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Rest

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestry Creations.com

Summary of Brenda’s December 11, 2020, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman: Throughout 2020, you’ve been preparing for 2021. December is similar to a final school exam. You’re changing rapidly in ways you don’t always understand. Unlike 3D, such changes are to be displayed with joy and pride. And the same is true as you build your 2021 structure upon your 2020 foundation. Your personal structure is a required piece of the new earth puzzle.

“Pouring Your Foundation” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestry Creations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

You are exhausted and perhaps a bit angry. This is not how you anticipated you would feel now or ever again. Even though you are prepared for your new life, you are experiencing a time between.

You are neither of 3D or fully beyond 3D. So your thoughts flow between “I should” to “I don’t want to” to “But if I don’t, will I be alone?” Frightening thoughts for many. Encouraging, even forcing you to make decisions you feel too tired to make.

You have the energy to perform a few tasks around the house or maybe greet a few friends, but not much more. Yet, you push yourself to do more, to be as you once were filled with energy and ideas.

Even though it might feel counter-intuitive, your basic responsibility now is rest. The energies floating about for the next few days will take more of your energy than you thought possible. This last month of your calendar year is a culmination of all that has happened throughout the year. The same has been true in past years – especially since you initiated your transition – but the energies of this December are more forceful and dramatic than any you have experienced while of the earth in any lifetime.

That is not to say you will become ill or leave earth because of these dramatic December energies, but instead that you will not have the energy you expect every year at this time.

Others, not awakening or awake, will pooh-pooh your need for rest. You, the party person, wanting to be home and drinking hot chocolate. You, the giving person, not having the energy to host anyone this year. So, those yet of 3D will try to force you and others into a 3D routine that is comfortable for them – but exhausting for you.

It is time to listen to your heart. Do you have the energy or the need to be the life of the party, the caretaker, the shoulder to cry on, the shopper, the food preparer, the decorator, or money giver as you have in the past? If so, that is wonderful. But if not, honor yourself. Most of all, trust yourself. 

You have transitioned beyond group think UNTIL that group think includes holiday expectations and guilt. For indeed, those used to your holiday preparations and concerns will expect you to comply this year with the added guilt of “We need you to create the bond we are used to because this year has been so uncomfortable.” Many of you will comply. Not because you want to or have the energy to do so, but because those shoulds outweigh your sovereignty, your trust in yourself.

The fear that no one will like you if you do not comply with their needs will reign supreme for many of you. Buying love through the financial or physical draining of your resources will continue until you say, “NO” to yourself and others. You can no longer be partially 3D.

This year, 2020, was your year of discovering you and what you need despite temptations to create what others need as you have done for 3D eons. 

If you continue to fulfill others’ needs before doing so for yourself, you will create emotional and physical barriers for yourself. Catering to others’ needs before yours is now similar to touching a hot stove. You will burn yourself either physically or emotionally. 

Many of you dislike that last paragraph because you believe it means taking away your freedom to be. Instead, it is creating your freedom to be. If it is your role to serve others, you will feel joyous doing so. But if the very thought feels heavy and carrying it out is exhausting or creates some physical ailment, you are, in a sense, touching a hot stove. 

You are different. Allow that thought to be. Then allow that others may also be different. So informing those with expectations of you being the caretaker or party maker may create a divide – or be completely acceptable.

It is your choice. Do you wish to sacrifice your emotional or physical health for others, or do you wish to claim yourself? The last few days of 2020 will clarify that concept for you as 3D expectations clash with your new being. Who are you? Or better yet, who do you wish to be? For this is the dividing line, many thought they would never have to cross.

Some of you are declaring to yourself that you can do holiday preparations a bit at a time and so continue to meet your rest needs and others’ expectations. So you might. But at what cost to you? That is your decision. And this is most definitely decision time. So be it. Amen.

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December 14, 2020 at 9:54 am 24 comments

You’re Starting to Relax

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s May 29, 2020, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman: Perhaps you’re uncovering a significant fear. Perhaps not. But in all likelihood, your emotional ups and downs are similar to a 3D teen. For sometimes, you react as you did in 3D and at other times as new you. Those people and things who blend with your frequencies will weather the storm with you. Those who do not will not. You’re the creator of your life – one of your current fears.

