Fear Addiction

July 31, 2017 at 9:10 am 31 comments

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Summary of Brenda’s July 28, 2017, channeled 15-minute “Creation Energies” show at http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman: Many of you are experiencing emotional and physical sensations that seem unusual – similar to what you experienced in puberty. You’re developing according to your Universal blueprint, just as you once did in 3D puberty. The only rule for developing as you intended before this lifetime’s earth entry is to follow your joy even if it seems wrong according to others. Self-love and self-worth energies are raining from the Universes to help you find your true self during this confusing time.

“Listen to You” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Many of you are discovering that media coverage or personal interactions are producing anger and words different from your usual reactions. Such is so because you are addressing past lives or past events that trigger anger within you.

You have a choice to re-live and clear that event from your personal history or to ignore your angry feelings.

Of course, many of your teachers and gurus strongly suggest that you address any piece that makes you angry, sad or fearful. That you confront the dragon, so to speak, instead of denying that there is a dragon in the room.

Such is true for some of you, but not all. Perhaps you do not wish to address that issue in this lifetime for various reasons including that doing so produces too many fear emotions for you to move beyond.

While it is true that many self-love, self-worth energies are floating about now, it is not a requirement that you address every piece that upsets you for you have already achieved much in this lifetime and are projected to achieve much more in joy.

So how do you determine if a deep feeling is one you wish to address now or at some point during this earth life? You merely need to ask yourself for as you clean the corners of your being, you might find some dust mites you wish had not reared their heads in this lifetime.

Something you often negate or forget is that you have the power to stop, start or pause the review of pieces within your being. You will not be a lesser being if you decide not to review specific fears. Just as you will not be a greater being if you do.

You have the freedom to discover any piece within you. You also have the freedom to negate that discovery now, later or forever.

Many of you are evolving so rapidly that your clearing continues beyond what is necessary.

Perhaps such a thought seems counter-intuitive for if you release the pain will you not project a more complete being in this lifetime? Yes and no. Because you have many areas of expertise and many areas you have already cleared, you might be needlessly taking extra-credit clearing classes. For the pieces some of you are delving into have more to do with 3D fear than 5D joy.

You are quite comfortable with, some might say addicted to, fear and anger. You might be missing fear for self-love feels new and therefore, uncomfortable. So you draw past fears to you to return to your comfort zone.

You initiated this journey as 3D beings filled with fears, anger, lack of self-love, and sadness from eons of earth experiences.

Consequently, you cleared your big fear and anger pieces, often also cleaning the corners, as you progressed in this transition – and the Universes provided you with a cleaning service via self-love energies.

But many of you have returned to cleaning your being instead of moving into joy as was expected.

Of course, there are pieces deep within you that are counterproductive to your joyful life. Of course, there are beings that remind you or are a replay of interactions you had in past lives. But for you to clear beyond what is required to move into joy is for you to negate all you have completed until now.

You are indeed more comfortable with fear than joy. Maybe the media encourages your current deep anger or perhaps it is politics, a relationship, coworker, community member, or on and on. But before you become totally enmeshed in determining why you are angry, perhaps you wish to ask yourself if you are angry, so you do not have to leave your comfort zone – your last-ditch effort to remain in fear. Like those grasping onto a mountain ledge with their fingernails before dropping into the abyss.

You are of 5D and you are surrounded by love not fear energies. So it is you must ask yourself if your latest foray into fear is to stop you from your new love lessons or because you need to clear a specific piece before you can love yourself.

Most often, the intensity of your fear or anger is the determining factor. If a fear seems to take over your life; if your thoughts and comments are related to this piece; if it is difficult for you to imagine a joy scenario because you are so fearful or angry, it is likely that you are taking extra-credit fear lessons.

Even though such cannot happen if you remain enveloped in fear, you are fully capable of creating a new life of joy. It is time to sense, see and feel joy. Anything that removes you from that place is most likely extra-credit fear.

Continue to dream both in daytime and nighttime – not how to rid yourself of your current overwhelming fear, but how and what to create in joy.

Joy is your new word both regarding usage and understanding. Neither of which will happen if you continue to delve into fears that have little to do with your joy.

