Pulling Up Your Significant Other
July 19, 2021 at 9:37 am 21 comments
Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry Creations.com My weekly “Brenda’s Blog” channel is now available at Spotify Podcasts (Welcome to Brenda’s Blog – Brenda Hoffman), Google Podcasts (Brenda’s Blog), Pocket Casts, Radio Public, Anchor Podcasts, and Breaker Podcasts. “New You Development is Subtle and Gentle” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for Life Tapestry Creations.com. Dear Ones, Likely, your significant other is not at the same frequency or emotional place as you for several reasons, including their need to help you understand how far you have evolved. They are not you, yet they encouraged you to become new you. Perhaps that last statement seems convoluted, for you do not yet understand their role in supporting you. Part of that role was encouraging you to caretake them emotionally until you understood that some of those interactions were not healthy. So it is you are aware of their supposed failings. Yet, they created those issues to help you move further into your new you role. In a sense, they gave you a leg up to the higher levels of your being. It is now your turn to pull them up when they are ready to shift beyond 3D or 4D. If you feel content despite misgivings about your partner’s caretaker roles or other interactions that indicate they are not yet functioning at the 5D level, there is a reason you are with them. You two created an agreement that you would move up the frequency ladder with their help. And once you achieved a certain level, your energy would help them achieve the same or something similar. There are no accidents. It is likely your partner has somewhat different interests than you and always has. Despite that difference, their being comforts you in ways you cannot describe. You two were meant to help one another – likely, because of an agreement before birth in this lifetime. And after many interactions in other times and places. You agreed to evolve more rapidly than them with their support. And they agreed to wait until you felt emotionally strong enough to support them once they were ready to move beyond 3D. Many of you are now discovering your partner is changing rapidly. Do you remember when you first discovered that former friends and relatives were irritating or no longer interesting enough to interact with? And how often, we, of the Universes, had to support you as you tested and were often frightened by those new feelings? So it is now for your significant other. Your significant other does not understand why the waves of love they once felt for a certain friend or relative no longer happen. Or that they are irritated by that friend or relative. Change is almost always uncomfortable for humans – and most definitely for 3D humans. So your partner fears that a certain person no longer loves them. Of course, you, the more advanced partner, know that the individual or individuals in question likely never created a true emotional bond with your significant other. Such was also true for you, as you discovered some time ago. Once the 3D niceness, caretaking, and pretenses were removed from those relationships, some of your previous interactions held little for you. So it is now for your significant other. The difference is you only had us, of the Universes, to fret to, for it initially felt so wrong for you to disconnect from those you once cared for or loved. So it is now for your significant other. Your role in this piece of their transition is to love them, which is their step up to the next transition level. They are not alone, for you are with them. Just as they once performed the same role for you. By providing love for your significant other, you are doing more for this global transition than you thought possible. Your significant other will encourage others to jump to the next frequency level. Or to remain where they are and find another 3D being to replace your significant other. So it will go until the earth is much more heavily populated with those beyond 3D than those who refuse to step up to the next level. This transition is no longer a game. It is a life-changing time for all as those once close to you either evolve or remain where they are in 3D. Something you experienced time and again throughout your transition. The same is now likely happening to your significant other. If you continue to be content and peaceful with your significant other relationship, you will offer them the step up you two agreed upon before birth in this lifetime. Your significant other also achieved skill after skill preparing for this particular life. It was merely a coin toss as to which of you two would transition first. Your significant other is now likely indicating they are ready for you to pull them up to the next step. Even though some of you might eventually flit to different relationships, now all is as it should be, including your relationship with your significant other. So be it. Amen. LifeTapestryCreations.com. To receive Brenda’s Blog, subscribe via WordPress.com. Or, click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her “Blog & Subscribe” website page (LifeTapestryCreations.com), and click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation. Copyright 2009-2021, Brenda Hoffman. All rights reserved. Feel free to share this content with others, post on your blog, add it to your newsletter, etc. But please maintain this blog’s integrity by including the author/channel’s name: Brenda Hoffman, and source website link: LifeTapestryCreations.com. |
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1. Finn | July 19, 2021 at 10:29 am
Dearest Brenda, it’s been a looong time since I last commented, (I was always here; just quiet). This here latest brilliant article of yours is the most touching and timely one that I have ever been reading. What a great relief to know that my beloved wife through the last almost 42 years; will now be catching up; and she’ll be allright, after all. – Thanks again Brenda, you have just lifted almost 42 tons of weight off of my shoulders! Much continued support and love to you and to Everyone, stay safe now.
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2. elizabethsadhu | July 19, 2021 at 11:57 am
Finn!
Yes. Same here with my hubby of 30 years!!!!
💜💜💜
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3. crystalsunclear | July 19, 2021 at 2:08 pm
Here too with my hubby…
30 years this year also❣
Feeling the release from my shoulders now also Brenda, Finn & Elizabeth 🎈🌈
Blessings and Namaste,
Crystal…🌞
Who also reads and seldom shares,
Hugs to All here and everyone in this LOVE BOAT 🤗
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4. LifeTapestryCreations | July 20, 2021 at 2:09 pm
Dear Crystalsunclear,
YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! To shoulder release and partner contentment.
Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
Brenda
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5. LifeTapestryCreations | July 19, 2021 at 12:58 pm
Dear Finn,
I’ve suspected my husband of 20 years was evolving, but this channel helped me clarify my thoughts. Like you, what a wonderful relief.
Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
Brenda
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6. elizabethsadhu | July 19, 2021 at 11:56 am
THANK YOU DEAREST Brenda!!!
I can’t begin to tell you how significant this whole post is to me!!!!! 💜💜💜🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
“Your role in this piece of their transition is to love them, which is their step up to the next transition level. They are not alone, for you are with them. Just as they once performed the same role for you.”
AND
“By providing love for your significant other, you are doing more for this global transition than you thought possible.”
Yes yes yes and yes.
THANK YOU!
LOVE YOU tons and tons!
Loving us all! 💜💜
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7. LifeTapestryCreations | July 19, 2021 at 1:01 pm
Dear Sweetie,
Oh, what a relief it is. We seemed to be at different places than our significant others and yet, we felt peaceful and content with them. This week’s clarification helped so many of us!
Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
Brenda
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8. elizabethsadhu | July 19, 2021 at 1:05 pm
Oh my gosh. Yes yes yes. 🎉🎉🎉💜💜💜💜💜👍👍
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9. caron_claire@videotron.ca | July 19, 2021 at 12:03 pm
Dear Brenda, What a relief! and how Timely! I have always prayed for as much ease and grace as possible to be my family’s companions on each of their journey.
‘You two created an agreement that you would move up the frequency ladder with their help. And once you achieved a certain level, your energy would help them achieve the same or something similar. ‘
I needed to know that. It reassures me on my path,.. I’m not letting them down by being on this 5D Adventure.
Brenda, Thank you so very much. Ease, Grace and Love to you and to everyone!
Claire
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10. LifeTapestryCreations | July 19, 2021 at 1:14 pm
Dear Claire,
Ease and grace sound so unlike our 3D life, doesn’t it?
You’re perfect just the way you are, as we’ve learned throughout this transition. And because of that, we’ve become energy beacons for those who want to follow – partners, friends, relatives.
Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
Brenda
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12. LifeTapestryCreations | July 20, 2021 at 2:11 pm
Thank you so much for sharing my channel with your MENSAGENS e PENSAMENTOS readers. mensagensepensamentosblog.wordpress.com.
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13. angelesdecrystal | July 19, 2021 at 4:24 pm
Reblogged this on Mensajes Galácticos.
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14. LifeTapestryCreations | July 20, 2021 at 2:12 pm
Thank you so much, Angelesdecrystal, for sharing my channel with your MENSAJES GALACTICOS readers. mensajesgalacticos.wordpress.com
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15. Michael | July 19, 2021 at 5:00 pm
Thanks, Teach. This is my favorite class. Such actual and useful knowledge. Up-to-the-second.My thanks, Brenda.
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16. LifeTapestryCreations | July 20, 2021 at 2:19 pm
Hi Michael,
Thank you!
Teaching/motivating/expanding everyone’s knowledge, including mine, is how I view my channels. Maybe I should create a new slogan, in addition to “I’m my own guru” – “I’m my own teacher”!!!
Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
Brenda
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17. pleiadian144 | July 19, 2021 at 7:43 pm
Brenda, I really enjoyed this! I don’t have a significant other. However, it’s always nice to hear about the transition beyond 3D for so many. I’m sure those who do have significant others will be in joy to read this! Thank you so much for the uplifting words!!!
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18. LifeTapestryCreations | July 20, 2021 at 2:32 pm
Dear Pleiadian144,
You’re so welcome!
How loving of you to support the evolution of everyone. Thank you for being you.
Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
Brenda
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19. Kim | July 21, 2021 at 5:33 am
This sure explains a lot! Now I understand the turmoil and even more than that…why I could never leave. My husband of 28 years has been my greatest teacher in learning what is and how to truly love. I see how he has provided opportunity for me to not only raise my frequency but to learn forgiveness from my heart not just my mind. As the world has been going thru what it’s going thru the last 18 months I see clearly how he is beginning to awaken and he is turning to me for support and answers. It’s rather beautiful really, how clearly I can see Gods divine hand in all of this. Thank you Brenda…for faithfully bringing these messages to us. They have been a wonderful blessing. ♥️
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20. crystalsunclear | July 21, 2021 at 11:38 am
Exactamente as Poirot would say…
Yes Kim, our greatest teachers along the pathway, as they falter, we lift them up, just as they have done for us all these years…
reminding us That love is Eternal and Unconditional, to Lift US ALL into Unity and Oneness to where WE ALL TRULY RIGHTFULLY, DIVINELY BELONG !
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21. LifeTapestryCreations | July 23, 2021 at 1:09 pm
Dear Kim
As you relayed so beautifully, listen to your heart, and you will find your path!
Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
Brenda
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