance of it, caring while disliking some aspects. That was some time ago. There’s always room to grow personally, though, so I kept on, and kept holding my dream, no matter how impossible it seemed. I did dial it back for a time, an “enough for now” view — but no more.

    All the focus in the spiritual community in the last year or so on contributing joy validated my experience from six-plus years ago. Your messages all but guaranteeing the material aspect gave me real hope again for the full dream. And now, after everything, because I still haven’t yet created/received my dream, it’s because I don’t love myself enough? Seriously? I counter that all I have done absolutely qualifies as self-love.

    Yesterday, even in the midst of my anger, I had a vision. I was watching a movie where they played Beethoven’s Ode to Joy. The build up to, and the point of the magnificent “explosion” when the chorus comes in have always been almost overwhelming to me. This time, I spontaneously saw and felt “heaven,” the “totality”. I can’t even describe it. It was visual and visceral, and such perfect Love, all-encompassing. I understood. I knew, and it stayed with me, accessible, for at least a few hours. I share that to point out that I’m not disconnected; I haven’t rejected anything or given up. And even in my anger, I also feel gratitude. I received a beautiful gift. I am well aware of how much I have been cared for, even through the difficulties, and I feel deep gratitude. I’m more fortunate than many in how I’ve been able to go through this process, but it has become quite strained and is not sustainable anymore.

    Maybe the vision was a taste of what to strive for. I never thought I’d be *done* when the earth dream arrived. It’s just a new path, and yes, the vision experience is absolutely something I want to *live* in. But to imply, now, that I have to achieve that before the earth dream arrives… to change the message and now say that we have to love ourselves without any doubt in our god/goddess status before we’ll manifest (which we’ll only know is *enough* when we do manifest, otherwise, it’s not *enough*) goes back on all the assurances of the last few months. It is to the point of agony to touch experiences like I described — and while not to yesterday’s level, I do frequently open and feel a beautiful and amazing connection — and still be so limited in the material, especially after decades of believing in my heart, following it as much as I could at any point of awareness along the way, and doing the work I knew was necessary. I definitely haven’t tried to skip high school, believe me.

    I know I’ve written a novel here, but I can’t be the only one feeling some of these things. I’m dumbfounded and struggling not to feel that this has all been… misdirection. How can I possibly think that when I had the vision I had yesterday and experienced that perfect Love? Well, I’ll counter with: How can I do so much, achieve so much internally, grow from zero self-confidence to knowing that I deserve what I want and it’s absolutely right for me, and still not yet manifest it? There’s always more growth, always more letting go, always more to do. I acknowledge that. And Brenda, I’m not doubting you, your intent, or directing any of this at you personally. I suppose I’m heartbroken just now. And angry. And I’ve grown to hate carrots.

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    • 10. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 18, 2016 at 4:01 pm

      Dear Barb,
      It’s wonderful that you allow yourself to feel your anger. I get angry too as I want my dream to materialize NOW and it hasn’t yet. Small dreams, yes. Things turning out better than I imagined, yes. But not my big dream.

      I have the added fear that if others don’t create their dream, are my channels a sham? But then, I remind myself that the messages have been “by or near the end of 2015” and we’re still in the “near the end of 2015”

      I don’t know what else to tell you other than joy is our key element as featured in my channels and so many others. Are my channels just for me – as I originally thought? Are they moving us to a new world? I can’t guarantee that the messages are accurate – but I know my heart sings when I create them. And I know the information is from someplace other than my head. I get too many AHAs when channeling for it not to be. All I’m doing is waiting and yes, reading messages from others who have created or started to create their dream. Wanting to be part of that group and feeling within myself that I will be.
      Blessings and Lots of Love,
      Brenda

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      • 11. Barb  |  January 18, 2016 at 4:56 pm

        Brenda —

        I don’t think your messages are a sham. You’ve been too accurate with matching too many people’s experiences for them to be false or even just for yourself. So many of us appreciate that you share the information from your higher levels with us. It does feel, though, like the message has changed from definite assurances to first achieving some currently unknown level of self-love, however long that takes. And that’s where I’m having such trouble.