The obvious response is “How can I feel joy if I am fearful or sad?” How indeed. That is the crux of this message. You have nothing to fear for you are more capable and skilled than any fear you have ever encountered.

For you to concentrate on fear instead of joy is for you to know that you are negating your powers – and you. So be it. Amen.

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  • 1. Eliza Ayres  |  July 31, 2017 at 10:08 am

    Reblogged this on Blue Dragon Journal.


    • 2. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 31, 2017 at 2:03 pm

      Thank you so much, Eliza, for posting my channel at Blue Dragon Journal Bluedragonjournal.com

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      • 3. Eliza Ayres  |  August 1, 2017 at 7:36 am

        You’re welcome, Brenda. Love your work!


      • 4. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 2, 2017 at 10:52 am

        Love back at ya, Eliza!!!!!!!!

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  • 5. Jenaire L.  |  July 31, 2017 at 10:18 am

    Hi Brenda, How timely! I see I am getting answers to my reoccurring fear, flying, and it is coming up soon. Just when I was ok with going on a trip and seeing myself enjoying the flight, I discover the days I will fly will be a thunder storm or rain. This causes in me intense anxiety. It must be about control issues, something outside (?) of my control. So I will now turn these fears to joy and see what happens. Funny thing, my brother is a Airline Captain. I did call him. He told me weather should not be my concern. That is what they deal with all the time. So I will send to the flight crew good loving thoughts.

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  • 6. LaLa Z  |  July 31, 2017 at 10:44 am

    Excellent! Thank you!!


    • 7. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 31, 2017 at 2:10 pm

      Dear LaLa,
      Thank you! Sharing my channels with others is one of my great joys.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,


  • 8. SageSpeaking  |  July 31, 2017 at 11:19 am

    Thank you Dear Star Sister/Dear Friend,
    So timely…after an immense anger the first week of this month, that came so swift., it truly knocked me around a bit. So unlike my natural flow. In the times of uneven energy, I am able to observe and allow the feeling or the energy push and pull and still remain balanced and unattached…WHILE LEARNING….well ….until the first week of July…oh my!!
    I immediately apologized OPENLY in public stage… and then beat myself up nicely for another week or so…and this showed me I had taken up surfing without allowing myself to steer…I caught the push and pull energy of the collective world stage. Buoyancy returned and just in time for the last 10 days of this month to be experienced as a deepening into my inner rising. That stint in density was not a pleasant ride, I had never experienced my anger this way before…and that was where my allowing became the blessing…the wisdom. I now wonder deeply about seat belts as this ride continues !! Blessings of Love and Blooming Onions !!! Namaste’

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    • 9. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 31, 2017 at 6:35 pm

      Dear SageSpeaking, Star Sister, Friend,
      Yup, my anger knocked me for a wallop also. My question was, “Do I follow the anger?” Only to channel this blog this weekend receiving the answer I needed as I realized that in my anger I had forgotten joy. So onto joy for me – my true mission.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Joyful Sparkles,

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      • 10. SageSpeaking  |  July 31, 2017 at 6:39 pm

        Yes indeed…Joy flows abundantly, and the balance has returned. Thank you so much for this amazing channeling. JOYFUL LOVE


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    • 12. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 31, 2017 at 2:05 pm

      Thank you so much for posting my channel at Reflections of A Sage Reflectionsofasage.Wordpress.com


  • 13. elizabethsadhu  |  July 31, 2017 at 12:42 pm

    Reblogged this on elizabethsadhu and commented:
    Thanks again! Brenda! Brilliant!


    • 14. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 31, 2017 at 2:06 pm

      Thank you so much, Sweetie, for posting my channel at ElizabethSadhu ElizabethSadhu.WordPress.com


  • 15. elizabethsadhu  |  July 31, 2017 at 12:44 pm

    Dearest Brenda—-wow! This is awesome……I have been a clearing machine…….this gives me peace. I know the title Warrior Goddess of Joy came to me a couple of years ago for a reason…………………..:-) AND this is a great reminder to BE it.

    love you tons and tons!!!!

    all kinds of sparkly love. 🙂 ❤ ❤

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    • 16. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 31, 2017 at 2:09 pm

      Hi Sweetie,
      I most definitely needed this channel as I was heavy into fear pieces that were over whelming any joy.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Self-love Sparkles,

