Fear is Exhausting

March 28, 2022 at 9:51 am 36 comments

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry Creations.com.

“How’s Your Tapestry?” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

The weekly “Brenda’s Blog” channel is available on Spotify Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Anchor Podcasts, Apple Podcasts, Breaker Podcasts, Pocket Casts, and Radio Public. You can find access buttons to the podcast sites at LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Dear Ones,

Even though you craved excitement throughout most of your outer-directed earth time, you are shifting to a lower key of excitement. The wild parties or schemes of yesterday no longer thrill you. Excitement has become interacting with loved ones, nature, and other seemingly mundane activities that you probably once scoffed at.

Such is another indication of your inner shifts. Fear and pain are becoming more irritating because they are no longer your areas of interest or exploration – they are yesterday’s fashions.

You are a different being in a different world. So it is you no longer pine for the excitement of war, negative interactions, or anything that feels arduous.

In your outer-directed world, you explored fear for exhilaration, even pleasure. “I was brave enough to overcome that fear” is no longer something you likely brag about. Not because you cannot conquer that fear, but because you know you can but are no longer interested in doing so.

You are different, and so is your world.

Instead of racing to the latest confrontation, you will first try to avoid it. Until the day you realize you cannot stop others from doing or being as they wish. That your only role is to find your peace, inner joy and allow the same for others.

You might wish to dampen the energies of negative media coverage. Or you might tell others how wrong they are in support of this or that – until you do not. Within the next few days, you will, in essence, cut yourself off from the woes and concerns of others. Not because you are unfeeling or a mean person, but because you no longer wish to add energy to their fears.

You likely respond that because others are dying or suffering, you must engage in eliminating such activities. But you will soon discover you do not feel the need to caretake anyone but yourself. Not because you are an unfeeling person, but because you no longer adhere to the outer-directed need to control or caretake others. You are self-contained, as is everyone who has transitioned beyond their outer-directed being.

At first, you will likely believe that everyone but loved ones, children, or animals can take care of themselves. So you return to your caretaking habits only to discover you no longer mesh with them as you once did – that caretaking has become heavy and burdensome. You are tired. In fact, you are exhausted by the effort.

This exhaustion indicates that you are no longer the outer-directed entity who needs to caretake, experience pain, or be frightened to achieve your fear roles. You have shifted to the freedom to be in peace. Which is quite different from the back and forth comments voiced by those for and against Covid vaccines or political antics.

A peace within yourself that doesn’t require outer declarations of rightness but instead an acceptance of who you are. A new inner peace not dictated by events outside yourself but awakened as part of your being.

Even though there will be times when you return to your outer-directed fears or righteousness, those times will become less and less. Declaring to the world that you no longer need to be right or fearful and that others can feel however they want.

So it is you will lose interest in those fear areas that once seemed wonderfully right and a bit edgy, areas that pushed your fear limits both physically and psychologically. And you will observe others deeply enmeshed in such areas with little interest or even understanding.

This is indeed a new world you have been instrumental in creating. It is time to live in that new world following your inner instincts instead of your previous roles of caretaking and fear.

You are not becoming a boring fuddy-duddy. You are changing the world. Not by anger, fear, righteousness, or even caretaking. You are doing so by being and enjoying your new calm inner world – without fear, angst, pining, or anger. So be it. Amen.

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  • 1. marybogdan  |  March 28, 2022 at 10:11 am

    You have shifted to the freedom to be in peace. Fabulous! 🌼🌻🌸

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    • 2. LifeTapestryCreations  |  March 28, 2022 at 2:05 pm

      Dear Mary,
      Just the thought feels lovely to me also.
      Blessings, Lots of Love, and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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    • 3. Ana Daksina  |  March 28, 2022 at 3:55 pm

      Beware of the hidden trap of complacent totalitarianism just beyond that threshold. Too many of our Lightworkers find themselves just as fine with blaming the victim for their circumstance as any staunchest hardline judge of the old law. Compassion must be our highest watchword even yet.

