Those Following are Now the Ugly Ducklings

July 8, 2019 at 10:42 am 27 comments

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for

Summary of Brenda’s July 5, 2019, channeled “Creation Energies” show at  Perhaps you’ve been angry or otherwise different than you expected. Such is so because you were fighting your new being for control. You’re ready to negate those fears, to flow into your new being of relaxed self-love. You’re allowing you to become you.

“Weaving Your Universal Tapestry Piece is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

We would like to address your need to nurture not only yourself but those around you. Perhaps you respond that you are tired of nurturing others.

We are speaking of allowing others to be without judgment. Even though that might seem almost impossible during this time of chaos, such is your gift to those you love. For they too are scrambling to find their place while of earth.

Just as is true for you, the followers are testing their skills and interests. Perhaps you question if such is true given that many are yet of 3D. Truthfully, those you wish to interact with are either of 5D or on the path to be of 5D. Those deeply ensconced in 3D hold little interest for you now.

Some of you might believe that your workplace or school is filled with 3D personalities; you do not wish to interact with or help. Such is a 3D stance that has little to do with new you. For indeed, if those surrounding you were of a much different frequency, you could not interact with them in any capacity as has been displayed by those of you who have moved to a new location, exited positions, or changed schools.

You have become so finely tuned you can no longer interact with those deeply enmeshed in 3D.

Perhaps you again protest for you encounter nice people you no longer wish to be with. Such is true.

Instead of brief encounters, we are speaking of interactions with the same individuals day after day. For you must have ascertained by now that those of 3D with little or no intention of moving beyond 3D enjoy one another’s company and find you uncomfortable, just as the opposite is true.

As you delve further and further into 5D and beyond, you have discovered a natural parting of ways.

If you feel heavy or uncomfortable in the presence of someone you used to admire or wished to emulate, the likelihood of them transitioning within a time in which you might interact with them in this lifetime is greatly reduced. So it is if you were in an environment surrounded by those not wishing to move beyond 3D, you have likely left that arena.

Those you continue to interact with are those we are speaking of. They are transition novices fumbling, as you once did, in fear and awe.

Perhaps it might help you better understand your role if you think of yourself as an older brother or sister. Even though you know what those followers will likely encounter completing their maturation, they might not complete steps the same as you. Such does not mean you care for them less or that they are less skilled, merely that you understand why they are doing what they are doing to achieve maturation.

Just as is true for human siblings, there will be a point when the two of you are on equal ground – perhaps in a somewhat different arena, but similarly matured. Even though their path will be different than yours, they are on a path, which is not true for those with whom you can no longer interact.

The natural parting of ways, as has been predicted for some time, has begun. You will have no need or interest to interact with those who wish to maintain their 3D frequency.  You might also be somewhat frustrated with those following you, just as an older sibling observes their younger brother or sister attempting to achieve what they can do effortlessly.

Be kind to those following you for they are quite confused now. For those who frustrate you now will likely become important friends in the not-too-distant future.

You are all growing and evolving – not at the same pace or in the same way – but at the same time. The end result will be a heaven on earth in which adults of 5D or beyond will accept the importance of one another even though not all will have the same focus. Such will be a club of individuals with different roles designed to enhance earth and therefore, the Universes.

Allow those following to experience what they need to experience in love instead of anger or judgment. So it is you are carving out your place as you withhold judgment from those beginning or in the midst of their journey. You are their beacon.

That is not to say you must caretake them during their transition journey, but instead to not judge them as inappropriate or as not on a journey.

To each is a time to progress as is needed from ugly duckling to beautiful swan – step-by-unique step – just as has been true for you.

Do not fret or worry, the ugly ducklings of the earth are on their emotional, mental, spiritual, and physical mend.

So it is you created the openings that millions are now accepting and building upon. So be it. Amen. If you would like to receive Brenda’s Blogs when posted, please click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her Blog & Subscribe page and then click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation.

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  • 1. Singing Tree  |  July 8, 2019 at 11:00 am

    Reblogged this on Singing Tree.