        I know for certain that I haven’t been abandoned by my own higher levels or guides or whomever — I can feel the “asking” for entrance or access almost constantly, letting me know this. But right now, I feel like my trust has been … misused, again, so my answer for the moment is no. (As I said, it’ll be months now before my dream can fully happen.) I just don’t know what to think.

        I know you don’t have specific answers. I appreciate your response and *your* continued belief. Thank you.

        Love,
        Barb

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      • 12. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 18, 2016 at 11:12 pm

        Oh Barb, I wish you were here so I could give you a big hug. So many of us, including me, question our ability to fully love ourselves. Perhaps it’s my ‘glass half-full’ attitude but I think it’s marvelous we’re questioning self-love. I find so many pieces throughout my week that tell me I’m not fully loving myself and yet, somehow I know that’s ok because I’ve named it. Kind of like some biblical teachings that you don’t commit a wrong until you know it’s wrong (at least, I think that concept has biblical origins). No, I don’t know for certain when you’re going to create your dream, but you’re more powerful than you know. Many would love to communicate with their higher levels or guides as you do so easily. You’re an important part of our transition team whether you create you dream tomorrow or next year. And you’re loved.
        Blessings with Lots of Love,
        Brenda

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      • 13. janis´¯`·.¸ʚįɞ  |  January 18, 2016 at 11:05 pm

        Loved reading this, Brenda…joy is our key element! If you feel it would be appropriate here, you mind sharing links to other encouraging sources that you like to read?

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      • 14. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 19, 2016 at 4:18 pm

        Hi Janis,
        I check in with The Spirit Library even when I’m not a featured author. I also like much of Suzanne Lie’s work, Steve Rother, Shelly Dressel, Jennifer Hoffman (no relation), Emanual Dagher, Elizabeth Harper, a number of contributors on The Federation of Light, FranHeal’s blogs/channels, Ron Head’s Council channels, Elizabeth Sadhu’s The Beans channels, your Lightheartedsigns, Jennifer Farley, Aligning with Truth, SoulSpeak, Newearthparadigm, and many others I’ve forgotten to include.

        I love learning as much about this transition as possible and I figure since we’re on unique paths, others might discover/sense a piece that I’m not aware of. My interests are continually shifting, so work I found fascinating last month might not hold the same interest for me this month.

        As we’ve learned, “when the student is ready, the teacher appears.” And so it’s been for me the past few decades.
        Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,
        Brenda

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      • 15. janis´¯`·.¸ʚįɞ  |  January 22, 2016 at 12:22 pm

        Ohhh, yes…thank you, Brenda…I am familiar with a number of those and will check out the ones I’m new to..thank you so much for taking the time… 🙂 ❤

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      • 16. dor 🌺 is  |  January 19, 2016 at 12:08 pm

        >All I’m doing is waiting and yes, reading messages from others who have created or started to create their dream.<

        I think of Solara (nvisible.com); I have the feeling that she comes closer to all she had dreamed for years …
        do you know others?

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    • 17. Alw  |  January 18, 2016 at 5:44 pm

      Barb, i hate carrots as well. In fact, i just chipped my front tooth on them and now i look absolutely ridiculous and i have to pay to get it fixed. Im also looking for a new dentist at the same time. What stress. So yes, i hate carrots as well! ~Amanda. :/

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      • 18. Alw  |  January 18, 2016 at 6:13 pm