“You’re Your Fairy Godmother” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

You are shifting so rapidly that what was is no more. Of course, you are concerned about the riots, the virus, and your seemingly never-ending life changes.

But all in all, you feel as if you have a handle on your life. Something you have not felt for some time. For you can commiserate with those enmeshed in the pain of all that is happening, but you are likely observing not participating. Even though you understand what is happening, you choose not to experience it.

So it is you are starting to relax. Not in the sense of negating your surroundings or needs, but instead feeling that others can protest, worry, or test themselves. You are not interested. For you are at a different place.

You know who you are or are beginning to be. Your new entity is no longer fully part of the 3D world.

The 3D world seems to be dramatically emphasized now – as if all the pain and suffering is before your eyes. Areas of suffering you have ignored or tried to ignore. At the same time, you realize that such pain and suffering is no longer your job, your business.

You forerunners are the ones with clear heads and concise ideas. Not necessarily to save the world, but instead to live your life in comfort.

How can you live your life in comfort when so many are suffering? Such is so because you are no longer participating in the pain of others.

Of course, such a stance seems to be wrong. For are you not your brother’s keeper? In 3D, you most definitely were your brother’s keeper for clearing the pain of others was instrumental in your caretaking duties.

Those fully enmeshed in pain and suffering want you to join them. Not because you can save them, but instead, so everyone is suffering.

That last statement is difficult for many of you to understand. But then, remember your past suffering and need to have others understand you via similar feelings. And if they did not respond in kind, you searched for someone who could or would nurture you through the pain.

Such is what is happening now. Those fully enmeshed in pain and fear want you to feel the same.

Instead, you are pulling away for you no longer play by those 3D rules, nor do you have a need to suffer. You have cleared that path. As the week goes on, you will experience more of the observer role – a new piece for you. Yes, it is happening, but it is not your problem.

Many of you are feeling twinges of guilt with that last statement, for you should be protecting or supporting them even if you do not feel the need. A 3D role you are slipping away from. For you have other roles, you wish to play.

It is as if you once achieved greatness by performing a movie role only to turn down that same role after realizing you have nothing more to contribute or learn.

This is the week you begin distancing from all you once thought was imperative to contribute to either in person or emotionally.  A role that has become boring. A feeling of “same old.”

But then, this adjustment might not be as easy as you think. For your inner-being is declaring sovereignty at the same time your outer-being is clamoring for you to do something to make everything better.

Please remember that your inner-being is now your guide. So when those twinges of shame, guilt, or fear of not doing enough announce themselves via friends or relatives, know you are starting the rebuild of your structures and the world.

At the same time, you are focussing on creating a life of joy for yourself as you practice your creation skills.

Do you not see how guilt and shame might raise it’s 3D head if you are living in comfort, and the rest of the world seems to be in flames or emotional lock-down?

You are a forerunner and moved through this pain arena long ago. There is no need for you to continue. Yet, others will try to force you to do so. Which is no different than was true for many of you when you initiated your transition.

Those who attempt to return you to 3D angst will likely be some of those who tried to ignite your fears when you found your first crystal or started reading Tarot cards.

Those who are not forerunners have not understood your interests for some time. Allow that to be.

Just as you ignored their fears for you as you delved into your new being months or years ago, the same will happen now. They will catch up to you. But, for now, they need their fears to surface before they can clear them. You have completed that role.

Your new role is to follow your inner being, which most definitely includes a new life of joy. So be it. Amen.

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June 1, 2020 at 9:19 am 21 comments

It’s Time to Negate Group Think

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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s April 19, 2014 free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at  http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman: Even though you new earth scout masters may feel somewhat comfortable with pain because that is what you know, you don’t need to experience much pain for you’re more than half-way along the pain/joy continuum. Those newly awakened are requesting aid from angels, beings from other dimensions and/or anyone they can tap for help – just as you did. You’re now a co-creator with those beings you once needed to lead you to your new life/begged for help.

