New You Humor

December 31, 2018 at 9:51 am 37 comments

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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s December 28, 2018, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:   You’ve left or are leaving your cocoon allowing you to fly where you wish. Just as a caterpillar has different interests than a butterfly, so too do you or will you.

“Are You Compromising Joy?” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

You are preparing for a new year and new you.

You believe you are no different than before you initiated your transition. Yet, you have become belligerent when feeling pushed, belittled, or ignored. You also feel more joy than you anticipated mere days ago.

Of course, some of you continue to be mired in your yesterdays – but less than before in both feelings and actions.

So it is you are claiming your new being day by day as your giggles float to the surface and your joy becomes contagious.

Such is not to say you have become fully new you, but instead that you can sense who you are becoming in ways you did not believe possible a few weeks ago. The heaviness you felt since you began this transition seems to be more of a memory than your current reality.

Of course, you can bring painful memories to the forefront if you wish. It is just that you wish to do so less and less. Your painful memories are becoming more like a school subject you did not enjoy and have no current use for than the conscious and subconscious trauma you held onto lifetime after lifetime.

Others are beginning to note your joy and laughter. Not that they have not noted it before, but that you once use joy and laughter to hide some of your true feelings. For your past actions were often coated with unprocessed fears and angst.

Often you used past joy to become someone you were not. Like a comedian who is sad when he or she is not performing. The joy you displayed was likely not true to you but instead was what was expected of you.

Even though some of you have never been the life of the party, you managed to laugh or smile at socially appropriate places. You are now discovering you have little need to smile or laugh unless you feel something is funny to you – no one else.

So it is also for those of you who have been the life of the party. Your joy focus is much more centered on your being instead of pleasing others.

Perhaps you know people who brought joy to others just by their comments or actions. Yet, those people most often functioned in 3D as others expected – almost as unpaid comedians.

So it is those unpaid comedians and those of you who smiled and laughed because you thought you should are declaring freedom from those limitations.

New freedoms that are creating true joy within you instead of needing to make others laugh – or a need to smile at the socially acceptable places. Of course, such does not seem that difficult until you test it as many of you have been for months.

You have changed your humor self in ways you did not anticipate a few months ago. Those people who make fun of you in a supposed loving way, are no longer funny. And those who make fun of others in the same fashion are less than funny to new you.

Granted, you have a sense of humor, but it is a new sense of humor that has little to do with 3D you or others. Humor in the past was often about making fun of others or you. About encouraging the disparaging remarks that passed for humor in a fear-based world.

It is no different if humor is based on disparaging you, another being or a grouping for all is about trying to make someone feel less than they are.

So it is you have crossed the humor bridge without pain or fear. For you now find yourself telling others that something is not funny or leaving the scene despite what others think or say about you doing so.

You are stronger and wiser than was true just weeks ago.

You are approaching your new year with a different being that seemingly slipped into your physical body without your knowledge.

In truth, you fought for your new being ‘tooth and nail’ despite your seeming ease of doing so.

You are no longer of 3D.

Your greatest proof of that last statement is you have altered your being without fists, guns, or other fear producing actions. You merely decided what you will or will not accept.

So it is you are the beacon of hope and love for those who wish to follow. For you are discovering that new you is more than enough to be of heaven and earth. That true you in all your wisdom is enough.

You do not need to learn how to function in any society – including the one you are currently in. You are you and that knowledge is all you need now and forevermore. So be it. Amen.

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Are You Compromising Joy? Easy Creation Route

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  • 1. Delfina Gasoido  |  December 31, 2018 at 11:41 am

    happy new year to all this fabulous community !!!
    that 2019 brings us all that Joy of Being that we are so looking for.
    With Love
    Cristina

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    • 2. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 1, 2019 at 10:56 am

      Hi Cristina!
      I second a 2019 and beyond filled with love and laughter for all!!!!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 3. Eliza Ayres  |  December 31, 2018 at 11:42 am

    Reblogged this on Blue Dragon Journal.

