Are You a World Whack-a-Mole Caretaker?

September 23, 2019 at 9:14 am 30 comments

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s September 20, 2019, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  You’ve been preparing for 2020 since 2012. So it is you’ll discover new skills throughout the next 3 months. Those following won’t experience the same for they’re completing phases you completed earlier. And those of 3D will become more fully enmeshed in fear, anger, illogic, rage, and pain.  For they accepted a challenging earth role – pushing all who wish to be of 5D or beyond out of the 3D nest. 

Feeling or Acting Odd? is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

We wish to address the uneasiness you feel about your future and the future of the earth.  For even though you have been informed that all is well, it is becoming more difficult to believe that such is so.  You can ignore the media and similar factors, but it is your inner feelings you cannot understand.

For you are concerned about areas, you believe you and others addressed decades ago.  It is as if you have worked months to complete a report only to have your one copy destroyed.

You are tired of fighting, of carrying the world and your family and friends on your shoulders.  You feel as if you are on caretaker overload for the same issues keep popping up with seemingly no resolution.

Should you protect the environment?  What about people being held without their consent?  Then there is gun violence as a result of the racial, religious, gender, economic, political, and homophobic hatred displayed daily.  When and where will the next war be?  And if that is not enough, you are discovering those you love are filled with fear because they do not understand their transition, nor do they listen to the explanations you offer.  It is as if you are playing Whack-a-Mole with the world and your emotions.

You assumed that by now, you would be living in your dream world with little or no stress.  Yet, your stress seems to multiply daily.  For just as one issue seems calmer, another arrives that requires immediate attention.

Where is your peace? Where is your rest?

The truth is you have not yet let go of your need to caretake the world.  Even though you supposedly turned that concern over to your followers, you continue that role in addition to your new assignments.

You are trying to be everything to everyone.  In your work-a-day world, you would be labeled as someone who cannot delegate.  For indeed, 90% of your worries are not your role.  You are no longer a caretaker of the earth or its inhabitants.  You have other, more compelling tasks to complete.

Your caretaking days are over.  But because you have not yet allowed that to be your truth, you are anxious and angry.  You are trying to do too much, for you do not believe those following are skilled enough to pick up where you left off.

It is no longer your place to worry about atomic bombs, sheltering others, or the concerns of your friends and family.  All are caretaking modes you have outgrown.

Of course, you do not believe our statement for you are quite proud of no longer caretaking those family members or friends who seem to be in the same predicament year after year.  What you have not yet addressed is your feelings of a similar nature.

You were likely concerned about the environment and humanity decades ago.  For such was your key to this life.  But you remain so deeply entrenched in those concerns that it is difficult to turn those issues over to your followers, or if you will, the next generation of light-bearers.

Your one and only responsibility, no matter how much others beg you to return to your previous roles, is to find and follow your joy.  Worrying about the earth, the environment, or humanity is no longer joyful for you.

We, of the Universes, have told you the same month-after-month.  Yet, our information has not resulted in your knowing that worry is not joyful.  That your followers are capable of picking up where you left off.  Granted, they might not approach issues as you would, but then, you have known for years that all paths are unique.

Your world solutions are based in 3D.  Your followers’ solutions will be much different.  For their lens is of the future and yours is of the past.  Not in terms of your joy, but instead how to solve issues that continue to be troublesome for you.

Your role in this life was to shift yourself and the earth from 3D to beyond.  You completed that difficult task.  Even so, you now wonder what you did wrong and how to fix those wrongs.

You did everything wonderfully right.  Those who follow have the puzzle pieces for those areas that worry you.  You are creator beings.  So it is you created the new earth.  Now it is time for you to create something that is yours alone.  And you will know what that something is by the joy it gives you.

No longer is it necessary for you to hide your joy from those who might not understand.  For those actions were of 3D.  You are no longer of 3D, nor are your followers.  Allow them to complete the roles they assumed for this life, as we did you.

Will your followers try to obtain your help with the issues they need to solve?  Of course.  Just as you continue to request solutions from us.  Yet as is true for you, those following must claim their place without your interference or coaching.  They are skilled enough to carry on.  Such is so to allow you to create, to shift to the next step.

Of course, you wish for us to tell you what your next step is.  This we cannot do.  For it is your creation step on your unique path.  No one, least of all we, of the Universes, know where that path will lead.  The only definite we can relay is that it is not caretaking anyone or anything.  Continuing to do so will only result in exhaustion.

You are no longer responsible for the earth or any earth beings.

Your role is creating.  And your unique joy will lead to those creations.  We know what you are not.  But not who you will become. Something only you can discover through your joy.  So be it.  Amen.