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for  www.LifeTapestryCreations.com: “Force is How NOT to Experience Creation”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” BlogTalkRadio.com show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Do not become enmeshed in what might happen during the energy bursts of the next two weeks. You are finding materials relaying what will happen to you – raising your expectations or fears. Or that all are affected – which is correct – but not necessarily as you expect.

You are a unique individual, as is every entity on earth. So beliefs that all will be affected in a similar fashion are illogical. The stars and you are shifting so you can claim your uniqueness. Such is not possible if you prepare yourself for a group event. April astrological events are not group activities.

Granted, more earth entities will open their hearts – even if just a bit. But how that sensation changes their life remains to be noted. Some may react in fear, anger, joy or hundreds of other emotions that are not necessarily what you experienced or are experiencing.

All of you have roles to play in this transition – and all have unique paths. So you will claim and process these new energies uniquely.You have been in group think for eons. It is time to negate group think.

There are no guidelines – especially those developed in the Old Age. We cannot tell you how you are going to change, if at all – anymore than you know. You fully accept that something may be happening to others, as well as yourself. But how you address that something is yet unknown.

Perhaps this thought is frightening for you were excited that hearts were opening – relying on your 3D model of what heart opening meant. A definition no longer valid.

This is not to frighten you, but instead for you to develop and grow as you wish.

Whenever you feel guilt of any level, know that such is part of your Old Age/3D world. For how can you feel guilt if you are creating your new path? That is similar to making an infant feel guilty for not walking when they do not yet understand what walking means.

For you to establish expectations of what you should feel during these April astrological events based on 3D astrological models is for you to feel emotions that have little to do with your path – and much to do with shoulds and have tos.

Perhaps you beg to differ – knowing that you and your friend are experiencing similar sensations during this time. Even though such may be true, it is unlikely. Think in terms of the number of experiences you have had on earth and other places forever. Then compare those experiences to those of your friend. Some will mesh, most will not. You are approaching new earth with your individuality so you can best fulfill the role you created before entering earth in this lifetime. And even that role shifted as you moved deeper into new earth.

Baby Boomers were to build a bridge to the New Age. Their children were to walk across that bridge. And their grandchildren were to destroy that bridge and live the new life. But the ever belligerent, derring-do of Baby Boomers circumvented their own predicted role. They not only helped create the bridge, but are now expecting to live in new earth during this lifetime.

No one knows how much further you will expand your creation skills in this lifetime. Perhaps these April astrological events will propel you far beyond what you anticipate. Perhaps you are in a rest period and will ignore these events for now – or forever.

Granted, hearts will be opening. But as is the case with your new unique being, no one, least of all someone outside of your being, can predict how you will shift in the next couple of weeks – much less the next few months. The energies are there and are beaming at stronger levels daily. But you do not have to jump on those beams if you chose not to, nor do you need to accept the full level beam.

Freedom to be means exactly that. Not freedom to be after an astrological or energy event, nor during. Perhaps the most appropriate way for you to approach any event from now on is to note that something is happening that may or may not affect you and to note to yourself the results. No one else really needs to know.

That last thought may appear a bit harsh. What is meant by that is anyone can predict that something is happening, but no one – including you – can predict how it will affect you. And for you to feel guilt or shame or less than because you do not feel anything or something quite different from general predictions is little different from the past when you applied newspaper astrological predictions when they fit what you already were feeling – or wanted to feel.

This is not a cookie-cutter new earth. But instead a dynamic earth that is shifting more rapidly and uniquely every day. There are no rules. There are no shoulds. There is only glorious you discovering yourself in all your brilliant beingness. Allow yourself to create the new you without parameters established by others – the parameters so important  in your 3D fear-based world

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April 22, 2014 at 11:25 am 57 comments

No Earth or Non-Earth Teacher is More Wise Than You

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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s January 25, 2014 free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at  http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman: Those dreams, visions or sudden understandings you experience about your uncomfortable feelings will likely be generated from your new segments. When you entered earth, perhaps 10% of your totality was available. Now you’re in the 40 to 60% range with more segments joining you at your invitation. The more of your totality you accept in this lifetime, the easier you will access your new earth tool kit.