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    • 4. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 1, 2019 at 10:57 am

      Thank you so much, Eliza, for reblogging my channel at Blue Dragon Journal bluedragonjournal.com

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      • 5. Eliza Ayres  |  January 1, 2019 at 12:12 pm

        Happy New Year, Brenda!

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      • 6. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 1, 2019 at 6:45 pm

        And the same to you, Eliza, for 2019 and beyond!

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  • 7. elizabethsadhu  |  December 31, 2018 at 1:08 pm

    Reblogged this on elizabethsadhu and commented:
    #wallowingingratitude
    #cultivatesilly
    #joyepidemic

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    • 8. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 1, 2019 at 10:59 am

      Thank you so much, Sweetie, for reblogging my channel at EliizabethSadhu elizabethsadhu.wordpress.com

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  • 9. janis´¯`·.¸ʚįɞ  |  December 31, 2018 at 1:19 pm

    Reblogged this on Lighthearted Signs 🙂 and commented:
    ❤️❤️❤️

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    • 10. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 1, 2019 at 11:00 am

      Thank you so much, Janis, for reblogging my channel at Lighthearted Signs lightheartedsigns.wordpress.com

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  • 11. elizabethsadhu  |  December 31, 2018 at 1:26 pm

    Thanks for this!
    The first thing I thought of was Robin Williams. He was so frickin funny but had one of the saddest faces I have ever seen. He was probably exhausted. And I had a long time girlfriend who was a mega uplifter and life of the party, but got more and more reclusive and then finally took her own life. She didn’t know how to ask for or accept help. 😢

    I have often been the life of the party. I have had friends say they wanted to have a party, could I throw it for them? 😀 Makes me tired just remembering that. Heehee

    I am finding that It is still WAY TOO EASY for me to pop into that mode when around a bunch of 3D folks. I get EXHAUSTED! Still working on this one. ♥️♥️♥️🛁🛁🛁🛁🛁🛁🛁 Many bathes later.

    But when I dance I am so in my joy! And I am still silly silly and it is what MOVES ME, not for anyone else. Although some folks do get a kick out of it. And I really don’t give a flying frick what anyone thinks when I am in that space. I got the name Warrior Goddess of Joy for a reason. 🎉🎉♥️♥️♥️♥️😘😘😘😘

    I find myself spending more time at home. And fortunately my honey gets it. He is often saying to me, go take a bath or a nap or go read your book. 😀🛁📖💤🛌

    Life is good. There are no rules. Except, if you want to call it a rule, loving ourselves completely and unconditionally! 🎉🎉🎉♥️♥️♥️

    Loving you all! Loving me.

    Brenda…. i love you! Thanks for all you do and who you are!

    Happy happy happy New year! 🎉🎉🎉🎉

    Happy New BEING!!!

    E
    #wallowingingratitude
    #joyepidemic
    #cultivatesilly
    #iloveme

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    • 12. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 1, 2019 at 11:10 am

      Hi Sweetie,
      YUP! Loving ourselves enough to do and say what’s right for us is where it’s at!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 13. dreamweaver333  |  December 31, 2018 at 4:10 pm

    Reblogged this on dreamweaver333.

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    • 14. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 1, 2019 at 11:14 am

      Thank you so much for reblogging my channel at Dreamweaver333 dreamweaver333.com

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  • 15. Inma  |  December 31, 2018 at 4:24 pm

    Ooooh what a great gift to close the year and begin the new one!

    Thank you, Brenda!! 💕

    ❤️ HAPPY 2019 TO YOU ALL!!! ❤️

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    • 16. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 1, 2019 at 11:13 am

      Dear Inma,
      I thought the same about starting 2019 with a new take on humor – even if that’s what we’ve been practicing without labeling it. YES!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda
      Happy 2019 and beyond for all!!!

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  • 17. Ana Daksina  |  December 31, 2018 at 5:55 pm

    I usually read your words through Rona’s site, so thought I would check in here just to say I find your work absolutely brilliantly right on. Takes my breath away. You go, gurl!

