Others Will Evolve Without Your Interference

July 27, 2020 at 10:48 am 29 comments

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestry Creations.com

Summary of Brenda’s July 24, 2020, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  As you aged in 3D, your life became more concrete. You established plans, dates, and activities. At the same time, you readily accepted that toddlers and infants explored without expectations. So it is now for you. Your world and life flow. What seems probable today might not be tomorrow. So don’t frighten yourself with what could happen tomorrow or next month.

“Practicing Your Global Creation Skills” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestry Creations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

We wish to address your need to be everything to everyone except yourself. For these unusual times seem to be calling you to care for others. But if you do, you will lose your balance, your place in this new earth.

That is not to say you must isolate yourself, but instead, to remember, you are now as fragile as any you feel the need to care for.

You adapted to caring for others, lifetime after 3D lifetime. Always ready to help others while neglecting yourself.

Some of you may contend you were selfish in this or other earth lifetimes. Such was so to balance your being, to add self-care elements for this lifetime.

Given your 3D need to punish yourself whenever you have the opportunity to do so, many of you recalled past lives or incidents in this life that feed your need to punish yourself.

Please allow yourself to know you needed those experiences, or you would not have created them. And now you continue your 3D self-flagellation because your friends and family are in pain. Your inclination is to join them. Not necessarily to experience the same fears or pain, but to stop and comfort them despite your need to be elsewhere.

Such is not a sin (there are no sins), but instead a needless activity for you and those you believe you are helping. They are as strong and capable as you. For if they were not, they would not have selected this time to enter the earth.

This is not an earth life for the faint of heart.

You prepared for eons to be of the earth at this time. Bravo! But so did everyone. This is not an earth life in which one or two people function so differently from other humans that they are noted in history books. You are an Olympic Star, for you helped shift the earth and are now doing the same with your inner-being. But then, so is everyone else. Those of the waves following you have a different focus. You are a star of this magnificent earth shift, and those following will be a star of something else.

If you stop or slow down to help them, you will do so from your focus, not theirs. Such would be counter-productive for both of you. For you would encourage those following to focus on your area, forcing them to negate theirs. And all the while, you would feel off-balance, maybe even angry for being “forced” into their dilemmas.

Perhaps you believe those of 3D did the same to you when you initiated your transition process. So they did. For you were an oddity, someone they could not fully understand. Which encouraged them to try to return you to their 3D boxes.

The difference is, you are more powerful than were your 3D naysayers. You are stronger in your love and your need for others to be like you. So it is your attempts to push others – through what you believe is caring – is much more harmful to both of you than was true of 3D others when you began your transition.

Of course, your heart breaks at times as others cry in fear and pain. Such is to be expected as your heart has opened in ways you never before experienced while of the earth. But such caring is not productive now. The two of you have different roles to play. And if you feel the need to push or pull someone into your world, they will neglect theirs.

It is time for you to implement your self-love, for you cannot live anyone else’s life even though both of you might wish that such was possible.

You are different now. Wiser, stronger, and more powerful than you likely now understand. It is time for you to allow those in the second and third waves to find their power. Carrying them or encouraging them to pity themselves is not productive for either of you.

You do not have the energy nor the earth time to help them climb their mountains, to wade through their dark night of the soul. You completed those phases before them for a reason. You are the abstract instructor. You have completed the steps necessary to be where you are – not in 3D caring for everyone but instead discovering yourself.

Know that others have or will soon have the same power and strength as you, just not in the same arena. So you can no more teach them how to be than it is likely a mechanical engineer could teach a first-grade instructor how best to interact with his or her students. Even though both the instructor and engineer have unique strengths, those strengths seldom cross over. So it is now.

You are you in all your glory. Those in the second and third waves are doing what they need to do to be in the same place as rapidly as possible. Allow them to develop without your interference.

Those parents who continuously coddle their children often discover their children have difficulties becoming responsible, for their children have not learned how to or have a reason to do so.

Our final point is for you to remember to love yourself. For these are indeed trying times. You are adjusting to new you. While those following are crying out for you to care for them. And the energies just keep pummeling every one.

You need downtime, rest, joy, and peace. None of which is possible if you continue to ponder or worry about the needs of others without concern for yourself.

Open your heart to yourself, and you will know the right actions for you and those you love. Care for others, despite your needs, and neither of you will be in self-love. So be it. Amen.

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  • 1. Eliza Ayres  |  July 27, 2020 at 11:04 am

    Reblogged this on Blue Dragon Journal.

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    • 2. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 27, 2020 at 12:38 pm

      As always, Eliza, thank you so much for reblogging my channel on Blue Dragon Journal bluedragonjournal.com

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  • 3. whiterose  |  July 27, 2020 at 11:33 am

    Reblogged this on The Journey of Unlimited Possibilities.

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    • 4. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 27, 2020 at 12:40 pm

      Thank you so much, Whiterose, for reblogging my channel on The Journey of Unlimited Possibilities healing-for-humanity.com

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  • 5. turquoiseavalon  |  July 27, 2020 at 1:03 pm

    Every week I think the information you convey could not be more relevant or timely, but this message has topped the lot. Absolutely pertinent and so very helpful. Many thanks dear Brenda!

