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Stop Carrying Others on Your Path

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s August 23, 2019, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  Unlike the expected 3D aging of the physical body, humanity is now changing from the inside. Those inner changes are frightening, for they are unprecedented in earth history. You can’t yet envision humanity shifting from fear to love for most are expressing rage or fear as they do so. Even though you know what’s happening, you’re frightened at times too. 

Do You Believe You’re 3D or 5D? is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

You are shifting from acquiescing to the needs of others to informing them of your thoughts and feelings. You are no longer the agreeable mime that others want you to be.

Of course, this information is not new. What is new is that you no longer feel guilty about your truth. You no longer wonder if someone’s feelings are hurt or worry that others might not care for you if you do not participate.

So it is you are feeling feisty, adhering to your inner principles even though others might be angry or bewildered by your actions.

For eons, you have known you are powerful. But you used that power to fit in instead of becoming. You were an easy target for anyone who needed something you could or would provide as a caretaker.

Now that you are exploring your inner-power, you are a stronger, more vocal being. Someone who no longer sifts through the needs and thoughts of others before finding your voice. So it is others are surprised – and not always pleasantly so – by your new demeanor.

Those impacted by your new voice might try to return you to who you were. And that is when you will surprise yourself and others with your declaration of freedom. The freedom to be without the constraints of who others want or need you to be.

This freedom, this voice will be raw without the sugar-coating of social graces. You are exhausted by the current earth chaos. So it is you are unwilling to roll back your thoughts and beliefs to those which better suit those around you.

You are rapidly discovering that trying to fit in, to be the nice boy or girl you were trained to be, is more uncomfortable than you ever imagined. A bit like those musically inclined finding it painful when they hear the wrong note in a song.

Those around you will want you to return to the kind, gentle person with whom they have always interacted. You are the caretaker of the world are you not? For that is what they expect of you. And that is what used to give you comfort – hiding behind a false caretaking curtain as you ignored your needs and powers. A bit like Clark Kent never entering the phone booth to become Superman.

Now you superwomen and men not only want to be discovered, it is necessary that you are. For the world, the Universes are waiting.

Likely, you have no interest in saving the world. By being yourself, you are saving the world. For until you force others to take responsibility for themselves, you will continue to pretend to be someone you are not.

Humans do not change until the discomfort is painful enough to do so. If you continue to catch others when they fall, they will never be uncomfortable enough to change.

Just as it is not appropriate for you to always pick up your children’s toys because it is easier, it is also no longer appropriate to ensure that others do not fail or fall. You are only responsible for you. And the same is true for all.

So it is that you are feeling exhausted, emotionally drained. Even though your caretaking role no longer feels right, others fully expect you to continue, so they do not have to take responsibility for their actions. Imagine those following you as children wanting you to pick up their toys – just as was true for you when you started your transition.

At the beginning of your transition, you constantly asked for direction and assistance, crying out that this transition was too difficult for you to bear. We countered with, “You’re your own guru” and thousands of other words encouraging you to become you.

So it is now that those following want you to do their work for them. They will try many emotional ploys to once again ensure you are engaged in their life. For how much easier it would be for them if you guided them through the rough parts by holding their hand and using your super-duper sword of light to cut through their pain? You wished for the same throughout much of your journey. And even though we often wanted to make it easier for you, we knew doing so would merely prolong your pain.

So it is for you now. You are no longer caretakers, your brothers or sisters keepers. You are you with new powers to explore. Powers that are you being you without the filters of who society or those following want you to be.

All involved in this transition must find their own voice. Such will only happen if all are allowed to do so.

But we forewarn you that just as was true for you in your dark night of the soul and phases thereafter, those following will expect you to help them carry their burdens. That is not your role. Your role is to allow them to see and sense the outcomes of daring to be free.

You are not a caretaker. You are not their parent. You are not their guru. Your role and only role is to be free of the social and personal constraints that dim the light necessary to shine more brightly than hate and fear.

