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Do You Believe You’re 3D or 5D?

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s August 16, 2019, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  Shift beyond your light warrior role for those following are now assuming that role. Even though you’ve been promoted to the light of joy, likely you’ll feel the need to return to your warrior mode because those following aren’t acting the same as you did in that role. Just as is true in a 3D job, you need to let those assuming the light warrior position perform as is right for them.

Your 3D Graduation Gift to You is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

You no longer have the ability to pander to the needs of others. This is something you have discovered over many months of trying to do so without the results you hoped for. For those people you attempt to help may not do as you command or demand, and yet, they continue to ask for help. Which results in your exhaustion and little or no change in their lives. So it is you dropped into the 3D caretaking zone.

You were once able to brush off such interactions for you were fully enmeshed in your 3D “helper” mode. Now that you are no longer of 3D, such interactions merely exhaust you. You are attempting to be in two worlds at the same time, and such is no longer possible.

Your caretaking role has become painful.

But of course, those yet of 3D cannot understand your reluctance to tell them what to do or to listen to the same story for the 100th time with little evidence they want to change.

So it is you are discovering your new path, sometimes inch by inch. For listening to the woes of others used to be delightful.

You continue to contend that you have not changed, that you are who you always were. We beg to differ.

Your direction, your joys, even your food preferences are changing daily. But until you note something evident to all concerned, you will continue to believe you are just as you always have been.

What difference does it make if you believe you are of 3D or 5D? Your thoughts and beliefs create your reality. So if you believe something is not possible, it is not. But, if you believe you are different with new directions, powers, and needs, so it will be.

It is time for you to claim your inner-power, which merely means shifting your beliefs from “I can’t” to “I easily can.” A simple form of self-hypnosis if you will, but such a dramatic belief change that your life will never again be as it was.

For most of you are trying to dance between 3D fear and 5D belief in yourself. The two are not at all similar or even possible at the same time. You need to acknowledge you are no longer of 3D no matter how frequently someone tries to pull you back into what was for you but is no longer.

Most often, when 3D humans attempt to claw their way out of their pain through treatment, a move, or ending a relationship, those yet of 3D want that person to return to what was. For if their friend or relative changes, so must their expectations or actions.

ThreeD is not a change format. For even though change is the dominant growth pattern in all dimensions, 3D does not encourage such if someone else must change also. Sameness is honored. Change is not.

So it is you remain deeply enmeshed in hoping for the sameness of your 3D earth lives. FiveD and beyond is filled with change. In truth, change is the keyword in all dimensions beyond 3D. So as you change, those within your circle will likely attempt to stop you from doing so.

By the same token, those you love, who are also changing, might frighten you. For even though you are expecting some personal changes, you are not expecting changes in others.

You are in a quandary. You feel and act differently. But as you do so, you want those around you to remain as they were. For you do not have the energy to watch them change and grow – and do the same yourself.

You are exhausted both by your changes and those of others dear to you.

And as you attempt to return to some “normalcy” by coaching those deeply entrenched in 3D who do not wish to change, you become even more exhausted.

You do not necessarily know who you are now, and you most certainly do not have the social skills you were once proud of as either an introvert or extrovert.  So everyone and everything feels awkward, uncomfortable, or wrong despite your best attempts to fit in.

You are not who you used to be, and you are rapidly discovering that those following are not either. The only humans acting as they always have are those of 3D, and even they are shifting from slightly irritating to completely uncomfortable for you. What is happening to you and your world?

You are shifting, and so are millions of others. No one and nothing is as it was. Everything is new within you. And you are discovering that the same is true for your outer world. What was is no more. What will be is just forming. You feel as if you are in “No man’s (persons) land.”

This pain, this uncertainly will force you to create that which you did not know was possible in 3D. And so it is that your inner-power will come to the forefront even if such a thought is uncomfortable now. Within days, you will start forming ideas that are not like anything you have thought of or believed in before. For you are shifting from the fear of change to the knowingness of your next phase – that of using your inner-directed power.

