Should You Go or Should You Stay?

August 5, 2018 at 9:05 pm 39 comments

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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s August 3, 2018, channeled 15-minute “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:    For many, the outer chaos is becoming more illogical. You feel like parents watching two children fight over one sand pail despite another available pail. Some of you will continue to focus on outer energies for you’re discovering new ways to create a more equal and harmonious world. Others of you have little interest. You will know your objective by your interests which are more focused daily. 

“Flitting Between Relationships” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

We wish to address your fear that all is not well in your life. That what you experienced the past few days will be forever.

Even though such might be true for those who do not wish to join the light train, those of you reading this message no longer need to believe in doom and gloom. For you, en masse, have transitioned beyond fear.

You are no longer of 3D no matter how diligently you try to be.

Some of you are laughing because who would wish to remain in fear given the opportunity of a life of joy? Who indeed? So it is you have cleared entire lifetimes of fear, as well as fear dust pockets. Resulting in your accurate proclamation that you are no longer of 3D.

If you are angry or fearful, you are merely playing at being of 3D. A somewhat difficult concept to grasp for who would wish to play with fear and anger? You or you would not be asking about fear.

So it is you are learning you no longer wish to feel or play with fear. The fear that was is no longer fun, interesting, or practical. For when you become fearful or angry, you halt the flow of love and joy that is now rightfully yours.

What are you to do if someone in your inner circle is projecting fear or anger? The answer is always your choice. But the choice you are discovering as the most uncomfortable internally is to join them in their fear or anger. For doing so merely enhances their anger, their fear.

Perhaps such does not necessarily yet compute with you, but it will. For you are discovering that joining someone beginning to transition or solidly in 3D, does not make your life or their life more joyful. It merely becomes a group pity party.

Perhaps, you are doing so to “whip them into shape” or in more Universal terms, “for them to partake of love and joy.” Something you are not capable of doing. For each must declare freedom from fear in their own way and time.

Some of you are concerned those you love may never shift away from fear. You cannot make anyone do anything even though their need for love is obvious.

Many are now moving through their deepest fears, their dark night of the soul. Something you accomplished months or years ago. So just as is true for an older sibling who cannot understand why their younger sibling does not comprehend the rules of the game they wish to play, so it is for you now.

You have found the light. But that does not mean those you love are at the same place or Universal age if you will.

You cannot make anyone do anything, or more to the point for this channel, feel anything. This is an inside-out transition. So your words of love, support, anger, or fear mean little or nothing to them for they are a different Universal age.

Allow them to transition in their time. The question then becomes, “What if the two of you are too far apart emotionally?” Again, that is your choice. Do you continue on your path knowing you will leave them behind? Do you slow down to help them along? Or do you leave completely?

A quandary in which more and more of you are finding yourselves enmeshed. Such is little different from an older sibling remaining in a school grade so his or her younger sibling can catch up. Of course, such does not happen for each child must learn what they are capable of learning when they are capable of doing so.

So it is for you. Even though you may wish to slow your progress so those you love will catch up to you, such is not possible for you are too advanced to slow down. In truth, you are racing down your path.

Perhaps you are fearful of losing a relationship – not that that relationship is particularly right for you, but that it is what you know. It is comfortable.

Those who make you angry or fearful, but remain of your heart, will catch up eventually just as is true for a younger sibling.

The difference is that it will not take decades or years for such to happen for you are their beacon, their light. And they are more afraid of losing you than you can possibly imagine.

Of course, such an explanation does not cover those who have no intention of transitioning or are not part of your beacon. For your beacon can only be seen by those on their transition path.

You will know without needing to check with friends or relatives if those who make you angry or fearful will continue to be of your life. If the thought of leaving them, gives you a feeling of great relief, it is time to go. If such a thought creates sadness or a feeling that you do not wish to leave their presence, it merely means they are of your beacon just not at your current level.

Which of course, appears ominous for when will you feel the need to leave? Those in your light, your beacon are transitioning much more rapidly than was true for you.

As a historical reminder, the first United States scoutmasters needed years to discover what lay beyond the Mississippi River. Those scoutmasters were followed by wagon trains and eventually railroads and automobiles. Each method of transportation or discovery more rapidly completing what initially required years. So it is for you now – and those you love.

If you need to leave them, you will know. And if such a thought strikes fear in your heart, most likely they are transitioning but at a different level. Allow them to be as you continue your joy life. They will catch up more rapidly than you can imagine. Not in years or decades, but months, weeks, and days. So be it. Amen.