Allow those following to find their place, their joy. For their joy is no longer your responsibility even though you may have played that role in this life and many others. They must find their path which they cannot do if you carry them on YOUR path – slowing or halting your growth. So be it. Amen.

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August 26, 2019 at 10:50 am 23 comments

Rest – You’ve Achieved Your Gold Medal

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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s June 17, 2016, channeled, 15-minute “Creation Energies” show at  http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  The largest piece, to date, of Universal energy, is entering your world at this time. This large energy burst is the result of your en masse request to experience New Earth and new you. You might discover a sharpness of tongue or fogginess of 3D thought and actions the next few days as you transition to more 5D self-love. Indicators you are no longer interested in 3D relationships without reciprocity.

“Learning to be Sovereign” is the title of this week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly, channeled blog for www.LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Please know the glorious day it is. Perhaps you are not feeling the glory of earth at this time, but you will. For the Universal energies of love and self-love are now reigning down in full force.

Some of you fear these energies because you do not yet fully understand what self-love means for you, so you are disguising your self-love with snippets of anger towards those you find in your path. A bit like winning an Olympic gold medal and finding yourself irritated because you have no idea what your life will look and feel like once you are not pushing to win that gold medal.

This irritation that pops up now and then within you and directed towards others seems unreasonable even to you. You have the life that you created or are creating. You climbed your mountain and rolled down your hill of self-discovery. And you note that those around you display indications of shifting into their new beings.

You should be celebrating – yet, there is a feeling of discomfort, of something not quite right, of, “I did all that for this?”

Such thoughts and actions are merely your exhale from the months, years or even decades of swimming upstream despite indications that you were wrong and society was right, that what you were experiencing in 3D was all that there was and ever would be.

Think of an infant having a wonderful day at the beach laughing, building sand castles and playing in the water. But because of that joyful day, they are so tired they are unusually cranky. And so it is, and so you are.

You are starting to breathe again in the sense that you have completed your push to not only shift earth into New Earth but yourself into new you. It is done. You are complete in your new you being.

But you cannot feel new you externally. Nor can you tap into that newness quite yet leading to more irritation. Even though you are letting go of much and are drawn to new people, information and vehicles of change, the reality of those shifts have not yet touched your outer being. You are tired without quite understanding why.

You know without knowing that you are different. And even though you know within you that you have accomplished something spectacular, you pine for the focus you needed to achieve what you have achieved.

Allow yourself to rest, to collect your thoughts and to move forward into your glorious self-love when it is correct for you to do so. You are not yet at the point of observing your Olympic gold medal with fondness. You are not yet even at the point of acknowledging to yourself that you have achieved that gold medal. But you will after you rest and allow yourself to sense externally all that you have achieved.

Some of you continue to believe that nothing has changed, that nothing is different. You are you, and that is it.

You HAVE changed. You ARE different. But you are exhausted – again like the toddler who played hard and is overly tired.

The memory of all you achieved cannot and will not be erased from your being or all Universal beings. But before you can fully claim your honors, your gold medals for daring to be you, despite the voices to the contrary, you need to rest a bit.

Your world, your life will sparkle with joy once you are rested.

It is indeed a glorious world you created with your co-Lightholder beings. You have achieved the impossible – combining 3D and 5D while fully of 3D to all those not transitioning or not transitioning at the same time as you.

And yet, you berate yourself for not doing enough, for not being enough – like an Olympic gold medal winner who berates herself for not winning by a larger margin.

Enough of your self-flagellation. Enough of berating yourself for anything. Allow the sparkle of joy and self-love in – once you have allowed yourself to rest a bit. So be it. Amen.

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June 20, 2016 at 9:52 am 65 comments

Do Observers Make You Feel Guilty?

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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s June 26, 2015 channeled, 15-minute “Creation Energies” show at  http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  Now that you’ve accepted your totality via your CEO role, you’re visiting with each segment about issues you wish to address – much as you believe happens in the ethers between lives on earth. Such visits negate the need for karma. And return you to, “We’re all one.” For your being is finally all one in the earth plane – something that has never before happened.

