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Are You a World Whack-a-Mole Caretaker?

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s September 20, 2019, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  You’ve been preparing for 2020 since 2012. So it is you’ll discover new skills throughout the next 3 months. Those following won’t experience the same for they’re completing phases you completed earlier. And those of 3D will become more fully enmeshed in fear, anger, illogic, rage, and pain.  For they accepted a challenging earth role – pushing all who wish to be of 5D or beyond out of the 3D nest. 

Feeling or Acting Odd? is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

We wish to address the uneasiness you feel about your future and the future of the earth.  For even though you have been informed that all is well, it is becoming more difficult to believe that such is so.  You can ignore the media and similar factors, but it is your inner feelings you cannot understand.

For you are concerned about areas, you believe you and others addressed decades ago.  It is as if you have worked months to complete a report only to have your one copy destroyed.

You are tired of fighting, of carrying the world and your family and friends on your shoulders.  You feel as if you are on caretaker overload for the same issues keep popping up with seemingly no resolution.

Should you protect the environment?  What about people being held without their consent?  Then there is gun violence as a result of the racial, religious, gender, economic, political, and homophobic hatred displayed daily.  When and where will the next war be?  And if that is not enough, you are discovering those you love are filled with fear because they do not understand their transition, nor do they listen to the explanations you offer.  It is as if you are playing Whack-a-Mole with the world and your emotions.

You assumed that by now, you would be living in your dream world with little or no stress.  Yet, your stress seems to multiply daily.  For just as one issue seems calmer, another arrives that requires immediate attention.

Where is your peace? Where is your rest?

The truth is you have not yet let go of your need to caretake the world.  Even though you supposedly turned that concern over to your followers, you continue that role in addition to your new assignments.

You are trying to be everything to everyone.  In your work-a-day world, you would be labeled as someone who cannot delegate.  For indeed, 90% of your worries are not your role.  You are no longer a caretaker of the earth or its inhabitants.  You have other, more compelling tasks to complete.

Your caretaking days are over.  But because you have not yet allowed that to be your truth, you are anxious and angry.  You are trying to do too much, for you do not believe those following are skilled enough to pick up where you left off.

It is no longer your place to worry about atomic bombs, sheltering others, or the concerns of your friends and family.  All are caretaking modes you have outgrown.

Of course, you do not believe our statement for you are quite proud of no longer caretaking those family members or friends who seem to be in the same predicament year after year.  What you have not yet addressed is your feelings of a similar nature.

You were likely concerned about the environment and humanity decades ago.  For such was your key to this life.  But you remain so deeply entrenched in those concerns that it is difficult to turn those issues over to your followers, or if you will, the next generation of light-bearers.

Your one and only responsibility, no matter how much others beg you to return to your previous roles, is to find and follow your joy.  Worrying about the earth, the environment, or humanity is no longer joyful for you.

We, of the Universes, have told you the same month-after-month.  Yet, our information has not resulted in your knowing that worry is not joyful.  That your followers are capable of picking up where you left off.  Granted, they might not approach issues as you would, but then, you have known for years that all paths are unique.

Your world solutions are based in 3D.  Your followers’ solutions will be much different.  For their lens is of the future and yours is of the past.  Not in terms of your joy, but instead how to solve issues that continue to be troublesome for you.

Your role in this life was to shift yourself and the earth from 3D to beyond.  You completed that difficult task.  Even so, you now wonder what you did wrong and how to fix those wrongs.

You did everything wonderfully right.  Those who follow have the puzzle pieces for those areas that worry you.  You are creator beings.  So it is you created the new earth.  Now it is time for you to create something that is yours alone.  And you will know what that something is by the joy it gives you.

No longer is it necessary for you to hide your joy from those who might not understand.  For those actions were of 3D.  You are no longer of 3D, nor are your followers.  Allow them to complete the roles they assumed for this life, as we did you.

Will your followers try to obtain your help with the issues they need to solve?  Of course.  Just as you continue to request solutions from us.  Yet as is true for you, those following must claim their place without your interference or coaching.  They are skilled enough to carry on.  Such is so to allow you to create, to shift to the next step.

Of course, you wish for us to tell you what your next step is.  This we cannot do.  For it is your creation step on your unique path.  No one, least of all we, of the Universes, know where that path will lead.  The only definite we can relay is that it is not caretaking anyone or anything.  Continuing to do so will only result in exhaustion.

You are no longer responsible for the earth or any earth beings.

Your role is creating.  And your unique joy will lead to those creations.  We know what you are not.  But not who you will become. Something only you can discover through your joy.  So be it.  Amen.

