You’re Not a Helicopter Parent

September 13, 2021 at 9:38 am 20 comments

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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry Creations.com

“Get Out of Your Own Way” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for Life Tapestry Creations.com.

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Dear Ones,

You cannot see or perhaps, sense what you have created. Likely, you wish you had not created this revolution, for the current effects of this transition are much more unpleasant than you anticipated.

You believed the global transition from fear to love would happen softly and graciously. Even though we, of the Universes, prophesied that those fully immersed in fear would fight to retain those fears, you did not believe their fight would be so painful.

You have forgotten the prophesies that all structures would fall before being rebuilt with new love materials. Just as you had difficulties understanding how dramatic your dark night of the soul would be. It is one thing to obtain knowledge and quite another to live through it.

You forerunners have moved beyond your dark night of the soul. Even so, the fear of those now moving through their dark night of the soul is painful for you to observe. So painful you question the outcome.

You are beginning to believe your joy will never happen, that the prophecies of love and joy are false. That even though a small percentage of the totality will create wealth and power, as has been true in 3D, the remainder of the world’s population will flail about in despair. That not much has changed in the world other than your hope for a better tomorrow. Hope that seem to be dashed with every news story or angry retort.

Such is so for a reason. You completed your dark night of the soul and cleared your dust bunnies of fear from the corners. What you are observing is that those immediately following you – the second and third waves – are moving through their dark night of the soul.

Those waves following you likely include friends or family. You inched them closer to their new beings just by being you, by shining your new light of love brightly. That closeness that love creates emotional angst within you as you observe their pain of discarding their deeply hidden secrets, just as you once did.

After this wave, you will likely not feel the need to view future wave shifts for those now in their dark night of the soul are your people, your friends and family.

So you feel some of their pain. Not because you have to, but because they are part of your heart.

When you have a minor cut on your finger, you focus on that cut until it heals. It is your choice whether to focus on the pain of your friends and family or move beyond. Focusing on their pain does not help them, nor you. Just as when they cut their finger, there is no need for you to halt your life until their finger heals.

You are a caretaker – a role you honed for eons both of the earth and the Universes. You would not be a forerunner if you did not have that caretaker gene. To shift the earth, as you did months ago, you prepared for eons to negate yourself.

It is time for you to move beyond your caretaker role – something you find difficult. You worked so diligently to prepare for this transition that you now have difficulties remembering you need not caretake anyone but yourself.

Allow those following to fully experience their dark night of the soul, just as you need to caretake yourself enough to experience joy in your new world. Those following will not exit their dark night of the soul if all they sense from you forerunners is more fear or angst.

Stop caretaking – even those you love. It is counterproductive for them and you. Allow them to voice their pain and anger without trying to sugarcoat it or make it better. They are fearful and angry, just as you were during your dark night of the soul. There was seemingly no light for you then and seemingly no light for your loved ones now. Similarly, you could not sit at a desk beside your child throughout their school years, even though some helicopter parents tried to do so – with unpleasant results.

You are the light, not the caretaker. Nor are any waves following going to be caretakers.

It is time for individual inner power and strength. Only those who remain in 3D to provide a counterpoint will retain that 3D caretaker role.

Allow yourself to be a beacon as those following seem to fall apart – only to reinvent themselves in love as you have done. You are a beacon of joy.

Those following will create that same beacon of joy role eventually. You are not a 3D helicopter parent. You are a strong example of the joy that is possible.

You are you. Allow that to be and play your role instead of attempting to play the 3D caretaker role you so capably completed. So be it. Amen.

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  • 1. angelesdecrystal  |  September 13, 2021 at 9:46 am

    Reblogged this on Mensajes Galácticos.

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    • 2. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 13, 2021 at 12:18 pm

      Thank you so much once again, Angelsdecrystal, for sharing my channel with your MENSAJES GALACTICOS readers. mensajesgalacticos.wordpress.com

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  • 3. NathaJay  |  September 13, 2021 at 11:27 am

    As I have to remind myself, “Not my circus, not my monkeys.”

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    • 4. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 13, 2021 at 12:20 pm

      Dear NathJay,
      Nope. “Not our circus, not our monkeys.” Joy and love are where it’s at!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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    • 6. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 14, 2021 at 5:42 pm

      Thank you once again for sharing my channel with your MENSAGENS e PENSAMENTOS readers. mensagensepensamentosblog.wordpress.com

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  • 7. elizabethsadhu  |  September 13, 2021 at 12:59 pm

    Thank you!!!!! PERFECT!!!!!!

    THIS! One of the hardest things to let go.
    “It is time for you to move beyond your caretaker role – something you find difficult. You worked so diligently to prepare for this transition that you now have difficulties remembering you need not caretake anyone but yourself.”