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  • 1. dreamweaver333  |  August 5, 2018 at 10:55 pm

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    • 2. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 6, 2018 at 8:01 pm

      Thank you so much for reblogging my channel on Dreamweaver333 Dreamweaver333.com

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  • 3. Inma  |  August 6, 2018 at 5:44 am

    Dearest Brenda,

    The entire channel seems to be written also for me. I could say that the content of it all could have been as useful for me many years ago, when I had to deal with it on my own with a deep feeling of loneliness, incomprehension, solitude, doubts whether I was wrong, or if everything was fruit of my imagination. Now, the channel comes to me after accomplishing many necessary steps I ‘ve been working on for so long…which makes me feel even more proud of myself in the sense of self-recognition of my braveness. I hope it doesn’t sound boastful, on the contrary, it makes me powerful and strong internally in a very intimate, deep balanced sense.

    I am profoundly greatful to read this important message which reaffirms what I already knew, but thanks to it, my doubts are dissolved.

    Lots of Love for you and Dave,

    Inma

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    • 4. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 6, 2018 at 8:05 pm

      Dear Inma,
      I’m so proud of you also. And you were brave – you followed your heart despite your fears of being wrong. Isn’t it wonderful that we forerunners are powerful enough to be ourselves even when it feels like a 3D wrong?
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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    • 5. janis´¯`·.¸ʚįɞ  |  August 7, 2018 at 12:52 pm

      ❤️ Inma ❤️!

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      • 6. Inma  |  October 29, 2018 at 2:28 am

        ❤️❤️❤️

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  • 7. Eliza Ayres  |  August 6, 2018 at 7:32 am

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    • 10. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 6, 2018 at 8:08 pm

      Thank you so much, Paula, for reblogging my channel on Living An Inspired Life paulamarchand.wordpress.com

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  • 11. elizabethsadhu  |  August 6, 2018 at 2:22 pm

    Reblogged this on elizabethsadhu and commented:
    Letting go of those folks…… Thanks for the affirming message, dearest Brenda!

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    • 12. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 6, 2018 at 8:09 pm

      Thank you so much, Sweetie, for reblogging my channel on ElizabethSadhu elizabethsadhu.wordpress.com

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  • 13. janis´¯`·.¸ʚįɞ  |  August 6, 2018 at 2:27 pm

    I have done this…left. I have never felt guilty about it but perhaps have felt guilty for not feeling guilty. I am not a fighter. I wanted a divorce, I wanted my husband to move out, he didn’t want to. I had limited funds so I moved out, away from my husband but also my 3 children…ages 4, 9 and 11. He was/is a good person but was no longer a match. I know… there’s very little sympathy for me especially when there was another man in the picture. My husband was a serious type and also good at everything… very dedicated, dependable, a good provider, able to do household things, spend time with the children, etc. He could be a little impatient sometimes. And it appeared that I was really not good at anything… except maybe abstract things like patience, acceptance, non-judgment, etc.
    I met someone who made me laugh and who enjoyed people but he was also trying to recover from alcohol. I found out what my skills were good for. He once told me that I was the closest thing he knew of to Jesus… wow…ha!…guess Jesus wouldn’t have moved out of the house from his children, huh?…
    Anyway, I do appreciate these words you have posted, Brenda, so much…
    ❤️❤️❤️

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    • 14. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 6, 2018 at 8:21 pm

      Dear Janis,
      As you already know, you’re you – not your neighbor nor your friend, you’re you. And you’re living as you, despite all the society shoulds and have tos. Would your children be happier if you had stayed and been angry or depressed? Why does society dictate that mothers are lifelong caregivers and fathers can slip in and out? Questions you’ve most certainly asked and answered for yourself – not society but you.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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    • 17. Inma  |  August 7, 2018 at 2:48 am

      Dear Janis,

      Any decision we make is ours. It doesn’t mean it is going to be easy, but it’s our choice. At least, this is the conclusion I have always reached, even though I have sometimes wondered what would have happened if I had chosen a different path…then I feel at ease when I say to myself it was me the one who chose.

      Much Love,

      Inma

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      • 18. janis´¯`·.¸ʚįɞ  |  August 7, 2018 at 12:54 pm

        Yes, Inma…so true… ❤️

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      • 19. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 7, 2018 at 6:54 pm

        Hi Inma,
        I’ve lived my life like that also. My one personal mantra that I’ve used over and over since my first husband died nearly 40 years ago is “I don’t want to be extremely elderly in a rocking chair wishing I would have done something.”
        Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Energies,
        Brenda

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    • 20. Inma  |  August 9, 2018 at 5:49 am

      Hi!

      After reading and re-reading the posts, I’ve been thinking quite a lot about choices. Initially and gradually I felt more and more uneasy because some unpleasant memories came intensely back to me. I’ve needed great work to be able to look at them as if they were part of a movie that don’t wake emotions up.

      But what I want to share is something that for me rounds up what I previously posted. Yes, the choices are ultimately ours, but there may be more people implied in the sense of partaking. Let’s see if I can put it into words. Our earthly comprehension of other energetic levels is usually very limited. Who knows if we, prior to our birth, have offered and agreed with others (especially our most beloved ones) to play the role we (and they) are carrying out so that each one of us can experience here on Earth whatever we had intented to, and let and facilitate others experience what they meant before coming here? When I meditate on it all, all the pieces of the puzzle come to its right place.