Such is so because all that created your 3D life is no longer valid. It is time to create from the new. Something that has seemed too frightening to contemplate. That is until that which is known is too uncomfortable to live in or with. So be it. Amen.

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August 19, 2019 at 11:12 am 20 comments

Find Your Safe Place Within

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s August 9, 2019, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  The energies of the past few weeks opened the hearts of most humans. But the change is so frightening that many will test their new feelings by reverting to familiar fears and anger. It’s unlikely that your political leaders are experiencing heart openings now for this transition is from the bottom up. Your role is to follow your joy as others explore their new heart openings.

Your 3D Graduation Gift to You is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

We wish to address the pain you feel when you learn of the inhumane actions of those wishing to hold onto their outer-directed power. Even though you know those in pain volunteered, such does not make those actions any less painful for you.

The earth bullies are exposing themselves in ways you ignored lifetime after lifetime. For you also experienced pain, as well as the “joy” of bullying or harming others preparing for this lifetime. But in previous lives, you were more focused on your role in preparation for this life than you were about the treatment of others or yourself.

Such a thought seems inconceivable to most of you for you believed you did what you could to protect others, and that you never tortured or harmed others. We beg to differ. You have willingly played both roles adding karmic debt earth life after earth life. But now, you are alarmed by the pain you see exposed in your media and via the words of others. For even though you willingly harmed others in previous lives, you did so in preparation for this life. In essence, forgiving yourself in small doses for the “greater good.” This life is different.

So it is that the pain of others is affecting you differently than was true in other lifetimes. For this is a lifetime of love and healing. Even though you wish to help everyone now, you realize others must work through their issues. For if they do not, they will remain on the karmic wheel of, “if I do this to you in this life, you will retaliate in the next.”

You are confused. You are searching for the joy that seems wonderfully possible until you see a media report about the latest inhumane action or retaliation.

A logical response would be to ignore information not filled with joy. But given the number of media sources and your interactions, such is nearly impossible. So it is time for you to create an inner area to protect yourself from this 3D barrage of pain and fear. Such is so for many reasons, not the least of which is the intensifying of 3D negativity for the next few months.

Like a candle burning until it finally extinguishes itself, the pain of inhumanity is shining brightly for the next couple of months, eating up the last of the pain as the candle burns out.

So it is you will be confused the next couple months knowing you wish to share your loving joy, only to discover others in extreme pain because the bullies, the perpetrators are out in full force.

What is your role? Despite the seeming discomfort in doing so, your role is to shine your light brightly, allowing others to know there is an option for pain.

You are perhaps wondering why your light will not burn out as we predicted for the bullies. Your light is more like an electric current that never burns out and can be easily switched off and on. We are requesting you allow your light to be left on despite the experiences of others.

If you need more time in nature or within yourself to do so, please know how important such is now.

Many of you have wholly or somewhat separated yourself from social interactions. But doing so has created a quandary for you wonder if you will ever feel like rejoining society. Even though during the next couple of months, you will find more joy in your seeming isolation than as part of society. You will rejoin society with joy once this phase is complete.

Perhaps you interact daily with co-workers or family members who are in fear or are bullies. There is no easy answer for those of you exposed to that pain every day, other than creating a place within to retreat to when you are feeling uncomfortable. For the divide becoming more apparent between those who believe they are the 3D chosen ones to those who suffer might encourage you to join the fray. But you will lose yourself if you do so.

Just as you experienced your dark night of the soul, so now are millions of others. The difference is your dark night was most likely related to a smaller grouping such as your earth family, a job, or relationship. Those now experiencing their dark night of the soul are doing so on a much larger stage – as a group rather than individually.

Such is so because their phase needs to be completed more rapidly than was true for you. You had years, perhaps decades to push through your pain. This transition has been expedited by you en masse so you could experience joy in this lifetime. So it is those now following are more likely to experience their dark night of the soul en masse rather than individually. And your media is part of this mass dark night of the soul.