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      • 4. LifeTapestryCreations  |  March 28, 2022 at 6:26 pm

        Dear Ana,
        From what I’ve channeled and other channels, I believe/hope that compassion is going to be a natural process for all of us as we negate outer-directedness more and more.
        Blessings, Lots of Love, and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
        Brenda

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      • 5. Ana Daksina  |  March 28, 2022 at 8:19 pm

        We agree 👌

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  • 6. Annika Birgitta Nordlander  |  March 28, 2022 at 10:14 am

    By choosing to meet physical, mental, emotional needs and desires in ways that feels good, amazing to all involved and all involved is choosing to do this with one another there is almost no fear present

    and if some fear come up we talk about those unmet, suppressed, denied needs, desires that are arising from the subconscious that have never been met but are wanting to be met and we talk about how and who can meet these needs and desires and all fear is gone.

    Thank you Brenda for sharing. Much love to all physical, mental, emotional needs and desires ❤

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    • 7. LifeTapestryCreations  |  March 28, 2022 at 2:07 pm

      Dear Annika,
      Yes to loving self-talk and review!
      Blessings, Lots of Love, and Ongoing Creaton Sparkles,
      Brenda

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    • 8. Ana Daksina  |  March 28, 2022 at 3:56 pm

      You’ve found/nurtured a beautiful relationship! Congratulations! 💞

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  • 9. Finn  |  March 28, 2022 at 10:16 am

    Absolutely! Because fear in itself exists outside of ourselves; it is therefore unnecessary. FEAR = False Evidence Appearing Real. – When you are fearless; then fear just cannot find you. – Thanks again Brenda, much continued support and love to you and to Everyone, stay safe now.

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    • 10. Ana Daksina  |  March 28, 2022 at 3:57 pm

      No, but if you are a clairaudient empath being tortured by sound over months, agony can.

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      • 11. Finn  |  March 29, 2022 at 6:05 am

        I fully agree with you Ana, – having been born myself with hyperacusis (heightened sensitivity to sound); the only way I’ve made it through this harrowing 3D-life has been in the good company of Melodious and Harmonious and Highly Uplifting Music along the way. — We shall prevail !!, with best wishes from Finn.

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      • 12. Ana Daksina  |  March 29, 2022 at 8:05 am

        Thank you for your understanding. Living in a van and requiring silence for my work, I am unable to block out this malicious audial attack. Pray for me.

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      • 13. LifeTapestryCreations  |  March 29, 2022 at 12:18 pm

        Dear Ana,
        I’m sorry that I didn’t fully understand your previous comment about hyperacusis. You’re in my prayers and thoughts – as are you, Finn.
        Blessings and Love,
        Brenda

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      • 14. Ana Daksina  |  March 29, 2022 at 2:18 pm

        Oh, Brenda ~ both your response and Finn’s gave me so much heart healing. The word “love” from you in particular was like water in the desert to this staggering soul. I felt sorry to be messing up your affirmative site, but had no other place to try to find understanding ~ the ranks of our Lightworkers are still so full of jealous opportunism that I’ve found myself tacitly accused of authoring my own troubles at every hand. Your response was so different, so generous. There was nothing missing. So much love and many thanks

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      • 15. LifeTapestryCreations  |  March 29, 2022 at 4:39 pm

        Dear Ana,

        We’re all in this together – sharing, caring, and evolving.
        Blessings, Lots of Love, and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
        Brenda

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      • 16. Ana Daksina  |  March 29, 2022 at 10:05 pm

        🤗

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      • 17. Ana Daksina  |  March 30, 2022 at 2:00 pm

        Finn and Brenda, the impact of your affirmative energies is significant here. My thanks are humble and enormous ❤️💕 Onward, now, one step at a time. Thank you both 🙏

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    • 18. LifeTapestryCreations  |  March 28, 2022 at 6:30 pm

      Dear Finn,
      “FEAR = False Evidence Appearing Real” is an inner-directed rallying cry. Thank you for the reminder.
      Blessings, Lots of Love, and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 19. Ipek Williamson  |  March 28, 2022 at 11:11 am

    Love you so much, dearest Brenda! With your permission, I am sharing this on my Facebook page. If you would like to follow the page, the link is this. https://www.facebook.com/calmnessandblissnetwork

    Actually, I would love to have you follow it as at the moment, I cannot tag you, when I share your blog posts and I would love to be able to tag you. Much love and light!!! You are the best!