    • 2. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 8, 2019 at 11:21 am

      Thank you so much for reblogging my channel on Singing Tree


  • 3. Delfina Gasoido  |  July 8, 2019 at 11:02 am

    Dear Brenda,
    That’s right, as always.
    The truth is that I do not worry about ugly ducklings, I know they will get it without needing my help.
    But what I can not stand anymore is the 3D slugs, cast in their mud of egos and mediocrities. 🙈🙈🙈
    Sorry for looking so pious, and even a little arrogant.
    It is not the case.
    but for someone as empathetic as me, this noise and 3D dirt is intolerable already.
    and I will not waste my time or energy with those who have no interest in getting out of that egoic mud.
    Am I being hard ?? surely yes. but I have to protect myself, you and all of us.
    Enough is enough.
    let’s go to 5D!
    And let’s make a great party!!

    Love 🎉🎉🎉🎈🎈🎈🍾🎊🎊❤️❤️❤️❤️

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    • 4. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 8, 2019 at 11:23 am

      Dear Cristina,
      Enough with those who wish to be of 3D in this lifetime. Onward to healing ourselves and allowing those who follow to do the same.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

      Liked by 2 people

  • 5. janis´¯`·.¸ʚįɞ  |  July 8, 2019 at 12:51 pm

    Omg, Brenda! This is right on point for me as related to my fairly new relationship that I described in my comment in your last post. This gives me more hope. While I know we don’t ‘save’ other people, I have thought that it would be my highest honor to play a role in his remembering of who he really is as I continue to do the same. Thank you, Brenda…❤️

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    • 6. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 8, 2019 at 2:13 pm

      Hi Janis,
      My husband is one of those ugly ducklings. And so we evolve and allow those around us the same!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

      Liked by 3 people

      • 7. janis´¯`·.¸ʚįɞ  |  July 8, 2019 at 3:22 pm

        Love that, Brenda…continues to give me hope even tho today has had much drama…I’m use to very little drama! I know my role could be anything including disappearing from the relationship… ❤

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      • 8. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 8, 2019 at 4:21 pm

        Dear Janis,
        My favorite part of your message is, “I KNOW my role could be anything including disappearing from the relationship.” You’re in control of you and you know it. YES!!!!!!!
        Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

        Liked by 3 people

      • 9. elizabethsadhu  |  July 8, 2019 at 6:13 pm

        I am laughing because my hubby is also one of the ugly ducklings………

        🙂 ❤

        Liked by 1 person

      • 10. Inma  |  July 8, 2019 at 8:40 pm

        Hi Janis, Brenda and Elizabeth!

        It seems the club is getting bigger 🤣. My husband is also in the ugly duckling group.

        Lots of Love,


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      • 11. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 9, 2019 at 1:45 pm

        Hi Inma,
        And so we watch those we love evolve!
        Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,


  • 12. Claire Caron  |  July 8, 2019 at 1:56 pm

    I’m always excited when I see your written blog appearing in my emails. You have been for me an important source of inspiration for a few years now! Thank you Brenda as always!

    Liked by 1 person

    • 13. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 8, 2019 at 2:15 pm

      Dear Claire,
      Thank you. It’s a joy to learn that my channels resonate for and with others!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,


  • 14. dreamweaver333  |  July 8, 2019 at 4:02 pm

    Reblogged this on dreamweaver333.


    • 15. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 8, 2019 at 4:22 pm

      Thank you so much for reblogging my channel on Dreamweaver333


  • 16. Joy  |  July 8, 2019 at 4:57 pm

    Dear Brenda,
    Thank you again for your amazing and most helpful channels! I love the phrase in the blog talk summary:
    “Relaxed self-love”.
    That’s EXACTLY how I’ve been feeling!!

    This was not the case prior, as I was still experiencing some fear, no doubt the fighting with my Higher Soul for control ;). I noticed I had been waiting for things to happen because I deserve a great life. Then I Remembered – I AM creating this experience and I may need to take guided action for my intentions to manifest ha ha 🙂
    Now I finally feel like I’m in the flow!!!

    The last few days I claimed the location I choose to live in, and the knowing that my beautiful home there is already provided to me in proper and joyful way! It is in the hills and Sooooooooo 5D!!
    Yes I AM creating my reality and I choose to live an abundant spacious joyful peaceful prosperous fulfilling comfortable life!!!
    To all of our dreams coming true as we joyfully USE our Creation Sparkles!!!!!