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly, channeled blog for www.LifeTapestryCreations.com: ”You’ve Always Been the Motivating CEO of You”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

You are beginning to notice changes within your being. Perhaps you find yourself touched by someone or something as never before. Perhaps you approach a person or experience differently. Indicators that you are not the entity you were even a few months ago.

You have removed the cover of your being. New you is beginning to sparkle in ways you did not necessarily anticipate – and is as surprising to you as to those around you.

Some of you believe you are returning to the you of yesteryear – a younger, more loving version of you. So it may be. But you added elements the past few decades that ensure that new you experiences are deeper and richer in love and joy.

Perhaps you are not yet feeling love or joy. Such is to be expected as you heal/process those energies you so readily incorporated into your being earlier this year. Many of you are/were on the verge of “blowing a fuse”, burn-out – even earth death. You accepted as much energy as you thought your body could take and then asked for more. So it is you may need to heal a bit longer.

Those of you who did not accept as many energies or have a stronger physical being, are beginning to note feelings and action shifts. As if a cement wall around your heart is starting to crumble – so it is.

In this phase, you are adjusting to those new feelings you read about, but have not experienced before in any earth lifetime.

Perhaps as a child you felt more love for others – even yourself. But the years of wear and tear; of accepting that which was not acceptable within your being; of pretending to be something someone else wanted you to be and other earth experiences that created your cement wall of emotional protection, are fading to a memory with fewer feelings of fear, disdain, anger or sadness.

Those memories will soon feel more like a history book than personal reality. A history that is touching, sad or even joyous, but not directly connected to you.

Your heart cannot be free to float into new you until you accept and love all that is you. Such is not possible if you continue to ruminate consciously or subconsciously about all you did wrong earth life after earth life.

This shift from personal memory to an impersonal history was the thrust of the April/May energy bursts – gifts from the Universes that you en masse requested. For you realized you could not clear the many pieces of fear and pain related to your unique path in this lifetime without Universal assistance.

You accepted that Universal assistance only to discover pieces of former 3D pain you needed to address and clear before moving on. And so you are with astonishing results.

Some of you have become almost a new entity within your physical body. Your thoughts, beliefs, perceptions and actions are as new to you as they are to others. You are discovering new depths, fewer fears and amazing directions almost daily.

Perhaps you are tired. Such would be understandable given all you experienced and are experiencing. Allow that to be. Do not push yourself to exhaustion. At the same time, know that the you that is starting to percolate, to feel, think and believe differently, is truly new you in all your glory.

Do not be frightened by new you. Relish the new soft, loving being that you are discovering hidden beneath your concrete protection. Protection that was necessary for you to maintain a physical earth life through your 3D fears and expectations.

Those new to earth – experiencing earth for the first or one of the first times – are not experiencing the shifts you are. Such is so because they do not have need for protective covers. But then, neither have they experienced earth love or fear to the depth you have or anticipate experiencing.

Perhaps you will better understand those entities who do not seem to care much about anything if you realize they are strangers in a strange land. They are from other places – not repeat earthlings as is true for most of you reading these words.

They are not interested in healing or expanding their love channels. They are merely noting the shifts – much as a traveler to a foreign country might. They find this or that intriguing, but not enough to dedicate themselves to earth or earth transition as is true for you.

To you, they feel disconnected because they are. They do not expect to become an earthling – at least not now. But instead, enjoy the novelty of a new land.

They are earth observers only. But once they entered the heaviness of earth’s atmosphere, they forgot their Universal purpose and became one of those distant earthlings you find astounding.

They do not seem to be attached to anything or anyone. Perhaps they say the right words or act the right way, but there is nothing you can sense beyond their facade. Even though they may have auras, they are a blank slate otherwise.

