Not a Time of Quiet Acceptance

February 13, 2023 at 11:31 am 16 comments

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry

“Your Ever-Changing Buffet” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for

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Dear Ones,

Many of you have inklings of new thoughts or actions, but you are afraid to acknowledge them because they seem odd or not like who you thought you were.

Even though your current phase highlights who you want to be or what you wish to do, it is almost too frightening to contemplate because it is so unlike 3D you.

ThreeD was a time of acceptance, playing it safe, and staying within boxes of rightness. Your new world is exactly the opposite. So your inner thoughts of rebellion seem wrong or frightening. “What if someone I love no longer wants to be with me?” What if I’m picking up false inner signals?” “What if this statement ruins the bridges I’ve built?” And on and on – questioning your right to be you.

This is not a time of quiet acceptance, which was your action mode for eons. It is a time of new thoughts, statements, and actions. None of which might display who you thought you were or even who you wanted to be.

Many of you imagined new you would be action-oriented but gentle and loving. Instead, you discover what you might consider nasty thoughts, words, or actions. Thoughts of “I’m not going to take it or do it any longer.” Or “This relationship or action is not worth the stress.” Or “I’m done; I’m out of here.” Thoughts and actions that were likely counterproductive in 3D but are exhilarating and expansive now.

Your expectations of a new loving you do not seem possible now or ever. You feel as if you are in the midst of a toddler tantrum that is removing layers of stress. And even though you question your need to be so direct, honest, and at times, nasty, it feels as if you are finally being heard.

But not all those hearing your new thoughts are interested in remaining within your circle of special people. So it is that, once again, you are reducing the number in your inner circle, causing you to feel both consternation and self-pride.

It is as if you are up-chucking the fears, angst, and anger you retained within you to maintain that relationship or title. You are done pretending to be 3D. You are done pretending to be who you are no longer. And most of all, you are done pretending you love everyone and everything.

Loving everyone and everything was an initial New Age philosophy. Something you were fearful you could not achieve – because it is not achievable. You cannot be on your path if you do not negate uncomfortable paths.

Love is not bad. But there are degrees of love or acceptance. You can allow someone to disagree with you without harming them, yet you do not need to change your thoughts or beliefs to retain that relationship. Or change yourself unless it feels right to do so.

There are still earth beings who promote 3D fear and anger. You can accept their right to do so without shifting your beliefs or caretaking them.

Perhaps that concept seems counter-intuitive because, in 3D, you were taught to love your neighbor. And some new earth gurus indicate that your love has to include every earth being. Such is a nice thought, but doing so would push you off your path.

Loving everyone negates your need to love yourself.

You can love the idea that others have a right and need for their unique path. But if you force yourself to love everyone despite differences of opinions, actions, and words, you again ignore self-love and force yourself into a box of rightness.

Instead of listening to who you should be – a 3D model – allow yourself to flow into who you are without shoulds, including the should of having to love and therefore support everyone.

You have a different directional compass now. A compass that allows you to know what is right for you. Is loving everyone your true north? Then do so. But we of the Universes venture to guess that your true north does not include those remaining in 3D fear – for that would mean enmeshing yourself in that fear.

You are now a participant observer, which means you no longer need to wallow in the pain of others.

You allow others to find their way beyond 3D if they wish, but you will not stand beside them or hold them as they fight to the end to retain their fears.

Even though you likely care about every living entity now, you are no longer required or want to play the 3D role of removing the fears of others – for you cannot. Those beyond 3D are doing that for themselves. And those remaining in 3D do not wish to change.

Your only role is to be yourself. And that includes shielding yourself from the 3D model of everyone is more important than you.

In this new model, you are the center of your world. You lovingly relate to those who dance in your world but are not that interested in those with different agendas. You are the center and most important element of you. A complete reversal of the 3D role of everyone but you is your center.

Claim yourself without fear, angst, or regret. You are just beginning to understand how different new you and the new world are. So be it. Amen. To receive Brenda’s Blog, subscribe via Or, click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her “Blog & Subscribe” website page ( and click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation. 

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16 Comments Add your own

    • 2. LifeTapestryCreations  |  February 13, 2023 at 12:22 pm

      As always, thank you so much for sharing this week’s channel with your MENSAGENS e PENSAMENSTOS readers.

      Liked by 2 people

  • 3. Concepción  |  February 13, 2023 at 3:08 pm

    I totally agree. What some people say about “we all have to go together” has always seemed very toxic to me. Why together? Isn’t that denying freedom? Deny my internal coherence? It always amazes me when someone says that we are heading to a world of freedom and love, and at the same time states that we have to stay “here” until all humans wake up. Because that implies that either the already awake are forced to wait or the others are forced to wake up. Someone has to sacrifice… To me that’s the same old story. And the technique is also very old: guilt disguised as love. So you have to give up your own way in order not to “be selfish”.
    I think it is time to mature, to be an adult. And that means a lot of goodbyes, starting with the gregarious adolescent self.