Individually processing the pain would require an individual to note the pain, express that pain, and finally clear it as was true for you. Such does not mean that the perpetrator would be exposed as will be happening in this transition round. So it is you will learn secrets you might not wish to know as others clear their palates of pain so that they too can use their bright colors of joy.

You have little to do with this phase of en masse clearing/healing other than shining your light brightly. Your role is to discover that place within you that shines despite the pain of others.

Allow others the freedom to express their pain – both those being bullied or physically harmed and those harming others. For this is a huge dark night of the soul.

The end result will amaze you and those involved. For many, if not most, of the bullies will decide to change direction from fear to love, as will be true for those being harmed. So be it. Amen.

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August 12, 2019 at 11:19 am 27 comments

Come Out, Come Out, Whoever You Are

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s July 26, 2019, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  As is true for infants and toddlers, you’re in an exploration stage. Nothing is yet concrete in your life even though many of you want or expect it to be. Instead of trying to swim against the tide to reach the shore, allow yourself to float with the current. You’ll know when it’s time to build a solid structure.

You’re No Longer on 3D Time is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Many of you continue to be someone you are not.

Even though there is a need for you to live within the confines of 3D rightness, such is so only for a short time. For you are finding it more difficult to do what is expected of you instead of what you wish to do.

Perhaps you believe you must continue a job or action you do not necessarily like, to maintain your home or family. Such is not terrible, merely a 3D fear. For your fear of the possible pain if you do not perform as you think you should is the fear of what used to be.

What you have discovered, or soon will, is that what was is no longer. For when you are true to your inner-being, the fears of yesterday are not valid. A bit like watching the snowfall with fearing you will be uncomfortable once you walk outside only to discover that the snow is fun to play in and explore.

Because you are no longer a 3D being nor is the earth, what was cannot be.

So it is that your 3D fears continue to guide you despite knowing deep within that you are not the person you once were, hiding your beliefs and feelings behind the shoulds and have tos of society.

In 3D, your outer world was of the greatest importance, so you catered to those surrounding you while most often ignoring your needs and wants. Now, you are clamoring to be free.

The result is that many of you are uncomfortable as you attempt to maintain what was, even though doing so provides you with little joy. You respond that you must keep this job or that relationship even though doing so makes you sad, even angry for without that connection, your life would be miserable. If you believe such thoughts, your life is already miserable.

What does your inner-being wish to say or do? That is your new guide.

For even if you once bridged the gap by dancing between 3D and 5D, you can no longer do so. You are of 5D. Even though such a statement is not a new concept, the actuality is probably starting to be uncomfortable. “Who are you?” needs to be one of your first thoughts in the morning, and your last thought before bed. For just as was true in 3D as you evolved from childhood to adulthood, what was is no more.

Many of you are procrastinating, trying to halt your 5D evolution. Not because you wish to remain of 3D, but because you do not yet trust 5D you. So it is you are walking a tightrope between the two worlds and you are exhausted. You feel as if you are neither here nor there, accepting that which makes you uncomfortable and fearful of trusting your heart, your inner voice.

What is your inner voice telling you at this moment? Is it pooh-poohing your leap into new you or is it sparkling in joy at the thought? We venture to guess that your inner-being is exhausted from trying to find joy in your joyless activities. Granted, you can change your perceptions, but even that is no longer enough to satisfy your need to fly into your 5D being.

Many of you are ready to leap into 5D totality – tomorrow, next month, or next year – but not today. What if you ruin a relationship, lose your job, or offend a dignitary by being you? If that is the message floating in your mind before you speak or act, then you are harboring the need to remain of 3D while talking or thinking that 5D sounds glorious, just not now or this week.

Even though you have tried to take the easy route of being of two worlds, such escapism is no longer valid. For not only have you proclaimed yourself of 5D, but your physical being has adjusted. You are not of 3D in either word or action. Allow that to be. Then allow yourself to act on that thought.