        Hi Brenda, i love your channels/ blogs and I look forward to them every week. My experiences usually line up to exactly what your message states. I do feel like a new person in every way and I’m so ready for the next step. I’m making lots of progress in my life, but it seems like for every step forward it’s two steps back. No doom and gloom here, because i still maintain hope and faith and a sunny disposition along the way, but man is it frustrating! I too was hopeful that the end of 2015 would be the end of most worries, but here we are. It reminds me of the time i moved home in 2006 and i was in need of a job and I found the almost perfect job for me, but i would have had to live in my home town. I would have made good money and the job was a great fit, but my life would have been kinda boring. I wasn’t offered the job, but i was READY to work and it fit so well. I was so disappointed. Well, just a few months later I got my DREAM job out of town because there was an opening due to someone resigning. Literally the exact job i wanted in the exact environment in the exact city i wanted. To top it off i found a super fun promotional job to work on the side. Perfect fits for me. My point is i am willing to wait for the right time. Even though it may be the right time for me (or so i think), all the pieces on the outside aren’t lined up yet. I wanted to share that bit of information to remind myself and others that good things really do cone at the right time. I do have faith! Im sitting here very stressed with my cracked tooth, but i really do have faith in this process. Am i frustrated?? Heck yes. We just started 2016, which is near the end of 2015. I do have faith that it will all come together. Thanks again Brenda for all you do. Your chennels help me immensely. ~Amanda

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      • 19. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 19, 2016 at 11:33 am

        Hi Amanda,
        YES!!!

        I do have to apologize again for laughing at your cracked tooth, but how telling for the time most of us seem to be in.

        My dream hasn’t materialized yet either, but some family issues materialized the past three weeks that made me joyful that it hadn’t yet. And so it goes. As we uncover those pieces we thought we had cleared – including our anger at not creating our dream as rapidly as we would like – only to discover the reasons why in hindsight.
        Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
        Brenda

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      • 20. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 19, 2016 at 11:27 am

        Hi Amanda,
        Don’t we all!!!!!!!!!!!!!

        Your carrot analogy was perfect – it made me laugh out loud. Apologies for laughing at your dental dilemma, but it was so apropos!
        Blessings, Lots of Love and Laughing Creation Sparkles,
        Brenda

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    • 21. janis´¯`·.¸ʚįɞ  |  January 18, 2016 at 7:24 pm

      Hi, Barb…I felt a little disappointed in the criteria, too…even though I love the self-love aspect…but then the hope rose back to the surface and I’m looking forward to Brenda’s next blogtalk! Also, I think that when the last blogtalk mentioned “No, it’s not going to happen by the end of the year” …or words to that effect…that the meaning was for us, the disappointed ones, that we don’t need to worry that we might have to wait still another year (2016…another carrot) like we might fear but shortly. I am wondering if the energy on the planet will flow us to that tipping point of enough self-love to support us that we don’t have to struggle to get there…if we will just allow the flow…I know the words were different than mine but I still have hope! Maybe one purpose of today’s channel was for us to have this honest exchange as we try to understand universal concepts with our 3d vocabulary…for individuals to interact who don’t usually…??? I know I’m not saying anything new here but …I don’t know…still hopeful… ❤ 🙂 ❤

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      • 22. Carrie  |  January 19, 2016 at 5:25 am

        Hi Janis, I think you might be right about a possible purpose of this channeled message was for us to have an honest exchange as we try to understand universal concepts with our 3D vocabulary.

        I have experienced some amazing synchronicities in the past week (see my response to Barb) and the fact that I just happened to notice this channeled message in my Inbox and read it, and also related to what Barb has been experiencing – it really makes me wonder if we are collectively experiencing the same things.

        “We are One” is what many spiritual teachers say, so of course we have a telepathic connection. I think we sync up with people who are thinking and experiencing similar to what we are thinking and experiencing so that we can come together, have a discussion, and realize that we really are One in Spirit and have a connection beyond the physical.

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      • 23. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 19, 2016 at 11:21 am

        I sooooo agree, Carrie. We’re ONE on our unique paths.

