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Stop Carrying Others on Your Path

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s August 23, 2019, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  Unlike the expected 3D aging of the physical body, humanity is now changing from the inside. Those inner changes are frightening, for they are unprecedented in earth history. You can’t yet envision humanity shifting from fear to love for most are expressing rage or fear as they do so. Even though you know what’s happening, you’re frightened at times too. 

Do You Believe You’re 3D or 5D? is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

You are shifting from acquiescing to the needs of others to informing them of your thoughts and feelings. You are no longer the agreeable mime that others want you to be.

Of course, this information is not new. What is new is that you no longer feel guilty about your truth. You no longer wonder if someone’s feelings are hurt or worry that others might not care for you if you do not participate.

So it is you are feeling feisty, adhering to your inner principles even though others might be angry or bewildered by your actions.

For eons, you have known you are powerful. But you used that power to fit in instead of becoming. You were an easy target for anyone who needed something you could or would provide as a caretaker.

Now that you are exploring your inner-power, you are a stronger, more vocal being. Someone who no longer sifts through the needs and thoughts of others before finding your voice. So it is others are surprised – and not always pleasantly so – by your new demeanor.

Those impacted by your new voice might try to return you to who you were. And that is when you will surprise yourself and others with your declaration of freedom. The freedom to be without the constraints of who others want or need you to be.

This freedom, this voice will be raw without the sugar-coating of social graces. You are exhausted by the current earth chaos. So it is you are unwilling to roll back your thoughts and beliefs to those which better suit those around you.

You are rapidly discovering that trying to fit in, to be the nice boy or girl you were trained to be, is more uncomfortable than you ever imagined. A bit like those musically inclined finding it painful when they hear the wrong note in a song.

Those around you will want you to return to the kind, gentle person with whom they have always interacted. You are the caretaker of the world are you not? For that is what they expect of you. And that is what used to give you comfort – hiding behind a false caretaking curtain as you ignored your needs and powers. A bit like Clark Kent never entering the phone booth to become Superman.

Now you superwomen and men not only want to be discovered, it is necessary that you are. For the world, the Universes are waiting.

Likely, you have no interest in saving the world. By being yourself, you are saving the world. For until you force others to take responsibility for themselves, you will continue to pretend to be someone you are not.

Humans do not change until the discomfort is painful enough to do so. If you continue to catch others when they fall, they will never be uncomfortable enough to change.

Just as it is not appropriate for you to always pick up your children’s toys because it is easier, it is also no longer appropriate to ensure that others do not fail or fall. You are only responsible for you. And the same is true for all.

So it is that you are feeling exhausted, emotionally drained. Even though your caretaking role no longer feels right, others fully expect you to continue, so they do not have to take responsibility for their actions. Imagine those following you as children wanting you to pick up their toys – just as was true for you when you started your transition.

At the beginning of your transition, you constantly asked for direction and assistance, crying out that this transition was too difficult for you to bear. We countered with, “You’re your own guru” and thousands of other words encouraging you to become you.

So it is now that those following want you to do their work for them. They will try many emotional ploys to once again ensure you are engaged in their life. For how much easier it would be for them if you guided them through the rough parts by holding their hand and using your super-duper sword of light to cut through their pain? You wished for the same throughout much of your journey. And even though we often wanted to make it easier for you, we knew doing so would merely prolong your pain.

So it is for you now. You are no longer caretakers, your brothers or sisters keepers. You are you with new powers to explore. Powers that are you being you without the filters of who society or those following want you to be.

All involved in this transition must find their own voice. Such will only happen if all are allowed to do so.

But we forewarn you that just as was true for you in your dark night of the soul and phases thereafter, those following will expect you to help them carry their burdens. That is not your role. Your role is to allow them to see and sense the outcomes of daring to be free.

You are not a caretaker. You are not their parent. You are not their guru. Your role and only role is to be free of the social and personal constraints that dim the light necessary to shine more brightly than hate and fear.

Allow those following to find their place, their joy. For their joy is no longer your responsibility even though you may have played that role in this life and many others. They must find their path which they cannot do if you carry them on YOUR path – slowing or halting your growth. So be it. Amen.

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August 26, 2019 at 10:50 am 23 comments

Whine or Create?

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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s April 12, 2019, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman: Some of you continue to search for your role in this new world. You believe you must write, lecture, or create something to shift others. Such is a continuation of your outer-directed 3D world. Your new being in this new world merely needs to be and you’ll disseminate love frequencies throughout the globe. Anyone, including media, creating outer-directed fear in your new inner-directed world will or has lost the power to do soThe next Creation Energies channel will be Friday, May 3, 2019.