Your seemingly evolutionary thoughts will not isolate you for there are now enough followers that your new thoughts and deeds will not be as revolutionary as you now imagine.

You are not the only one thinking or acting as was true in many previous lifetimes when guarding your radical inner thoughts often meant the difference between life and death. This is a different time for a reason.

In previous lifetimes, you tested all sorts of approaches, attitudes, and actions. Even though you were doing so in isolation, your role was to return the results of those efforts to your cohorts, as was true of your creation cohorts in lifetime after lifetime. The information you and your cohorts gathered was then combined to create the 5D approach you and your group have so successfully used to create new you and New Earth.

Those tests also created fearful memories of death or punishment. So it is you dared to create the 5D umbrella for yourself and the earth, but are now hesitant to fold your umbrella and stand in the sunshine without protection. You are stronger than you now imagine, and you are not alone. So it is you no longer need to hide yourself or your inner thoughts.

There is no need for you to stand on the corner proclaiming your rightness. But it is time for you to do so within your being, and as you feel appropriate, in your actions. You will know what is right by the joy you feel during and after your action. At the same time, you will know when you are following 3D dictates by your discomfort via anger, fear, or depression.

Allow your new being the freedom it deserves for you have worked for eons to uncover it while of the earth. It is time for you to display your new being in all your beauty. So be it. Amen.

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July 29, 2019 at 9:06 am 26 comments

Those Following are Now the Ugly Ducklings

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s July 5, 2019, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  Perhaps you’ve been angry or otherwise different than you expected. Such is so because you were fighting your new being for control. You’re ready to negate those fears, to flow into your new being of relaxed self-love. You’re allowing you to become you.

“Weaving Your Universal Tapestry Piece is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

We would like to address your need to nurture not only yourself but those around you. Perhaps you respond that you are tired of nurturing others.

We are speaking of allowing others to be without judgment. Even though that might seem almost impossible during this time of chaos, such is your gift to those you love. For they too are scrambling to find their place while of earth.

Just as is true for you, the followers are testing their skills and interests. Perhaps you question if such is true given that many are yet of 3D. Truthfully, those you wish to interact with are either of 5D or on the path to be of 5D. Those deeply ensconced in 3D hold little interest for you now.

Some of you might believe that your workplace or school is filled with 3D personalities; you do not wish to interact with or help. Such is a 3D stance that has little to do with new you. For indeed, if those surrounding you were of a much different frequency, you could not interact with them in any capacity as has been displayed by those of you who have moved to a new location, exited positions, or changed schools.

You have become so finely tuned you can no longer interact with those deeply enmeshed in 3D.

Perhaps you again protest for you encounter nice people you no longer wish to be with. Such is true.

Instead of brief encounters, we are speaking of interactions with the same individuals day after day. For you must have ascertained by now that those of 3D with little or no intention of moving beyond 3D enjoy one another’s company and find you uncomfortable, just as the opposite is true.

As you delve further and further into 5D and beyond, you have discovered a natural parting of ways.

If you feel heavy or uncomfortable in the presence of someone you used to admire or wished to emulate, the likelihood of them transitioning within a time in which you might interact with them in this lifetime is greatly reduced. So it is if you were in an environment surrounded by those not wishing to move beyond 3D, you have likely left that arena.

Those you continue to interact with are those we are speaking of. They are transition novices fumbling, as you once did, in fear and awe.

Perhaps it might help you better understand your role if you think of yourself as an older brother or sister. Even though you know what those followers will likely encounter completing their maturation, they might not complete steps the same as you. Such does not mean you care for them less or that they are less skilled, merely that you understand why they are doing what they are doing to achieve maturation.

Just as is true for human siblings, there will be a point when the two of you are on equal ground – perhaps in a somewhat different arena, but similarly matured. Even though their path will be different than yours, they are on a path, which is not true for those with whom you can no longer interact.

