Younger Sibling or Loving Mate?

March 2, 2020 at 10:52 am 24 comments

Summary of Brenda’s February 28, 2020, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman: It’s time to caretake yourself despite the cries of those just awakening. When you initiated your transition, earth structures were reasonably solid. Now that the structures are crumbling, the world seems much more chaotic. You’re overwhelmed attempting to caretake both those crying for help and your rapid internal changes. Rest. Find joy. Walk in the sunshine. The only being you have never taken care of in any other earth life is you.

“You’re Worthy of Instant Gratification” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

You are likely discovering that you float between anger, fear, and joy. Not because you need to, but because your being is shifting so rapidly, you do not know who you are.

That unknowingness is compounded by those surrounding you, those just awakening. For just as you are not functioning as you once did, neither are they. So you might find yourself at cross-purposes with those closest to you. Such is so because each of you is declaring the freedom to be.

Even though you do not remember your terrible teens, your parents do. You are now the more mature being observing the silliness, the emotional growing pains of those just awakening. So it is you are functioning as is most right for you, only to discover that those actions irritate the ones you love. Or their actions irritate you.

Nothing is as it once was. And nothing is as you think it should be. For the parameters that held you and others in 3D are disappearing daily.

So much irritates you.

Your directional focus is disturbed by those just awakening. Thoughts of “Leave me alone” or “How can you not understand my need for independence?” permeate your being when interacting with those frightened by their newly awakened emotions and needs.

So it is you are exhausted wondering if you need to exit the relationship – whatever that relationship is.

We suggest you allow settling time, just as we allowed for you during your erratic initial transition stages. As was true for you, those now awakening are searching for someone or something outside themselves to explain why they feel and act as they do. For their anger and fear is as disturbing to them as it is to you.

Not all those now of the earth are in the awakening stage. So you wonder why you want to continue that special relationship while other humans seem more “normal,” for they are not undergoing the erratic shifts of those close to you.

In truth, the erratic behaviors of those awakening are not much different than was true for you as a 3D teen or a newly awakened being. The key difference is they are moving through their transition phases more rapidly than did you. So their actions are more erratic and, therefore, noticeable.

Most likely, you were not as disruptive during your initial transition phases because your transition happened over years or many months. Those close to you are completing the same phases in days – a month at the most. And they are doing so because of you. Your beacon pulled them into the light, allowing them to remember who they are – gods and goddesses of the Universe.

Do you remember years ago when we informed you that even though all of you were on stage, your unique roles required different times in the spotlight? Think of those close to you as your understudy, watching your every move knowing they will soon assume a similar role.

You once looked to the Universes and humans you believed were more advanced than you. Until you no longer needed the reassurances of the Universes or other transition travelers. So it is now that those close to you know you are someone they want to be. So they watch you closely trying to emulate your moods and actions. This irritates you, for you no longer wish to have anyone following you. You wish to be an independent Universal being. And you want the same for all, including your loved one.

You find the thought that those close to you want to be like you abhorrent – either consciously or subconsciously. So as is true for most older brothers or sisters, you try to “ditch” your understudy to continue your growth.

Ah, such is not as easy as you would like. Not because your approach is wrong, but those following have not yet claimed their self-hood. Such will shift rapidly.

But know that for the next few days, you and your loved one might be at cross-purposes. Just as your younger siblings were likely irritating until they evolved into their mature being. A maturity that might have included some of your mindset, but not a carbon copy of you.

Please have the patience for those awakening within your circle of friends or family. They want to be you – until they wish to be unique. That is when you will reconnect with them stronger than ever.

Will the relationship survive? Most likely, for they love and admire you enough to be like you, to be your understudy. Such does not happen because of hate. But instead, because of love and misguided beliefs that somehow you know everything they do not.

In a few days, they will claim themselves – much to your joy and their peace of mind. For in trying to be like you, they will find themselves lost.

It is only when they find their path, their role, will they relax and return to the full partnership you two once enjoyed.

They cannot be you. You cannot be them. Your new meeting point is where they claim themselves. Just as you once did. Even though their independent awakening will happen within days, they now feel like a bothersome younger sibling. This, too shall pass – much more rapidly than your current irritation believes possible. So be it. Amen.

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  • 1. Delfina Gasoido  |  March 2, 2020 at 10:57 am

    AMÉN!!!🙏🏻
    Love ☀️🌈⭐️🌸❄️💖💗🌎
    Cristina

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    • 2. LifeTapestryCreations  |  March 2, 2020 at 3:28 pm

      Dear Cristina,
      I double and triple that AMEN!!!!!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 3. 1111gardenkat  |  March 2, 2020 at 11:01 am

    It pains me to watch my friends, especially the elderly, resisting the idea of opening their hearts and “seeing the light”. My father passed away with so much pain, so much anger. Let us all learn that this example is one we don’t want to experience….

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    • 4. Delfina Gasoido  |  March 2, 2020 at 11:11 am

      ☹️

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    • 5. LifeTapestryCreations  |  March 2, 2020 at 3:30 pm

      Dear 1111gardenkat,
      Nor do we need to. My father had a lot of anger when he was working too. When he retired he returned to the fun and kind dad I knew when I was young. My choice always was not to repeat his fearful life and with the energies floating about now, it’s more and more difficult to even contemplate that much rage. To our new life!!!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 6. elizabethsadhu  |  March 2, 2020 at 11:38 am

    Thanks dearest Brenda!

    It is comforting to know we’ve shined our light to help others. Sometimes I feel that I’m doing nothing. 🙂 Even though in my heart of hearts, I know that is not true.

