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You’re Not a Friend Control

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Summary of Brenda’s February 22, 2019, channeled “Creation Energies” show at  Your loved ones are likely in their dark night of the soul. You can’t carry them through any more than they could carry you. Even though you wish to play, they’re stuck in fear. But such will be so for less time than was true for you because you cleared lifetimes, dimensions, and frequencies. Those you love are likely merely clearing aspects affecting this life.

“Your Creations: Macro to Micro” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Perhaps it seems as if you have no true friends for those you once thought of as friends are in different transition stages. So it is you cannot understand them and them, you.

Such is so because you have completed many of the phases they are just starting to address. Which is neither good nor bad, merely different. A difference that is displayed in ways you did not anticipate.

You believed you would become more like a parent gently leading those you love to a particular arena of spirituality and belief. Instead, you are discovering that compatibility has become almost a friendship liability.

Should you continue the friendship hoping they will finally embrace your point of view or end the friendship as you have done with others?

Most of you want us to tell you to continue the friendship for you already feel lonely in your new world.

But we cannot tell you what to do or when because we do not have the knowledge you have. Perhaps your current interactions are based in difficulties you had with them in previous lifetimes, or indicate you are no longer on the same frequency and may never be again. Only you know. What does your heart tell you to do?

Some of you in long-term relationships have fallen in love with your partner several times within decades of togetherness, just as you might have fallen out of love. Your heart guided you then and your heart will guide you now.

Some of your friends are ending their evolutional development out of fear. Others are doing so because they need to review their current status, and still others because they are tired of climbing their mountain of clearings. All are appropriate actions for them. Your decision is whether they have moved so far beyond you or your frequency that you no longer have an interest in maintaining the friendship.

That decision is your fear. For your current friendship pool is smaller than you would like and yet, you feel you need to make painful friendship decisions when you wish to be in joy.

This is not a time for final decisions for so many are evolving in so many different directions that what was true for them yesterday may not be tomorrow.

At the same time, you do not have the energy to wait until they blend perfectly with you as they once did.

Your decision is to be true to yourself whatever that means to you.

Perhaps you will wish to prolong the time between connections. Or eliminate connections. Or choose different connections. All are possible – the deciding factor is you.

As a forerunner, your thoughts and beliefs are no longer of 3D fear. Even though thoughts of losing a friend might produce fear, you no longer base your decisions in fear. So it is if interacting with someone makes you upset or fearful, you know deep within you that such interactions are not what you wish.

But then, are those interactions permanent or temporary? Only your inner being can inform you of the advantages of either delaying your decision or ending the relationship.

The decisions you make now are your decisions. Not ours of the Universes nor any one of the earth. Just as we cannot force you to do anything, you cannot force yourself. And continuing the same close relationship despite great discomfort forces you into a box of denial which is no longer appropriate.

You, of course, are wondering where is the joy in loneliness?

Your forefront role created a foregone conclusion that you will be lonely at times, especially at the beginning. As you become stronger in yourself, you will discover others who better understand you or better blend with your frequency.

You cannot force someone to blend frequencies with you, nor can you allow yourself to make decisions on small tidbits as you once did. It is time to review the whole – including you. Are you more or less sensitive than you used to be? Are you accepting that those just beginning their new you transition might be a bit rough around the edges? Or are you tired of being around others who do not understand why they are shifting?

You have the power to decide how if at all, you wish to continue relationships. There is no right answer other than the one you find within you. An answer that might change from day-to-day, which will confuse you more. For you are used to having someone tell you that such a person is wrong for you or to drop a friendship based on some words of wrongness in your mind.

We will remind you that it is likely 99% of the earth’s inhabitants do not yet think or act as you do. And that the 99 % are stunned daily as they evolve, just as was true for you.  Do you remember how quickly your needs and tastes changed during your dark night of the soul? So it is now for many – including those closest to you.

Your shift encouraged those closest to you to shift also. The difference is you were almost forced to change by your pre-earth entry decisions. Those shifting now are doing so because of you.

As you radiate more, those following are picking up your light, so to speak, causing them to want to shift also. But their shift is more of the moment than was true for you so they will flounder a bit more than you did. You did so because you had to. Those following are doing so because they want to.

As your loved ones shift their beliefs and thought processes they will continuously return to 3D fears, not because they have to but because it is more comfortable for them to do so. Allow that to be. They are deciding what is best for them in this lifetime. You must honor their decisions even though you wish to jump in and carry them through, so your friend connections are as delightful as before.