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    • 6. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 27, 2020 at 4:49 pm

      Dear Turquoiseavalon,
      Thank you!!!! Your comment made my day.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

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  • 7. elizabethsadhu  |  July 27, 2020 at 1:16 pm

    Thank you dearest Brenda!
    So confirming….and so hard at times, especially when I’ve been trained that it is all about service (seva) to others……I know I have peeled the onion quite a bit and it is interesting to note where there are still pieces to peel/cut out/cut off.

    “It is time for you to implement your self-love, for you cannot live anyone else’s life…..”
    I have been on a self-love path for a long while and then more pieces of it click into place. I have known that I can’t love my neighbor if I don’t’ love myself, but then I notice a tiny piece where I need to let go…..even more…..more more more……I have been getting in my meditations and writing that if we interfere (see: care-take/help/console/do/suggest/etc) in other’s paths, then we are hindering and interfering in their path.

    I AM remembering that I am an amazing Light BEAN (aka: Warrior Goddess of Joy)……..and “Open your heart to yourself, and you will know the right actions for you and those you love.”

    So, thank you so so much……

    love you and loving us all…….

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    • 8. Inma  |  July 27, 2020 at 3:13 pm

      Dear Elizabeth,

      I really like your comment. Since I don’t know how to activate the ‘Like’, I decided to let you know by writing.

      Much Love,


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      • 9. elizabethsadhu  |  July 27, 2020 at 4:00 pm

        Thank you so much Inma!!!!
        much love right back at you.

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    • 10. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 27, 2020 at 4:54 pm

      Dear Sweetie,
      I still find it amazing that we have to remember to love ourselves. Our 3D programming has been so deeply ingrained. But we’re getting there as we remove layer after layer of feeling the need to care for others before we deserve to care for ourselves.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

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  • 11. angelesdecrystal  |  July 27, 2020 at 3:09 pm

    Reblogged this on Mensajes Galácticos.

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    • 12. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 27, 2020 at 4:56 pm

      Thank you so much, Angelsdecrystal, for reblogging my channel on Mensajes Galácticos mensajesgalácticos.wordpress.com

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  • 13. janis´¯`·.¸ʚįɞ  |  July 27, 2020 at 10:36 pm

    Reblogged this on Lighthearted Signs´¯`·.¸ʚįɞ.

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    • 14. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 29, 2020 at 11:43 am

      As always, Janis, thank you so much for reblogging my channel on Lighthearted Signs lightheartedsigns.wordpress.com

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  • 15. Delfina Gasoido  |  July 28, 2020 at 2:57 am

    Dear Brenda,
    It is not my intention to come to complain, but only to know if someone else happens to him.
    I already commented a few weeks ago, that I’m not quite well.
    I have been for several weeks (months), in which any news I hear of lack of solidarity, of lack of respect, of harm done to innocents, leads me to a spiral of anger and despair as is not normal for me.
    The point got to such a point that last week I passed out twice.
    It starts with an unpleasant sensation under the navel (not in the solar plexus) that turns into blind fury, it goes up to my heart (my heartbeat and pressure increases) and it reaches my head and everything turns radiant white and I pass out.
    I don’t sleep well either, I have horrible nightmares and I fantasize about going out with a laser sword, or a gas canister, or a flamethrower and making the world a better place. (Pure liberating fantasy, I know I wouldn’t)

    This scares my family husband. So him pressured me to go to the doctor, I was lucky and he was a very understanding doctor. He told me that it happens to many people, including those of his guild. That if you are a normal person with a conscience, you cannot stop having those thoughts. What is a case of acute and sustained anxiety (not depression).

    He prescribed a very low dose of benzodiazepines that I obviously did not take. In addition to lawyer, I am a technician in nutrition and orthomolecular and phytotherapy treatments. So I know how to replace this. I am taking GABA, L-theanine and taurine to sleep. And to give light to my days Kava (piper metisticum) and a small dose of Hypericum (St. John’s Wort), small because I am very sensitive to it.

    The truth is that I was scared when the doctor asked me if I was excited about something in life, as if it was just buying me some shoes, and I was surprised with my answer without thinking:
    I’m not excited about anything in this world, I take it all for granted, I don’t want to know about more atrocities, I just want to go to the next level.
    someone else like me?
    Any ideas to fix it ?
    I am desperate, I have already passed the dark night of the soul. I don’t want to go through it again.
    (I am sharing this here, because I consider you my friends, and also the blog of cats, where I have found great people. They are the only two blogs that I follow.)

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    • 16. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 29, 2020 at 12:13 pm

      Dear Cristina,
      I also have become so enraged by the inhumanity that seems to be pushing in from all sides, that I’ve had difficulties sleeping, become very edgy with Dave, lack of interest/joy, etc. That’s when I turn off media alerts, rest, request guidance from Elizabeth Sadhu’s cloud council (gather your soul, the other being’s soul and have a loving mediation in the clouds), check my akashic records, or just do nothing but chill. This is an extremely difficult time as we all know.