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    • 18. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 1, 2019 at 11:17 am

      Hi Ana,
      Thank you! Isn’t this transition and our place in it just absolutely amazing? And isn’t even more wondrous that we’re able to share, care, and support one another throughout our shifts?
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 22. Barb  |  January 1, 2019 at 11:44 am

    Brenda —

    The happiest of New Years to you! And to all. The energy already feels different today, lighter. I often feel some mild trepidation at the start of a new year. This feels like a genuinely new space, and I declare myself to be in it, closing the door on the old. Joy, freedom, peace, love, and plenty in whatever forms we each choose. Many thanks, Brenda, for all you have given us through your channels.

    Much love,
    Barb

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    • 23. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 1, 2019 at 6:43 pm

      Hi Barb,
      I most definitely second and third “freedom, peace, love, and plenty in whatever forms we each choose.” That phrase needs to be a poster or bumper sticker somewhere!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 24. News Januari 1, 2019 – Detective of Truth  |  January 1, 2019 at 11:50 am

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    • 25. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 1, 2019 at 6:44 pm

      Thank you so much for reblogging my channel at Detective of Truth detectiveoftruth.com

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  • 26. Mary Chisholm  |  January 2, 2019 at 3:30 pm

    Brand sparkly 1:1 Brenda… a family funny 🙂
    I particularly love my own witty jokes and puns, and they seem to be bubbling forth from my own thinning veil sources. Very few, except for hubby get my giggles.
    On New Years’ day we were discussing programming on Netflix etc. with our daughter. There is so much dark violent content that we just cannot abide, but she loves. Then I said ‘you know, I don’t mind the dark if it’s handled lightly.’ Then I reacted to my own esoteric ha, ha and lol-ed it. Indeed, laughter is the language of (from) all us angels.
    Enter 2019…year of creations and many laugh out louds with our BFF…our “SOUL.” CHEERS Brenda ❤

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    • 27. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 3, 2019 at 2:58 pm

      Hi Mary,
      The same happens and is happening to me. I start laughing and everyone is just kind of looking at me which makes me laugh more. Giggles, dancing with joy, and laughter is where it’s at!!!!!!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda
      PS. I would have laughed at your line!!!!!

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      • 28. Mary Chisholm  |  January 3, 2019 at 3:38 pm

        YAY 😉

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      • 29. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 3, 2019 at 7:00 pm

        Yay and giggles back at you – you fun person!!!!!

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  • 30. joyful light  |  January 3, 2019 at 1:27 pm

    joy / enthusiasm is still the big mystery for me. I have the time and the joy to devote myself to something new, truly fulfilling. How to find it in this new times?
    Community, what´s your experiences?

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    • 31. A  |  January 5, 2019 at 11:29 am

      Pardon my profanity in advance.

      That’s where I’m at. Drives me absolutely insane. There really seems to be nothing that brings me joy on my own anymore. Scapegoated all the old dreams and ideas in order to pursue a greater ideal that as of yet remains only that. Girlfriend and I have this idea in mind that is pretty far outside the status-quo way of living. Yet remains community-connected and generous to say the least. High ideals, but not just for the sake of high ideals. Yet still I remain totally clueless as to whether or not that is going to work out. And building towards it while there is this looming “no, that’s not it” possibility is just something I’ve wasted energy on too many times before. Patience is the name of the game but I’m not exactly taking it easy.

      Spent the last three days of 2018 writing/revising a letter to an old farm about possible land acquisition. Got that off on the 31st delivered to their PO box by hand. That was good.

      Granted it’s only the 5th day of 2019. But now that the letter is out, I’m sitting duck. 2018 for me was a lot about following breadcrumbs to self-empowerment. Had a few situations running as potential long-term solid future endeavors, each one bringing me closer to myself, and as I got closer to myself, more empowered to forge my own path, those stepping stones that were those situations lost their luster and I turned away.