You forerunners are the only ones now of the earth who had to evolve to new you. Allow others the freedom to choose just as we allowed you that freedom eons ago.

If your friends decide not to evolve to a frequency similar to yours, honor that or end the relationship. And if they decide to continue the frequency relationship that holds them dear in your heart, allow them time to do so. You are not in control of them, just as they are no longer in control of you. So be it. Amen. If you would like to receive Brenda’s Blogs when posted, please click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her Blog & Subscribe page and then click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation.

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February 25, 2019 at 10:31 am 24 comments

Listen to You

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Summary of Brenda’s July 21, 2017, channeled 15-minute “Creation Energies” show at Perhaps your loved ones are at a different place than you – so you caretake them because you were trained to do so. Slowing down to care for someone is no longer appropriate for they are as powerful as you even if they haven’t accepted that they are. Those loved ones will never accept their power if you are their caretaker, nor will your light shine brightly. This is a time of personal power – yours and theirs. 

“You’ve Catapulted Yourself” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,


We, of the ethers, have already informed you how far beyond expectations you have progressed, as well as we no longer fully understand what you will create or are capable of.

That last thought is not to frighten you, but for you to understand how much further you traveled than we or anyone thought possible. You are like a self-made millionaire rising from poverty faintly remembering that you once hungered for food and shelter.

Our assumption before your earth entry in this lifetime was that you would create a comfortable life and your children and grandchildren would shift beyond that. In a sense, that our millionaire analogy would not be created for a few generations.

You have transitioned so far beyond all expectations that you can now literally fly to the moon. Even though that statement makes no sense to you now, it will in the near future.

Such a flight requires yet again a study of all you wish to leave behind. And so it is that many of you are clearing deeply, but with a different approach than was true when you initiated your transition cleansing years or perhaps decades ago.

When you first began cleansing, you did so without knowing why and so those clearings seemed fearful. You are now clearing in joy, asking yourself, “What’s next? Where can I go or what can I create if I do this?”

But some of you do not wish to cleanse one more piece of your being. You are content where you are.

You now have the freedom to stop, ponder, continue, or exit. For none of you expected to be at this place in this lifetime.

You completed your initial role by creating the New Age/New Earth bridge. Nothing else was required of you. But upon completion of that bridge, you en masse decided to transition further.

So it is you now have a decision to make that does not shift this transition, only you. No one is making you transition further – it is your choice. If you wish to take advanced courses, you will clear all necessary baggage. If you are content with who or where you are, there is no need to continue clearing.

Before you en masse created the bridge to the New Age, before you crossed the 5D Rubicon, you were heavily influenced by your cohorts to push a bit further, to remain with the team. Such declarations of right or wrong are over. You are free to do whatever you wish – from ending your transition journey in this lifetime to continuing on with whatever beckons you.

There is no longer a push, nor is there a right or wrong. You are free to be who you wish to be. Perhaps you are too tired to continue. Or you are so excited by the possibilities that you cannot stop. You must make that decision.

Some of you are feeling put upon by mentions of the ongoing clearings. Stop. You need not follow directives from anyone. You are a god/goddess, free to do what you wish.

Perhaps you expect someone ‘out there’ to tell you when to move forward, rest, or stop. Those messages are no longer relevant for you are the commander of your ship. No one is more knowledgeable about you than you. Meaning no one can entice you to move forward if you do not wish. Nor can anyone stop you if you wish to move forward.

You are a self-contained entity. And for you to cry to the heavens or your guru that you have had enough believing they have some sort of control over you is for you to have forgotten all you have achieved.

No one or no entity is more knowledgeable than you about you.

Why do you feel the need to give your power away, after working so diligently to reach this point of personal power? There is not a naughty witch sending you messages to look here and there for pieces you wish to remove. Nor is there a good witch telling you that if you do this, all will be wonderful. There is only you. What are you telling you? That is all that is important now.

If you wish to continue this farce that if you cry long enough, the gods will take pity on you, realize they cannot help, for you are the god you are crying to.

The energies floating about now, as all transition energies, are permanent energies of the earth. If you wish to rest or stop, you are free to do so. And if you wish to continue, you are also free to do so.

There is no need to complain to others that you are tired of clearing – just stop, rest, or continue, for their dictates have NO meaning to or for you. You are a now self-contained entity following the messages from your inner-being. A voice no one but you can hear.

