Rest

December 14, 2020 at 9:54 am 24 comments

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestry Creations.com

Summary of Brenda’s December 11, 2020, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman: Throughout 2020, you’ve been preparing for 2021. December is similar to a final school exam. You’re changing rapidly in ways you don’t always understand. Unlike 3D, such changes are to be displayed with joy and pride. And the same is true as you build your 2021 structure upon your 2020 foundation. Your personal structure is a required piece of the new earth puzzle.

“Pouring Your Foundation” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestry Creations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

You are exhausted and perhaps a bit angry. This is not how you anticipated you would feel now or ever again. Even though you are prepared for your new life, you are experiencing a time between.

You are neither of 3D or fully beyond 3D. So your thoughts flow between “I should” to “I don’t want to” to “But if I don’t, will I be alone?” Frightening thoughts for many. Encouraging, even forcing you to make decisions you feel too tired to make.

You have the energy to perform a few tasks around the house or maybe greet a few friends, but not much more. Yet, you push yourself to do more, to be as you once were filled with energy and ideas.

Even though it might feel counter-intuitive, your basic responsibility now is rest. The energies floating about for the next few days will take more of your energy than you thought possible. This last month of your calendar year is a culmination of all that has happened throughout the year. The same has been true in past years – especially since you initiated your transition – but the energies of this December are more forceful and dramatic than any you have experienced while of the earth in any lifetime.

That is not to say you will become ill or leave earth because of these dramatic December energies, but instead that you will not have the energy you expect every year at this time.

Others, not awakening or awake, will pooh-pooh your need for rest. You, the party person, wanting to be home and drinking hot chocolate. You, the giving person, not having the energy to host anyone this year. So, those yet of 3D will try to force you and others into a 3D routine that is comfortable for them – but exhausting for you.

It is time to listen to your heart. Do you have the energy or the need to be the life of the party, the caretaker, the shoulder to cry on, the shopper, the food preparer, the decorator, or money giver as you have in the past? If so, that is wonderful. But if not, honor yourself. Most of all, trust yourself. 

You have transitioned beyond group think UNTIL that group think includes holiday expectations and guilt. For indeed, those used to your holiday preparations and concerns will expect you to comply this year with the added guilt of “We need you to create the bond we are used to because this year has been so uncomfortable.” Many of you will comply. Not because you want to or have the energy to do so, but because those shoulds outweigh your sovereignty, your trust in yourself.

The fear that no one will like you if you do not comply with their needs will reign supreme for many of you. Buying love through the financial or physical draining of your resources will continue until you say, “NO” to yourself and others. You can no longer be partially 3D.

This year, 2020, was your year of discovering you and what you need despite temptations to create what others need as you have done for 3D eons. 

If you continue to fulfill others’ needs before doing so for yourself, you will create emotional and physical barriers for yourself. Catering to others’ needs before yours is now similar to touching a hot stove. You will burn yourself either physically or emotionally. 

Many of you dislike that last paragraph because you believe it means taking away your freedom to be. Instead, it is creating your freedom to be. If it is your role to serve others, you will feel joyous doing so. But if the very thought feels heavy and carrying it out is exhausting or creates some physical ailment, you are, in a sense, touching a hot stove. 

You are different. Allow that thought to be. Then allow that others may also be different. So informing those with expectations of you being the caretaker or party maker may create a divide – or be completely acceptable.

It is your choice. Do you wish to sacrifice your emotional or physical health for others, or do you wish to claim yourself? The last few days of 2020 will clarify that concept for you as 3D expectations clash with your new being. Who are you? Or better yet, who do you wish to be? For this is the dividing line, many thought they would never have to cross.

Some of you are declaring to yourself that you can do holiday preparations a bit at a time and so continue to meet your rest needs and others’ expectations. So you might. But at what cost to you? That is your decision. And this is most definitely decision time. So be it. Amen.

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  • 1. Eliza Ayres  |  December 14, 2020 at 10:08 am

    Reblogged this on Blue Dragon Journal and commented:
    Totally there!

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    • 2. LifeTapestryCreations  |  December 14, 2020 at 12:21 pm

      As always, thank you so much, Eliza, for reblogging my channel on Blue Dragon Journal bluedragonjournal.com

      And I’m most definitely there too!

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    • 3. Debbie  |  December 14, 2020 at 3:18 pm

      COVID has turned into the perfect excuse to be home and still for the first Holiday season ever for me. Everyone already knows I am unavailable -but not that it makes me secretly happy! Thanks Brenda!

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      • 4. Eliza Ayres  |  December 14, 2020 at 4:06 pm

        Great attitude, Debbie!

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      • 5. LifeTapestryCreations  |  December 15, 2020 at 1:42 pm

        Dear Debbie,
        Me too! Christmas used to be so important to me. This year, I’m not that interested and I’m secretly happy too. How fun is that!
        Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
        Brenda

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  • 6. soulsoothinsounds  |  December 14, 2020 at 11:53 am

    The last of the guilt, obligation and shame….a final clearing for sure. Thank you Brenda for the perfect message! 💕

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    • 7. LifeTapestryCreations  |  December 14, 2020 at 12:24 pm

      Dear Maria,
      I read your message after I channeled mine and laughed at the synchronicity. Making coffee or anything at home now feels perfect for me also.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 8. elizabethsadhu  |  December 14, 2020 at 1:49 pm

    Thanks dearest Brenda! Perfect message. So much intensity right now. REST! Just seeing that word comforts me.