“The Springtime of Your Soul” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Many of you complain to the Universes that the 5D or beyond skills we promised you are not coming to fruition, that we or you made a mistake.

Even though such is not so, that is what you wish to believe. For without that belief, you will need to expose yourself to the masses. Something you have avoided for numerous 3D lives.

For when you were still enmeshed in other frequencies and dimensions and yet of the earth, you attempted to expose your inner-powers with unpleasant results. The physical punishments you endured are rattling throughout your earth memories encouraging you to not try again.

So despite having skills that could alter your current life in minutes, you elect to utilize your 3D skills.

Those who care for infants or others who cannot care for themselves will shift in time as those caretaking responsibilities change or you move to another phase. You are in a brief holding pattern.

Today, we address those afraid to move beyond their 3D world despite 5D or beyond skills. You fall within this grouping if you feel guilty, sad, or angry reading that last statement. For you remain fearful of exposure even though you have adjusted your being for eons to do so during this earth life.

You are the 5D beings complaining about how difficult your life is and that if only this or that happened, you could fulfill your role. Much as you did lifetime after lifetime in 3D. Blaming anyone but yourself for your seeming failures or anger.

Blaming others is a 3D response that is playing out dramatically now. For just as outer-directed power is failing, so is the ability to blame others. As one of your 60s and 70s earth comedians proclaimed over and over in jest, “The devil made me do it.”

If you crossed the 5D Rubicon – and you did – to create what you want when you want it – and you can – how can you blame anyone for your life? Yet, throughout 3D earth society, blame is attached to everything from the stars, to neighbors, political leaders, the times, the media, and on and on.

You perhaps think that others not yet of 5D or beyond continue to be enmeshed in 3D beliefs, actions, and blame. Such is true. But you are not among that group. So there is no reason for you to fall into the blame game – even of yourself. For your new standard, your new direction is of acceptance and love.

Such does not mean you must commiserate with those who remain of 3D or even attempt to understand their need for blame and shame. For you are no longer of 3D in any form including blaming others for your life. You are free.  A freedom that carries responsibility for yourself and your feelings.

You cannot believe life is acting upon you and yet be of 5D. If you have responsibilities you feel are cumbersome, how are you changing your approach to those responsibilities or the responsibilities? You have the skills to do what you need to shift your life from fear and blame to selfhood.

But to do so, you must claim your being in all its glory. No more do you need to complain or whine that your life is not as wonderful as you would like. No more can you blame others for your discomfort without some sort of uncomfortable result attached to that blame. And no more can you expect someone to rescue you for you do not need rescuing.

Such is why we of the Universes no longer whisper in your ear to do this or that to fulfill your dreams for you are more skilled than are we because you are of the earth during this transition – something we have not experienced.

Of course, we follow you and provide you with comfort, but we no longer have the ability to direct you as we did when you were of 3D.

Think of us as your earth great-grandparents and you as a middle-aged adult with adult children. There is little we, as earth great-grandparents, can offer you other than love and ongoing support. For your world is very different from what we experienced decades earlier.

You are the ones forging ahead in a new world with a new being.

You are creating a new earth with new directions and new beings. Something many of you forget in your attempts to marry 3D, 5D and beyond.

The one piece that cannot be shifted or even negotiated is that you are responsible for you – not any guru, family member, community leader, politician, or governmental body.

Who are you? Not who you should be or who others think you are, but who are you? The you responsible for your actions and reactions. The you responsible for your growth and evolution.

Do you wish to remain of 3D fear? If so, continue to blame others and whine about your life. Do you wish to claim your 5D and beyond being? If so, proclaim yourself free of others’ actions, reactions, shoulds, and have tos.

If something in your life is not right, change your actions, perceptions, needs, or direction. This is your time of finding joy.

Joy cannot be found through or by others for it is your joy.

Some of you whine (and whine is the correct word) that you are so enmeshed in a group, family, or other activity that you cannot release yourself. Ah, and so it is you refuse your creation skillset.

You are a creator of the first degree. Not only of multiple frequencies and dimensions but of new earth in a new being. You have prepared for eons. It is time for you to fully accept your power despite your fears, angst, and your 3D need to blame anyone but yourself for your life.

You are a magnificent creator being. It is time to accept and explore that part of your being – something you cannot do until you accept yourself and your power. So be it. Amen.