You must take responsibility for who you are or who you wish to become. For you to expect others to feel sorry for you because of your clearing, informs you that you have not yet internalized your power.

In truth, expecting someone to tell you what to do next now that you are of 5D or beyond, is tantamount to a college graduate expecting a kindergarten student to give them direction.

You have the power to stop clearing at any time and to create a life of joy. Or to create a life of joy as you now understand it and then continue on. Or any framework that is best for you. You are a god/goddess. You do not require anyone’s approval or direction.

It is time for you to take control of your life.

Listen to you. That is all that is required. You can create joy here and now. Or you can create a different kind of joy wherever or whenever. That is your choice and your role. So be it. Amen. If you would like to receive Brenda’s Blogs when posted, please click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her Blog & Subscribe page and then click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation.

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July 23, 2017 at 10:57 pm 39 comments

Rebellious You is Peeking Out

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Summary of Brenda’s March 17, 2017, channeled 15-minute “Creation Energies” show at    Current energies are encouraging you to inform others who aren’t necessarily on a new you/New Earth path that you’re a powerful forerunner with many skills and resources. You’ve likely hidden your forerunner status because of lifetimes of persecution for those skills. So it is you’re accepting your inner-power on all levels.

“Energy Burst Needs are Refined” is the title of this week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly, channeled blog for

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Many of you are beginning to wonder how to address your 3D concerns without continuing duality. For even within New Earth communities, there are varying messages of right and wrong, “Do this, but not that.” “Ignore your concerns if they touch 3D duality.” “Remember that you are no longer of 3D so even if participating in 3D discussions gives you joy, you must deny yourself those discussions for they only shine more light on what you don’t want.”

Even though all of the above are valid pieces of advice for the person giving the advice, that advice has nothing to do with you.

Rule one of new you is to discount any shoulds. Rule two is to love yourself by following your joy.

No one can outline the correct path for you. Only you know your path.

Perhaps you have reasons for discussions within the 3D realms. Such is neither right nor wrong, merely what gives you joy at the moment.

We have provided much information about following your joy because your path of joy – no matter how counter-intuitive – will lead you to where you wish to be.

That last thought includes within you many, “but…?” So do you follow your heart – or information that makes you feel you should to declare yourself of 5D and beyond without any ties to your 3D life?

That is your decision. A decision we cannot and will not attempt to make for you. Any more than those now of earth in this lifetime can do for you.

You have read over and over again that you must meditate x number of minutes or hours per day. That you must eat certain foods. That you must declare yourself beyond any 3D discussions or self-perceived pettiness.

Those pieces of advice are most likely correct for the person spouting them but have little to do with you. For there are no longer any shoulds from any source.

An apt analogy is someone who trained you for a new job. Most likely, the person training you told you how you should perform that job for that is how they performed. For the first few days, you likely followed their suggestions – until your unique personality shifted motives and goals here and there until it was time for you to change jobs. And when you trained a new person for your former job, you did exactly as was done to you. Your training tips and focus were what was successful for you. So it is now.

Others have had success determining their direction via the information they give you, but you must put your ‘spin’ on your role for your role is nothing like those who wish to give you advice.

Each of you has a role that is unique.

If you remember, this transition is like a huge puzzle, and you are one puzzle piece. If you attempt to be like another, your part of the puzzle will not be complete. So it is you must honor your inner-directives where they lead you, even if they do not make sense at the time or ever.

You have transitioned beyond doing what is right for others or what is perceived as right for the Universes. You are now traveling instinctively if you will, and your journey has nothing to do with anyone else’s journey.

So it is you must declare yourself a powerful entity that follows no rules other than your own.

Of course, many of you are laughing for by us telling you what is now happening; it appears as if we are telling you how to respond. Not at all – as you will discover once you trust yourself to function from your inner-directives. For we know no more than you what those directives are or what they will become.

You are becoming a bit more animalistic in the sense that you are doing what is required for you to do by your inner-being. Just as an infant decides to crawl or walk whether or not you encourage that child to do so.

During this particular time on earth, you are rapidly shifting from group to unique thought. Your dilemma is that you are not necessarily comfortable with unique thought while of the earth for you have followed earth rules and regulations for eons.

So it is you are questioning your seemingly rebellious nature at this time. Not because you are afraid of that rebellious nature, but because it feels a bit uncomfortable – just as does a new pair of shoes until your feet claim those shoes as yours. So be it. Amen.

