Learning to be Sovereign

June 13, 2016 at 10:40 am 40 comments

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Summary of Brenda’s June 10, 2016, channeled, 15-minute “Creation Energies” show at  http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  You’re moving away from various entities, plants, animals, etc. because they’re not reciprocating your love. And you’re discovering you aren’t a supreme being with the right to declare someone or something bad for everyone. Just as you’re learning to accept, even love, those of different races, philosophies and religions, so too are you understanding the need to share love with plants, animals and any entity you can imagine.

“Enough of Fear Clearing Already!” is the title of this week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly, channeled blog for www.LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Perhaps some of you recently released others with thoughts of, “Did I say the right words? Did they misunderstand me?”

Yet, you feel a freedom you have not felt for some time. The freedom of self-love. The freedom of releasing those no longer of your frequency or in 3D terms, interested in the same direction as you.

The thought of losing anyone has been a difficult sensation for most of you throughout this transition. Much like being in a marriage that is not right for you, “If I capitulate on this piece maybe he/she will return physically or emotionally.” Thoughts encouraging someone to return to or remain in your life – but not directed to what you need or deserve.

So it is, during the past few days, you have dared to declare yourself a sovereign being no matter the consequences. A stance that has many of you in a quandary for it is so new. You feel as if you have become a desert island with no one to interact with.

In truth, your actions and words are forays into a self-love, self-worth that is so different from your eons of trying to fit in that you play the interactions over and over in your head to ensure you were right in declaring your sovereignty.

For eons, you had no difficulty dumbing down to fit within your family or culture. Anything was acceptable as long as they remained in your life – that is acceptable to them, for they demanded specific actions and words that were neither for you or by you.

You have come to a joy crossroads that you did not envision when you first decided to love yourself – the crossroads of self-worth. “Do I dare be me knowing that the consequences might be loneliness? Or do I continue the charade of fitting in by denying who I am?”

Many of you have decided to do both. Such is perfectly fine – just as an infant often crawls and walks in the same time period. Do not berate yourself for not walking the minute you decide to do so. But instead, observe yourself and yes, reward yourself for even daring to stand up in whatever fashion.

Do you remember the smiles of joy your infant displayed the first time they stood up on their wobbly little legs? They did not berate themselves for not being able to walk, much less run. They were merely filled with joy that they could stand.

So it is for you now. Much of your self-worth has been divided between pleasing others and berating yourself for not doing more – whatever more is to you.

Neither is a joyful stance. It is time to reward yourself within yourself for every step forward. For you are now performing your wobbly first stand. Allow that to be. Instead of berating yourself for not doing more. Reward yourself for daring to stand.

And so it is you will begin to value yourself.

Some of you are telling yourselves that it is too difficult to take that first step into joy, that you cannot tell others how you truly feel for you have done so in your previous earth lives to very unpleasant results. So it is your memories return you to being what others need and want, but denying yourself.

What you perhaps have not yet internalized is that those persons, those actions have been placed before you by you to encourage you to step into joy despite past thoughts and current fears.

They are your allies in self-love even though they feel and act opposite. You acknowledge that your life is a drama or comedy you create. And that you bring certain players into your drama or comedy to hone your skills. As was true with your family in this lifetime. For many of you had very unpleasant childhoods – not because you had to, but because you wanted to clear certain elements before transitioning into 5D. And so you have.

Now it is time to extend that shift to those you no longer resonate with in your current being. Perhaps they will return at a later date, perhaps not. But that hope is not part of stepping into joy.

This is a selfish time for you – just as is true for an infant. An infant does not thank his or her parents for allowing him to learn to walk or talk. That infant merely focusses on doing so. So it is for you now. Your focus is self-love.

You are reviewing interactions with others to actualize that focus. Are they filled with love and fun – a direct route to joy? Or are they filled with compromise, capitulation, and fear of being wrong?

It does not matter what others are thinking or feeling. Demonstrating self-love is all that matters now.

