The Holidays and You

November 19, 2018 at 8:59 am 19 comments

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Summary of Brenda’s November 16, 2018, channeled “Creation Energies” show at  As you transition, you’ll have less interest in shoulds. If you have to make a decision, such as attending a family gathering, select the most self-nurturing action. In the future, decisions that seem so important now will disappear as was true for the test you didn’t study for in grade school.

“Happy New Year!” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

We wish to address your increasing need to live the life you dreamed of – the freedom to be.

Perhaps you believe you continue to follow others, we beg to differ. For you once did so without regard for yourself – or others, at times. Even though you might now function as others want you to, you are internally or externally stating your independence.

Before, you did not consciously know you had a choice for your shoulds were so deeply ingrained.

Your choices are now coming to the forefront with thoughts of, “Do I want to do this or be that?” A new concept for most of you. For your 3D choices were limited to declarations of right actions by your parents, community, country, and global citizenship at that specific time in 3D history.

But now that you are starting to think ‘outside the should box’ about your needs and interests, your life is becoming more difficult. Not because you are wrong to declare yourself a sovereign being, but because you are not functioning as you once did.

Those closest to you are both amazed and enthralled. Even though their response might be anger based on fear, they are also likely beginning to initiate their spark of independence because of you.

The next few days, it will probably seem as if no one is particularly thrilled with your words or actions for they are expecting the being with whom they are familiar. Causing you to question yourself, for you are used to being the ‘nice’ person meshing with society’s flow.

These new, unusual words and deeds of yours might come from deep within you – and surprise you as much as the person with whom you are interacting.

Even though others will marvel at your courage, they will also feel some disdain for that courage because all are supposed to follow the established rules.

Innovators cannot be rule followers.

You are shifting the earth in ways never before attempted. So it is each of you forerunners is an innovator in a different field or area. It is as if you forerunners created a university with millions of program areas.

So it is you will not necessarily find anyone completely compatible with your thoughts or actions. For those of 3D will be amazed, if not angry, at your new-found independence and other forerunners will not be as interested in your area as are you.

Such does not mean you will be isolated, but instead that you have the independence of thought and action cheered on by other forerunners. You will also likely create anger in those fully of 3D, and amazement in those beginning their transition process.

You are not like anyone of earth or the Universes. You are a strong, independent being who willingly accepted this challenge of changing earth from fear to love. Not necessarily an easy task, but a task you accepted with excitement and joy.

For you were tired of fitting within the tight parameters of earth life required lifetime after lifetime to perfect your current skills.

It is as if you, en masse, said to the Universes, “I have fit my square peg in round earth holes far too many times in preparation for this transition. If the transition does not happen in this life, send someone else to perform my tasks.” At that point you and your forerunners were ready.

So it is you are shifting earth from fear to love more rapidly than you envisioned. Even though fear and hate continue to be promoted, fewer and fewer are willing to be part of either.

You believe it is your innate humanity coming to the forefront. Instead, it is your Universal being of love.

Rather than burning you at the stake, imprisoning you, or otherwise ending your actions so fear could dominate the world, others are beginning to follow your forerunner lead.

For all forerunners have been severely punished for love actions in one or more lives. Not because those actions were not right for you, but because those of the earth had not yet completed their fear lessons.

This time is different as those of you daring to peek outside your shoulds are discovering. Those who wish to remain of 3D are fading into the background. And those sparked by your need to be free of all 3D requirements are watching you in awe and amazement with thoughts of “Why do I have to do or be that?”

We stated months ago that your holidays would never be quite the same as in the past. So it is you are discovering what we meant with that statement. For your holidays are now more in line with who you are becoming, instead of who you were – surprising you as much as others.

You have become a beacon of light leading those living in the darkness of fear into the light of self-love. You are exceptional leaders holding your beacon of light higher and higher daily.

Allow new you to shine through your physical being by doing and saying that which feels right, instead of what others expect.

You are new you in all your glory. Allow that to be. So be it. Amen. If you would like to receive Brenda’s Blogs when posted, please click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her Blog & Subscribe page and then click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation.

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Happy New Year! Triumph!

19 Comments Add your own

  • 1. Eliza Ayres  |  November 19, 2018 at 9:03 am

    Reblogged this on Blue Dragon Journal.