The natural parting of ways, as has been predicted for some time, has begun. You will have no need or interest to interact with those who wish to maintain their 3D frequency.  You might also be somewhat frustrated with those following you, just as an older sibling observes their younger brother or sister attempting to achieve what they can do effortlessly.

Be kind to those following you for they are quite confused now. For those who frustrate you now will likely become important friends in the not-too-distant future.

You are all growing and evolving – not at the same pace or in the same way – but at the same time. The end result will be a heaven on earth in which adults of 5D or beyond will accept the importance of one another even though not all will have the same focus. Such will be a club of individuals with different roles designed to enhance earth and therefore, the Universes.

Allow those following to experience what they need to experience in love instead of anger or judgment. So it is you are carving out your place as you withhold judgment from those beginning or in the midst of their journey. You are their beacon.

That is not to say you must caretake them during their transition journey, but instead to not judge them as inappropriate or as not on a journey.

To each is a time to progress as is needed from ugly duckling to beautiful swan – step-by-unique step – just as has been true for you.

Do not fret or worry, the ugly ducklings of the earth are on their emotional, mental, spiritual, and physical mend.

So it is you created the openings that millions are now accepting and building upon. So be it. Amen.

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July 8, 2019 at 10:42 am 27 comments

Weaving Your Universal Tapestry Piece

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s June 28, 2019, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  You no longer feel comfortable with your former 3D activities, and yet you remain cautious about testing your new skills. You’re in limbo. Such will pass once you realize you can create a new activity or action if you don’t enjoy that which you thought you would.

“I Know Who I Am is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Many of you remain concerned that humanity is in a downward spiral. That destruction, as happened in Atlantis, is happening again.

The opposite is true.

Perhaps it would help you better understand if you could observe from afar, as we of the Universes do, for you are too close to the pattern of the earth’s new tapestry to see the images.

Many of you proclaim that such is merely another carrot encouraging you to continue this seemingly never-ending journey of self-discovery. For your dreams remain in the nebulous state of someday maybe, instead of appearing, as we predicted, easily and effortlessly. Such effortless creation is yet to come.

You are in a rest state, adapting to the energies of the past few weeks and preparing for the upcoming energies that will be more dramatic than most.

For you have transitioned beyond merely adapting energies to creating your new being.

Those following you will use the upcoming energies, as you once did, to create their new beings, to initiate the self-love process you are now deeply enmeshed within. For even though you might be concerned about your need to rest for the next energy burst, you are doing so without fearing you did something wrong or that you will never transition.

Without pinpointing the exact date, you are now likely relaxing into your new being – not by shouting and screaming in joy, but instead, by exploring the need to ignore shoulds and have tos. Which probably does not seem like a huge step, but is one of the largest leaps you have completed to date.

Your first transition efforts were to clear those pieces that held you in 3D despite your best efforts to move beyond 3D. Your second was to learn to love yourself. And your third is to follow your needs instead of those you once believed were more important than you.

Your next, and perhaps most dramatic stage to date, will be to incorporate your self-love into your self-contained being. Knowing without question who you are and where you wish to move next. That is the piece you are preparing for during this resting stage. For indeed, just loving yourself without acting on that knowledge is no different than many of the self-help courses you participated in when you were of 3D. No one can teach you how to be you.

Yet, that self-knowledge remains frightening for many of 5D for you want someone to tell you that you are right – ensuring that others are wrong. A stance you are quite familiar with, but which no longer enthralls you as it once did.

Your wish to be special is a 3D need. Your wish to be different is a 5D push. Yet, you continue a need to be acknowledged by others for your uniqueness. Something you learned in 3D as a pre-requisite to claiming yourself.

This next shift is exactly the opposite of that with which you are familiar, for no one will applaud your uniqueness other than you. You are now a self-contained entity who decides when and where to be. Something that appears easy, but is a task you might find as difficult as learning to love yourself. That is not to frighten you, but instead to inform you why you might require rest the next few days.

