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Your Thoughts are You

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestry

Summary of Brenda’s February 5, 2021, channeled “Creation Energies” show at Most, if not all, of your ongoing fears, are based on memories of the past. Those 3D fears, of this life or previous lives, no longer pertain as your cells have regenerated. You’re a new being in a new world. So switch your light on, just as in 3D, you switched it off to live in fear. 

“Overgrown Path or Superhighway?” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestry

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

You are rapidly moving away from group-think. So you dare to relish statements contrary to those of others. Simultaneously, you feel the need to fit within society by not straying too far from the center.

You want to be both independent and part of a group. Such will happen. Your radical utterances or thoughts will be savored by those who think similarly about a particular topic. You will not be the outcast you most likely have been in this lifetime or others.

At the same time, you cannot continue to believe you must be like others to maintain certain relationships or friendships. You no longer have to walk emotional/belief tightropes to retain friendship, love, or familial closeness.

Many of you respond you must do so to for employment or a relationship. Believing that is merely a 3D need to be with the right people or lifestyle. You no longer need to play the game of placating others to maintain a certain relationship or lifestyle.

Your fear is that speaking your every thought will cause you to be ostracized, one of the gravest 3D punishments. For such most likely happened to you on more than one occasion throughout your 3D earth history. The emotions tied to that ostracism are easily re-discovered as soon as someone looks at you oddly following a statement or action.

While it is true that it seems easier in 3D to fit in, your new world is turning that concept upside down. It is the rebels, the unique thinkers and actors, who will be valued. Group-think and action are no more.

Even so, you continue to define within yourself what you are willing to risk in outward words and displays. Your inner thoughts are you. Not the words you use to make sure no one’s feelings are hurt, but instead what you are sensing and feeling.

Some of you will respond that this is a time of word correctness. That certain actions and words might be inappropriate in certain groups. Such is true. But if such is true, you are in the wrong group.

In previous messages, we have relayed that you will flit from group to group as your thoughts, interests, and actions change. It is time to start flitting. And the only way you can safely do so emotionally is to tap into your thoughts to find your group or groups.

You will likely not remain within most groups for long periods. Flitting is the correct word for you now and perhaps forever. You are discovering yourself, and to do so, you must test many thoughts and actions.

Your 3D life was about curtailing your actions. Perhaps a 3D model might be someone who wished to become a landscape artist, but his or her family forced them into business because that family believed no one makes money as an artist. Something similar happened to Henry David Thoreau in the 1800s. He could have managed his family’s very lucrative pencil factory. Instead, he opted to create materials that have changed humanity. So it is for you now.

Uniqueness is now valued instead of negated, as has been true throughout your 3D existence. And that uniqueness will be rewarded exactly in the ways you accept and/or anticipate. If you believe and know that you are to be unique and wealthy in whatever monetary system is created, you will be. If you wish to be famous but continue to live a quiet life, you will. And if you wish to live a peaceful life in the country without any notable creations, you will. The difference between 3D and beyond 3D is not only can you create the life you want, but you will do so.

In 3D, many how-to books and materials were available about becoming wealthy, productive, or famous. All based on how someone else succeeded in whatever field you wished to succeed. You followed their dictates, thinking that if you did so, you would achieve your desired goal. Never realizing that they achieved what they wished to achieve because they were called to do so, but you were not.

ThreeD was about following. Beyond 3D is about unique independence.

You will flit from group to group or interactions with one person as you discover your true joys. Something you have yet to discover. That is why during this COVID downtime, you are losing interest in activities that sustained you before this downtime. And why you are feeling restless, even anxious.

You are a new being with new skills and interests. Many of which will not be compatible with the interests of your former or even current friends and relatives. 

You are a new being in a new world – discovering who you are minute-by-minute. Allow that to be. Allow yourself the same freedom you allow infants their needs only to watching that same child crawl, walk, run and eventually leave home: a child who has different friends, activities, and food interests with each physical shift.

You are a new being in a new world, discovering new thoughts and actions daily. Allow yourself to revel in your evolution. So be it. Amen. To receive Brenda’s Blog, please click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her “Blog & Subscribe” page and then click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation. Or subscribe via

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February 8, 2021 at 9:43 am 24 comments

From Emotional Upheaval to Discovery

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Summary of Brenda’s August 4, 2017, channeled 15-minute “Creation Energies” show at En masse, you’ve decided to emotionally transition from eons of pain, anger or fear to joy. So it is you’re in an emotional gray period – feeling fear or sadness unexpectedly and perhaps giggly joy inappropriately. From this emotional place, you’ll transition to joy, knowing joy is your emotional future with a bit of unremarkable fear here and there – just as you once experienced 3D joy.