    “Stop caretaking – even those you love. It is counterproductive for them and you.” AND this is so perfect. I got a little bit ago that when we caretake others, we are not allowing them to do THEIR PATH.
    I learned a great lesson around this recently with my dear beloved daughter…..so so good.

    “You are the light, not the caretaker.” yes yes yes…..such a great reminder.

    Much love to you dearest Brenda!!!! Yet again, you say it so so well. xoxoxo

    loving us all!

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    • 8. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 14, 2021 at 5:46 pm

      Dear Sweetie,
      Isn’t it interesting how, if or when we forget that we’re no longer caretakers, our physical being tries to redirect our actions and words through discomfort, headaches, rashes, stomach aches, and so many other indicators? Our personal GPS system never seems to fail now – even though we sometimes wish it would!!!!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 9. Finn  |  September 13, 2021 at 2:14 pm

    Beacon of joy … … – That was me in my childhood, bit not me in my adolescence, and absolutely not me in my adulthood, but finally again me noe in my senior years …. – What a life it has been sofar, What a life … .. – Believe me please when I say, pleae never again, – but WHAT A RIDE. it has been sofar ! – Thanks again Brenda, much continued support and love to you and Everyone, støy safe now.

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    • 10. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 14, 2021 at 5:48 pm

      Dear Finn,
      YOU’RE BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YAY!!!! For you and all other beacons of joy, despite everything we experienced along the way – both in 3D and throughout our transition.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 11. Michael  |  September 13, 2021 at 7:44 pm

    Thank you Brenda, and You. Be yourself. Allow others the same. Be an example. Truth is always simple at it’s best. Always glad of your messages!

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    • 12. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 14, 2021 at 7:33 pm

      Hi Michael,
      “Be yourself. Allow others the same.” Pretty well covers it. Thank you for a great summation!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 13. Inma  |  September 13, 2021 at 11:37 pm

    Dear Brenda,

    What a great channel! Each and every word of it depicts what I often see myself immersed in, so much tempted to take the caretaker role… just to realise it is not that way.

    Thank you so much for the reminder!!!!😍🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    Lots of love,

    Inma

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    • 14. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 14, 2021 at 7:35 pm

      Dear Inma,
      Oftentimes, it feels like caretaker is my middle name. So I know what you mean about the temptation to fall into that comfortable but no longer appropriate role. Here’s to us for recognizing who we no longer wish to be!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 15. Şebnem  |  September 15, 2021 at 11:53 am

    O dear Brenda, recently I actually claimed that” I lost my joy”
    , which is absurd to me bcs I have always been cheerful happy person no matter what happens. Suffering of my loved ones takes my joy away. As I read this channeling I get that it’s meant to be this way and will stay focused what it’s been said 🙏🏻✨🌈

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    • 16. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 20, 2021 at 10:52 am

      Dear Sebnem,
      Isn’t it so easy for we forerunner caretakers to assume the woes of those we love? The same happens to me, but like you, I’m taking an active role to change that automatic response. Step-by-step, we’re changing both us and those who wish to shift beyond 3D. Kudos to us all!!!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 17. Nikos  |  September 20, 2021 at 4:37 am

    Dear Brenda , thank you so much, every week i look forward to your messages, they are top notch to me and describe exactly what takes place and what i needed to hear🙂
    Much Love and many blessings!

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    • 18. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 20, 2021 at 10:54 am

      Dear Nikos,
      What a loving message. Thank you.

      And give yourself kudos for being a forerunner giant!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 19. Helen White  |  September 24, 2021 at 5:03 am

    Dear Brenda, I don’t think there has been a channel of yours that I haven’t resonated with deeply for the longest time…thank you!

    The subject of this one has come up for me strongly just this very week. I had just observed to my husband that its as though certain people most vehemently demand our presence, since the restrictions, like they want our physical bodies to show up in a seat at a gathering and yet they ignore what we actually share from the heart, as though we had not spoken…bizarre, so hard not to feel hurt/ignored/bewildered as though they only engage with our physical 3D forms but not with the content…but maybe not so in light of this. Yes to increased body aches and pains being the clue…we have a choice when and how to show up now, and we lead by example of living our own wholeness and joy.

    Blessings to you!

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    • 20. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 26, 2021 at 12:04 pm

      Dear Helen,
      Many have come to the same conclusion – including me. As we shift and others don’t or at the same pace, it feels as if we’re in two different worlds (and in a frequency sense, we are). It’s a confusing time for us and those who haven’t shifted as rapidly.

      There might be a time in the not-to-distant future when you reconnect…or not. Just as was true in 3D with past romantic partners.

      It’s definitely a time to listen to our body aches, confusion, and even boredom – indicators that we’re not in a place that enhances our new you being.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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