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Be Yourself, So Others Dare the Same

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s December 12, 2019, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  By the end of December, there will be more earth light than darkness. Those exposing the earth’s hidden fears through manipulation, outer-directed power, and fear know their power is diminishing, causing their raging temper tantrums. Your choice is to observe those tantrums or go on with your life.

Your True North is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Perhaps you are in a “good” place, perhaps not. So many energies are now pummeling earth that most of you are likely in a topsy-turvey sense of well-being. One moment you are joyous and the next in despair.

Such is to be expected as you try to combine your 3D history with your 5D being. Despite the Universal energies, you are in the 3D world of holiday celebrations. So you feel alone if you have no celebrations to attend. And overwhelmed if you are participating. Of course, those statements are broad generations, but both affect more humans than not.

It is time for you to decide what is best for you. Even though we discussed that concept before, we did so with a gentle nudge. Now your inner-being is at the forefront of your decision making. So if you betray your new being by pretending to be someone you are no longer or never were, your inner-being will rapidly shift your mood from joy to fear.

Before, there were few repercussions for actions not related to your true self. You smiled and functioned like a happy being despite your discomfort with the person or activity. As you become more fully 5D, you cannot hide your discomfort, nor do you wish to. You have become a belligerent 5D entity and may not even understands yourself.

So it is you are discovering the number of falsehoods your 3D being lived daily. For in 3D, you used the charade of loving this or that, and all was well with your world. Now that you are of 5D, those same charades are no longer possible. That is unless you wish to feel heavy and uncomfortable.

In 3D, others rated higher on your pleasing scale than did you. Now that the scales are becoming balanced, you are discovering how unpleasant many of your 3D actions were. You performed those actions to please others, to increase your outer-directed power, or to harm others. None of which are joyous 5D activities.

So it is you are reassessing your actions and thoughts for you wish to feel the joy we and other channels tout as your new go-to emotion.

Instead, you are likely feeling confused, angry, frightened, and all other emotions that inform you that you are not true to yourself. Who are you is the question that keeps rambling around your thoughts and our words. For you are no longer who you were. And you are just discovering who you are becoming.

The key has been and always will be, what gives you joy? A simple concept – yet, given your 3D earth lives, very difficult. For throughout your 3D journey, you purposively lost yourself. Now that you are rediscovering your true being, you frighten yourself at times. For your inner-being is telling you to ignore this or repeat that. All confusing commands because you are not used to listening to yourself.

Of course, many of you are intuitive and may have been for many earth lives. But that intuition was most often applied to what others were feeling or potential actions. You studied others, but not yourself. Such was so for the obvious reason. If you had studied yourself, you would have discovered your inner-power. So you denied self-knowledge beyond your 3D reactions in any lifetime.

You are now discovering multiple 5D layers of yourself, which is not a little disconcerting. The difficulty is explaining your new feelings and actions to others, much less yourself. So you are experiencing emotional ups and downs as you attempt to find your new you groove. At the same time, this holiday season demands certain 3D actions that no longer fit who you are. So your disconnect is difficult as are the decisions about whether to participate in the expected holiday celebrations.

Jumping between the messages of your inner voice and those of society, all the while adapting to the energies now pummeling the earth, is heroic management of yourself. So it is your emotions are up and down and all-around. Which of you do you honor? Who you have been? Who you are becoming?

Of course, joy is the key. Your difficulty is determining that joy. Somedays, 3D expectations are joyful. Other days, those same expectations are onerous. The same is true for your new 5D actions. For even though they feel right – for example, hiding under a blanket until this season passes – it is unlikely you would feel entirely comfortable doing so.

Joy is not even part of the equation, much as is true if you have the flu. Mere existence and waiting for it to be over is more like what many are now experiencing. For you are betwixt and between. Very few times of the year demand as much 3D action as does this holiday season. Yet the energies pummeling you now are not only exhausting; they are also redirecting you to new places and times. Who are you now? And who will you be tomorrow are your concerns and your dread. Do you deny or accept the traditional holiday activities that are supposed to be joyous?

Everything will be easier in a few days. For now, do what you can when you can. Allow yourself to rest as much as possible. For your body is undergoing extreme changes. But then, such is also true for almost all you interact with. So it is that most are pushing themselves because they do not understand why they feel different. You do.

Allow yourself to be the leader in determining what you can or cannot do. Others will be relieved by your actions and strength, for they too need to rest. This holiday season has become a time of most attempting to be who they used to be and wondering why they do not feel as they have in the past. Allow them to rest, as you allow the same for yourself. Be yourself, so others dare do the same. So be it. Amen.

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December 16, 2019 at 10:21 am 20 comments

Pretending Your Life is What it is Not

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s November 22, 2019, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  Perhaps you’re fearful of interactions or reactions during this United States Thanksgiving holiday week. As with all holidays that focus on love, love will permeate the air. More importantly, what was once fearful will no longer affect you the same way. You’ve passed the mid-point between fear and joy. So it is your fears won’t materialize, or you’ll react differently.

