Stop Care taking Your Rebuild Group

May 18, 2020 at 10:11 am 18 comments

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for

Summary of Brenda’s May 15, 2020, channeled “Creation Energies” show at Instead of creating globally, this is a time of self-protection and creation. Many of you are internalizing this global dark night of the soul. Such is no longer your place. Perhaps you would like to return to the safety bubble you used in earlier transition phases. For your current role is to discover who you are, determine your needs, and create or fulfill those needs.

“You in the Raw” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Heartache seems to radiate from your entire being. You likely feel lonely, sad, perhaps even angry for your life should not be like this. Too much of your day revolves around concern about COVID-19 or upset with those who are concerned. This was to be your life of joy and peace. So it will be.

What you are now experiencing is similar to your personal dark night of the soul magnified multiple times by those with whom you are connected. Perhaps you do not understand our last phrase for you assumed your earth connections included family, friends, and co-workers. Such is true. But there is an additional group – your earth rebuild cadre.

It does not matter if you have met the earth rebuild multitudes attached to you via your frequency and role. For you are so closely aligned, you feel their pain.

Your group attachment experiences are a bit like the flu. When you have the flu, your entire being feels tired and listless even though only some parts of your physical body are affected. Such is so because your physical being is one. So it is for the entirety of everything. More importantly, for this message, so it is especially for those in your rebuild group.

Some in your rebuild group will be the leaders, the demonstrators, if you will. But that does not subtract from the input of all who are part of the group.

Because many members of your rebuild group are now in their dark night of the soul, you are experiencing some of their fears and pain.

Perhaps it is time for you to place yourself in a safety bubble. Such is your choice depending on your level of discomfort and your need to create something that is not part of your rebuild group role.

We have long prophesied that once 3D structures are destroyed, you will rebuild with love and joy. So it is you have your personal role, as well as a group rebuild role. For without that group process, the earth rebuild could not happen in your lifetime or many earth lifetimes.

In 3D, each building block was placed by a single generation until the process was complete. You, en masse, were not interested in a longterm rebuild. So it is you decided before birth what you wished to create both personally and globally. Those who wanted to participate in your global rebuild area found your frequency and attached their thoughts and actions to that rebuild.

You are being pulled in at least two directions. Your personal needs and your group rebuild creations. At the same time, many in your rebuild group are just beginning their dark night of the soul. A confusing time. For you have a need to run with new ideas, even though you feel listless, perhaps exhausted.

The energies now pummeling the earth are adding to your confusion. For these new energies are emphasizing love and acceptance, yet, you feel stymied at every turn. Because of COVID-19, you can do this, but not that. Your world seems limited even though this downtime allows you to adjust your inner being to your new world.

You are like a racehorse not allowed to race.

You will achieve all you wish to achieve – both personally and within your rebuild team as soon as your being is ready to do so. For if you race too far ahead of your team, you will lose some of your rebuild interest. And if you delay too long in creating your personal wants and needs, you will lose interest in everything.

So it is we strongly suggest you visualize what you would like to create personally. Your team build is yet to materialize.

Reward yourself with a short run of creativity if you will. Similar to allowing a racehorse an all-out race around the track without other horses. Run free with your personal creations. Knowing you may need to isolate yourself from your team to do so.

For those rebuild team members experiencing their dark night of their soul have little to do with you. They are in a phase you completed long ago. There is no need for you to revert to that phase to placate those members who would like you to carry their burdens.

Carrying the emotional burdens of others stops you from creating your personal dreams. The group rebuild will happen when it is time to do so.

Stop caretaking your rebuild group members.

Focus on your rewards, and you will be in the right place. Focus on the fears of your rebuild team, and you will lose your creative edge and likely, interest.

Enjoy your life. Ignore the COVID-19 fears – not in terms of self-protection, but in the creation of your new life in a new being. Reward yourself. It is past time to do so. So be it. Amen. To receive Brenda’s Blog, please click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her “Blog & Subscribe” page and then click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation.

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  • 1. Eliza Ayres  |  May 18, 2020 at 10:19 am

    Reblogged this on Blue Dragon Journal.

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  • 3. Delfina Gasoido  |  May 18, 2020 at 10:19 am

    “This was to be your life of joy and peace. So it will be.” AMEN!!!

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  • 5. elizabethsadhu  |  May 18, 2020 at 1:14 pm

    This IS my life of joy and peace. 🙂

    This post reminded me to ask if the feelings I have been feeling were mine. NOPE! Thank you!

    So off they go on that burning Viking ship out to sea.
    I am done processing others’s stuff. (Caretaking) NOT MY BUSINESS. hahaha I have often said that to myself very loudly when I would worry about my kids. NOT MY BUSINESS.

    Thanks dearest Brenda for this lovely reminder that our cadre is there and we are in a bit of waiting mode to come together. All perfect DIVINE timing. AND I am loving this peace filled time of COVID. I love the quiet and solitary walks and the reading and the fun bread making experiments and learning. So much coolness in the world.

    love love love to us all!!!!

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    • 6. elizabethsadhu  |  May 18, 2020 at 1:20 pm

      PS. Please know that I would do pretty much anything for my kids, but they are very independent and don’t ask very often at all. They are almost 40 and 37. And my BF son and BF daughter. I don’t give advice EVER unless they ask.

      So, the above statement was really for me to remind myself that they are awesome and fine and the most wonderful humans on the face of the planet. AND I am not prejudiced at all.

      When my son was about 18 and I wondered internally (he had already moved out) if he had car insurance, I would loudly declare, NOT MY BUSINESS!

