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Summary of Brenda’s April 17, 2020, channeled “Creation Energies” show at Throughout this outer world destruction time, your inner being is crumbling and rebuilding also. When the dust settles, your inner and outer worlds will be different than your 3D world. Allow yourself to accept your new being and powers. To do so, allow yourself to feel what you feel just as was true for any significant 3D change.

Accepting Your New Being” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

It is time to address your need to be right. Your feeling that you know best not only for yourself and the ones you love but the entire world. In truth, you now know less about the needs and wants of others than you ever have.

This is a time of uniqueness that blends into the whole. As if the earth is a huge pot of stew that changes with each additional ingredient into something that pleases the palate.

Instead of one approach to life, this is the time of acceptance. Even though you might not yet agree, your past earth eons have been about fitting within a specific mold or rightness of being. You might have done reasonably well in many lives, but to do so you ignored at least some of your personal needs.

This new life you are beginning to enter is about your unique needs – as well as the needs of others.

Perhaps you remember our discussion about groups of this new world with similar interests working through a common goal. It is unlikely that more than a handful of those goals/groups will be of interest to you in this lifetime. That does not make other groups wrong, merely different. Your attempts to make those groups think and act as you do is no different than any other 3D life you experienced.

Your new world is about freedom. The freedom to think and act as you wish – as is true for all. Likely, you believe that such will create yet another 3D world of haves and have nots. That the wealthy and powerful will make those less powerful succumb to their needs. Such thoughts are so because that is what you have experienced in previous earth lives. Not because you had to, but because you wanted to be of the social milieu of the day.

You no longer have that need.

Once that need is removed, you and all others will have the freedom to create and live as you wish. Perhaps you do not believe such is possible. We remind you that you have no difficulties believing such is true in other dimensions and frequencies.

You continue to create and think with 3D parameters. Such will change as you evolve. The first step is allowing others to become who they wish to be. You are not the great wizard determining how others will live, any more than you want some great wizard telling you what to do. You are all evolving – even those who wish to remain of 3D. And as you do, you will find it less and less comfortable when anyone tries to put you in a box of rightness. The same is true for all.

It is time for you to ignore the wants and needs of others. Not because you are mean or self-serving, but because their needs and desires are different than yours – unless they are of your group. And of course, if they are of your group, you will have no difficulties with their thoughts or actions.

No longer is the earth expected to perform like one as has been true for eons. This new world is about unique individuals creating unique lives under the common umbrella of “we’re one.”

Even though this new direction may seem frightening, such is little different than you deciding to become an engineer instead of a social worker. Both perform important functions, but it is unlikely that the two professions would have much in common in a business conference call. The difference is there will not necessarily be labels for the various groups such as is now true for 3D professional or interest labels.

The actions and creations of the groups are so new that no overarching labels will be probable in your lifetime. You will merely start talking with someone and find that you have a great deal in common. A commonality that will lead to a new creation or activity. Labels or energetic work will not be required, as was true in 3D. It will merely happen. Until that activity is no longer interesting and you discover another group.

So it is you will contribute to this group and that group as will be true of every one of the earth. There are no shoulds or longevity requirements other than interest. For anything you are interested in will be enhanced with your contribution, whether or not you know how you contributed.

This new society is about shared interests instead of certain molds you must fit within. So it is no longer appropriate to vilify those different than you, for they are merely creating something other than what interests you.

Some of you question that thought for you are aware of those who do not care about humanity or the environment, and you believe they are wrong.

Those who seem to be tied to 3D shoulds and beliefs are as much a creator as you. For their beliefs, ensure you will create something different. There is no need to be part of their group for their beliefs are not of interest to you. But because they are so obviously of the old, they are your springboard to the new. Allow them to be, for they are your impetus for new thoughts and actions. Many of you are angry at those seemingly mired in 3D. But in hindsight, you will recognize the vital role they played in your new world.

Allow yourself to follow your joys – and allow the same for others. This is a new world of freedom. Not freedom to have everyone believe and act as you do – you have already tested that mode – but the freedom to be in all their glory whether or not that glory is of interest to you. So be it. Amen. To receive Brenda’s Blog, please click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her “Blog & Subscribe” page and then click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation.

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April 20, 2020 at 10:13 am 16 comments

Pretending Your Life is What it is Not

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Summary of Brenda’s November 22, 2019, channeled “Creation Energies” show at  Perhaps you’re fearful of interactions or reactions during this United States Thanksgiving holiday week. As with all holidays that focus on love, love will permeate the air. More importantly, what was once fearful will no longer affect you the same way. You’ve passed the mid-point between fear and joy. So it is your fears won’t materialize, or you’ll react differently.

