You’re Larger Than 3D Life

September 20, 2021 at 9:40 am 16 comments

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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry

“You’re Not a Helicopter Parent” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for Life Tapestry

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Dear Ones,

Meshing with your 3D friends and family is becoming more and more difficult. Not because they are wrong, but because you are different.

You are becoming larger physically, emotionally, and spiritually. So it is, you seem larger than life to 3D beings, even though you are similar to how you appeared before transitioning.

In 3D terms, your charisma has increased. So you might look the same in a mirror, but others see a sparkle, a charismatic being that encourages those of 3D to look more closely, to wish to be with you.

You have perhaps read about certain dignitaries or movie stars who seem larger than life. So it is for you now. Even though you are not doing or saying anything that unusual, your sparkle and love light up the room.

Many of you believe you do not display love. That you are as you always have been. Yet, you likely find people remember you more than was true in the past.

You might discover you wish to hibernate a bit longer than is necessary during this COVID time, but not know why.

If you remember from our last channel, being among large groups of people has become difficult for you because you are internalizing more of their frequencies.

There is another reason you find different frequencies difficult to be around. You are a new being somewhat unfamiliar with 3D personhood and very uncomfortable with 3D actions, words, and shoulds. At the same time, you seem more luminescent to others.

Your interactions with large groups of people – especially those of 3D – are uncomfortable because you sense much more and those of 3D expect you to be so much more.

You are not interested in the charismatic pedestal those of 3D want to place you on. It almost seems like a waste of time to be in 3D company because there is little you can learn.

Imagine you are a 1960’s 13-year-old adolescent girl enamored of the Beatles. If Paul, Ringo, George, and John appeared on your doorstep, you would be so overcome you probably would not be able to communicate. In turn, those young men would find you silly but not at all interesting.

So it is for you now. You are like a cherished dream for many of 3D, but there is nothing they can teach you, nor do you wish to emulate any part of their life.

You have outgrown most 3D humans.

You are not better than 3D humans – you are merely different. And that difference is the need to discover more about your new personhood with little interest in the 3D you have shifted beyond.

If you had had a similar charisma when you were of 3D, you would have marveled at your luck. For you could have created all sorts of 3D glories for yourself, as has been true for movie stars, politicians, corporate giants, leaders, artists, and musicians. The charisma that opened 3D financial and personal doors.

Such is similar for you now. The difference is you desire a different type of creation. 

Your interests are more about what you can learn and create. Almost as if you are interested in inventing automobiles, and those of 3D are interested in raucous partying.

You are too busy creating anew to address the need of those who wish to adore you or to enter into their conversations of right or wrong.

Your days’ likely roll along with not much interaction with others. Not because you cannot interact with others – even though it is uncomfortable at times to have 3D internal chatter in your being – but because you have such different interests.

You are a new being in a new world, not at all interested in your former 3D life or the rules that 3D life included.

There is no reason for you to attend this or that gathering. Nor is there is a reason for you to interact with those wishing to place you on a charismatic pedestal.

You are new you, with new interests and interactions. Allow that to be.

If or when you feel like it, you can encourage those of 3D to follow your lead by merely being you. 

There are more exciting pieces for you to assimilate than walking among those who wish to put you on a pedestal instead of following your lead. So be it. Amen. To receive Brenda’s Blog, subscribe via Or, click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her “Blog & Subscribe” website page (, and click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation. 

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  • 1. Finn  |  September 20, 2021 at 10:02 am

    ” You are a new being in a new world, not at all interested in your former 3D life or the rules that 3D life included. ”

    This is very very true. – However, all of my dreamtime has like forever now been filled to the rim with unfinished 3D business; where everything and everybody are completely collapsing; and the only one able to do anything about it is me, alone by myself. – And ofcourse I wake up every morning completely exhausted .. … – Anyways, I’ll do it as long as it’ll take; because the outcome of it all will be Heavenly. – Thanks again Brenda, much continued love and support to you and to Everyone, stay safe now.