Some of you light holders have brought such beings into this world through childbirth or other means and are now becoming more and more astounded at their disconnect from you. Observe them for a few hours and you will note that they are also disconnected from all or most others. There is nothing there for you to tap into.

Those of you enmeshed with someone not of earth will likely feel guilty for not being able to connect with them. In truth, you have given them all they wanted – access to earth during this great shift.

You have completed your contract with them. They will learn what they wish to learn when they wish to do so. Your only role was allowing them to enter earth via your direction or invitation. Move on as they will. There is no ongoing bond. You will know such in your heart when you try to connect with them and feel little or nothing.

Perhaps you wonder if such an action is counterproductive to the phrases, “We’re all one.” “Love others as yourself”

You cannot force anyone into a love box. Allow yourself to let go of the guilt of trying to force someone to be something they are not – most especially those earth observers who have no intention of returning to earth or becoming part of the healing solution. Interact with those who feel love and loving.

Observers are not interested in that aspect of earth life. They are not zombies, merely observers – like those of you who visit zoos. Even though visiting a zoo can be enriching, you have no need to jump in a cage to interact with the animals or share their experiences.

So it is you are discovering another piece of yourself – guilt related to observer interactions – you can revisit and remove if you so choose. So be it. Amen.

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June 29, 2015 at 8:14 am 19 comments

Are You at Your Transition ‘Whatever!’ Point?

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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s May 12, 2013 free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman: Due to technical difficulties, there is a long pause near the beginning of this channel.  Many energies will be pummeling your beings in the next few days. Don’t be surprised if you short-circuit electrical/computer systems or ‘space out’ for a few seconds. You’re collecting energies for a major shift at the end of May.

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com: “This Week’s Energy Theme – You are Healed and Healing”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” BlogTalkRadio.com show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled materials.

Dear Ones,

You have cleared most, if not all, of your deeply held secrets – whether spiritual, emotional or physical. You have suffered through your ‘dark night of the soul’ on many levels – in dream time or awake.

You are exhausted and have little to offer yourself, much less others. You feel as if your world was turned upside down and tossed into a ravine. Nothing that was is and yet you awake to the same 3D world as 6 months ago. You have discarded friends and family and felt such deep loneliness that you can barely cope. Yet, you continue on.

The energy infusing you now is, in essence, an energy drink to revitalize, to help you hope again and to help you better understand yourself. For it is difficult for you to think beyond today or tomorrow given your deep exhaustion.

You know better than others that this is not a ‘normal’ exhaustion – you sleep many hours and yet awake tired and sometimes unable to contemplate the activities you used to complete with ease. Meeting new people or old friends often feels burdensome – unless the groupings are small and intimate or so large you do not need to interact.

You feel as if your nerves are on the edge of your skin. Yet, you continue on. Hoping and yes, praying it will be over soon.

Just the thought of another energy shift seems too much to contemplate, let alone live through. In truth, you do not care enough to become nervous or frightened. You have reached a ‘whatever’ point in this New Age/new earth transition. Little excites you and much exhausts you. You have no energy to spare – much less interest to move through yet another deep energy burst. And so it is that the Universes are sending you additional energies in preparation for the next big energy shift.

You will note these additional energies when you short-circuit electrical or computer equipment, when you feel as if you have to move or do something, anything, or you will burst. Yet, you will feel exhausted. Waking up hoping you can complete at least half of what you want to complete – and on the same day having a need to go somewhere, anywhere just to reduce the energy infusing your being – the energies gifted to you by the Universes.

Perhaps you are equating this energy infusion to an energy drink or a cup of coffee. You will feel somewhat like that only deeper and richer.

Most likely this Universal gifted energy infusion will affect your sleep patterns. You might need a nap during the day following a night without sleep or find that you sleep well at night and yet need several naps during the day. Your body is adjusting to yet another energy ramp up. The difference is that the energy infusion of the next few days is a gift from the Universes. It is not part of your expected physical changes. Let us explain.