For you have gone so far astray from self-love that you need to focus on it – just as is true for an infant learning to stand or walk. Have you observed how an infant practices the various stages of learning to stand from rolling on his or her blanket until it can easily turn over, to crawling, to that first adventuress stand without you holding his or her fingers? It is not an overnight accomplishment even though it appears to be for those who have not observed the various stages.

So it is for you now. Allow yourself to move through the stages of returning to self-love without angst, self-anger or fear. You will act when it is right for you to act. And you will know when that time arrives by the same little inner voice that encouraged you to stand and walk years ago.

Love yourself enough to know you are moving into love at the pace right for you. Infants do not select a standing up or walking day – each infant declares themselves ready when they do so. It just so happens that most infants are ready at a similar time – give or take a few weeks. And so it is for you.

You are all moving in a similar direction in a similar time – but not the same time. Allow yourself to grow at your pace – no one else’s. For if you try to be like someone else, you are again shifting from self-love to societal control. So be it. Amen.

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  • 1. Finn  |  June 13, 2016 at 11:15 am

    Dearest Brenda, as always, your message is filled with syncronisity and magic !! – I mean … : “So it is, during the past few days, you have dared to declare yourself a sovereign being no matter the consequences”. – … How come you are already aware of such a most recent personal Development ?!? (smile). – Thanks again amazing Brenda, – all my love to all of you.

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    • 2. LifeTapestryCreations  |  June 13, 2016 at 1:08 pm

      Hi Finn,
      Probably because we’re all starting to stand at similar times! Go Team!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 3. Inma  |  June 13, 2016 at 12:45 pm

    Dear Brenda, thank you so much for your channel once more. Such encouraging words are what I wanted/needed to hear at this point in my shifting process. I do really love this channel. Lovely analogies. Thank you for sharing.
    Love, Peace and Light,
    Inma

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    • 4. LifeTapestryCreations  |  June 13, 2016 at 1:09 pm

      Hi Inma,
      We’re in this together – sharing, loving and learning. Thank you for being part of it!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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    • 6. LifeTapestryCreations  |  June 13, 2016 at 1:11 pm

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  • 7. PeaceNowFlower  |  June 13, 2016 at 1:58 pm

    Well I guess I did say, Sorry, I will not go to a dinner. Yet, that is hardly rejecting someone. I would have been attending the dinner with someone who seemed particularly stressed and bossy at the time, do I politely had to turn done someone else whom seemed pretty grumpy when I called to ask if they would have vegetation food. So I took the time to go out to eat by myself.

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    • 8. LifeTapestryCreations  |  June 13, 2016 at 3:54 pm

      Hi PeaceNowFlower,
      And so we learn to walk and be in self-love! Thank you so much for sharing.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 13. mary chiisholm  |  June 13, 2016 at 9:00 pm

    For sure Brenda…had an uncomfortable experience this morning on line with someone who I suspected was unbalanced emotionally. She put you on your guard for saying the wrong thing. Do you remember that old expression ‘Freudian slip’? Because I’ve had so many of them, I realize it was/is my higher frequency self speaking up to say…’don’t take that sh*t.’ Long and short, I created the opportunity for myself to gain some freedom from this particular manipulator who projects the message…’watch your self with me, I’m so fragile.’
    Meanwhile, today I had a stunning breakthrough with my little pony Anna. She has been terrified of humans for so long that no one could get within 10 feet of her…we broke thru the wall of FEAR she’s been locked into…a homeopathic remedy called Arsenicum… I think she’s shocked herself and is scratching her pony head about why she was so afraid of us…she’ lives in horsey heaven here on Quantum Acres. Such a victory! I dowsed for the perfect day of alignment to create this miracle. (We been working with her since last Sept.)Fabulous message! ❤ ❤ ❤

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    • 14. LifeTapestryCreations  |  June 14, 2016 at 1:05 pm

      Hi Mary,
      Yours is the fabulous message! Wow. Daring to stand up for yourself (I did the same last week regardless of the consequences, and all turned out better than I even hoped for)and encouraging your little pony, Anna, to be until she could do so. Kudos and more kudos!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 15. AligningWithTruth  |  June 13, 2016 at 9:32 pm