    Liked by 6 people

    • 4. LifeTapestryCreations  |  February 14, 2023 at 12:41 pm

      Dear Concepcion,
      Thank you for concisely stating questions and concepts I’ve wrestled with for some time. This week’s channel helped me clarify too.

      And so we evolve as we claim our worth – a new process for those of us totally innodated for eons with 3D earth shoulds.
      Blessings, Lots of Love, and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

      Liked by 2 people

  • 5. Ana Daksina  |  February 13, 2023 at 4:37 pm

    You know, this morning I actually thought to myself, “There’s no way even that team of Brenda’s can find something affirmative to offer about this moment!” Hahaha! I was wro-o-o-ng, and happy to be so!

    Besides, the universe keeps opening doors right now for truth, you’re right there too. 😊👌✨

    Liked by 3 people

    • 6. LifeTapestryCreations  |  February 14, 2023 at 12:46 pm

      Dear Ana,
      “The (new) truth shall set us free” seems appropriate for this ever-evolving time.

      What was is no more is more apparent daily. A time that’s confusing, exhilarating, fun, frightening, and everything in between.

      Blessings, Lots of Love, and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

      Liked by 4 people

  • 7. Marcelo Ozorio  |  February 13, 2023 at 5:13 pm

    Explanations are crystal clear.

    Sincronicity with all pratically i ve been living lately is stunning.

    So in point!

    I believe what you write will vibrate for quite a longtime from now on cause probably next waves will devore those informations as we do now.

    All these great knowledge passing to us are constructing and helping implementation of 5D in this planet, totally.

    You and your universal guides are fundamentals!

    Thanks guys! So good to have you around and together us!

    Liked by 3 people

    • 8. LifeTapestryCreations  |  February 14, 2023 at 1:00 pm

      Dear Marcelo,
      Thank you.

      Throughout the 13 years I’ve channeled this weekly blog, I’ve felt frequent information upgrades – not the least of which was a few weeks ago. When we’re ready for more in-depth information, my information sources congregate to provide it.

      We’re receiving information much as was true for our school work – beginning with elementary concepts I posted more than 13 years ago and building upon those concepts in ways we couldn’t have imagined even a few months ago.

      I purposively created a body of free channeled information that anyone can access at any time via my website or WordPress. Knowing that if or when someone needed to better understand their transition, they would find their answers either through the information I channeled or that someone else had.
      Blessings, Lots of Love, and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

      Liked by 4 people

  • 9. tobispirit  |  February 13, 2023 at 6:31 pm

    Thank You!
    I was just having a similar conversation with someone yesterday about this. So happy to see you have discussed it here! I AM having a very good day for a change and your words have made it even GREATER! Thank You!

    Liked by 2 people

    • 10. LifeTapestryCreations  |  February 14, 2023 at 1:01 pm

      Dear Tobispirit,
      YES!!! I love synchronicities and great days!!!
      Blessings, Lots of Love, and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

      Liked by 2 people

  • 11. Stu  |  February 14, 2023 at 12:53 am

    It always fascinates me, that you write about what I’ve gone, and am going through. I’m always told, “By the time you resonate with the message, you’ve already completed it.” Which, makes sense. How else would I be able to resonate with a message, if I have not discovered a means to comprehend it? Has to be by going through it. It’s like you translate the energy, I’m learning to comprehend, once I reach a point of acceptance with it.

    It confuses the hell out of me at times, but I guess that’s the point. Especially the letting go of ‘time’ part, as I’ve thus far perceived it. Turns out it’s very relative. Who’da thunk?

    I’d like to share a meme I made, inspired from the message you’ve shared. Downloading it isn’t necessary. It can be previewed at the website.

    All the best.

    Liked by 4 people

    • 12. LifeTapestryCreations  |  February 14, 2023 at 1:08 pm

      Dear Stu,
      I’ve never heard the phrase, “By the time you resonate with the message, you’ve already completed it.” but it makes so much sense. Often, the messages I channel seem to apply to me on the day I channel them, and yet they are voiced as if they will be felt by most a few days later.

      Thank you for helping me better understand my transition. And so it goes as we share and create the new.
      Blessings, Lots of Love, and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

      Liked by 5 people

  • 13. Stu  |  February 14, 2023 at 1:04 am

    Sorry. That link won’t work. Here’s one that does.

    Feel free to delete my comments. This was more for you, than anyone else.

    Liked by 2 people

    • 16. LifeTapestryCreations  |  February 25, 2023 at 4:23 pm

      Thank you so much for sharing this week’s channel with your TERAPIAS ESTELARES followers.



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