    “If you continue to fulfill others’ needs before doing so for yourself, you will create emotional and physical barriers for yourself. Catering to others’ needs before yours is now similar to touching a hot stove. You will burn yourself either physically or emotionally.”

    This is so affirming…..Not only this but I keep getting that if we caretake and take care of others we are taking away from them doing their own path……DONE with that.

    Love you dear Brenda!!

    loving us all!!!!

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    • 9. LifeTapestryCreations  |  December 14, 2020 at 2:56 pm

      Dear Sweetie,
      “DONE WITH THAT” for sure, even during this unusual holiday season. I usually do holiday cards, gift shopping, driving to be with relatives and we’re not doing any of that this year. Just the thought exhausts me. Rest is where I’m at too.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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      • 10. elizabethsadhu  |  December 14, 2020 at 3:02 pm

        Rest rest rest….. Just the thought gives me vast relief. Peace of mind and good will towards all. 🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄

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      • 11. LifeTapestryCreations  |  December 15, 2020 at 1:51 pm

        Rest it is, Sweetie.

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  • 12. angelesdecrystal  |  December 14, 2020 at 4:46 pm

    Reblogged this on Mensajes Galácticos.

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    • 13. LifeTapestryCreations  |  December 15, 2020 at 1:44 pm

      As always, Angelesdecrystal, thank you so much for reblogging my channel on Mensajes Galácticos mensajesgalácticos.wordpress.com

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  • 14. Gil Cleeton  |  December 14, 2020 at 5:00 pm

    Holmes’ and Rahe’s 1967 Stress Scale puts ‘Christmas’ high on the list!

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    • 15. LifeTapestryCreations  |  December 15, 2020 at 1:47 pm

      Dear Gil,
      Yes, in past years, I’ve been both stressed and excited because of the holiday season. So much to do in so little time. This year, I’m not feeling either.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 16. Delfina Gasoido  |  December 15, 2020 at 8:26 am

    100% agree, Brenda.

    Perhaps I am becoming a selfish little monster, which I have never been, but today I said “NO!”, undeterred by some family “obligations”, without making excuses, and the best without regrets.

    I went to the gym. I did Pilates, Boxing and spinning classes. Three tough but wonderful hours that have left me exhausted but happy … now I’m going to take a hot shower and slide onto the couch to watch some stupid Christmas movie.

    This is new for me. I have always been the person in the family that everyone calls to fix everything. Whether it is important or not. I have decided that except for health issues (my parents are older), I am not to be anyone’s personal shopper or taxi driver.

    Love
    Cristina

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    • 17. elizabethsadhu  |  December 15, 2020 at 12:54 pm

      Yay for you, Cristina!!!!

      That is so awesome!!!

      ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🎄🎄🎄🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

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    • 19. LifeTapestryCreations  |  December 15, 2020 at 1:50 pm

      Dear Cristina,
      YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!! “Do What You Want to Do. Be Who You Want to Be.” Kudos and more kudos.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 20. caron_claire@videotron.ca  |  December 16, 2020 at 2:45 pm

    Hi Brenda! On the dot again. I wish I were going to the gym and work out for three hours (how releasing it must feel) but instead I’am : ‘You have the energy to perform a few tasks around the house or maybe greet a few friends, but not much more.’

    I seem to have been doomed to spending lots of time on my lazy-boy! I understand why the vision that came to me in a vision quest rite of passage workshop I attended to many years ago was literally … an image popping up of a ‘lazy-boy’!

    I am looking forward to another kind of image pop-up, something closer to heart inspired, closer to 5D.

    Thank you! It is so useful to know that I ‘have to’ rest.. It makes me feel better with myself.

    Lots of love to you Brenda and to all of you!

    Claire

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    • 21. LifeTapestryCreations  |  December 16, 2020 at 4:12 pm

      Dear Claire,
      Rest it is. I’ve been sleeping ten and eleven hours a night and am so ready for bed at my regular bedtime. Monday, I had the energy to clean part of the house, today, I just want to read or do something similar that doesn’t require much action. And so we evolve – or for this month, prepare to evolve.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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    • 22. elizabethsadhu  |  December 16, 2020 at 7:00 pm

      Claire–I’m certainly not going to the gym….hahaha…..YAY for Cristina. I am happy if I get out on a walk.

      You may appreciate this but years ago I had a vision of my happy place and it was by a creek with gorgeous rocks and very mossy and lush green and at first I was sitting there and soon a lovely recliner popped in for me to be super comfy. hahahahahaha

      LOVE to us all!!!!

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      • 23. caron_claire@videotron.ca  |  December 16, 2020 at 9:29 pm

        Yes YAY for Cristina. How interesting! And I have found my way or have been guided to your blog Brenda and I imagine so have you and all of us. A recliner or a lazy-boy implies rest but also in a way ‘stillness’ which I guess has a role to play in the grand scheme of what is going on right now in the energies..

        And also a Yes! to Love to us all!!

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      • 24. elizabethsadhu  |  December 16, 2020 at 9:29 pm

        ♥️♥️

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