  • 3. Delfina Gasoido  |  November 19, 2018 at 9:43 am

    AMÉN!!! 😍✨❄️🌈🎖🥇🏆🏆🎉🎉🎉🎊🍭


    • 4. LifeTapestryCreations  |  November 21, 2018 at 12:04 pm

      Hi Cristina,
      Triple AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Free to be us.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,


  • 5. elizabethsadhu  |  November 19, 2018 at 11:13 am

    Reblogged this on elizabethsadhu and commented:
    Oh yes! I am a square peg! So happy not to squash myself into that old round hole. ♥️♥️

    Liked by 3 people

    • 6. LifeTapestryCreations  |  November 21, 2018 at 12:06 pm

      Hi Sweetie,
      Enough already of trying to chop off our corners!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,


      • 7. elizabethsadhu  |  November 21, 2018 at 1:38 pm

        Totally! This made me giggle


      • 8. LifeTapestryCreations  |  November 21, 2018 at 6:11 pm

        giggles are good – no great!!!


    • 9. LifeTapestryCreations  |  November 21, 2018 at 12:08 pm

      Thank you so much, Sweetie, for reblogging my channel at ElizabethSadhu


  • 10. elizabethsadhu  |  November 19, 2018 at 11:19 am

    Beautiful! Giggling a bit. This Thanksgiving just about perfect. No turkey, gravy, mashed potatoes, sweet potatoes, cranberries, etc.

    I am going to make Beer Cheese Potato soup. A big veggie tray. Baked apples.
    My son and gf will make a veg lasagne. My daughter will make yummy Olive bread. My hubby’s ex (the only reason this won’t be a perfect holiday) will bring tofurkey.

    It looks like the more I establish my boundaries and set my foot down about what I need, the better my life is and the better my relationship is with my honey. Yay!

    Beautiful post! Thank you wonderful and very dear friend, Brenda!!

    Happy holidays to all!

    Here here to not trying to fit our square-ness in any round holes. 😀😀♥️♥️♥️♥️🌈🌈🌈

    Liked by 2 people

  • 11. bhdalke  |  November 19, 2018 at 11:23 am

    This post was brilliantly timed with a realization I had earlier today! It really confirmed my realization for me! I am profoundly grateful.

    Liked by 2 people

    • 12. LifeTapestryCreations  |  November 21, 2018 at 12:10 pm

      Hi Bhdalke,
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

      Liked by 1 person

  • 13. Mary Chisholm  |  November 19, 2018 at 1:28 pm

    Hi Brenda: Wow, this channel is so on board with what is happening here in Canada. It looks like a nationwide postal strike is truly going to affect Christmas mail/parcels/online shopping. Even if the strike ends today, the backlog from ongoing rotating strikes is massive. The post office has even told other countries not to send mail to Canada right now. This will affect our family too however, I immediately saw the huge potential for busting up the massive ‘should culture’ around Christmas. Mercury Retrograde has to be a big player here, as well.
    I could write a novella about the opportunities for light and heart awakenings for so many because of this profound event here in Canada. Like the US, Canada is home to millions of us who came here from many countries and eras. Imagine all those millions of family/friend connections which will need to be extra innovative about their expressions of love. Indeed, shift is in the air ❤ ❤ ❤

    Liked by 2 people

    • 14. elizabethsadhu  |  November 19, 2018 at 3:54 pm

      Mary! Isn’t that fun and interesting. ♥️♥️♥️🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 🎁🎁🎁🎁


    • 15. LifeTapestryCreations  |  November 21, 2018 at 12:12 pm

      Dear Mary,
      I love your sharing of the new, “Like the US, Canada is home to millions of us who came here from many countries and eras. Imagine all those millions of family/friend connections which will need to be extra innovative about their expressions of love.”
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

      Liked by 2 people

  • 16. dreamweaver333  |  November 19, 2018 at 1:35 pm

    Reblogged this on dreamweaver333.


    • 17. LifeTapestryCreations  |  November 21, 2018 at 12:13 pm

      Thank you so much for reblogging my channel on Dreamweaver333


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    • 19. LifeTapestryCreations  |  November 21, 2018 at 12:15 pm

      Thank you so much, Paula, for reblogging my channel at Living An Inspired Life



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