      Cristine, you’ve achieved the apex of helping others. As mayor and a lawyer in your community, you are hounded daily by others wanting you to make their lives better – in addition to witnessing global inhumanity via the media. You’re burned out, you’ve used up all your inner resources and still, it isn’t enough and never will be. You need to replenish yourself. This is a major self-care issue for you.

      If at all possible, don’t answer your phone, turn off the tv, don’t answer your door, and treat yourself as if you have the flu. Your body is signaling, by feinting, that this is a serious issue for you. You can’t change the world, but you can protect/love yourself. Please, please isolate yourself emotionally until you can build-up some reserve for yourself. And then, just say No to others impinging on your life. You are not a global caretaker. You’re a loving, kind, generous, creative woman who has forgotten how much joy you have to share – once you have the energy to do so.
      So Much Love,

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      • 17. Delfina Gasoido  |  July 29, 2020 at 3:10 pm

        Thank you very much dear friend for your words
        Since yesterday I feel stronger and above all I have recovered the center.
        Kava, GABA and others are working in a smooth but effective way. I have also been very hard on myself in terms of mental discipline. I have delegated tasks and I am focusing on myself.
        But one of the things that helps me the most is knowing that you, who for me are a reference in this hard process that we have to live (I mean the ascension, not the Covid), have gone through something similar.
        Understand me, I’m not glad that someone I love like you and Dave are going through this.
        But just as pregnant women, for example, share their experiences in the process, this helps me tremendously.
        Knowing that one is not alone in this, or crazy, or becoming the Grinch, at least for me is a huge help.
        Much Love

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      • 18. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 29, 2020 at 4:34 pm

        Dear Cristina,
        My favorite part of your note is, “I am focusing on myself.” YES!!!!!!!!!!!

        As for so many of us going through similar growing pains and fears, I feel blessed that we can share and care via the Internet.

        My intent throughout the nearly 11 years I’ve been channeling this blog is to provide information that better helps us understand this transition and by doing so, sharing with and caring for one another. And so it is.
        Blessings and Lots of Love,

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  • 19. Karoliina  |  July 28, 2020 at 3:45 am

    Thank you again Brenda! 💛 This is exactly what happens. And I realized after reading this message, that the pain in my body has been activated, because my mind says, “you are So ugly and selfish, shame on you”, but now I understand that it is crucial to take the emotional distance and I am grateful that I listened to my intuition. It’s shocking how unfamiliar self-love is to a 3D-educated mind! Now I really see it. It’s something so weird that it makes me want to cry and punish myself, and make sure there’s no joy or pleasure in my life. 1000 times thanks to Brenda for these posts 🙏 These literally save my life.

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    • 20. Delfina Gasoido  |  July 28, 2020 at 6:45 am

      “you are So ugly and selfish, shame on you”
      Oh Karolina!!
      you have made me cry.
      I don’t know you, but it is impossible for that to be so. If you read blogs like our dear Brenda’s, I am sure you are a beautiful soul. Don’t let yourself be abused
      Remember that well understood selfishness is necessary to be able to give to others. You already know what they say on airplanes with oxygen masks, put it on yourself first, before helping others.
      I also recommend that you read the story of “The Ugly Duckling”. The original Andersen brothers version, not the sweetened kid version. They hid their great philosophical and hermetic knowledge behind what appeared to be children’s stories.
      Lots of love

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    • 21. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 29, 2020 at 12:17 pm

      Dear Karolina,
      Thank you for putting into words what so many of us are discovering – inner 3-D messages that have nothing to do with our reality and never have.

      And so many kudos for allowing yourself to realize that truth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      Blessings and So Much Love,

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  • 22. IpekW  |  July 28, 2020 at 5:34 am

    Love you Brenda… Thank you for this. Shared on Facebook and Twitter as always 🙂

    Liked by 2 people

    • 23. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 29, 2020 at 12:18 pm

      As always, IpekW, thank you so much for sharing my channel on Facebook and Twitter…and I most definitely love you and all!

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  • 24. 1111GardenKat  |  July 31, 2020 at 11:21 am

    Thank you, Brenda. Like many others, this letter was written for me.

    “This is not an earth life for the faint of heart”. How best to remember to tend to our own hearts, to care for ourselves first?

    Liked by 1 person

    • 25. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 31, 2020 at 2:32 pm

      Dear 1111GardenKat,
      Yup. Caring for ourselves first. We’ve had so many eons of putting others first, that many of us have to focus on learning how to love ourselves. It should be so easy – but like many things we’re learning in this transition – the focus is key.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      PS Thank you for letting me know that my channels resonate for you!

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  • 26. 1111GardenKat  |  July 31, 2020 at 2:40 pm

    Indeed, your channels resonate!

    Liked by 1 person

  • 28. INMA  |  July 31, 2020 at 6:48 pm

    Yes, dear Brenda, caring for ourselves first, even though my own family think I’ve gone nuts. Anyways, I’m positive and totally determined not to take any step back. Enough is enough, don’t you think?

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    • 29. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 2, 2020 at 12:04 pm

      Dear Inma,
      I most definitely agree – and according to my channels and so many others, so do the Universes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,



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