    It has been a long slog…. And so happy to be on this side.

    My hubby and I are still home sick, coming up to 4 weeks. Mostly very peaceful for me but a couple of agitated moments. And in those moments my hubby makes me laugh.

    Our new wedding vows are Love, Honor and Tolerate. It made me laugh which then made me cough. 🤣 Can you tell we’ve been at home, just the two of us? Coming up to our 29 year anniversary… Beware the Ides of March is the date. You could say our vows could be love, honor and laugh, since we do that A LOT.

    I do recognize the shift that is happening. In my world, I needed to be sick to make me completely stop and stay home and have massive quiet. Same for my hubby. I keep getting that this is a time of re-engineering. Changing our DNA. Our entire beings are transforming. And it is brilliant and good.

    Thanks Brenda for always shining a light.
    Thanks to us all for being such beautiful lighthouses. Wooooohoooooo!

    #wallowingingratitude
    #joyepidemic
    #cultivatesilly

    Love us ALL! ♥️

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    • 7. LifeTapestryCreations  |  March 2, 2020 at 3:47 pm

      Dear Sweetie,
      Even though no one would wish to be ill for as long as you and Jim, isn’t it kind of wonderful that you’re still laughing and you KNOW why you’ve been home? It’s the knowingness that seems to be happening in so many odd ways – at least for me and you. I’m all for re-engineering, changing our DNA as soon as possible. And I’m thinking Jim’s phrase of, “love, honor, and tolerate” is going to be used a lot the next few days by a number of us. “We’ve come a long way, Baby!”
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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      • 8. elizabethsadhu  |  March 2, 2020 at 8:12 pm

        Amen amen amen!!!!

        So much coolness happening.

        And I feel VERY blessed to have my wonderful laughing sweetie called Jim.

        And so blessed to have you dearest Brenda! To call you my dear friend.

        So blessed to have this community.

        By the way everyone…. Tomorrow is Brenda’s birthday!!! 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🤸🤸🤸🤸🤸🤸🤸🤸🤸🤸🤸🤸🤸🤸😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘🤸🐬🐬🐬🐬🐬🐬🐬🐬🐬🐬🐬🐬🐬🍧🍧🍧🍧🍧🍧🍧🍧🍧🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂

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      • 9. LifeTapestryCreations  |  March 3, 2020 at 1:35 pm

        Dear Sweetie,
        We’re blessed in so many ways including friends, family, and anyone who elects to share their heart. Our hearts are where it’s at!!!!!
        Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
        Brenda
        PS Thank you, Claire and all for my birthday greetings.

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  • 10. Ana Daksina  |  March 2, 2020 at 12:03 pm

    Right on time and on target, as always. Thank you for this. As always.

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    • 11. LifeTapestryCreations  |  March 2, 2020 at 3:34 pm

      Dear Ana,
      Thank you. Your comment reaffirms my intent to help us better understand ourselves and those around us during this amazing transition.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 13. Eliza Ayres  |  March 2, 2020 at 1:08 pm

    Reblogged this on Blue Dragon Journal.

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  • 15. caron_claire@videotron.ca  |  March 2, 2020 at 3:15 pm

    Thank you!

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    • 16. LifeTapestryCreations  |  March 2, 2020 at 3:38 pm

      Dear Claire,
      You’re so welcome. Even after posting Brenda’s Blog weekly for more than ten years, I continue to be amazed at how closely we’re all tracking even though we’re on unique paths.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 17. caron_claire@videotron.ca  |  March 2, 2020 at 8:39 pm

    Knowing we are not alone … Participating… I’m always happy to see your email in my mailbox and appreciate also reading the comments of everyone… how your blog resonates in each our life.

    Your blog has reassured me and has given me courage!

    Thank you so much again and again!

    Much love to you and to everyone!

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    • 18. LifeTapestryCreations  |  March 3, 2020 at 1:31 pm

      Dear Claire,
      One of the pieces I love about sharing is that we’re all blessed with knowing and therefore, the courage to be. Just think how odd, out of step, frightened we would be if we were shifting by ourselves. We’re in this together as we discover our path to being.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 19. caron_claire@videotron.ca  |  March 2, 2020 at 8:57 pm

    Happy Birthday dear Brenda! May all your dreams come true!

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  • 21. joyful light  |  March 4, 2020 at 9:56 am

    “You are likely discovering that you float between anger, fear, and joy. Not because you need to, but because your being is shifting so rapidly, you do not know who you are.”

    That´s so true! I can so relate to that!
    And I would add the word: confusion!

    Who am I and what brings me joy is exactly what I ask me constantly every day, sometimes every hour 😉

    The tricky thing is that I have to leave my home on March 31th. And I don´t know where I want to live, how I want to live. And, add to this, that to find a home for myself is a long-life-challenge for me.

    And all the things/situations around this home-process are repetitions. Whew … drives me nuts sometimes!

    So, how to make such a profound decision in such ever-changing and confusing times? Phew …

    Love to you all!

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    • 22. LifeTapestryCreations  |  March 5, 2020 at 5:19 pm

      Dear Joyful Light,
      I’m guessing the decision is traumatic – lead with your heart. And don’t be afraid to ask for help from the Universes.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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      • 23. joyful light  |  March 11, 2020 at 4:58 pm

        Thank you Brenda for your compassion!
        Yes, I asked for help. And yes, I fly between despair and trust every day.
        Phew…

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      • 24. LifeTapestryCreations  |  March 12, 2020 at 3:41 pm

        YAY, Joyful Light!!!!!!! You know more about your life, needs, and actions than anyone.

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