Until now, you have gradually accepted energies as presented to the whole of earth – and thus the Universes. Some of you have dipped deeper into the energies than others, but all have been able to access these energies. The energy infusion of the next few days is for those of you who wish to ramp up faster than others, but do not have the energies to do so on your own. You have requested an outside energy source such as is being provided until the end of May.

We are not overtaking your being. You are exhausted, and as is true for your morning cup of coffee, you have requested our assistance in grabbing the brass ring arriving in a few days.

What is meant by our last statement? You, as a group of advance Lightworkers, have requested rapid progression into the New Age/new earth. Your physical body is exhausted, yet all indicators are that the soon-to-be planetary movements will allow you to skip some steps in your evolutionary process. Those of you at the forefront of this shift sense that potential movement with awe, excitement and sheer exhaustion. You want to be part of it, but do not have the energies to jump the hurdles occurring in the next few weeks. You have requested assistance. And so you are receiving.

Those who wish to jump those hurdles will feel spurts of energy that do not seem possible upon waking.

Those not at the forefront of this movement will not note the energy infusion for they do not require such at this time. They are content to follow your path as you cut away trees and brambles. It is you at the forefront who are exhausted, who sometimes feel as if you can not possibly go one step further – and yet, you yearn to do so with every fiber of your being.

You are not unique in terms of being wiser or braver than others – merely a bit more impatient. And so it is you are being fed the energy needed to jump the hurdles of the next few weeks. Others will do so at a later date – with your loving guidance if you wish or in their time. So be it. Amen.

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May 14, 2013 at 7:07 am 80 comments

You’re Don’t Need to Return to Battle Trenches

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Summary of Brenda’s April 26, 2013 free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman: Perhaps new Lightworkers are requesting information from you. If you provide such despite feeling it burdensome to do so, you return to Old Age care taking or victim roles. You’re a trailblazer who most likely wishes to explore new dimensions and processes.

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com: “First Salvos of the New Astrology”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” BlogTalkRadio.com show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled materials.

 

Dear Ones,
Perhaps you started your New Age/new earth journey filled with blissful innocence. You expected your transition to be completed with ease in a few days or months.

Instead, it is a process consuming more time and energy than you thought possible when you first decided to transition from fear to love. “How difficult can it be?” Indeed.

You are now bemoaning your advancement or lack thereof. At this stage of completion, neither seems exciting.

An apt analogy is that you are a World War I soldier in the trenches of France and your unit has claimed a few feet of mud – at the cost of friends and your peace of mind. Fighting for your country seemed exciting before you arrived. Now you cannot wait until the war is over. The ups and downs, the physical discomfort, and the lack of anything you wish to talk about merely test your soul. You no longer care who wins as long as you can go home.

Such is not true for all of you in the transition ‘trenches,’ but it is true for enough to provide this overview – and a bit of hope.  Know that millions have joined you in your movement to joy.

Many of you can now only see a short distance in front of you. You have no idea how many, if any, are behind you.

As of last week, the numbers transitioning into the New Age/new earth expanded by millions. You are no longer alone or one of the few. Will you sense these new ‘troops’ immediately? No – you are so battle weary that you merely put one foot in front of the other.
Perhaps our thoughts are too dramatic for your current reality.

What we are speaking of is similar to a commander receiving new, untested troops for a military drive and deciding to use battle weary troops instead. It is possible – but why?

Why would a commander force exhausted, but trained troops to continue when there are millions waiting impatiently for their turn to glorify themselves and their country? The battle weary troops know there is little glorification in the process – merely one step in front of the other until the end/ light is visible.

You are the battle weary troops. You have fought, yes fought to find your place in this wondrous New Age transition. Even though you had no idea where you would end up other than a vague promise of joy, you gathered your courage and continued to move forward despite questions, concerns and yes, fears. You felt isolated, sometimes odd and yet slugged through many physical or emotional traumas.

All of this sounds quite depressing, does it not? But that has been your reality for some time. You moved forward with the promise of joy and an inner sense that you must.