      So, I was practicing letting go of care taking a long time ago.

      But I notice there are so many frickin layers to this thing. oy!
      And one of the layers is feeling ALL the feelings…….DONE. NOT MY BUSINESS!

      I keep peeling the onion.

      So, thanks dearest Brenda, for this beautiful reminder.

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      • 7. LifeTapestryCreations  |  May 18, 2020 at 1:28 pm

        Dear Sweetie,
        NOT MY BUSINESS is our new mantra. As you’ve already discovered, layer after layer of NOT MY BUSINESS!
        Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

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    • 8. LifeTapestryCreations  |  May 18, 2020 at 1:25 pm

      Dear Sweetie,
      Now for all of us to create our personal dreams. Apparently, you have or are in the process of doing so. Ninety percent of the quiet time, I love also. But I’m getting inklings of something more. YES!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

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  • 9.  |  May 18, 2020 at 2:56 pm

    Oooooh! Yesterday.. that’s where I was so : ‘Heartache seems to radiate from your entire being. You likely feel lonely, sad.’

    I just had forgotten this mantra from Lee Harris : ‘I release all energies and emotions that are not mine’. Just saying it and repeating it… makes my shoulders straighten up and my mood much lighter.

    I’m not completely sure what you mean by ‘our rebuild group’?

    Thank you so much again, for this important reminder.

    Much love to you and to everyone!


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    • 10. LifeTapestryCreations  |  May 19, 2020 at 12:43 pm

      Dear Claire,
      The rebuild group was a new piece of information for me also.

      It seems – and logically so for me – that we’re not only part of earth family of origin and friends, but also attached to a multitude of others via our frequencies and interest areas to rebuild the earth.

      The outdated earth structures are crumbling now. And we’re part of a team to rebuild those structures in our lifetime either through focussed energies or actual design and rebuild. I suppose you could think of your rebuild team as a construction crew that includes everyone from the architect, to office help, to the actual construction crew, and the lead of that construction crew, to the licensing personnel, to the occupants of that building. Meaning some have more obvious roles than others, but all are needed to complete the project or build.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

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  • 11. Cynthia Vaughn-Huie  |  May 18, 2020 at 10:51 pm

    Just what I needed to hear today. Feeling a little out of sorts. Today is the third anniversary of Bill’s passing. Life has changed so much. It is a time of rebuilding. Miss you💕

    Sent from my iPhone


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    • 12. LifeTapestryCreations  |  May 19, 2020 at 12:53 pm

      Dear Cindy,
      I have the date marked on my calendar. We miss Bill also. And you’re not alone feeling a little out sorts. Many of us have felt the same without necessarily knowing why. It’s protective bubble time as we create our personal life instead of caretaking those going through their dark night of the soul.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

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  • 13. Kathryn A Fernandez  |  May 19, 2020 at 11:19 am

    “Stop care taking your rebuild group”. I needed to hear those words today! I’ve been struggling with a few friends who are so self absorbed, sucking me into a feeling of taking the back seat and being invisible, nothing more than a sounding board. I must be reminded r my role is not one of caregiver, and also remember the wise words of my great aunt who signed her letters with the sweet phrase using my name, “Take care of Kathryn”.

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    • 14. LifeTapestryCreations  |  May 19, 2020 at 1:02 pm

      Dear Kathryn,
      Your great aunt was definitely ahead of her time. What a loving signature.

      I’m a natural caretaker too – as are many lightworkers. I used to fall into that role so easily – no more. New us, new times, new world. We’re as important as others. And when we’re with people who make us feel exhausted or less than we are, it’s time to change the dynamics or exit. As you’ve already discovered. Way to go, Kathryn!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

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  • 15. janis´¯`·.¸ʚįɞ  |  May 19, 2020 at 5:05 pm

    Reblogged this on Lighthearted Signs 🙂.

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    • 16. LifeTapestryCreations  |  May 19, 2020 at 6:17 pm

      Thank you so much, Janis, for reblogging my channel on Lighthearted Signs


  • 17. Delfina Gasoido  |  May 21, 2020 at 3:42 am

    Dear Brenda,

    I never put here links to other blogs, I hope you don’t mind that I do today.
    I bring this, because it confirms (it is not that I doubt you or your messages, it is to put one more grain of Light and Hope in these strange times), what your messages always tell us.
    Sometimes we are hard of hearing.
    We tend to complicate everything.
    The human being likes the convoluted, the rituals, the difficult paths, but when reading that blog this morning I have seen the Light, the Light that your messages always tell us.
    It is so simple !! so perfect!!
    There are no complicated rules, no strange rituals or meditations.
    Our passport to the other side, our golden ticket, our first class ticket is only one: find your Joy !!
    Only that.
    And I trying to make it difficult …. ayssss …. what a clumsy student I am.
    I hope I can graduate from this, and see you all there. What a great party we are going to have …. that someone is ordering the ice for the cocktails … we are going to need a lot !!

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    • 18. LifeTapestryCreations  |  May 21, 2020 at 6:32 pm

      Dear Cristina,
      You’re not a slow learner. I love learning that others are channeling the same or similar information because I wonder at times if I’m making a message up – until I read or hear a similar message.

      As for you not internalizing the simplicity of this transition – join the club. I channel my messages, read other messages, and yet, I forget how simple accepting joy is. We’ve experienced eons of indoctrination about trusting those outside ourselves, ignoring our inner messages, and that everything is soooo complex. Pushing the easy button requires new actions that we’re just beginning to accept.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

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