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September 23, 2019 at 9:14 am 30 comments

Stop Denying the Power of Others

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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s February 5, 2016, channeled, 15-minute “Creation Energies” show at  http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com / brenda-hoffman:  Those of you revisiting an issue you thought completed, are now the audience and no longer on stage. Those of you who created your earth dream, please share your earth dream creation with others. And those of you finding a need for quiet time, please honor that need. All of you listening to this channel will fall into one of these three phases for you have climbed your 3D mountain of fear and rolled down your hill to joy.

“You’ve Added a New Sense to Your Repertoire” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly, channeled blog for www.LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Many of you are feeling scattered. You are likely addressing 3D issues you thought you completed – and you are angry that these issues seem to be in your way of future development.

Issues that are so ‘yesterday’ – and you wish to be of today or even tomorrow. Your fear, your angst is that these issues will never allow you to move forward. Before your transition, these issues frightened you. Now they make you angry, “Why me? Why now?”

For the pieces arriving now seem to be as inappropriate for you as would be true if you had graduated from high school, only to learn you must repeat a first-grade reading class before attending college. Most definitely, inappropriate and not conducive to your good humor!

So it is you are learning to look at an old issue with new eyes, new perspectives. How much, if at all, are you willing to sacrifice to readdress an issue you have addressed many times before? And if you are not willing to readdress the issue, how do you clear it completely from your being – never to address again?

That is your piece at the moment. For indeed, that piece, if you will, is the piece that is holding you in a place you never wished to be before and most certainly not now.

So it is we suggest you look at that piece intently to realistically determine if you are able to do anything to shift or change that piece. Most likely, that piece involves other humans or human activities. Do the humans involved wish to change their roles? Do they wish to address their issues from a 5D perspective? If the answer is a resounding, “NO,” which more than likely will be the case, there is nothing you can do for them or that activity. You are in a different place with different perspectives and goals.

Perhaps an easier way of understanding the issue would be the example of your first-grade child having difficulties learning how to count money. You could be frightened along with your child that he or she will never accomplish that skill. Or you could know with every fiber of your being that your child will indeed achieve the goal of money counting before they became much older.

You have an overview of possibilities and certainties you did not have when you first encountered the fear piece you are now readdressing. It will be solved, shifted or negated without your angst or fears. For those issues, even though they might touch your heartstrings are not about you, but instead about the person or persons in question.

You cannot learn lessons for another including taking their pain away. It is something they must do for themselves – just as was true for you. Even though you might reduce their pain in this particular issue by rescuing them in some format – such as telling your child’s teacher that the counting money lesson is too difficult for any child and thereby forcing the removal of that lesson from the curriculum – that lesson will only return for them until they shift it themselves.

There is no longer any rescue possible. For that is a piece of the caretaker/victim stance that you addressed months or even years ago. Trying to remove someone’s pain only returns that pain to them in another format – until they address it themselves.

Many of you experienced the same. Perhaps you were addressing abuse issues. Until you focussed and refused to participate in abusive situations involving you and/or others, the issue popped up in many formats. So it will be for those you stop to rescue. Even if you solve a particular problem for them, their issue of abuse, lack of self-worth, abandonment and on and on continues until they decide to clear it. For it is their issue, not yours. You have more than enough to complete in this lifetime with your issues – and you have done so remarkably well.

You are not helping your children, friends or relatives by trying to clear their issues also. You are merely muddying their clearing phase and perpetuating their need to address the same issue in different venues.

Allow them the strength to find their way – if they wish to do so. You have found yours. It is not your place, nor do you have the energy to be a mother duckling to all humanity or even one other human. You have more than enough to accomplish in this lifetime – and so you are.

But stopping or slowing down to help another find their way when they are not necessarily looking, does not help them, nor does it help you. Doing so is from the 3D perspective that others are more important and valuable than you. Which, of course, is no longer part of your 5D repertoire.

For you know without a doubt where you are going even though you might not have the particulars quite yet. And you are beginning to understand that others are as powerful and capable as you – they merely need to remember that they are. This they cannot do if you are constantly rescuing them to their learning and your forward movement detriment.

It is time for you to let go of your need to rescue or direct others. Such is of 3D. This life is about you rescuing you and glorying in the ability to know that you are able to do so. And that the same is true for any entity who wishes to be part of this wondrous transition. So be it. Amen.