    Oh Brenda dear, I so needed to hear this! Two weeks ago, I practiced self-love and asked for what I need and deserve from the only “friend” I had. Rather than extend compassion towards me and my ordeal, she became so defensive and uttered words I never thought would come from a “friend.” It was quite shocking! To this day, I’m still hurting and nursing the pain from that encounter. But I’m so proud of myself because in the past, I would have put up with her less than loving treatment especially since she is the only “friend” I had. Losing her would mean not having any “friend” at all, and I would have continued being “friends” and let the disrespect slip by. Thankfully, I now love myself enough to walk away from situations and relationships where I do not feel honored and respected. Of course it was/is scary. Of course it hasn’t been easy. Of course I’ve been feeling quite lonely. But I’m standing by my choices, values and principles. The world will love me back only to the degree that I love myself. There’s no doubt we need to spread Love but it must begin with me!

    Thank you for sharing this message! Blessed be. NadineMarie ❤ ❤ ❤

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    • 16. mary chiisholm  |  June 14, 2016 at 9:33 am

      I love your beautiful, courageous experience.Mary

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    • 18. LifeTapestryCreations  |  June 14, 2016 at 1:15 pm

      Hi Nadine Marie,
      I needed to do something similar last week – my physical being became so upset at even the thought of being a people pleaser that I couldn’t pretend any longer. Doesn’t it sometimes almost feel as if you’re a split personality in those instances? You can’t be with those persons anymore, but the concept of self-freedom is so opposite of what we’ve learned in 3D.

      Overcoming that quandary – as you did so wonderfully – produces its rewards as we’ve both discovered. But those forays into new us often seem too difficult at first to even contemplate until we do and realize how important that self-love step is and how wonderfully proud we feel about ourselves after. Kudos and more kudos to both you and Mary!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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      • 19. AligningWithTruth  |  June 16, 2016 at 8:46 am

        Unlearning deeply ingrained patterns sure is tough, eh Brenda?!?!? But we did it! We’re doing it! YAY!!!!!! Kudos to all of us brave <3s!!!!!!! ❤ ❤ ❤

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      • 20. LifeTapestryCreations  |  June 16, 2016 at 10:58 am

        Hi Nadine Marie,
        NO LIE!!!! But we’re doing it – tough and never wavering Lightholders that we are. And yes, most definitely, kudos to us all!
        Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,
        Brenda

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      • 21. AligningWithTruth  |  June 16, 2016 at 8:47 am

        That was supposed to be ‘brave ❤ s' !!!!

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      • 22. LifeTapestryCreations  |  June 16, 2016 at 11:01 am

        Hi Nadine Marie,
        Great tagline for all of us! And so true.
        Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,
        Brenda

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  • 23. Cristina  |  June 15, 2016 at 3:44 am

    Dear Brenda,
    I totally agree with your message and share what other colleagues in this post yours.
    I know I have to do, although I must admit that cost me, I am perhaps overly polite, conciliatory …. or just girl-good-well-educated-expensive school 3D.
    It’s time to forget this !!!
    The fact is that last week I started to take small steps in this direction, to say what I feel / I think, especially against abusers.
    Against abusers and poorly educated people are (more) easy.
    The difficult thing is to do it with family or friends…
    Love, blesses and sparkles
    Cristina

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    • 24. LifeTapestryCreations  |  June 15, 2016 at 10:25 am

      Hi Cristina,
      I must have been raised the same way! Interacting in such a way that no one feels bad except maybe you.

      And yes, that self-love piece is often most difficult with family especially when you’ve created a role that’s comfortable for them.