You’re Now Learning to Expect Joy is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

This is a difficult time for many. Not necessarily because of the energies now pummeling the earth, but because of 3D expectations.

So it is many are discovering what once was important is no more. As if you have turned a corner from what you wished would be to what is. Those years of hoping this would be the year of a “Leave to Beaver” holiday season no longer haunt you.

In truth, past holiday seasons were more likely about anxiety than a loving reality. Finding the right gift. Preparing the right food. Saying the right words, so no one was upset.

Such discourse is not to negate those loving encounters throughout some or all of your holidays. But instead, to point out, you no longer need to pretend that life is what it is not.

Perhaps you spent more than expected to ensure those receiving the gift believed you were wealthier than your reality. Or your food preparation cut into your personal time far beyond what you wished. But given 3D expectations, you accepted that discomfort, to ‘properly’ celebrate the holiday.

Most of your past holidays have likely been a charade. You move this way, and I will move that way. Neither party willing to acknowledge that the gift or food portion of the holidays was as important as a loving connection.

Some of you believe our comments are jaded. Such is true to a certain extent. But then, watch as the media, your family, and friends hype the importance of two or three days beyond all other days of the year. As if those two or three days represent all you mean to one another.

Lovingly being with others is not what we are addressing. Instead, we are pointing out the falsehoods your society has perpetrated holiday season after holiday season. Until those without a family or friend group to celebrate with – most commonly with gifts and food – are somehow less than.

So it is that many of you visit with those you are not terribly enamored of or gift those you do not care about just so you have something to report to others in terms of social acceptance.

Many of you deny such statements. Not because such is not true, but because such is peeling a band-aid off a wound, you are not quite ready to heal.

New you does not need to do something because you should. Yet, many of your holiday traditions have less and less to do with who you have become. Such a thought is frightening for that means all you have come to expect, all you have declared right may no longer be.

So it is we are addressing issues you are afraid to address. Are you completing your holiday preparations in joy and laughter? Or as a ‘should’ that curtails your joy activities? A question you may not have contemplated. For to do so is to turn your world upside down – as well as that of those with whom you celebrate.

The love projected during the holiday season does increase your inner spark. But only if that love is true. You cannot manufacture love as most have attempted to do for decades – pretending that the holidays were as reported in the media and social circles.

How often have you listened to others – and your inner voice – fighting the need to shop for gifts, prepare food, send holiday cards, and generally spend six weeks or so in a tizzy just so you can celebrate a few hours? That is not to say love is never shared, but that the preparations required do not equate to the results. Why must you wear certain clothes, eat certain foods, exchange gifts, and all the other preparations during this season just to pretend love is the key element?

Yes, love might be, but why do you need to complete all of the aforementioned preparations to experience that love?

Many of you love the Thanksgiving gathering, holiday lights, cards, smells, or gift exchange. But are you doing all of that in hopes of someone rewarding you with love or acceptance; or because you wish to?

Such is the crux of this channel. Which preparations are completed with love for yourself and others? And which are you doing despite your exhaustion for acceptance from others? Who are you? What is right for you? Not your relatives, neighbors, or friends. What is right for you?

If your holiday preparations are truly a loving effort that makes your heart sing, spend as much time and energy as you can completing those preparations. But if those preparations are exhausting and overwhelming, STOP!!! That is not who you are.

Two or three days a year are not your security blanket. Your security blanket is you. If you are in joy, you are in the right place. If you are exhausted, angry, frustrated, or feeling financially drained, you are merely doing what others think you should.

As a 5D forerunner, any activity attempted because you should will be exhausting this holiday season and forever.

You are no longer a follower, you are a leader. And 5D leaders decide what is best for them. That is not to say 5D leaders are selfish, but instead that they honor their inner-being.

Believing in and following your inner voice is your holiday gift to yourself.

The energies you incorporate the next few weeks will cause you to limit your actions and activities. So it is, you will not have the energy to please others at the expense of yourself.

If you had had surgery this holiday season, no one would expect you to perform as you have in the past. Just because your major shift is internal will not make a difference for you. Allow yourself to perform those tasks that seem joyful and ignore the rest. Knowing that the significant changes you undergo the next few weeks will not be visible to others.

You have a choice. Pretend that all is well in an attempt to walk the 3D/5D tightrope, and you will likely fall into an illness or anxiety that prohibits you from performing as you have. Or honor yourself and perform that which provides joy, and is within your energy limits.

This is not going to be an easy time for many.

You are of 5D and becoming more so daily. Allow that to be. And allow your physical being to adjust without adding the holiday fever of activity you have experienced for decades. So be it. Amen.

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November 25, 2019 at 9:08 am 25 comments


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