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February 8, 2016 at 10:59 am 48 comments

Communications are Now Internal Contracts With Others

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com

Overview of 8/8/11 channeled, 15-minute http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com “Creation Energies” show: We are shifting internally this week to help with the unveiling of our 12-strand DNA. Those who choose not to transition in this lifetime will notice a glow about us. Those transitioning will not necessarily see the glow, but will sense it.

Special Event: Saturday August 20, 2011 at 3 pm to 4 pm Eastern time; noon to 1 pm Pacific time, Brenda and Dee Wallace (actress in 125 movies including the role of mother in the movie, “ET”) will be the guests of radio show host Carl Helvie, Ph.D., on BBSRadio.com “The Holistic Health Show”. Please join us.

 

Dear Ones,

Communication sharing is the piece you are opening this week. Will you be able to communicate with others without words? Yes and no. Even though you will continue to rely on your words for the present, you now have a method of communications that is more reliable than has been true in the past.

All interactions are an exchange – whether physical, emotional or spiritual.

In the past, fear blocked most of your need for an equal or any type of exchange. Perhaps you have attended functions in which you initiated conversations that ended as soon as you stopped asking questions or as soon as your companion felt the need to find the buffet.

Such interactions will take on more meaning. You will no longer be that interested in interacting with others who do not wish to complete an internal contract with you. If you no longer have the need to be a victim or a caretaker, why would you feel the need to spend time with another human who does not feel the need to give you anything in return?

Perhaps you are confused for your society has encouraged such interactions by creating terms such as “small talk”, “little white lies” and “chit chat”. If such conversations feel complete, a sharing has occurred. But if you are bored – one of the best words to describe an non-interaction – you will know your communication partner is not internally involved.

If you were speaking to someone who was not engaged, you most likely felt that there was something wrong with your conversation (victim), instead of that your inner-being was informing you that your partner was not engaged.

Perhaps your conversation partner said all the correct words, but their words did not match their body expressions or you did not know how to “bounce off” them in conversation. You said something and they did not respond. Or you said  something and their response was flat leaving you with nothing to attach to. Communication is more than words.

After this week, many of you will begin to notice that you no longer feel the need to communicate with those who do not share their heart/being with you. Are those who do not share your interests bad? Not at all. Merely that communicating because you should, not because it feels right is no longer something you will necessarily care to do.

Societal niceties are falling by the wayside as you move into your true being. Why would you wish to spend time talking with someone because you feel you should, even though they are not reciprocating with feelings or are draining your emotional/physical/spiritual being?

Perhaps they wish to remain in the third dimension. Or perhaps they are pre-occupied with an issue that has nothing to do with you. It does not matter. You will no longer wish to “carry them” just because you should.

Does that mean you will interact with fewer people? No. Merely that you will demand internally to communicate with those who wish to share feelings – to truly communicate with you. Even if that communication is a smile and a nod, you will feel an inner interaction. Small talk for the sake of small talk is no longer part of you easy repertoire. You will demand substance and therefore, will receive it.

Substance is sharing. Chit chat with no meaning is no longer worth your effort no matter how well you have perfected the art. Let us describe what will happen after this week. Your communication partner may say, “I am so happy.” You will sense through your inner-being that their statement is false. It is then your responsibility to either respond with, “Are you happy?”-  or to exit the conversation. For those who wish to remain in the third dimension will not appreciate you sensing their being. Another example is that someone continues to pursue a relationship with you via conversations that leave you drained. That is not a sharing or loving conversation – it is a caretaker interaction.

You might respond that you must continue to interact with certain people because you work for or with them or they are relatives. Continuing to interact with those people despite your feelings of discomfort is as much a victim stance as any other you can envision.

Allow yourself to be in all of your inner honesty. Protect your being from those who wish to continue in the victim/caretaker roles they are so comfortable with. All you have to do is to question the validity of their statement, end the conversation or exit situations that force you to be someone you are not.

Many of you are feeling pressured by this information. You thought this shift would be mean moving into a joyous new life with few, if any, changes. That is not a shift, it is merely a look at the new earth/New Age and jumping back to your old life of fear.

For those of you who have already established a community of joy and love – whether or not that community verbalizes new earth concepts – this transition into open communication will not be that noticeable. But those of you who have continued to hope that your life will not change as you move into the New Age, may be surprised at how difficult your communications will be after this week.

Allow yourself to be and you will move into the joy you have long hoped for. Allow yourself to remain in the Old Age, in whatever format that takes,  and you will remain in the Old Age despite your hopes to the contrary. So be it. Amen.

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August 9, 2011 at 12:25 pm 4 comments


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