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March 20, 2017 at 9:59 am 40 comments

Select Your Dimension Whenever You Wish

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Summary of Brenda’s February 27, 2012, 15-minute, free, channeled “Creation Energies” show on It is likely that your recent inability to concentrate, your “fogginess” is the lifting of your dimensional veils. This “Creation Energies” show teaches you how to tune to the dimension that best meets your needs. 

Title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, channeled, weekly blog at http://www.Life Tapestry ”We’re Amazed at Your Daring Do”


Dear Ones,

The shift now occurring is moving you from group to individual actions. Even though we discussed this during our radio show yesterday (www.BlogTalkRadio – Creation Energies), we wish better help you understand your direction.

Previous to the last few days, most of the energy bursts helped your Lightworker group move through many of your Old Age beliefs and actions. You have completed that piece of your dimensional shift.

Many of you feel as if you have Old Age areas that still need clearing. We did not expect you – nor did you before entering earth during this transition – to review and complete every aspect of your 3rd dimensional Old Age being. You do not time to do so during this rapid shift. Suffice it for you to know, now that you understand how you wish to transition, your being is shifting accordingly.

It is like taking a final exam in a difficult course and not feeling you fully understand the concepts of that course. Even though you receive an A or B, you think you do not know enough to apply that knowledge. That is, until you are in the work world and grasp how that course is a natural part of your life.

So it is for this transition. You have earned an A or B+ in your understanding of the concepts you are beginning to use in your everyday life. That is all you need to move forward. You understand more than you realize and you will easily adapt that understanding to your New Age life.

We also discussed yesterday that it is time for you to assume responsibility for selecting the correct dimension. You are fully capable of doing so. You merely have to tune in to that station, that dimension.

We wish to move a few steps further into that process. Many of you have concerns that you will not select the correct dimension or that the correct dimension will allude your tuning abilities. It is time to trust your being. For indeed, we have primed you in the past months to assume responsibility for your being.

It is no longer appropriate to pray to others or to expect messages of caring and concern from those outside yourself. Perhaps that thought makes you angry. Not because you are not capable of creating your own life, but because your belief patterns are that someone – parents, teachers, politicians, God, angels, those from other planets and dimensions – is taking care of you.

That is not to say that those outside yourself have forsaken you – you are all one – but that you are now a young adult who must move away from home. Even though those words may appear disharmonious, those words are much more harmonious than Old Age messages. Let us explain.

You are one part, one cell of the whole. But you are not the whole. So it is not appropriate for you to believe that eye cells know what is best for you if you are a fingernail cell. You and your compatible cells are the entities that best understand your needs and direction. To further expand that thought, if some of your compatible fingernail cells have been overtaken with a fungus, they would not function as you do – so again, they would not fully understand your needs and direction.

Until now, you have requested assistance from the entire body even though not all parts of the body understood your needs. But then, you were not moving in the smaller arenas you have now transitioned to. It is if someone decreed that all Caucasian men born in California in 1989 will like something. Many will, but others in that demographic will think quite differently.

When we first helped you move into your New Age role, we started with broad strokes similar to trying to understand the needs of all Caucasian men born in California in 1989. We have now adjusted our message to all Caucasian men born in Lodi, California in 1989. We will refine that information until it is similar to one Caucasian male born in a specific house, on a specific street in Lodi, California in 1989.

It is time for you to take responsibility for yourself. There is no longer someone out there responsible for your transition or role. Even though your role is an important piece of the whole – as a fingernail is to the body. You are not a skin cell. You are a unique body cell with unique needs and directions. It is time for you to claim yourself.

Another apt analogy is that most elementary school children find a variety of subjects interesting. By the time those same children enter the work world, they will have refined those interests to a job in a particular field.

You are no longer in elementary school. You have graduated from college and are ready to enter the work world. Take responsibility for your decisions and direction. No one understands your needs better than you. You are a New Age adult. Accept and glory in that. And move forward in anticipation of the wonderful directions you are about to pursue. So be it. Amen.      If you would like to receive Brenda’s free blogs as they are posted, please click the Subscribe Button in the upper part of her subscribe and blog page and then click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by e-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation.

February 28, 2012 at 12:05 pm 7 comments

Your Decision Soon Will Not Be Reversible

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Overview of 10/3/11 “Creation Energies Channeled by Brenda Hoffman” 15-minute show on You have increased the totality of your being from 10% to 20% or 30%. You are now strong enough to follow your inner-being. In fact, it is selfish of you to follow society and deny yourself and the Universes your role in this wondrous transition.