      But we’re doing it with our baby steps into us. Just think how far we’ve come to even contemplate ignoring 3D shoulds that have been drilled into us for eons. In truth, we’re not taking baby steps, we’re taking giant steps out of 3D!!!! Kudos to us all.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 25. Marina  |  June 15, 2016 at 5:52 pm

    Dear Brenda,
    Thank you for your Post, it could have been written to me personally. Everything you write feels to me like you know all the details of my life, and what is going on in my heart, mind, and soul.
    I thank you sincerely for the understanding and the support you give all of us, because to have the knowledge and the insight into all of the changes we are being prompted to make in our lives really does help and encourage us
    Namaste
    xxx

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    • 26. LifeTapestryCreations  |  June 16, 2016 at 10:56 am

      Dear Marina,
      Thank you so much. As you probably already know, sharing my channels with others is one of my great joys. And knowing a channel helps someone (or me!) better understand this amazing transition, makes my day!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 27. Cristina  |  June 17, 2016 at 4:25 am

    Dear Brenda,
    First of all I apologize, because I know this is not the place, but I can not think who I can share what has happened to me this morning.

    I got up at 6:30 and was taking my coffee in bed while reading the press on MacBook.
    To my feet were my cat and my doggy.
    I was awake. About this there is no doubt.

    At one point I heard a clang, as if to strike him on a fine anvil with a silver hammer (do not know why I say this, it was not rough metallic sound, was not a blacksmith, was rather thin).
    This surprised me. I live in a house. Not overlooked. The most next are 100 meters. And this could be heard in my room. At first I thought there was someone in the garden. but my pets were pleasantly relaxed. And my big dog was out of the house and did not bark. I assure you it is a great watchdog.

    I heard that first “knocking”. Followed by a second patter.

    On both occasions it was a single blow. I have no ear for music, but someone who knows music had clearly recognized a note. A tall, clear and pristine musical note.

    I was going to get up to look out the window when I heard a third shot.
    But this time in a much higher volume, and also felt the vibration, the sound wave of sound coming through my left ear, ran through my head from side to side and wrap around my body. It was like being inside a giant bell was being tolled.

    I felt a shiver all over my skin hedgehog was not cold or fear. It was just a chill.
    It’s something that happens to me when I hear certain pieces of music, especially classical, like a musical ecstasy.
    But this was different, it was a single note. I’m not scared, because when it was about I “heard”: you are tuning.
    After that I relaxed, I made the laptop to one side and fell into a deep sleep. This happened around 6:30 am and I woke my dog barking around 9:00 am, because it came the postman.

    t’s a shame not to know music and recognize the note. I’d say it was a DO, but I mean to say, perhaps because it is the first note of the scale. But really I do not know.
    Now (are 10:15 am) I am well, just a little tired.
    My child part woke up excited to see if we had newly acquired super powers with this tune, but not …. I’m just normal as ever.
    I share this here if anyone has had a similar experience. That would help me a lot .
    Love, blesses and sparkles
    Cristina

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    • 28. Marina  |  June 17, 2016 at 9:27 am

      Dear Cristina,
      Yes, I also had a similar experience when I taking part in a course in California (I am from Scotland) being led by the lovely Denise Lyn.
      Denise was about to demonstrate the power of sound using one of the beautiful bells she had just gifted us all with. She asked one of the other girls to stand in front of her and made a single chime to her head with the bell. Incredibly, on hearing the chime from the bell I was ‘thrown back’ from my chair, and immediately entered another dimension. I found myself walking toward where all of my ‘deceased’ relatives were standing waiting for me, smiling and waving , all excited, and behind them was like a multitude of people making their way down to join them. I was in bliss, so happy and excited to see everyone and to bask in their love. Jesus stood quietly to one side, smiling, and I did not want to leave. I was there for hours, not wanting to come back. Eventually I just suddenly ‘came back’, and of course the room was empty, as everyone had left the room when they saw what was happening to me.
      I remember it like yesterday, and it was 6 years ago. It was wonderful, beautiful experience , and I know there was a healing there on very many deep levels. I was blessed.
      Sending you Love and Light,
      Marina xx

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      • 29. cristina  |  June 17, 2016 at 12:32 pm

        Wow Marina!!! that experience!! Impossible to forget it!!
        Mine, of course, has been much more light.
        Thanks for sharing
        Cristina