This, in your earth historical perspective, is not much different from enlisting in the military believing that your country is worth the effort and the pain.

Perhaps you are horrified that we use a military analogy to describe your New Age/new earth transition. You have joined this transition movement to find peace and love. Is that thought any different that than that of soldiers who fought for the same when earth was in 3D realms? You have ‘fought’ many similar battles in the past, merely in the physical realms.

It is time for you to give up your military analogies. This transition is no longer a group activity. It is a solitary movement into what feels best for you. You are not needed to train new troops or to fight their battles. Your only role is to continue to move into joy and love.

We have made dramatic statements because many are now joining the Lightworker ‘bandwagon’. And they fully expect you to care for them during their traumas, fears and yes, battles. For you are the ‘good guys’ who will take their hand and lead them through the worst – at your exhausted expense.

You do not have the energy to care take. Nor do you have the need to be a victim. Stopping your nearly complete transition to help those along the way sounds noble, but you do not have the energy to do so. Nor do those who follow need someone to rescue them from themselves. For that is what you would be doing. They need to discover their own beings. That is not your role. Of equal importance, you do not have the energy to train or care take anyone now.

You advance Lightworkers are exhausted. You need to experience joy – not the pains of others as they evolve through their deepest fears.

Some of you may wish to train or teach newly minted Lightworkers. If it feels joyful to do so, by all means do it.

The majority of you have other pieces you wish to explore. You have no need to further explore your own pain, fear, anger – or that of someone you love. You are tired. And rightly so. You have moved through your fears and you need a rest before you decide to move to your next realm of exploration. Such does not include moving to the back of the line as friends and loved ones beg for your assistance so they do not have experience all that you did.

They will not move into the New Age/new earth until they explore their fears, but you know that. They fully expect you to give them the shortcut – to care take them.

Your role as an advance Lightworker is to move ever forward – perhaps leaving a trail of wisdom and energy in your wake, but certainly not to return to the front to fight the new Lightworkers’ battles for them.

Your trail of wisdom and light might include written materials or just allowing others to be in fear as they move through their ‘dark night of the soul’. You cannot do it for anyone – anymore than you can learn to read for someone.

It is time for you to move into joy without concern that your brother, mother, friend or lover will not make it through their transition. That is their concern – not yours.

We will close for now with words of love and healing for you Lightworkers who have fought the brave fight. Allow yourself to rest knowing that those who follow have a great deal more information – and yes, many more role models than you did. Rest a bit before your next big adventure knowing that you do not need to return to the trenches ever. So be it. Amen.

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April 28, 2013 at 4:43 pm 69 comments

Are You Surprising Yourself With Your Actions?

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com

Overview of Brenda’s 15-minute, free, channeled show Creation Energies on http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com:Yesterday’s channeled radio show returned to the theme of  last week’s Brenda’s Blog available at http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com  titled Letting Go of a Piece of Your Heart. Relationship sharing means asking yourself what you want or need in a relationship. You’ve been trained to give without expectations for eons. It’s time to review that pattern along with your beliefs about your self-worth.

 

Dear Ones,

Even though you may understand intellectually what is happening to those relationships that no longer feel loving or valuable – whether human, animal or other entity – emotionally, you are exhausted and devastated. That person or entity might have been your touchstones of security for decades or eons. Please know that they are not bad or evil, they just do not fit within your being in a comfortable and loving fashion.

Perhaps it would be easier to understand if you think of yourself as  a round puzzle with round puzzle pieces and the other person or entity as a square puzzle with square puzzle pieces. One shape is not better than the other, merely different and not interchangeable. So it is for you now.

You do not hate the people or objects you are moving away from, you just do not feel comfortable with them any longer. You cannot understand them and they cannot understand you.

What are you to do about the void left in your heart now that they are no longer part of you – at least at the level they were before the shift? What indeed? Who or what do you want in your life and why?