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    • 18. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 31, 2017 at 6:36 pm

      Thank you so much for posting my channel at Dreamweaver333 Dreamweaver333.WordPress.com


  • 19. Delfina Gasoido  |  July 31, 2017 at 4:29 pm

    Oh Dear Brenda!!
    After so long I should not be surprised by your messages, but one more week I do.
    My natural state of being in society is a balanced, serene, diplomatic, stable and dialogic woman. My profession and my state almost require me, but it is not something I do for duty, it is natural in me.
    But on July 24, I do not know what happened to me, that I fell into a spiral of anger and inexplicable fear.
    Since then I have had to resort to the pipper metisticum plant, also known as Kava, a soft pepper from the southern seas, to be able to deal with my day to day.
    When I asked my superior being what was happening to me, I felt that what I was cleaning up were pieces of trauma, abuse, impotence and disrespect in another life to which I responded with extreme violence and cruelty.
    I accepted this, but I asked not to be aware of it, to solve it in dreams, so I have had several really wild and unpleasant dreams, especially two of them that could be the script of a movie.
    Today I feel better, but I’m still not quite right.
    So I’m going to ask one of the things you suggest, I do not want to clean it anymore, not if I’m going to be aware of it or it’s going to affect me like it has done these last few days.
    If I have been able to live several incarnations with it, I will be able to live one more, especially in one like this in which I have “awakened”.
    Thank you, from the heart, dear sister-friend, because on this occasion you have shown me an emergency exit that I did not see.
    Love, blesses and sparkles

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    • 20. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 31, 2017 at 6:55 pm

      Hi Cristina,
      The very same happened to me. I asked for information before sleep and my dreams were so wild and vibrant that I remembered them throughout the day. Then I started accessing some past lives thinking I needed to clear those lives to find joy even though I knew our 3D karma slate was wiped clean in 5D. Most definitely extra credit fear and clearing. This channel was my answer to stop clearing (extra-credit for sure) and start creating my joy.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Self-love/Joy Sparkles,

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  • 21. Stefan  |  July 31, 2017 at 6:31 pm

    I read your post in the afternoon, did not like the message, went to bed and slept for 6 hours. It’s past midnight now.
    Maybe I’m a fool but I have always thought that someday I was going to be told that all I had to live through until that point was a bad movie. That it was all an illusion, a test of faith and character and was finally being rewarded for my bravery, my courage, my holding on, my eternal belief in the good, my empathy, my love for my fellow human and staying away from the path of darkness. Like the movie The Game, where (spoiler alert) Michael Douglas falls from the roof and thinks he dies only to find out he lands on a huge safety bed and that all the maddening events he experienced were simply orchestrated by his brother and co.
    Will that day ever come? That’s what I expect to hear from your messages. I’m not saying it is what you should say, it’s merely my expectation. I want to read: Stefan, we are here to celebrate your unbelievable life story and would like to reward you with the highest possible trophy from the Universe, eternal abundance in all areas. Your test of faith has been unseen in the history of mankind, therefore we decided to award you this unique prize. We would like to honour and respect you and hereby guarantee you that you will eternally live in abundance and walk in peace. So be it. Amen.

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  • 22. Ray Of Helios  |  July 31, 2017 at 7:41 pm

    I love this posting!!!

    You know? Every human attribute has a purpose; has a real human function (or it would not exist). “Look on the bright side of things” is a common expression, but it should not be taken to the extreme or lock one into a false human expectation.

    There is also a “Dark side,” and what I mean by that is…that there are joyful things (commonly considered “Bright (light)” side of things, and the painful challenges (Shadow or dark side). It’s simplistic to see things so (bringing up the “Infinite Grey” just makes it more confusing…LOL).

    Anyway…My point…there is a purpose to all that we are…every side…every nook and cranny…the very best and lowest aspect of this experience (all relative and subjective for sure).

    One beautiful thing about being human is…we can endlessly change our mind one way…then another…back again…or land somewhere in between; never being stuck or held in one state…ESPECIALLY when we can choose in an empowered and conscious way…accept the consequence…and grow through all of it. It’s beautiful to feel the freedom of being so. It really is.

    Thanks Brenda. YOU ARE AMAZING.