“Fear Addiction” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Many of you are confused by the emotions you are experiencing. At times, you even seem to react opposite of your emotional comfort zone.

You are drifting from one unusual reaction to another – worried that your ‘normal’ demeanor has slipped away – trying to return to your expected self to little avail.

“Who am I?” has become your frightened cry, even though your new emotional reactions are erasing many of your past fears.

The unusual emotions you are experiencing now are part of your transition, but not necessarily you. If you were an actor, you would test many roles until discovering the roles that best match your personality whether Shakespearean or comedic. Likely discovering that even though you could perform all stage roles, not all roles were comfortable.

Your current emotional shift is on two levels. You are testing yourself because much of your pre-transition personality was developed for comfort in 3D society. In addition, your emotions are fluctuating rapidly for you are shifting your emotional repertoire to a standstill before selecting the emotional scale that best fits your personality in this new world.

If you were a 3D emotional caretaker, you might have adapted a happy and light personality to counter balance fears in your immediate world. And the same is true if you were frightened or angry much of the time.

So it is that you have adapted your persona to blend most easily in your world. Perhaps your family was so dysfunctional in 3D terms you felt the need to become the pinata of that dysfunction, or unnaturally cheerful, or pretending to yourself and others that there was nothing amiss with your family dynamics. Even though there were many other roles you played within your eons of 3D life, those three were likely most dominant.

You performed for society instead of acting on your true emotions. And so it continued lifetime after lifetime as you internalized more fear with more roles to counter those fears.

You are now reviewing the roles which were most beneficial in your various 3D earth lives – and those also in your new you comfort zone.

You might believe you would be most comfortable with ongoing sparkling joy and giggles, even though such is not necessarily true. As occurred in 3D, each of you will select the persona that best suits you. The difference is that your new role or persona will be based on your inner needs instead of outer dynamics.

Perhaps such a thought is confusing – even frightening. Does such a concept mean you will not be joyful? Not at all. Instead, that you might feel joy within as you invent an object – or choose to laugh a great deal every day. Which is little different from determining stage actor comfort roles.

You will finally be you – not a caricature of you as has been true in the past. And to discover that you, you are sifting through your false emotions of 3D and 5D or beyond.

So it is you will likely experience great emotional fluctuations the next few days as you find your true self – not the self you created as a result of your environment, but the self that is joy within your being.

Perhaps you have dreamed of becoming a giggly self as is true of some children – but not all. It would behoove you to observe the variety of personalities displayed by a group of toddlers. Some are giggly, some are sober as they learn a new activity, and others are enchanted with their current interest.

There are no shoulds in your 5D and beyond emotional demeanor. Just as there are no slots, you must fit in if you are going to interact with a specific group of people.

You are discovering your emotional comfort zone by clearing your slate of 3D and 5D or beyond expected emotions.

For you to expect that you will react in 5D or beyond as you once did in 3D is to not have thought through the logic of that concept. For your 3D emotions were based on your need to fit in, not necessarily your true self.

We venture to guess you have already discovered some roles hidden deep within you that do not feel comfortable now. So it is you are saying no to this or that reaction. At the same time, you might pine for a role that feels more comfortable as you read through your various new you scripts.

You are arriving at an emotional standstill – neither of 3D or of 5D or beyond. In a sense, as if you were between stage performances. The difference is that the role you finally select will be based on true you instead of social you. A role that will feel so right, you no longer need to worry about what to say or do in any situation for your reactions will be natural – just as a toddler’s reactions are natural until he or she is trained differently.

So it is you are flitting through emotion after emotion, surprising yourself and those around you – much as toddlers do before they are trained to perform according to the rules of their environment.

You are clearing, testing, and experimenting as you discover emotional new you. Allow that to be during the next few days for the energies floating about are different from what you have experienced.

Even though the current energies are love energies, they are dedicated emotional love energies so that from this time forward you can tap into roles that are you – not the roles of your neighbors, family, or co-workers – finding your comfort zone as you declare your emotional self-love. So be it. Amen. If you would like to receive Brenda’s Blogs when posted, please click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her Blog & Subscribe page and then click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation.

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