You see we have returned to the basics again. Who are you? Do you wish to be with someone who makes you uncomfortable? Why? And if not, why not? What is different about you…or them? Create the relationships that fit the new you much as you did when you left home or starting dating. You are not alone. You merely have to set your personal radar to a station that matches like-minded people or entities.

The key phrase is self-worth. For eons, you have accepted without question the phrase, “To give is better than to receive.” Do you realize how many belief patterns are attached to that phrase – including gender, race, religion, age, government and economics?

Historically, women were protected by their male relatives or spouses to the extent that they were not able to vote, hold office or own property. Such beliefs seem ludicrous now given that women are voting, serving in the military, owning property and serving in office. But many belief patterns needed to shift before such dramatic societal changes occurred. Such changes required decades of dedicated work by those who believed men and women were equal intellectually and physically.

Your recent shift feels so dramatic – and exhausting – because it occurred within days instead of decades. It was not something you planned for or protested for to obtain. The shift happened without your conscious awareness. And that is how shifts will continue to occur throughout this transition process – easily and naturally, but surprising to you in terms of your reactions and actions.

There is no historical perspective for this shift. Nor are there texts or professors to help you wade through the materials. Merely you acting and reacting according to your inner-being.

Now you ask what else will be expected of you in this transition? You have already given up a great deal in the last few days by moving beyond the people or objects you once held dear. In the not-to-distant future, you will review what you gave up recently and realize the person, entity or object did not expect or accept an equal relationship. For if it were equal, you would not have given it up.

Have you dated someone wonderful until you started noting discrepancies in their words and actions and you needed to let them go? So it was for you in the last few days. But again, there were no self-help books to tell you what to do. You acted from your inner-being not societal dictates – how frightening that is to many. No rules, no guidance – just you knowing who you are and what you need.

In the past, you were inundated with correct moves and actions provided your psychologists, self-help gurus, parents and religious leaders. Even though they may have had somewhat different viewpoints, they all provided a “correct” framework for who you were and how you acted. Those few people who dared to move beyond those rules laid down by others found themselves justifying their actions by pointing out a philosophy or text that indicated a similar activity. Such safety nets no longer apply.

How can a societal safety net apply when you have transferred your power to your inner-being? And how can your moves be correct for anyone else?

Allow yourself to know that you are a powerful, self-governing entity – as is everyone else. Then allow yourself to know that what occurred in the past few days was you allowing your self-governing being to move in a direction that was and is correct for you.

Your self-governing being is not mean, vicious or self-aggrandizing. It merely wishes to help your physical being move into the place that will encompass the joy, love and peace you have long hoped for. Your self-governing being is slowly but surely waking up to the New Age.

Much of what has transpired pertaining to the New Age/new energy/new earth in the past forty years has been an intellectual discussion of the possibilities. In the last few years, your physical being began shifting – but not to the extent that you felt or acted much differently. Perhaps you visualized, had your favorite mantras or associated with others who felt similarly – but your life continued much as was before you found the materials.

Your physical being is shifting to meet the intellectual thoughts you have processed for a few decades. You are becoming the person you wanted to be, and hoped to be, in the New Age/new earth. To do that you must move away from those people and entities that force or urge you to physically act as you always have. The New Age you is physically coming into being with all the twists of your personality such changes require.

Can you remain happily involved in what you term “dysfunctional relationships?” Not if you are moving into the New Age. You cannot be an alcoholic, spouse beater, thief, murderer or any similar activity and comfortably move into the New Age/new earth. Not that any of those labels are terrible in themselves, but rather do not include love, joy and peace. New actions for the new you. Paramount of which is self-worth. And self-worth is not synonymous with a dysfunctional relationship, rage, hate and anger.

You took a major physical step into the new earth/New Age in the past few days by acting on feelings that you no longer wish to be part of a dysfunctional anything. You brave souls in a matter of months moved into a place that would normally take hundreds of years.

No wonder you are starting to surprise yourself with your actions – you continually surprise us. So be it. Amen.

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