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for  http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com: “Ease of Movement Beyond 3D is Your New World”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” BlogTalkRadio.com show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Perhaps you are wondering if this ‘woo woo’ stuff is real. What if this transition is another 3D illusion to maintain your beingness within a certain parameter? Yet another way of keeping you in line. Granted, the ‘bad kids’ of yesterday are being outed – but are the ‘good kids’ of today any different?

Many are now declaring that such thoughts are anti-something. But is this not something you need to explore for yourself? For indeed, if you follow others – church and government leaders of the past or new earth teachers of today – is there any difference?

If you are following anyone, including a new earth teacher, without running the information through your inner-being and adding your personal pieces to the mix, you are little different from what was true before this transition began.

This transition is a reality – as many of you can attest via physical and emotional changes. But not a mass transition of one path with only a few people having information you need for your shift. There are many who have pieces that they gladly share via the internet, books, seminars and various other multi-media formats. But those pieces are not meant to be the only information you gather. You are the one experiencing the issues important to you. So your inner directive is to only take pieces from others that will enhance the path designed by you, for you.

No one else can create your path or even an easier path. Many of you of the fast food and MTV generations, wish all to be done easily and quickly. And so it is and will be – if you take responsibility for yourself. The quick-fix gurus of new earth are wonderful role models, but they are not your guru. Even though they may have found elements right for them, you are a different individual in a different place. No one but you has the answer to your issues.

You can share, exchange, contemplate and mull over thoughts and feelings with others. But there is no shortcut to expedite your journey even though someone tells you they have all the answers. This transition is keyed into easy, but not so easy that you can take yourself out of the equation.

If you insist that all will be well as long as you meditate like Toni or follow the dictates (rule!) of a seminar created by Holly, you have not yet found your balance. This is a different Age than you have ever experienced on earth. It is not about following, it is about creating. Creating everything in your life anew – including new ways of assimilating and dispersing information.

You are familiar with the CONCEPT if it feels right, it is right for you. We are adding yet another dimension. If the CREATION feels right, it is right for you. Even though those words are not quite accurate, suffice it for you to know that you are a unique individual for a reason.

Could you create a diverse new earth if all were solving an issue in the same way? Which is little different from those Old Age authors who insist all women, Native Americans or whatever group think and act like this or that.

This transition is one of great diversity so that all your children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren will be equally comfortable in new earth.

This new earth is not about limitations, but extremely broad horizons. Such is only possible if you allow, demand and create the life right for you. And perhaps doing so by taking pieces from others – and then reshaping those pieces into a life that is absolutely correct for you and you alone. This is not a cookie cutter age. This is a free-flowing, free-design, creation of the new you.

Perhaps such thoughts frighten you. For how will you know you are creating a new free-flowing you? By the level of joy you feel. Following another’s thoughts or dictates might feel right initially, but will wear on you eventually. The new earth pieces now being shared are meant to be explored and reworked into the new you.

You will find yourself enamoured of one person’s information this week and bored the next – as it should be. For once you have gathered and reworked that information, you will move on.

This is not to say you need be ashamed of following someone for any length of time. But instead, you are following that person not to be that person, but to gather more pieces of their information for the new you. And you will just know deep within you when you are satiated with that person’s information.

You are not being chided for following the words or messages of others – that is how you learn.

Some of you believe there are many fine new earth teachers now on earth, but only those from another dimension or time are all knowing – and so their messages must be followed exactly.

Other dimension, other time teachers are no more wise than you. You are all gods and goddesses – and always have been.

You are the ones living in a 3D world transitioning into something no one on earth has ever experienced. Those observing in other dimensions,times or places cannot know what you are experiencing on the ground. So as is true for any new earth teacher of earth, information you gather from other places and times, needs to be re-worked according to your being.

You are your compass. You are your future , your past and your now. Allow yourself to remember that the next time you feel guilty for not meditating or eating the correct foods. For guilt will tell you that it is not the correct direction for you. Joy is your compass and your new inner-being. So be it. Amen.

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January 28, 2014 at 11:00 am 56 comments


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