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      • 30. LifeTapestryCreations  |  June 17, 2016 at 4:10 pm

        Dear Cristina,
        What you and Marina experienced sounds phenomenal – the heck with the level of intensity!
        Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,
        Brenda

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      • 31. cristina  |  June 17, 2016 at 12:42 pm

        When I use the word “light”, I mean less intense. In this area in which we are, we must clarify ….. I do not want you to think I feel more “enlightened” 😉
        Cristina

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      • 32. Marina  |  June 17, 2016 at 3:17 pm

        Cristina, please don’t worry, I knew just what you were meaning. But I have to say, although my experience was certainly ‘dramatic’ that does not make your experience any less meaningful and spiritual.
        Maybe they had to work much harder just to get my attention!!
        Love and Light,
        Marina xx

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      • 33. LifeTapestryCreations  |  June 17, 2016 at 4:08 pm

        Hi Marina,
        I knew someone could validate Cristina’s experience. Even though I haven’t experienced a specific note, I’ve been sleeping so heavily and long recently that waking up is difficult. And so we shift in our way and time.
        Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,
        Brenda

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      • 34. Marina  |  June 17, 2016 at 5:52 pm

        Dear Brenda,
        Synchronisticly, same thing happening with me. Came home to Scotland after visiting with family in England and I haven’t left the house for 3 days, I’m so tired, I just want to sleep all the time. I’m just going with the flow, somehow my body needs the rest.
        Love and Light,
        Marina xx

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      • 35. LifeTapestryCreations  |  June 18, 2016 at 10:15 am

        Hi Marina,
        And so we’re expanding into new us with synchronicities and wonderment as we do so!
        Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,
        Brenda

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    • 36. LifeTapestryCreations  |  June 17, 2016 at 4:05 pm

      Hi Cristina,
      I’ve never experienced that but it’s something I would like to experience. Guessing other readers might have more information for you.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 37. Catharina  |  June 19, 2016 at 9:51 am

    good morning, well, the sounds I have heard have not been so musical and it has happened more than once. It is like a box or door or something like that slamming shut. It would just be once. The other experiences folks speak of a musical note are similar to the sound and feeling I get when I am working with my Tibetan singing bowl..the initial strike you make on the edge before you make the bowl “sing”…sounds musical .After you make it sing..it certainly affects your whole body in a ‘tuning’ way..The noises I hear in my ear in the ringing are sometimes just a long high pitched noise different than ringing..just this long high pitched noise..grateful those don’t last too long.So,I wonder what it would be like if all of us were in the same room experiencing our ‘notes’ and sounds..wow. I wonder if we would all affect each other..even tho it may not be audible to is all…oh, energy..oh,the vibration of it all! It is a good thing the internet is here with Blogs like Brenda’s and we can share because I think at this point we may all feel a little ‘crazy’ at this point in our process…bang o rang!

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    • 38. LifeTapestryCreations  |  June 19, 2016 at 12:16 pm

      Hi Catharina,
      I believe that if we were all in a room together toning our individual sounds we would sound as beautiful as birds in nature. Each sound adding to the beauty and joy within us.

      And I so agree – how amazingly wonderful and yet, so expected that we en masse created instant communications through the Internet. And yet, I think that’s just our first foray into communications without physical contact or even words. The sky is no longer our limit!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 39. cristina  |  June 19, 2016 at 4:58 pm

    Dears Catharine, Marina and Brenda
    thanks for sharing your experiences.
    I have not had experience, but from my “brain tuning” on Friday, I’ve been in a “vegetable” state all weekend.
    What has been very comforting.
    by the way, Brenda, I also believe ” that’s just our first foray into communications without physical contact or even words.”
    Love, blesses and sparkles
    Cristina

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    • 40. LifeTapestryCreations  |  June 19, 2016 at 5:24 pm

      Hi Cristina,
      My husband and I were out yesterday and I was exhausted by the time we arrived home. Today, any project just seemed like way too much work. Indicators that we’re addressing and absorbing the energies bombarding us now in our unique ways.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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