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      • 24. janis´¯`·.¸ʚįɞ  |  January 22, 2016 at 12:19 pm

        wow…yes! thank you, Carrie… ❤

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      • 25. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 19, 2016 at 4:32 pm

        Hi Janis,
        Your words were very clear to me. A recent family issue helped me realize why it wasn’t time for me to create my dream yet. But like you, I know it will happen.
        Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,
        Brenda

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      • 26. janis´¯`·.¸ʚįɞ  |  January 22, 2016 at 12:58 pm

        Hearing your blogtalk today was so encouraging and I am really appreciating what you said there and here about that it was good that your earth dream hadn’t taken place before this family issue happened. The time warp idea is interesting to consider, too! Anyway, thank you again, Brenda… ❤ 😀

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      • 27. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 24, 2016 at 5:35 pm

        Thank you Janis!!!!

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      • 28. janis´¯`·.¸ʚįɞ  |  January 22, 2016 at 1:12 pm

        Oh, I forgot…Be safe and stay warm, Brenda!… ❤

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      • 29. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 24, 2016 at 5:34 pm

        It’s sunny and 47 today. All is well. Thank you for checking in!
        Love Brenda

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    • 30. Carrie  |  January 19, 2016 at 5:18 am

      Hi Barb,

      I think it’s really amazing you received a vision of heaven while listening to Beethoven’s “Ode to Joy”. What an amazing synchronicity – this channeled message specifically said “do whatever creates joy within you” and the song reflected that as well.

      I myself experienced a lot of anger that built up suddenly midweek last week in relation to my disappointment that something I wanted to manifest has not happened yet and it is something I’ve been attempting to manifest for over a year. In my experience the more challenging or “bigger” things seem to take at least a year or more to manifest so I had been patient last year, but recently I got impatient and upset. I felt like mostly everything I’ve manifested in my life has been due to my own efforts so I felt as if I wasn’t really being helped in the way that I requested to receive help. So I thought if these things have been mostly a result of my efforts, why would I need any help from my spirit guides or angel helpers? So I told them, if they are really helping me right now as they have told me many times they are, then show me a sign and give me some clearer guidance please.

      Literally the next day, I received confirmation of one of the “big” dreams I have been working on for about ten years which is my dream of being a well paid full time writer. I had been working at a university and was paid well for my work, but it was a stressful and demanding job that required a lot of time and energy and wasn’t truly aligned to what my heart really desires to do with my life. So I left that job a year ago and I have tried a few things since then, but nothing seemed to “jazz me up” enough until I saw an email from a reputable freelance online community I am a member of that said freelance writing for the online training industry is now considered to be the highest paid work in freelance writing. This absolutely stunned me. For ten years I tried to find work that is specific to just online writing – not also 5 different jobs in addition to the writing. Here now I have the opportunity to fulfill that dream and I am thrilled. It is a step in the right direction. It’s not my ultimate dream, because I want to be a travel blogger and children’s adventure story author as well, but the elearning freelance writing will help me to establish a good income that can help me to achieve my other writing goals.

      I mention this to you because after reading your comments, I realized that I had a similar experience recently about doubting and not trusting this “creation” and manifestation process but despite my anger and mistrust of this process, I still received help and support in a way that came to me surprisingly. The freelance writing community I am a member of had never mentioned elearning before – they were mostly focused on freelance work for businesses, blogging and writing ebooks. This is a new development as of this month.

      On that same day after I got upset about my lack of support and inability to manifest my big desires, I got a phone call from my husband’s mother asking me if I would like to go to the NFL playoff game last Saturday – she had an extra free ticket she received from her brother-in-law. My husband opted not to go because he doesn’t like big crowds, so I said I would go. That evening while at the game I realized exactly why I got the opportunity to go that game (and also the freelance writing opportunity) – because I had repeatedly been saying to my guides that I would like something really good to happen for me right now, as soon as possible, something that would boost my energy. Wow I can’t tell you how amazing the energy was at the football game – it was incredibly energizing and uplifting and exactly what I needed. Plus all of my wishes for going to this game had been granted – we got to sit where I had hoped we would sit, I got excellent photos of the players up close, and I got to see my favorite football player run down the field 75 yards for a touchdown and who also got the winning touchdown that was the highlight of the evening for the entire NFL world! I am not kidding – this amazing event was replayed over and over all night long and the next day by NFL correspondents and there were dozens of articles written about it by the next morning. Talk about a memorable experience! and I had never been to a NFL Playoff game before.