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    • 20. LifeTapestryCreations  |  March 28, 2022 at 6:32 pm

      Dear Ipek,
      Thank you so much for sharing my channel with your CALMNESS AND BLISS NETWORK, a perfect label for this week’s channel. ipek’s calmness & bliss network on Facebook.com
      Blessings, Lots of Love, and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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    • 22. LifeTapestryCreations  |  March 28, 2022 at 6:28 pm

      Thank you once again for sharing my channel with your MENSAGENS e PENSAMENTOS readers. mensagensepensamentosblog.wordpress.com

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  • 23. Ana Daksina  |  March 28, 2022 at 2:33 pm

    Oh, the doing and being of others will not leave me even a 5 X 10 foot space of peace, pay for it as I will with every first world comfort, and has just about got me shredded.

    May this burden of karma be transmuted soon, and I be permitted to reassume one more proportional to my personal deservingness, amen!

    Thanks for letting me vent. I understand a lot of us feel this way.

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    • 24. LifeTapestryCreations  |  March 28, 2022 at 6:23 pm

      Dear Ana,
      You most definitely are not alone.

      May I add my love to your prayer for peace, “May this burden of karma be transmuted soon, and I be permitted to reassume one more proportional to my personal deservingness, amen!”
      Blessings, Lots of Love, and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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      • 25. Ana Daksina  |  March 28, 2022 at 8:21 pm

        Dearest Brenda ~ I send my own love and blessings back your way, with profound gratitude and a deep sense of sisterhood. Here’s to better days ahead 👯🎶✨

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  • 26. elizabethfarwell  |  March 28, 2022 at 11:25 pm

    Thanks you dearest Brenda…

    The easy simple things are so so satisfying.

    And still feeling exhausted but learning to relax more. Very much working to be present. BEING.

    Love you tons!

    Loving us all

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    • 27. LifeTapestryCreations  |  March 29, 2022 at 12:10 pm

      Dear Sweetie,
      The simple things really are satisfying, aren’t they? In fact, I’m discovering that crowds/large groups are difficult for me, at least now – and that’s from someone who used to love conventions and parties. And so it changes.
      Blessings, Lots of Love, and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 28. The Wave  |  March 29, 2022 at 12:22 am

    Reblogged this on Infinite Shift.

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    • 29. LifeTapestryCreations  |  March 29, 2022 at 12:12 pm

      Thank you so much for sharing my channel with your INFINITE SHIFT readers. infiniteshift.wordpress.com

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  • 30. Eliza Ayres  |  March 30, 2022 at 7:54 am

    Reblogged this on Sunny's Journal.

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    • 31. LifeTapestryCreations  |  March 30, 2022 at 4:03 pm

      Thank you so much, Eliza, for sharing my channel with your SUNNY’S JOURNAL readers. sunnysjournal.com

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      • 32. Eliza Ayres  |  March 30, 2022 at 4:14 pm

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  • 33. pleiadian144  |  March 30, 2022 at 12:26 pm

    Brenda,
    Just two words. Thank You!!!

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    • 34. LifeTapestryCreations  |  March 30, 2022 at 4:05 pm

      Dear Pleiadian144,
      Three words in return. You’re so welcome! Knowing that my channels resonate with others is one of my great joys.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 35. Deb  |  April 3, 2022 at 9:35 am

    Thank you Brenda. Sending love to you as well Ana. I am at peace now and just floating with no direction or much interaction with others. Feels very empty but good as well. I was involved in an extreme act of caregiving for a few months last year and was able to see how that took over my life. No more!

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    • 36. LifeTapestryCreations  |  April 3, 2022 at 11:04 am

      Dear Deb,
      YES, to no more! And YES to self-love and care.
      Blessings, Lots of Love, and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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