      Lots of Love to you all,

      Inma

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      • 21. janis´¯`·.¸ʚįɞ  |  October 28, 2018 at 7:37 pm

        I love and appreciate this, Inma! Thank you for catching my attention to these thoughts!

        ❤ Inma ❤

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  • 22. elizabethsadhu  |  August 6, 2018 at 2:30 pm

    I’m with Inma. I have let go of a few family/friends in my life. Some are what I call human vacuum cleaner people (Judith Orloff calls them “energy vampires”). They take and take and suck you dry. Some are so stuck in negative thinking that it is hard not to get caught up in that dark hole. 😀😀😀♥️♥️♥️ Don’t need it!

    Interestingly, I am attending a family reunion in my dad’s side in a couple of weeks. I have not seen most of these folks for 45 years. Pretty crazy. And for some reason I feel called to go this time. But, I would not attend if my dad was going to be there. 😀 And he is not. He has alienated how whole, large, family.

    There is one cousin just my age who I am super excited to connect with. It will be an interesting experience.

    Thanks for this confirming and affirming post.

    My honey is very LOYAL and does not let go of anyone. 😀 So I am stuck with a couple of folks because of him. I have figured out how to manage and minimize these for me. A huge relief!!!

    Love love love, E

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    • 23. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 6, 2018 at 8:23 pm

      Dear Sweetie,
      And so we are learning how to deal, minimize, let go and bring in step-by-step or in some cases, person to person. A whole lot of changing going on for most of us!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Energies,
      Brenda

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      • 24. elizabethsadhu  |  August 6, 2018 at 8:24 pm

        Yes. Feeling excited and happy for all that is happening. Love

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  • 25. PeaceNowFlower  |  August 6, 2018 at 6:00 pm

    Actually the last few days have been peaceful for my mind, but hard on my body. My body suddenly is tired where I will get out too take the bus somewhere and on the walk to the bus my muscles tingle with energy that makes them tired. A new energy is being detected by my body and my body is saying rest and let it pass. Often before on high energy days my body’s response is ‘now I will make you sleep till the wave passes.’ Sleep is my body’s cure for most sickness too. I do not know if the wave will pass or this tingling energy is something my body has to adapt too.

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    • 26. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 6, 2018 at 8:30 pm

      Dear PeaceNowFlower,
      I’m exhausted now also as are many responding to my channels and other channel’s messages. As for sidetracking yourself by watching conspiracy theories, why do you like watching them? Curiosity, fun, information, easy entertainment, etc. etc.? Only you know why and how the information plays into your role. I find them boring, but obviously, others don’t or there wouldn’t be so many readily available. Explore yourself and you’ll find you’re extremely interesting to observe as you evolve.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 27. PeaceNowFlower  |  August 6, 2018 at 6:14 pm

    On a side note, can’t I slow down and miss the light train if I watch enough conspiracy theories on YouTube and Gaia? Every time I think I’ve moved beyond them I get curious and return.

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  • 28. Mary Chisholm  |  August 7, 2018 at 9:18 am

    BEST message ever for my present bumpy ride Brenda…so clear ❤ ❤ ❤ U and your 'dudes.'

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    • 29. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 7, 2018 at 6:56 pm

      Hey Mary,
      Live and learn takes on a whole new meaning with our amazing transition, doesn’t it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda
      PS I learn as much as anyone when I’m channeling. COOL!

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  • 30. elizabethsadhu  |  August 7, 2018 at 10:21 am

    I’m feeling called to share this. I’m finding it so helpful.

    Love you all!

    https://elizabethsadhu.wordpress.com/2018/08/05/cloud-council/

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    • 31. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 7, 2018 at 6:58 pm

      Hi Sweetie,
      I’ve used your “Cloud Technique” several times since you told me about it. Gotta love yet another easy way to shift our lives.
      Blessings, Lots of Love, and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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      • 32. elizabethsadhu  |  August 7, 2018 at 7:12 pm

        ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ i love how it works. Feels like a miracle sometimes.

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      • 33. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 7, 2018 at 7:14 pm

        Yes, it does, Sweetie.

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  • 34. Sunny  |  August 9, 2018 at 9:25 am

    Not sure if I am a beacon or anything, the other day I found myself explaining a lightworker why I am not a good example to follow as I am a ‘loser’ of sorts in terms of survival…

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    • 35. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 9, 2018 at 4:18 pm

      Dear Sunny,
      I’m so sorry you feel that way about yourself. As is true for all, you’re perfect.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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    • 37. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 9, 2018 at 4:19 pm

      Thank you so much for reblogging my channel on Claim Your Power claimyourpowerblog.wordpress.com

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    • 39. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 27, 2018 at 10:32 am

      Thank you so much for reblogging my channel at Pouvoir del Imagination pouvoirdelimagination.wordpress.comou-rester/

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