    • 23. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 2, 2017 at 10:51 am

      Dear Ray of Helios,
      And now for all of us to claim our freedom to be!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Self-love Sparkles,


  • 24. Christie  |  August 1, 2017 at 12:31 pm

    Yes!!!… Thank you Brenda. I do love (and sense) that it is indeed a choice if we want to keep clearing, halt, or pause. Makes it feel much better to know that i have control, and that im not being dragged unwillingly like it has felt before.

    I do know myself tho, and i know that i will not be satisfied in my current state, it seems like ive always had this pain in me that im not fully who-i-am. Tho i abhor*** clearing after so freakin much of it in my life and losing my whole young adulthood to it (sucks!), i know that i will choose to keep clearing bc i also abhor not having all of me as i am very sentient of it.

    So then it starts to really aggravate me that i have to do what i hate to have what i love (the deeper aspects of myself). How annoying and frustrating right?! But, there IS a remedy. As a rule, everything gets easier within this Shift. After the veil-lift into the new earth, which i have been getting downloads on since January, clearing will be barely painful. Much of the clearing we do now is way more polarized in feeling than need be, bc that is simply the climate, the grid, of earth right now. After the veil lift, no more polarity. Therefore my downloads have told me that clearing or shedding skin in a high-vibrating environment as the new earth, will be incredibly easy compared to what we have known clearing to be. Thank god bc i have been so tired of the intensity and yet im too dissatisfied to stop. The new earth which we have created, is going to be so much more loving, in every way.

    And, see how generous we were, to have been willing to go thru such challenging terrain thru the dark ages in order to create the opportunity to come to Ease and Peace forevermore. We have created the fact that Struggle is old news. The new earth and veil-lift is to happen probably within a year (unless we timeline jump there now by individual choice) as my downloads have said, and when we arrive it will astound us beyond belief. We will know why we had to struggled in the past/ why it was more challenging than we would have liked.

    Some thoughts/ dwnlds that have been circulating within me for the last several days.. thought id share.. as reading this last channel solidifies it for me ♥ !

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    • 25. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 2, 2017 at 6:49 pm

      Dear Christie,
      I already feel as if my clearing has become easier than in the past – even though I got carried away a week or so ago with clearing more than I needed to. This week’s Brenda’s Blog channel, similar to what you stated, helped me remember I only need to clear as much as I want to clear and when I want to do it. I also found myself forgetting the old airplane adage that “you need to put on your oxygen mask before helping those younger or more infirm than you.” For a few days, I wanted to save the world – now I’ve returned to saving me.

      I very much like your channeled info that within a few months we’ll be completely in an ease and peace. Thank you for sharing.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Self-love Sparkles,


      • 26. Christie  |  August 3, 2017 at 3:20 am

        Dear Brenda,

        I am glad to hear that the clearing is easier now than in the past for you Brenda… whew right?! Yes you are right on the money to return to saving/ caring for you, and to leave saving the world. I very much enjoy that you are one of the beacons who share that it is not about saving the world anymore. I think it takes bravery to make that shift inside, and also to share/ inspire with information that encourages sovereignty, bc many out there in the spiritual communities are still encouraging the “save everyone” model. It makes me feel heavy and anxious sometimes when i see others talking about how we “should” save this world. Even saying it now, i can see how un-5d it is. So it makes me joyful to hear you always say, that what we are to do now is “follow our joy.” Yes, yes, yes!

        I am like you in that i have to keep honing myself back to self-focus; it’s as if a trigger subtly comes along and i start the care-taking mode again. Then i realize what im doing and i have to scoot myself back. I don’t think it’s that we “keep going back to saving”.. it’s like we go deeper in reclaiming ourselves from caretaking, with each time we go there and have to pull ourselves back. We did this for many lifetimes after all, so i think that as we reclaim the many aspects of ourselves, caretaking will come up a lot. We are always increasing in our sovereign attitude towards life. We are increasing in the 5d sovereign attitude all the time, even if we feel like we’re repeating it over n over. I very much have always enjoyed that you have been one of the few who are leading and “beacon-ing” to others to let go of the saving and the caretaking. It’s what we all need/ed to hear!!!