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    • 2. Ana Daksina  |  September 20, 2021 at 11:05 am

      Haha, join the club, my brother! Stay the course — there’s a distinct gleam at the end of this tunnel now — look! 🤗

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    • 3. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 20, 2021 at 11:08 am

      Dear Finn,
      Everything and everyone may be collapsing in your outer world, but you’re a cohesive powerhouse.

      If that collapsing affects those you love, allow them to solve their issues – if at all possible. If it’s your job or social world, it’s likely a message for you to move on.

      How wonderful that you’re addressing some unfinished business in your dream state instead of your daytime hours. Doing so is easier and quicker even though you’re more tired.

      Here’s to a rapid transition from collapse to joy.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

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  • 4. Ana Daksina  |  September 20, 2021 at 11:03 am

    Brenda, Brenda, Brenda, how much strength, affirmation and enablement you bring us! Stand up and cheer! 👏👏👏👏👏🥰

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  • 5. elizabethsadhu  |  September 21, 2021 at 12:13 pm

    Oh my gosh. With the joys of being retired comes the confusion, at times, of what day it is!
    Yesterday your blog came out! I’m happy I remembered it today. Brilliant as usual. And of course I completely relate.

    Very happy to be more internal. Not see many folks…. COVID blessing….. Time for introspection. And loving it.

    I see people having gatherings and I feel a bit of shock. Perhaps because I have no desire to do that and also with COVID and variants and not knowing who might be a carrier. But I’m blessed in that I don’t have to go out to work and my children are all grown up. And I have my most wonderful hubby companion.

    Thanks dearest Brenda for more clarity and beauty.

    Love you tons and tons!


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    • 6. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 22, 2021 at 2:21 pm

      Dear Sweetie,
      Me too. I wonder how long before we feel like rejoining the world?
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

      Liked by 1 person

  • 7. Gunnar  |  September 22, 2021 at 2:18 pm

    Dear Brenda♥ I can relate to this, and I really needed to hear this right now.
    Thank you so much for sharing♥
    Love and light to you and all♥♥♥

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    • 8. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 22, 2021 at 2:22 pm

      Dear Gunnar,
      YAY! You can relate too. Sounds like a number of us continue to hibernate. And yet, for me, the days fly by.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

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  • 9. Jenn  |  September 23, 2021 at 5:53 am

    Dear Brenda, I’m very privileged that there is no covid here in NE Australia but many Aussies are still so fearful. I feel like people are changing…or is it me changing? Anyway thankyou for your lovely message 😊


    • 10. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 26, 2021 at 11:56 am

      Dear Jenn,
      You’re so welcome. And yes, we’re all changing – more rapidly than we fully understand.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,


  • 11. Inma  |  September 24, 2021 at 6:06 am

    Dear Brenda,
    It’s so in my case, dealing with with 3D world. The worst part of it all is that exposing myself to the outside has been causing me very unpleasant physical and emotional symptoms which I cannot control yet and make feel ill for a long time.
    I just feel fine if I don’t leave my comfort zone, which is very limited and limiting.
    Thank you so much for this great channel, as always.
    Lots of Love,


    • 12. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 26, 2021 at 12:10 pm

      Dear Inma,
      We’re in a somewhat difficult time shifting more rapidly than many. So our new finely tuned bodies tell us what we have difficulties admitting to ourselves – as that information seems contrary to everything we learned in 3D.

      Do what you can to honor your physical being with the new you information you’re experiencing, even though that information doesn’t always seem logical.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,


      • 13. Inma  |  September 26, 2021 at 3:13 pm

        Thank you, dearest Brenda😘❤️🙏🏻


      • 14. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 26, 2021 at 5:23 pm

        You’re so very welcome, Inma!


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    • 16. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 26, 2021 at 12:12 pm

      Thank you so much for sharing my channel with your QUE du BONHEUR readers.



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