      Glad about that. But what I’m left with for the moment is that I am sitting duck trying to figure out where the hell to go, and more importantly, why the hell to go anywhere, which is hard as hell to find any solid-feeling thought about because I don’t even know what the hell I’ll do there. I need answers. I need SOMETHING. It can’t all be as free-flying as “here I go to just see what happens, soul path here we go” anymore, because THAT has very clearly served to get me back to my roots: empowered to do whatever the hell I’m going to do with my life, no bullshit society expectations.

      But also literally bankrupt, living in a town where it’s not even worth it for me to take a job to get out of here until I know what I’m headed towards. I’d seriously rather live in an insulated shack in the woods with an outhouse. But that requires having land where that’s allowed. And if I’m going to have land at all, then I am going to grow my own food. And if I’m going to do that, I may as well be someplace where growing my own food/wheat and making bread in some tiny-house off-grid “look at me it’s 1800 all over again” situation is a situation that I can share with others… to empower them to make those healthy, self-sustaining choices. Which is exactly what I want to do, really. 50% of that is just wanting to be the hell away from society bullshit. The other 50% is because “our future.” World is so unaccommodating to the meek for how “far along” we are. That shit needs to change and I’m not here on this fucking planet to feed the system that keeps it like that.

      Yet how to get from here to even just having land… Beats me. Just waiting to see if I get a response from that old farm with unused land. If that can somehow work, great. If not, something else.

      To have come this far, to have all the work I’ve done be to bring me to this point I’m at, feels so backwards sometimes. And I am ripping myself apart on the inside looking for any bit of anything that could offer a clue to my future, but all I keep coming up with is this looming feeling that there’s still a missing piece of information on the OUTSIDE because all this inner work and realigning with myself (which is really just my own sovereign right as a fucking human being to do whatever I damn well please with my life) has me in this energetic spot where I absolutely will not compromise my own joy and happiness going forward, which IS important and IS my own self-intended result of everything that the rather grueling past year of scraping up against the old world held.

      So we’ll see. I’d rather be at ground zero right now than be wheeling and dealing with the antiquated patriarchal world. Even if that’s all I really know for sure right now. No fun at all but at least I know where I stand and I will not be pushed around by people who do so because they themselves seek validation about their own insecure foundations. No time for that. Not this year.

      Cheers to whatever will be.

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    • 32. A  |  January 5, 2019 at 11:49 am

      I should add that the “building towards this possibility” is what I’ve already been up to. I’ve made the call, I’ve been clear, I’ve been specific, and I’ve been strong about it.

      Flying by the seat of my pants, versus forcing things to happen. There is a middle ground that I have found between the two.

      Call and response… Hello “universe”…

      So… right back to… patience.

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      • 33. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 5, 2019 at 5:08 pm

        Dear A,
        Unfortunately, I have nothing to add other than sending you wishes for a more peaceful life.
        Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,
        Brenda

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      • 34. Aaron  |  January 5, 2019 at 6:30 pm

        No misfortune here, as I feel too that there is nothing more I can add at this moment. And a more peaceful life is too what I wish for all.

        Thanks as always and I appreciate so very highly you hearing me out.

        Aaron

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      • 35. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 7, 2019 at 10:52 am

        Dear Aaron,
        Peace for you and all!
        Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
        Brenda

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  • 36. ANGELA HOFFMAN  |  January 5, 2019 at 2:22 pm

    Hello everyone! I started off the new year being violently sick with the stomach flu, but I also think I was purging the last crap in me from the 3D world. It was so bad that I actually thought I was going to die. I believe it was a kind of death. I also had horrific nightmares of the past and old fears of demons, etc. I’m so joyful to say that I feel better physically as of yesterday, and feel free! It’s like this enormous dark cloud/weight has been lifted from me and I can finally move on and leave this toxic relationship I’ve been in for 10 years!!! This article is right on! Thanks so much Brenda! Love, Angie 🙂

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    • 37. LifeTapestryCreations  |  January 5, 2019 at 5:25 pm

      Dear Angela,
      YAY!!!!!!! And yay again!!!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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