For you are about to declare yourself to any and all who attempt to place you in a special niche. You will not be nasty about your declarations, but instead, will find it difficult to understand why anyone needs to push you in any direction. You will become more independent than you have ever been while of the earth in any lifetime. At the same time, you will find it almost annoying that others want to follow you for you will not require obedience from anyone – eventually. During the initial days of this new phase, you will wonder why no one seems interested in the activities you find intriguing. But your need to slough off your “me too” actions will deepen as you delve into this next phase.

Loving yourself and acting on that self-love are two different phases. Even though those two phases are not as clearly defined as they might seem.

For initially, you will declare yourself independent and then feel uncomfortable, lonely, or even angry that you have done so. Just as was true when you took your first baby steps into self-love continuing many of your 3D shoulds even though you did not enjoy doing so.

This next phase will be as if you have closed the door on those 3D shoulds wondering why anyone questions your doing so. As if you are unknowing about your actions – not from your perspective, but from that of others. You will find most others boring, dull, or just not worth your time – even though you will be somewhat lonely doing so. A quandary you are preparing for and will overcome within a few days of declaring your self-knowingness.

Do not be frightened by your new assertions, even though you might shock those around you. You acted somewhat similarly as you moved into self-love. The difference is you will not feel guilty during this next phase. In truth, you will find it difficult to understand why your need to be you disturbs anyone. For you have or are moving beyond pleasing others to pleasing yourself no matter the 3D consequences.

You are evolving more rapidly than you now imagine creating your new you tapestry – a piece of the new Universal love tapestry. A tapestry that is growing exponentially daily as more transition to 5D and beyond.

You helped create the border of that tapestry when you initiated your transition, as is true for those now starting or in the midst of their transition. You are now preparing to fill in the tapestry images that are yours alone. So it is you must allow yourself to rest so that your new colorful images shine brightly for others to see and expand upon. So be it. Amen.

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July 1, 2019 at 8:23 am 27 comments

Your Turn

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s June 7, 2019, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman: As a young 5D adult, you’re likely fearful of selecting the wrong path. Such isn’t possible because you’re living in joy. All paths are correct until they’re not. And your current need to be alone or to not be ‘the life of the party’ will pass as you discover who you are in this new vehicle that is you.

“Enough With Martyrdom is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Perhaps you are concerned about your future direction – or not. It does not matter for as you evolve your direction is changing daily.

Some of you have difficulties believing that anything in your life or understanding is shifting. Yet, you catch yourself laughing at a silly object or becoming unusually angry at something that has happened many times before.

Both your internal being and your outer world are evolving more rapidly than you comprehend. Perhaps some of you experienced past global upheavals as your 3D personal life was changing. In all likelihood, your life was of greater importance to you at that time than world events. So it is now.

You question your judgment, actions, and friends, allowing little interest in global events. Even though you likely know a smattering of what is being reported, your main interest is your immediate world. Do those world events affect your life or your worldview? If so, you are interested. If not, you merely add the information to the unimportant knowledge collection.

Your world, your being is shifting from macro to micro. So it is, you are now more interested in your life than that of others. LIkely, you contend such is not true and never has been. We beg to differ. Your world was once more global than is now true. Not because you are an uncaring being, but because you are learning to love yourself.

Perhaps you once marveled at that special person who gave his or her life to save another. And while you might still do the same given your 3D training, you will not do so without questioning the wisdom of that action. For your new being is learning and accepting the importance of you.

Past measures were to save women, children, and infirm – anyone defined by society as weak. Your safety was not part of the equation – especially if you were a male. Now that loving yourself is becoming the new ‘law of the land’ more are questioning saving others before themselves.

Such statements make you cringe for you were taught for eons that others were more important than you. That you should deny yourself before you deny others. That you can always take care of yourself, but those poor others do not have the capacity to do so.

Is that true? Such are your new frightening thoughts. Not because you are a terrible person, but because the logic of loving yourself informs you that you are as capable as anyone and the same is true for those who were once considered weak.