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Feeling or Acting Odd? 2020 Preparation

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  • 1. Delfina Gasoido  |  September 23, 2019 at 9:25 am

    My happinnes?? I honestly don’t know where it is.
    Peace, tranquility, serenity…I have found that.
    Joy? Not yet, and my biggest fear is not finding her in this live.
    Love
    Cristina
    🎈🎉💃🚀🌟🌈🐾🍭🍷🎊🎏???

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    • 2. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 23, 2019 at 9:44 am

      Dear Cristina,
      Not to worry. I’m still letting go of my global worries – even though, like you, I know what gives me peace. I have no idea what my joy is either. But my BlogTalk channel last Friday alluded to big shifts for us in 2020. Right now, I’m just pleased to let go of Whack-a-Mole concerns.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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      • 3. Delfina Gasoido  |  September 23, 2019 at 12:39 pm

        Oh Brenda!! You’re right!!
        I had to laugh. the title of the message “whack a mole”, is a game that in Spain is called hit the mole.
        “Whack a mole”, sounds phoneticly similar to “guacamole”, a Mexican sauce made from very ripe avocados and that here is not very common, but lately is fashionable in meetings of friends.
        So I thought it was slang. and that it came to be like in those American institute movies, in which at the least popular graduation ball, the barbecue, it’s up to be in charge of the punch.
        while the hateful hunk sportsman takes the girl.
        and I thought, it is true, we are the loser of class, doing the hard work of bringing heaven to earth, so that these ungrateful people enjoy it, while we take care of the organization and the provisions … of guacamole ….
        Jajajaja!!!!
        🥑

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      • 4. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 23, 2019 at 5:12 pm

        Dear Cristina,
        You made me laugh out loud. Just like the time years ago when you couldn’t figure out why I was talking about alcoholic beverages-the channel was about spirits or spirit guides. And you’re quite right, in the US, the handsome dude usually makes off with the pretty damsel in distress. That’s one reason I like foreign films so much – you cant guess the ending!
        Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
        Brenda

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  • 5. Eliza Ayres  |  September 23, 2019 at 9:56 am

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  • 7. elizabethsadhu  |  September 23, 2019 at 11:51 am

    Reblogged this on elizabethsadhu and commented:
    I got such a great chuckle when I read the title! Thanks for that.

    And then I had a huge realization as I read this. Thanks again. SO needed.

    Just last night I was still thinking I need to do activist work. I won’t shut up if I see Injustice but I don’t have to carry it. And then I REALIZED that my shoulders, which have always been tight and tense, are still carrying the world. Over the last 6 months in particular my right shoulder in particular has been in a lot of pain. Big aha! And The Beans confirm. Let it roll right off……. And here I thought I’d stopped caretaking. Ha! Shoulders are done with being in service to the world….. They are now finding their joy. ♥️🤣🎉

    I’ll keep holding onto my belief that the world is in a HUGE freaking healing crisis. We are at the ugly, horrible, pus-filled, it’s never going to heal, I need to do something, we’re all doomed phase. It feels really really really BAD. REALLY BAD. But we all have to do our own inner work, our own healing….. It’s an inside job and the more we let go, the more we just BE in our joy, let others find their OWN joy, that is when the big healing will shift the world.

    Thanks so much, dearest Brenda, for this channel and for helping me to see some light. Love you so much!

    Now, I’m practicing relaxing my shoulders…. Breathing into them. Ha!

    One of our best joys started up its season again last Saturday…. Contra dancing! And I was having some pain in my foot….. Which makes it hard to dance. Going to make an appointment with my doc, but I’m looking at what this might mean emotionally in terms of blocking my joy. Hmmmmmmmm…………….

    Also, I realized that sometimes, some days, my great joy is doing absolutely NOTHING. Dropping my OLD (lifetimes) over-achiever guilt. 🤗🤗♥️♥️✂️✂️✂️🎂🎂🎂👑👑👑🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🌊🌊🌊🌊🌊🌊

    Loving us all!

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    • 8. Delfina Gasoido  |  September 23, 2019 at 12:22 pm

      “I realized that sometimes, some days, my great joy is doing absolutely NOTHING. “
      That’s me!!!!!!
      😂
      🎉🎉🎉🌈🎊🎈🎈🎈🚀🍭🍭🎏💃⭐️💥

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    • 9. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 23, 2019 at 4:56 pm

      Thank you so much, Sweetie, for reblogging this week’s channel on ElizabethSadhu ElizabethSadhu.wordpress.com

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    • 10. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 23, 2019 at 5:04 pm

      Dear Sweetie,
      As you might have noted from my response to Cristina, this week’s channel was a big AHA for me too. I’ve done quite well with letting go of humans who want me to solve their issues, but not until I channeled this blog did I realize how much the environment and the obvious hatred and anger of strangers was affecting me. I breathed a sigh of relief finally understanding that our followers are much more capable than is true for me. So I’m in my screen porch reading and listening to the birds and squirrels- my happy place.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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      • 11. elizabethsadhu  |  September 23, 2019 at 5:40 pm

        I just woke up from a lovely nap with two cute puppies on top of me. That was a joy place, for sure.