You’re Now Learning to Expect Joy is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

This is a difficult time for many. Not necessarily because of the energies now pummeling the earth, but because of 3D expectations.

So it is many are discovering what once was important is no more. As if you have turned a corner from what you wished would be to what is. Those years of hoping this would be the year of a “Leave to Beaver” holiday season no longer haunt you.

In truth, past holiday seasons were more likely about anxiety than a loving reality. Finding the right gift. Preparing the right food. Saying the right words, so no one was upset.

Such discourse is not to negate those loving encounters throughout some or all of your holidays. But instead, to point out, you no longer need to pretend that life is what it is not.

Perhaps you spent more than expected to ensure those receiving the gift believed you were wealthier than your reality. Or your food preparation cut into your personal time far beyond what you wished. But given 3D expectations, you accepted that discomfort, to ‘properly’ celebrate the holiday.

Most of your past holidays have likely been a charade. You move this way, and I will move that way. Neither party willing to acknowledge that the gift or food portion of the holidays was as important as a loving connection.

Some of you believe our comments are jaded. Such is true to a certain extent. But then, watch as the media, your family, and friends hype the importance of two or three days beyond all other days of the year. As if those two or three days represent all you mean to one another.

Lovingly being with others is not what we are addressing. Instead, we are pointing out the falsehoods your society has perpetrated holiday season after holiday season. Until those without a family or friend group to celebrate with – most commonly with gifts and food – are somehow less than.

So it is that many of you visit with those you are not terribly enamored of or gift those you do not care about just so you have something to report to others in terms of social acceptance.

Many of you deny such statements. Not because such is not true, but because such is peeling a band-aid off a wound, you are not quite ready to heal.

New you does not need to do something because you should. Yet, many of your holiday traditions have less and less to do with who you have become. Such a thought is frightening for that means all you have come to expect, all you have declared right may no longer be.

So it is we are addressing issues you are afraid to address. Are you completing your holiday preparations in joy and laughter? Or as a ‘should’ that curtails your joy activities? A question you may not have contemplated. For to do so is to turn your world upside down – as well as that of those with whom you celebrate.

The love projected during the holiday season does increase your inner spark. But only if that love is true. You cannot manufacture love as most have attempted to do for decades – pretending that the holidays were as reported in the media and social circles.

How often have you listened to others – and your inner voice – fighting the need to shop for gifts, prepare food, send holiday cards, and generally spend six weeks or so in a tizzy just so you can celebrate a few hours? That is not to say love is never shared, but that the preparations required do not equate to the results. Why must you wear certain clothes, eat certain foods, exchange gifts, and all the other preparations during this season just to pretend love is the key element?

Yes, love might be, but why do you need to complete all of the aforementioned preparations to experience that love?

Many of you love the Thanksgiving gathering, holiday lights, cards, smells, or gift exchange. But are you doing all of that in hopes of someone rewarding you with love or acceptance; or because you wish to?

Such is the crux of this channel. Which preparations are completed with love for yourself and others? And which are you doing despite your exhaustion for acceptance from others? Who are you? What is right for you? Not your relatives, neighbors, or friends. What is right for you?

If your holiday preparations are truly a loving effort that makes your heart sing, spend as much time and energy as you can completing those preparations. But if those preparations are exhausting and overwhelming, STOP!!! That is not who you are.

Two or three days a year are not your security blanket. Your security blanket is you. If you are in joy, you are in the right place. If you are exhausted, angry, frustrated, or feeling financially drained, you are merely doing what others think you should.

As a 5D forerunner, any activity attempted because you should will be exhausting this holiday season and forever.

You are no longer a follower, you are a leader. And 5D leaders decide what is best for them. That is not to say 5D leaders are selfish, but instead that they honor their inner-being.

Believing in and following your inner voice is your holiday gift to yourself.

The energies you incorporate the next few weeks will cause you to limit your actions and activities. So it is, you will not have the energy to please others at the expense of yourself.

If you had had surgery this holiday season, no one would expect you to perform as you have in the past. Just because your major shift is internal will not make a difference for you. Allow yourself to perform those tasks that seem joyful and ignore the rest. Knowing that the significant changes you undergo the next few weeks will not be visible to others.