Likely, you continue to believe the model that you are stronger than anyone, that others can never care for themselves as well as you do, that you are superior to others. At the same time, you worry that you are not enough, not as good as others. Do you see how you have tortured yourself for eons? Knowing internally that you were an earth savior and yet, believing you were not acceptable as you were. A dichotomy that created such pain within you that you no longer valued yourself.

You and your neighbor are equally valuable. This transition that you initiated cannot be completed without your global friends and neighbors. You are an earth angel in the correct earth place.

Others who follow will soon begin to feel more compatible with you for they, too, will learn to love themselves.

But until then, do not pressure yourself by attempting to determine who is more valuable or weaker or whatever sets you apart from others. Your only role now is to learn to love yourself. And you will do so by finding and following your joy. As will those who follow.

Those who follow are not weaker or less than you, they are merely playing a different role in this transition drama. Even though their stage entrance is after yours, without their input the drama would fall flat – your entrance would end the play for there would be no middle or end.

So it is you need to remember that you are not more or less important than those who follow. Just as you need to remember that you are strong, and so are they. Different roles in an extremely dramatic play that require the full attention and input from all actors, no matter how small their role appears to be.

It is also time to realize that your infant or the infant down the street is entering earth in this lifetime to add a role to this amazing play. There are no bit players. For without the entirety of the actors, this transition could not be.

Your inner voice is telling you how important this new stage of learning and accepting self-love is. There is no we as you do so for you have given your life and many others to that concept. The 3D we is no longer the stronger entity – that which made you feel wrong for you believed those who created the 3D we were more important than you.

Even though your heart perhaps continues to go out to children and the elderly, please remember that they too have an essential role to enact. For if you feel you must control them because you are so much wiser or more important, you lose your sense of self-love.

You and others of the earth are equals. Something you have never felt before while of the earth. For your personal history is of others being better and you being odd or somehow not quite complete. That thought process is now fading, which concerns you. For you feel you ‘should’ be more loving, more of a caretaker, more of the giver you have been for eons.

This is a new world and a new time. You are a new being in a new play. Allow yourself to learn how to love yourself before you feel the need to care for others. In this new world, there are no entities more or less important than you. Something you, even now, find difficult to understand.

The love you share is now equal, whereas you once gave hoping for something in return.

You have a right to say, “No” or “Yes.” Something you have denied yourself for eons as you filtered the needs of others and your need to be loved through both actions.

You are finally allowing yourself to be. As you do, your actions might not be as you expect, but all are to help you understand that you are not more or less important than others. And others are learning the same. So be it. Amen.

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June 10, 2019 at 10:13 am 22 comments

Terrible Twos Anyone?

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s May 25, 2019, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  You’ll feel less fearful the next few days as you disengage from the chaos. Feeding chaos will or has started feeling inappropriate. As you remove your light from the turmoil and display a more peaceful demeanor, others will follow your lead until those creating fear and chaos have little to attach to. So it will be that earth shifts from fear to love.

“Push or Flow? is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

How you start your day is most likely how your day will end. Words of wisdom, perhaps or perhaps not. For such words indicate that there is little to be salvaged once you become angry, frightened, or any emotion other than joy.

So it is you are in a belief pattern that has little to do with your reality. For you have been taught that you MUST feel, express, and therefore, experience ‘niceness.’

Is it not true that once you declare that you are or will be a nice person, you feel guilty when a snarky remark escapes? Not because you are a terrible person, but because you negated your niceness creed. Are such snarky statements, not your truth? And are your inner urgings now not about honesty?

At first, your honesty might go beyond what you expect. You might find yourself blurting something you are ashamed of or surprised about. Such is not terrible, but instead a clearing process to end your 3D need to sift your words through social shoulds and have tos.