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  • 12. Barb  |  September 23, 2019 at 2:05 pm

    Hi Brenda-

    It does still feel natural – or perhaps like an obligation – to try and *fix*, somehow, where the world is concerned. Like muscle memory or a knee-jerk reaction. Reminders to step away are appreciated. It’s too easy to get caught up.

    It’s another matter when there’s an elderly parent in need of care. Definitely an issue in trying to create joy, no matter how much you love them. Even with assisted living, the level of involvement still required is surprising, and ongoing, along with managing her “outside” life. I’m so grateful for the direct care she receives; we are truly fortunate to have found a great place. It has not meant anything like an end to caretaking, however. The “gene” remains active!

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    • 13. Delfina Gasoido  |  September 23, 2019 at 2:24 pm

      Oh Barb!! caring for an elderly father is very hard.
      I know from experience and although you have help, as you say very well the “gene”, the concern and responsibility remains active.
      courage and a lot of strength!!
      Love
      Cristina

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    • 14. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 23, 2019 at 5:21 pm

      Dear Barb,
      I’ve thought about your “obligation” as is true for so many. Would you, could you be joyful ignoring your Mother? And I’m guessing your response would be a resounding, “No.” so our joys are entwined with those we love. I know some who would have no difficulty ignoring that connection for various reasons that are theirs alone. Do what you feel the need to as your joy is part of that need. At the same time, I hope you have some self-love, nurturing built into your day.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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      • 15. Barb  |  September 23, 2019 at 6:44 pm

        Thank you, Cristina and Brenda, for your comments and wishes. (Cristina, I remember you mentioning your father’s hospitalization. I hope he’s doing better.) It’s true that so many are in similar positions these days with elderly parents. –I fully acknowledge that during the years of direct care, I was able to resolve all my past issues with my mother. That finished some time ago, and our relationship feels complete in that respect.

        I do see, though, where I still try to lift her up emotionally (after several months, she continues to ask when she can go home). I aim for being kind in explaining her need for care and end up taking on weight and guilt over her unhappiness. I know, somewhere, that I can’t fix that for her. She has her own choices to make. And, no, I can’t just walk away or ignore her. It’s a tricky balance I’ve yet to find. Anyway – thanks again.

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      • 16. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 23, 2019 at 6:56 pm

        Dear Barb,
        My Mom, who had never been ill since I was three, starting declining months after my father died unexpectedly. I live in the SE US and Mom and Dad lived fifty miles from the Canadian border. Both leaving my parents the last time I saw Dad alive (sobbed when I left I guess intuitively knowing that this was our last physical contact) and then about a year later when Mom had medical issues was so difficult. I don’t think I function much differently than you if I had lived closer to Mom and Dad.
        Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
        Brenda

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      • 17. Barb  |  September 23, 2019 at 10:07 pm

        Brenda – Sounds like your parents were very connected if your mom followed soon after your dad. It must have been terribly rough on you, though. My dad passed suddenly in 2002. My mom is 94 now. I’m half prepared and half in denial. Right now, just looking forward to the weather cooling (in the SW U.S.) so we can sit outside comfortably during visits. (After a storm this week, we’ll be back near 90!) And so it goes!

        Love,
        Barb

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      • 18. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 24, 2019 at 10:35 am

        Dear Barb,
        Yes, my Mom and Dad had an extremely strong bond. I wonder if we’re ever fully prepared to lose those we love? Even though we know we’ll connect with them in another frequency or dimension, it’s the here and now that we feel sad about.

        So fun that you’re hoping for cooler weather and I’m mourning a bit that soon it will be too cool for me to be outside reading. The 80s and 90s are my weather preferences. The good news is that winter is only four months or so here in the SE compared at least six months with lots of snow, ice, and cold in the north.
        Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
        Brenda

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      • 19. Barb  |  September 24, 2019 at 12:22 pm

        Brenda – “Cool” is relative here. Compared to summer, I’m looking forward to daytime temps in the 80s! They usually arrive sometime in October. I don’t want really cold winters either.
        Love,
        Barb

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      • 20. AliceinW  |  September 24, 2019 at 2:53 pm

        Hi Barb, Noticed your comment about weather. I live in Hawaii where we are (even now) experiencing the hottest summer on record. Now before anyone groans- most of the homes here (incl. mine) are not built for AC so we are enduring 90’s weather with heat index to 100 w/o AC. My husband and I are taking a trip to Tucson in Oct. to look at retirement communities because even though the weather can be hot there is AC! Brenda, again, I am completely in this same field of frustration with 3D because even though we feel the shift, as soon as we deal with the negligent yard worker, disgruntled store workers, doctor offices, etc. we immediately know just how they feel and that old 3D flows back in. I’m trying to remind myself that I must now learn how to remain in 5D within the 3D. A challenge! (Also, I’m trying to do it w/o groaning.)