You have a choice. Pretend that all is well in an attempt to walk the 3D/5D tightrope, and you will likely fall into an illness or anxiety that prohibits you from performing as you have. Or honor yourself and perform that which provides joy, and is within your energy limits.

This is not going to be an easy time for many.

You are of 5D and becoming more so daily. Allow that to be. And allow your physical being to adjust without adding the holiday fever of activity you have experienced for decades. So be it. Amen. To receive Brenda’s Blog, please click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her “Blog & Subscribe” page and then click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation.

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November 25, 2019 at 9:08 am 25 comments

Accepting Your DNA

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Summary of Brenda’s October 12, 2018, channeled 15-minute “Creation Energies” show at   Your outer world will be chaotic the next few days because all humans are now exposed to the light. That exposure is producing fear of the unknown for those not yet of 5D. Instead of years or months, those wishing to awaken will do so in days.

“Stop Your 3D Lessons” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

You are of 5D and beyond for you have completed your 3D lessons and are ready for a new phase of your earth life. It is as if you were once certain you were Clark Kent only to discover that you are Superman or Superwoman.

There is no longer a need to classify yourself as male or female for even though you have the physical features of one or the other, you are both male and female within your being.

Even though such might seem like blasphemy to some, the reality is much different. For females seem to have different experiences and opinions, but in reality, 3D females were playing the role of 3D male accomplices.

Females allowed male dominance in more than sexual issues for they programmed themselves to accept the fear and servitude of male dominance prior to their 3D entrances to earth. So it continued until male dominance, whether performed by males or females, became the “law of the land.”

Now that law is changing. Many hope it is shifting to female dominance. In truth, it is the acceptance of all whether male or female.

In the previous 3D eons, male dominance was played in a fearful manner – controlling, belittling, domineering. The new male/female combination is of love.

For indeed, females have always contained male DNA as males have always had female DNA. But for the first time, while of earth, both male and female physical beings are combining their male/female DNA to create a loving whole.

Indeed, disliking or dismissing males would be no different from what females experienced for eons. It is time for love, not disdain nor dismissal.

So it is you accepted your male segments if you are a female of 5D or beyond – and males accepted their female segments. For the life you are now creating is not possible if 50% of the population and your DNA were negated or punished. It is a time of love.

Granted, there are some – and according to your media – many who refuse to live in love, to accept their totality or the totality of others. So if you are in female form, you might feel as if male dominance is more prevalent than ever. Instead, realize that those who refuse to acknowledge the totality of their being are being exposed. Not for punishment but for the realization that not all men wish to dominate and not all females wish to be submissive.

This is a new age with new beginnings. The first of such new beginnings is the acceptance of your totality. A totality that is neither good nor bad, it just is.

You are so familiar with blame, dominance, and fear you cannot yet understand that such is over for you and anyone of 5D and beyond. You no longer need to dominate nor be dominated. You no longer need to fear nor do you need to create fear.

So it is you are becoming mellow, accepting, and peaceful, knowing there is no longer a need to defend yourself nor to control others. All you need is the acceptance of who you have allowed yourself to become.

Some of you physical males or females might be concerned that you are not as loving or peaceful as we described, that you still feel a need to battle someone or something. Such will pass as you become more comfortable with your new being.

Even though you will maintain your current physicality, your inner world will blend into one easily. For becoming one is not possible if males and females continue to label themselves as unique beings.

Once you fully declare you are both male and female, it will be more difficult, if not impossible, for you to blame one another for your trials and tribulations. For a cell does not distinguish itself as male or female, but instead as a hair cell or a heart cell.

Cells are interchangeable as might be displayed by Henrietta Lacks whose cancer cells created many of the vaccines for various diseases such as polio. The vaccines created from Henrietta Lacks’ cells did not distinguish between race or gender. So it is for you now.

Of course, you will continue to have a dominant gender sense just as some of you write with your left hand instead of your right. But that dominant sense will not preclude you from accepting your male or female tendencies as “normal.” Any more than a left-handed person might do most activities with the right hand.

So it is females and males will not try to dampen their female or male tendencies but instead accept all as part of their being. For males and females are of the Godhead, of the Universes. And all of you have experienced both roles.

This new age is to combine the two into a loving whole instead of one dominating or disparaging the other.

It is time to be whole in every sense of the word creating a loving environment in which peace and tranquility are the “law of the land” allowing you the freedom to create a new world order of acceptance. So be it. Amen. If you would like to receive Brenda’s Blogs when posted, please click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her Blog & Subscribe page and then click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation.

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October 15, 2018 at 10:38 am 23 comments



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