      For all those amazing synchronicities and “little dreams” to have manifested for me on that exact day, there had to have been coordination going on for this to happen several days before. It did not happen instantaneously. All the people involved in these little dreams of mine were brought together on that exact day to provide the very confirmation I asked for. Which made me wonder if the reason I got upset in the first place was all part of the bigger plan – it was an event orchestrated to stimulate me and propel me forward. I felt bad about getting mad at my guides and apologized to them, because I know they understand us better than we do and this is why they are so patient with us, loving, supportive and encouraging despite our doubts in them.

      So Barb, even though you may feel angry, upset, disappointed, unsure, mistrustful, misled etc of anything our spirit guides tell us, do know that they intend only the best for us. I truly believe that. I do think we tend to misinterpret sometimes what they are trying to tell us. It’s not easy sometimes to get accurate messages because there does seem to be a bit of a delay or disruption or interference sometimes, and other times messages come through very clear for me. Is that because of our level of psychic ability or awareness, or is it because of our physical environment, I’m not sure but it doesn’t seem to be a perfect process. I have felt recently in the past year that my guides have taken a step back and it seems allowed me to experiment with my different manifestations. If I have questions they answer them, but the answers can sometimes confuse me. I then ask for clarification, and usually discover answers by being guided to books or websites that provide the answer. Other times I easily understand what they mean, and usually I have better insights after an event has happened. I find working with tarot and oracle cards to be especially helpful when I am trying to get better clarity about spiritual messages. I also believe that many of these messages are intended to have unique meanings for each of us, and that it is all part of this learning process. There are so many variables involved in regards to timelines and timeframes for something to happen. I still don’t entirely understand it. It has been frustrating for me too because I am very aware of time and need to be to stay on top of all the things I need to do every day, so it’s been challenging for me to be patient with my desires manifesting according to “divine timing” or the “best timing”. I do believe there is a best time for things to occur, so I always ask that my manifestations happen in the best timing for the most benevolent outcomes and if they don’t happen at a certain time, I usually understand and accept it wasn’t the right time.

      I hope what I’ve shared with you will help you feel better in some way. Don’t give up! As long as we are still on Earth we have the opportunity every day to change whatever we think we need to change or try a different new approach. I think this creation “game” is allowing us to experiment and learn for ourselves what is the best way for us to individually manifest our personal dream. Another thing I realized from that football game last Saturday is that I also have the spirit of a champion just like a winning team, and sometimes I also have to take charge in order to achieve a goal so that I can get closer to my bigger dream manifesting but I really do also have helpers along the way ready to help me with anything I ask.

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      • 31. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 19, 2016 at 11:18 am

        Hi Carrie,
        YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! For your wonderful motivational piece for us all. Go team!
        Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
        Brenda

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      • 32. janis´¯`·.¸ʚįɞ  |  January 22, 2016 at 12:33 pm

        Yes! I love to hear about other people’s experiences…thank you, Carrie… ❤

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  • 33. soulspeak2013  |  January 18, 2016 at 7:09 pm

    Thank you Dear Star Sister, Dear Friend
    I am aware more these few days that I Am creating the bigger desires, just not how I imagined them to fit into place. The mere fact of some dreams NOT materializing is immense validation that the desire was in illusion..for only the truly pure desires manifest. All that is PURE is Soul- fully desired through our hearts. I also am at this place of walking in Front of my spiritual beliefs…my awakened or rising consciousness observes and takes action now in front of the spiritual beliefs I walk with…where indeed I placed my awakening behind my spiritual table, in public moments…but now I place my awakening in clear view…which brings immense energy of unwanting… and surrender and this is where I am witnessing desires manifesting in my physical life. This is indeed a very powerful time to navigate clearly…Immense Blessings and abundant Love always dear friend Namaste’