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      • 21. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 24, 2019 at 6:50 pm

        Dear Alicein,
        Keep us posted about your potential move to AZ. I can take a lot of heat, but I’m not sure I would do well not being able to access AC during the night or parts of the day.

        Oh, that groaning. And for me at times, boredom, with thoughts of “done that, been there” I’m moving on. So many of us are finding our balance in 5D while surrounded by those still enmeshed in 3D or just wanting to break out and expecting us to do it for them. Big sigh!!!!
        Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
        Brenda

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    • 22. elizabethsadhu  |  September 24, 2019 at 1:04 pm

      Hey Barb!

      I can relate in many ways to what you are saying. My hubby and I lived with and took care of his parents for a solid 3 and a half months about 8 years ago. And then when they went into a nursing home we were there with them every day, along with my hubby’s sisters. It was very intense. But we saw how ignored so many folks were at the home. They passed two years ago at ages 97 & 98. Good long lives well lived.

      My mum is only 82 and lives on her own but we visit and I have not figured out yet how to not get completely exhausted by the visit. I keep thinking that I must lift her up and help her see a more positive outlook. Sadly in the last 25 years she has become a Fox news watching, super conservative, Trump loving, born again Christian. Let’s say she has mastered the art of negative thinking. We DON’T talk politics.

      The balance. Always seeking balance.

      Much love to you in your path!

      Love to us all!!

      Elizabeth

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      • 23. Barb  |  September 25, 2019 at 2:13 pm

        Hi Elizabeth –
        Thank you for your response. I wonder sometimes about the greater reason (I dislike the word “lesson”) for current generations caring for elderly parents. It’s such a difficult task and doesn’t seem like it was so prevalent in the past (my grandparents all passed by their early 70s). I sort of expect that in a generation or two, it will wane again for a variety of reasons, including the “youthing” going on now. Maybe it’s part of this whole grand transition somehow.

        It’s been a years’ long situation for us with increasing needs – the last year the hardest with multiple hospital stays and the transition to assisted living. Exhausting is the right word. (My mom also became very conservative, negative – and fearful. In her case, I believe it was about losing her autonomy – not an easy thing to face.) I’ve also tried to uplift and engage and all the rest – not terribly successfully. It often turned into a lot of “shoulds”. You’re right about balance – for myself and in helping her. Unfortunately, I tend to swing back and forth and miss the middle! (Bad Libra!)

        Anyway, during visits now we talk – much reminiscing – or play cards, or I read to her. And she asks and presses about going home, repeatedly. (Her short-term memory is pretty short.) It’s certainly better, not doing direct care, but there’s still a lot. I don’t know what I was thinking, taking on ascension, menopause, and elder care all at the same time. Someone remind me not to do that again! 🙂

        Love and thanks –
        Barb

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      • 24. elizabethsadhu  |  September 25, 2019 at 3:09 pm

        Laughing a bit. Ascension, menopause and elder care!!! Much love

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  • 25. dreamweaver333  |  September 23, 2019 at 9:08 pm

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    • 26. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 24, 2019 at 10:29 am

      Thank you so much for reblogging my channel on Dreamweaver333 dreamweaver333.com

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  • 27. Inma  |  September 24, 2019 at 3:58 am

    Dear Brenda,
    Perfect channelling for me.
    Thank you so much ♥️🧡💛💚💙💜
    Lots of Love,
    Inma

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    • 28. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 24, 2019 at 10:36 am

      Dear Inma,
      And for me too.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 29. caron_claire@videotron.ca  |  September 24, 2019 at 1:44 pm

    Thank you Brenda! I thought I woud not leave a comment as I did not feel concerned with today’s subject. Well yes both my shoulders are painful at times… but I’m older now, must be normal. But then, this morning, there I am in a situation very similar to what you describe in your blog! Letting go of the responsibility and navigating towards our joy is I guess a work in progress.

    Indeed our followers are fully abilitated to deal with the challenges presenting to them. I guess our trust in their abilities will help them.

    And there is young Greta exposing to the world its lack of balance that has never made sense!

    I’m not sure I make sense today with this one!

    I hope you are doing beautifully!

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    • 30. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 24, 2019 at 6:45 pm

      Dear Claire,
      Greta touched my heart also. Today I’m exhausted and thinking that my thoughts of wanting to protect Greta and yet again save the world are the cause of my exhaustion. I find it amazing how quickly our bodies now react to overload – at least for me.

      At the same time, I’m amazed at Greta’s courage and ability to speak in front of “sophisticated” groups. Something that seems to be natural for her. It was only a year ago that she started sitting outside her school in protest. Indeed, one of our amazing next-generation Light-bearers.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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