        And i do love how this channel said we have a choice as to wether we want to keep clearing or not, or to pause. It makes intuitive sense to me. For me, clearing times had been easier for a good while, and i was elated that i could feel myself clearing and that it was like a low-hum in the background, very gentle. It was like this for almost a year, and as you noted, clearing had gotten easier for you too. Then, in the last month or so, the clearing has been intense and almost unbearable. I guess i should ask my intuition why. I want it to be like before, to have it feel easy and low-key. I do know many are feeling extreme right now in their clearing experience… so i wonder why the intensity for even many of us seasoned first wavers.. ill have to try to see why, and to intend to slow things down! Which reading this channel was really good for helping me to understand i really am in control. And yes i did channel that we will indeed hit a definite point between the next months to year, that everything will be very easy, from clearing, to money, to interactions, to worldly chaos, to manifesting… basically what we always knew was possible deep inside… it will be such a joyful moment in time when we arrive.. we will all know when it happens.. the tide will have built to a crescendo and it will tip the world to change… and my message said, we should all be easy on ourselves, we have helped create this new world, so stop feeling like we haven’t done enough!!

        Thank you again for “beacon-ing” and being authentic about your inner process; it helps to hear about what you are going through with the caretaking and anything else; just being yourself is the epitome of being a beacon, and we all appreciate it here on your blog and radio blog!!!

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      • 27. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 4, 2017 at 4:52 pm

        Hi Christie,
        My transition model is sharing and caring as we each make the transition that is right for us. But like you, I sometimes find my caring returns to a caretaking mode. And so it is that we’re spiraling out into larger and larger circles until the waves or circles disappear as is true when you throw a rock into a lake.
        Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Self-love Sparkles,


  • 28. Stefan  |  August 3, 2017 at 7:49 am

    I’m not going to pause on clearing, it would be like running an ultra-marathon and deciding to start walking 100m from the finish line. Bring it on. With the lunar eclipse on Monday, the 8/8 Lion’s gate and the upcoming solar eclipse knocking at my door, I can see the end of my complete transformation.
    What I’ve learned in clearing trauma is to be my best friend. My inner child and me are bff’s. How are you feeling kiddo? Scared? Me too, that’s fine. But you know what? We’ve always done fine until now, we can handle this one too. Yes we can.
    This makes anything that comes to the surface a piece of cake and makes me and little Stefan the Dynamic Duo.
    This epithomy of self-love allows me to finally be my authentic self. I can be kind and gentle or the biggest asshole you’ve ever met. It all depends on the energy the other person sends out. Send love, get love back. Send crap, get a bigger load of crap back. The old ‘people pleaser/shuns confrontation’ Stefan is no more. Fantastic to see how people respect me nowadays, simply by saying what I feel.

    My post earlier this week about being disappointed and expecting a grand prize from the Universe was a final hurdle to overcome in self-love. Instead of waiting for an outside force or event to make me a billionaire and guarantee a good life, I will do it myself. The illusion of an external saviour has been pierced.
    I’ve always been there for me, the only one that ever has been. Yet instead of treating myself with criticism, fear, anger,… I’ve become my biggest fan. I used to be a lawyer and football agent amongst other things, handling other people’s problems and money but from now on I am my only and best client. My number one.

    PS: Brenda, since your domain name ends in .com there’s no need to mention “www” on the radio show. Less tongue twisting.


    • 29. Christie  |  August 4, 2017 at 4:35 am


      Yay for you for increasing on your self-love. For me though, self-love has brought me to asking for easy clearing times. Im done with diving head first into hell energies. I am done with the “bring it on”- bc i know i deserve the best. And i am done with “making it happen”- i love myself enough to command and receive, bc i love myself enough to drop working for things. It feels completely unnatural for me at this point. To each their own. But remember to claim “ease” in a big giant way. To love yourself even more. If you want of course…!


      • 30. Stefan  |  August 4, 2017 at 7:18 am

        That’s why I wrote “piece of cake”…


    • 31. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 4, 2017 at 4:57 pm

      Hi Stefan,
      Perfect!!! You are your only and best client!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Self-love Sparkles,
      PS I had no idea I didn’t need to mention www on my weekly BlogTalkRadio show. But then, channeling is much easier for me than computer stuff!!!



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