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    • 34. Carrie  |  January 19, 2016 at 6:02 am

      Hi SoulSpeak,

      I agree with you that sometimes when our dreams don’t materialize it can be because our desire was not the right one for us to experience at a particular time and that there might be something else better that will materialize. I’ve had this experience many times when something better materialized than what I thought I wanted to happen or it didn’t materialize at all, which I later learned the reason why was to protect me from an experience that might have been harmful or not best for my own personal development.

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    • 35. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 19, 2016 at 4:27 pm

      Hi SoulSpeak/Star Sister/Friend,
      A “very powerful time to navigate clearly” indeed!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 36. soulspeak2013  |  January 18, 2016 at 7:11 pm

    Reblogged this on At the Table, On my Plate.

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    • 37. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 19, 2016 at 4:29 pm

      Thank you so much, SoulSpeak/Star Sister/Friend for reblogging my channel on At the Table, On my Plate SoulSpeak2013.WordPress.com

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  • 38. janis´¯`·.¸ʚįɞ  |  January 18, 2016 at 7:40 pm

    Love it, Brenda…I, too, struggled with my 3d thoughts of now having to get something just right…but I struggle with that anyway which is why I have been so thankful for my spiritual understandings because they seem to approach things differently…thank goodness! I love reading your channels and I so support you in your expression of them…we are all just feeling our way through here…pioneers on our journeys…It’s all good… ❤ ❤ ❤

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    • 39. Carrie  |  January 19, 2016 at 6:05 am

      Hi Janis,

      I have noticed that too – it seems my spiritual guides do have a very different perspective than I do regarding events in my life. A higher perspective of course, which I very much appreciate their more expansive viewpoint because it has been very helpful to me on many occasions when I was trying to figure out why something was happening the way it was.

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      • 40. janis´¯`·.¸ʚįɞ  |  January 22, 2016 at 12:21 pm

        Ohhh, yes…I’m thinking that what I think is my earth dream may just be a facet of it…hooray…so nice to interact with you, Carrie… 🙂 ❤

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    • 41. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 19, 2016 at 4:34 pm

      Hi Janis,
      I just stated the same today to my husband, “it’s all good.” and it is for me. And so many of you are helping me get over doing it just right. Thank you from my soul!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 44. elizabethsadhu  |  January 18, 2016 at 10:21 pm

    You always speak my language sweet and very dear friend. I have been processing and crying and sleeping and and and……ALL GOOD! This helped!

    Things are becoming clearer and clearer……YAY!

    Taking care of me……for some reason that has been a hard one for me. 🙂

    “If you put anyone before yourself in this earth creation stage, you have not yet grasped the self-love piece required.”

    YES! That said it and spoke to me. I am learning more and more what gives ME joy…….

    love you tons and tons!!!!

    The Beans, also!

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    • 45. dor 🌸 is  |  January 19, 2016 at 11:20 am

      >I have been processing and crying and sleeping and ……!<

      Me too! 🙂
      Love and kisses, dor🌸s

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    • 46. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 19, 2016 at 3:56 pm

      Hi Sweetie and The Beans!
      That old self-love piece. Isn’t it amazing how many layers of victim and caretaking we’ve accepted over the eons? Just when we think we’re ‘there’ another piece shows up. A whole lot of clearing going on!
      Blessings, Lots of Love Back at Ya and Clearing/Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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      • 47. elizabethsadhu  |  January 19, 2016 at 9:44 pm

        So so so true! Oh my gosh! layers upon layers upon layers…….Oy!

        love love love to you and all here and the whole world and ME! heehee…….I talked about you and this self love thing on my radio show today. If anyone is interested (thanks for promoting me, by the way) my radio show on Blog Talk Radio is called “A Sadhu Shares”. 15 minutes at 10 am pacific time every Tuesday.