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    • 17. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 8, 2019 at 7:09 pm

      Dear Joy,
      WAY TO GO (and flow)!!! I blocked myself too. Seems like many of us needed reminders that we weren’t in 3D Kansas anymore!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

      Liked by 1 person

  • 18. elizabethsadhu  |  July 8, 2019 at 6:23 pm

    This is perfection. Thank you once again, dearest Brenda!

    I also just had an aha moment about my hubby (and any others I might feel inclined to caretake). I am hindering their growth if I step in. ha! How’s that for a good one!!!!??!!

    I know at this point that any caretaking I do is of an old time automatic old 3D way that I don’t even realize I am doing. The good thing is that when I do this I GET COMPLETELY EXHAUSTED. So, that tells me something that I really need to get on a deep cellular level.

    I have let go of so many in my life who are determined to be only in 3D. Including my dad…..who is actually in deep dementia now and I have seen a photo of him where I have never seen him look so happy!!! YAY! The blessing of dementia.

    Cristina–I am with you about the old ego ridden 3D types……sheesh! Get me out of here……….And as an Empath, they feel like they glow with their old shit that I don’t need to be a part of. ha! Just try and call us arrogant…..heeheee…… 🙂 We don’t judge them we just don’t NEED them, right? We don’t need that drama…….My empath self is super sensitive to what I call “human vacuum cleaner people” that try to suck the life right out of me…….Judith Orloff calls them “energy vampires”.

    I adore my hubby (28 + years) but I am not catering to him anymore…..and anytime I seem to feel that he is not up to the job, he keeps moving right along with me…….pretty cool, eh??!!?? I love that! AND I am not willing to compromise what I need to do for my path anymore… more compromising. No more living in 3D land.


    Love to us all and thanks to our dear Brenda for bringing us all together.


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    • 19. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 8, 2019 at 7:20 pm

      Dear Sweetie,
      Learning to love ourselves as much as others is a process. And negating the need for caretaking others is part of it. Now to allow followers that same freedom…and joy.

      Sometimes I feel as I’m guessings others do, that I just want to pick up the toys scattered throughout the house instead of insisting the kids do it – the perfect follower analogy for me. And isn’t it difficult waiting for the kids to pick up ONE toy at a time when you just want to throw the toys in a big box and be done with it?

      The great news is that those who follow won’t take years, as was true for many of us, to move into 5D.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

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      • 20. elizabethsadhu  |  July 8, 2019 at 8:08 pm

        Perfect analogy of the toys. Thanks! For me, it is cleaning the crumbs off the counter after Jim was there. Hahaha

        Liked by 1 person

    • 21. Delfina Gasoido  |  July 9, 2019 at 8:49 am

      We do not need them, no!
      “energy vampires” is a good description, although some of them do not have level for vampire, some mere mosquitoes or fleas … although just as annoying!! jejejeje!!!


  • 24. Nikos  |  July 9, 2019 at 7:53 am

    Thank You Brenda,i always resonate with all your blogs and always reposting on my are a blessing to all of us,much love

    Liked by 2 people

    • 25. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 9, 2019 at 1:50 pm

      Hi Nikos,
      I had no idea you were reblogging my channel. Even though WordPress notifies me when my channel is reblogged, I haven’t received notification about your site. Thank you!

      And for those who would like to check out your site: Feel More Than Fine
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,


  • 26. Kathleen Hammond  |  July 10, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    Bwahahaha…ok Universe I get it. I was upset by 2 friends who were frustrating me by suddenly ignoring me.

    Then I read this from you Brenda “Allow those following to experience what they need to experience in love instead of anger or judgment”

    And I read this yesterday from Source Of The Earth: “Remember that your life is your creation… Finding fault with others is a refusal to take responsibility for how you feel. Transform your own energy and you will assist others in transforming theirs. You are the creator, not the victim.”

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    • 27. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 10, 2019 at 3:42 pm

      Dear Kathleen,
      Yup! Even though it’s difficult for me to remember at times also. Shades of 3D creep in at the most unexpected or uninvited times!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

      Liked by 1 person


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