Dear Ones,

You are not imagining the shifts you have felt. All the entities on earth and earth are being stirred much like a large pot of vegetable soup. If you think of yourself as a carrot, sometimes you are on the top and sometimes on the bottom, but throughout the cooking process you are swirled this way and that. Those who insist on remaining on the bottom are beginning to feel the heat.

Do you not find our analogy humorous? Those who receive the most attention in your media and during your coffee breaks are those who choose to stay on the bottom. They do not wish to swirl to the top, to “see the light,” nor do they wish to be part of your delicious vegetable soup. The result is that they will be burned to the bottom of the pot only to be recycled through the dish washing process.

It is time to decide if you will be part of the vegetable soup or stuck on the bottom.

You have the freedom to select which life, which cycle best fits your being during the transition. The issue is that the longer the pot of soup stays on the stove, those on the bottom have less opportunity to swirl to the top/the light with the rest of you.

This fun analogy might help you visualize generally what has happened in the last few weeks as the heat becomes more intense. But what is happening to you, the carrot?

You are softening, you are blending and your chemical structure is shifting. You are rapidly becoming an important member of the light team. As the fire/shift intensifies, each entity is electing to be swirled to the light or burned on the bottom.

Do you suppose that the vegetables in your common vegetable soup hope to be burned? Or is burning a natural outcome if the cook does not take the time or energy to watch the pot? It is a bit of both. Let us explain.

The cooks or pot stirrers are those lightworkers/wayshowers who are informing entities throughout the Universes of the transition now occurring. Some take this task seriously and offer the messages they hear, sense, remember or acknowledge – as they receive them. Others are afraid of the information they are receiving and do not tell anyone – much less themselves. Still others do not have interest in any transition message from themselves or others.

We have already told you that some entities now on earth will opt not to make the shift. Such is so for a number of reasons, not the least of which is that they wish to continue their fear lessons a bit longer. We are not addressing those entities in this channel.

We are addressing those who afraid to be swirled in the pot, to see the light, to hear the message. They are rapidly becoming stuck to the bottom of the pot. You are not responsible for helping them swirl with the rest of you. Nor is it your fault if they opt not to hear or follow any of their internal messages. We are merely pointing out that the decisions now being made are not reversible.

If you are one  of those too afraid to hear your inner voice, please stop and listen. This transition is moving more rapidly than you realize. Unlike your college days when you could change your major every few months, this New Age/new earth transition is quickly becoming permanent.

The vegetable soup is not yet done.  But some pieces within that soup are already sticking to the bottom – not to be seen again.

Perhaps that last thought feels like a scare tactic. That is not true. We merely are reinforcing your feelings that you are shifting rapidly. Such is true for a reason. You no longer have years to decide if you wish to be part of the New Age/new earth. Weeks and months is your current reality.

Does such a thought relate to the fears and hopes of the December 2012 declaration of ascension or apocalypse? Yes and no. Neither is going to happen in December 2012. Both are merely human explanations for something that does not yet have words – much like cave dwellers described an eclipse as the end of the world.

Changes are happening to you spiritually, physically and emotionally much more rapidly than you realize. Think in terms of vegetable soup. Does it not seem to take forever for a large pot to start bubbling? Yet once the bubbles start, you know a full boil is soon to follow. Your world – your personal being – has started to bubble, as is true for every other entity on earth. Those entities starting to stick to the bottom of the pot do not have much longer to free themselves.

This is your final deciding time. You are no longer of the Old Age with a few New Age ideas. Or of the New Age with an ongoing Old Age attitude. Either you embrace your shift emotionally, physically and spiritually with joy and wonderment or expect to be burned to the bottom.

Are we trying to frighten you? Yes. For indeed, you all have unique and wondrous skills that are needed NOW to help swirl everyone who wishes to swirl into the light/to the top of the pot. If you opt not to acknowledge and use those skills; if you wait to see what will happen to those who have decided to move into joy; if you think your recent feelings and physical shifts are silly or something a group of New Agers made up;  you will be one of those stuck to the bottom of the pot.

Perhaps a better analogy might be the Holocaust. Despite all indicators to the contrary, many Jewish people remained in German lands beyond their ability to escape. The Holocaust is yet another story. We use it as an example of how dramatic this transition time has become.

It is no longer a game. It is no longer, “What if?” It is a reality that is becoming more so every hour. Make a choice. Choose joy and you will rise to the top. Choose fear and you will remain on the bottom. So be it. Amen.

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