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        PS. Website not up now but you can find me on Facebook. Elizabeth Mataji Sadhu. I adore connecting.

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  • 48. Carrie  |  January 19, 2016 at 3:40 am

    Hi Brenda, this is an interesting thought to ponder from your post: “Do you not realize how much freedom you have given to your gods just because you labeled them gods – how much freedom you have given to anyone you admire?”

    This is true – because we like people we admire, we are more accepting of their personalities and behaviors but we don’t necessarily give ourselves that same permission or freedom to be who we are. Good reminder! I am also working on creating my Earth dream and appreciate your channeled messages which motivate me to stay on that path. Thank you! Bless You 🙂

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    • 49. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 19, 2016 at 11:12 am

      Hi Carrie,
      “Do you not realize how much freedom you have given to your gods just because you labeled them gods – how much freedom you have given to anyone you admire,” is a statement to remember isn’t it? So many others except ourselves are given by us the freedom to be.

      To all of us creating our earth dream!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 50. Barb  |  January 19, 2016 at 1:19 pm

    Thank you Brenda for the virtual hug and more (including providing the space for us to share), and to everyone who replied for your support and commiseration. I’d been feeling rather lonely with no one to talk to, and you have shown me quite the opposite. It means more than I can say, and your comments are all greatly appreciated. The broken-heartedness or grief has begun to mellow (I do appreciate how quickly things process now), and I’m seeing things I still need to release (fear of power being one) and ways I can love myself better.

    Carrie, I related to a lot of your story too. I’m also a freelance writer who’d rather be writing fiction (and traveling!), but the type of writing I’ve been doing has become a chore and – perhaps not coincidentally – has also dried up. It never paid that well either. I admit, I’m curious about the new area you’ve mentioned though. Is it something that you can share? (Brenda, I don’t want to step on your toes at all with such business) –I also relate to your comments about how communication with Spirit goes. So many aspects, so much we don’t see or understand until after-the-fact (I’ve apologized too), yet also sometimes so incredibly wonderful. The synchronicities certainly help and do seem to come at the perfect time.

    Blessings and thanks,
    Barb

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  • 51. dor💐is  |  January 19, 2016 at 2:32 pm

    Ha…date and time…what a wonderful confirmation for your progress 🙂 (01 19 at 1:19 pm)

    Love ya, hugs dor💐is

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  • 53. GAF  |  January 19, 2016 at 4:14 pm

    I’ve been watching your comments – Laughing, crying, joyous, miserable, loving, ranting. No matter what, what I’m seeing is a group of very dedicated and diligent folks. Thank you all for helping the world… by helping your self. Your inner work makes a big difference. Thanks for knocking it out.

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    • 54. Alw  |  January 19, 2016 at 7:58 pm

      Thanks GAF. 🙂 Love your perspective. 🙂 ~Amanda

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    • 55. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 20, 2016 at 10:11 am

      I feel the same GAF – what a blessing to be part of this wonderful team willing to share, grow, explore, support and love.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Sparkles to All,
      Brenda

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  • 56. Claim Yourself! | Earth Tara  |  January 19, 2016 at 10:54 pm

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    • 57. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 20, 2016 at 10:46 am

      Thank you so much for reblogging my channel on EarthTara EarthTara.WordPress.Com

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  • 58. iamLadyTara  |  January 19, 2016 at 10:55 pm

    Reblogged this on Earth Tara and commented:
    Once again.. Brenda you are on point! You’re messages never cease to flood me with intense synchronicity. Eye abSOULutely LOVE it!

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    • 59. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 20, 2016 at 10:47 am

      Thank you, LadyTara!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! One of my great joys is knowing that my channels resonate for/with others!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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    • 61. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 24, 2016 at 5:37 pm

      Thank you so much for reblogging my channel on Eveygig Eveygigi.WordPress.com

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