Do you not expect some calibrations when you change the ink in your printer? Perhaps you find the color is too light or dark on your first attempt to print after the new cartridge is inserted. Do you not then adjust until the color or ink meets your needs? So it is for your new inner honesty.

You are not used to being honest while of the earth – even with yourself. For you have honed your words and actions to your social role.

Your anger, depression, fears, and emotional suppressions are the result of trying to fit in – verbally and physically. You have 3D roles as spouse, parent, child, community member, supervisor, leader, etc. And in the past, you performed as expected even though you did not always agree or find doing so easy.

So you often needed to buoy your spirits with self-talk like, “He’s my friend, so I will travel with him to places I don’t want to go.” Or, “She’s my child, so I should care for her no matter how she treats me.”

And if you do not perform as expected in any social category, 3D society claims the right to negate your worth. “She’s not a good friend. He’s not a good father.” Strongly encouraging you to fall into the social pattern of rightness.

You are likely starting to experience mini temper tantrums within those social interactions from “I don’t want to talk to her now, so I’m not going to call even though she told me to.” Or “I’m not going to use my one free day to take care of your needs.” And though your words might not express that temper tantrum, your tone might. For you are tired beyond tired of transitioning, as well as maintaining social mores.

You want to do what you want to do.

You are at the 5D adult evolutionary phase of returning to your ‘terrible twos,’ of stamping your foot and saying, “NO!” And not in a gentle tone.

You are exhausted trying to please the Universes, your society, your loved ones, and yourself.

You can no longer be all things to all people or beings. You are you. And you likely do not have the energy to carry anyone, no matter how much you love them or owe them. You are exhausted.

You shifted earth – for which you prepared for eons. So you could complete that task while remaining, for the most part, within the 3D world.

Your current self-love piece is more trying for you have never before attempted to fully claim yourself and so many new segments in dense 3D energies. So it is you feel, at times, as if you are in quicksand. Your loved ones are demanding this, your employer wants something different, and your society expects more. Pulling and pushing you this way and that until you finally declare, “I’m not going to take it anymore.”

Of course, the pushing and prodding is not an accident. You, en masse, created such so you would shift beyond your 3D ropes, beyond the limitations established by your past and present 3D lives. Forcing you (often kicking and screaming) to declare yourself a sovereign being following inner directives instead of societal shoulds and have tos.

Such willfulness is expected of two-year-olds, but most certainly not of the 3D socialized adult, you believe yourself to be.

But before you can fully claim yourself, you need to discover those actions and pieces that are 3D requirements. Such is what is now happening.

So it is you will find yourself saying, “NO” more often and more loudly in the most unexpected places and times. Of course, you might offend those of 3D. Not because what you are saying or doing is wrong, but because you are eradicating social mores without replacing them with others that are socially acceptable.

You are a new person in a new world. And you are claiming that new person, slowly at first, for your seeming tirades or words will frighten you as well as others.

“What if I cross the line, and no one likes me?” is a constant threat to your newness. Not because that is something you need to be concerned about, but that you are so socialized to shoulds and have tos you cannot always remember who you are.

Suffice it for you to know that you are a new being. So it is you may blurt something that surprises you as well as others, or you might refuse to do something that others expect of you. Neither of those actions is terrible for you are a new being adjusting within a 3D world.

As a new you terrible two, you only need to be concerned about how you feel at the moment. Did your two-year-old son decide to protest changing his clothes based on your needs or his?

So it is you might say something that hurts others’ feelings, not because your statement is wrong, but because you are not following the 3D should of the moment. Allow that to be as you evolve.

And allow yourself to rest for you have forced yourself to comply with both 3D and 5D demands beyond what your physical being is capable of.

Rest.

Allow yourself to be – temper tantrums, shifts in actions and interests, and maybe a return to some of your 3D activities. No one knows, including you, what this terrible-two phase will shift. Just know that such is an accepted and expected need allowing you to negate deeply ingrained 3D shoulds and have tos.

It is time to be as nice to yourself as others expect you to be to them. So be it. Amen.

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