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April 13, 2019 at 5:32 pm 19 comments

Why is Receiving a Dirty Word?

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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s December 28, 2013 free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman: It’s time to balance your giving and receiving equation. In new earth, you’ll love yourself as much as others. No longer will phrases like, “He’d give you the shirt off his back” be appropriate or even understandable.

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for  http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com: “Merry NEW Holidays to Us”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” BlogTalkRadio.com show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

We wish to direct your attention to receiving for many of you are not comfortable with that aspect of your being. Perhaps you feel guilty for not giving more during the holiday season to family, friends or charities. As if by spending or giving more all that is not right in your life or someone else’s will be better.

But we venture to guess that few of you feel guilt about not receiving more. The thought of wanting more is what makes you feel guilty.

You have learned to give is divine.

There are few phrases encouraging you to receive. Oh once in awhile, you might read that being thankful for what someone gives you is appropriate. But asking for something is seldom correct in your society – the word selfish is most often used.

Asking for something and truly expecting it to materialize likely ended in childhood when you realized there was no Santa Claus other than yourself.

How many of you spend more than you intend for others during the holidays? Those same thought processes seldom apply to you. Even though you buy items you need or want, most often you do so with thoughts of your budget, if the item is really needed and/or similar filters.

Your media, friends, family and community constantly remind you how “right” giving is – even describing how wonderful you will feel when you do so. And perhaps you do. But receiving does not warrant a similar emphasis in your 3D world.

Giving to others – individuals or organizations – while denying yourself, is the 3D model.

Perhaps such a statement makes you angry for giving does make you joyful. If such is true, this channel is not addressed to you for you have found a source of joy.

But those who give because they should or because of guilt are neither giving nor receiving.

In new earth, all interactions are shared. You receive as well as give. Therefore, learning how to joyfully accept and expect receiving is an extremely important self-contained lesson.

As a child, did you think it was wrong for you to be fed and cared for? At what point in your earth life did receiving become wrong?

AH. Now you are understanding. Giving and not expecting anything in return is a care taker stance.

Did you not care take your children when they were young? But at the same time, did you not expect rewards such as watching your child take their first steps or those little arms wrapped around your neck in love and joy? You and your child experienced a sharing relationship.

But if that same child continues the need to be cared for as an adult despite responding to that care taking with little more than, “Is that all there is?” the relationship is not a sharing relationship. It has become a care taking/victim relationship.

Perhaps you believe you will receive in the future or it is a pay it forward type process. Such is well and good if it is true. But the reality most often is that you are giving or care taking with little expectation of receiving. And at some point, that care taking becomes victimization.

Now you are concerned that we are shifting your thoughts to a selfish mode. So we are.

Selfish is a bad word in your current vocabulary – and giving is a word that is so right. But right for whom? Right for you to give all you have to someone who could create what they need? Right for you to take away their innate powers by constantly showing them you are wiser and better?

Have you asked yourself similar questions before donating your time or money? How do you view the objects of your generosity? As poor them. Or as someone who just needs to be reminded of their powers?

Some of you have adult children or friends living in your home. Is it a sharing relationship or have they reverted to the childlike stance of, “I must be taken care of even if it means you are impoverished for I am the important person in this relationship.”

Please know that, if you have not already experienced it, an emotional shift is occurring.

Perhaps initially it was right for you to care take your adult child or friend. But some how that relationship deteriorated to the point that your life revolves around their needs.

The same has happened with charities and churches. You barely have enough to pay rent, yet you feel guilty when you do not share with those in need.

You are in need now – emotionally and physically.

For you are restructuring your inner-being including learning how to receive. And as you do so, it is likely you will be exposed to feelings of guilt for not giving enough – financial or emotional care taking.

As earth shifts to love, those who wish to remain enmeshed in fear will do whatever it takes to continue a fear-based world. The same is true for care taking. As you remove yourself from a care taking equation, those who were comfortable with or expected your care taking will attempt to return you to that life.

But as you transition to love and joy, you are removing your care taking elements. One of which is, “Giving is divine.”  Your new mantra is, “Sharing is divine.”

Sharing is a joyful win/win situation for all.

Yet those used to being taken care of will fight to maintain those 3D care taking beliefs. A bit like your toddler insisting he needs his bottle after he is capable of drinking from a glass. It is time for you to say, “No” to yourself and others.

Only with sharing will you experience the joy of your relationships. This is new earth. So be it. Amen.

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December 30, 2013 at 11:54 am 30 comments


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