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Are You Gifting Everyone But You?

 

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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s December 19, 2014 free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at  http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  “Is that all there is?” might be your theme this holiday season. Your new 3D segments don’t understand holidays to the depth you do after decades of celebrating. Your new totality is somewhat bored by holiday expectations – and much more interested in dimension hopping, frequency shifts and time travel than the required roles of the season. You know deep within your being that you no longer require special days with special rituals created by your 3D world to feel love and joy.

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for www.LifeTapestryCreations.com: “Saviors are SO Yesterday” 

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

This holiday season may be difficult for you. Not because you are not filled with love, but that society dictates what you should feel and do.

This is likely the last holiday season that 3D shoulds invade your being to this extent.

Some of you have moved beyond expectations and rituals created in your 3D world. Others of you continue to struggle with a continuum of shoulds from: “I wish I could share this loving season with someone.” to “Why do I play roles I don’t believe in?”

It is not bad or wrong to express love during this season – if you truly feel it. But to create sensations just because you should is confusing for many. You have moved beyond most of your 3D shoulds and beliefs and yet, this season pushes you into your old life.

This is indeed a wonderful season for love is expressed and shared in many ways. But this season lasts just a few days. The societal message is that you should turn on a love button during this season and not be that concerned or interested in love the remainder of the year.

Perhaps this is a harsh assessment for some. For you love the holiday baking, shopping, tree trimming, candle lighting and loving get-togethers.

Yet, love does not reign for others during this season. You feel a duty to bake, cook, decorate, purchase, gather with family and friends, maintain your 3D existence, as well as adjust to Universal shifts. It is too much. You are on overload and cannot wait until the holidays pass. You are not sharing a loving experience, you are merely sharing another 3D work experience. You should do this, feel that and remember everyone but yourself.

It is time to also gift yourself.

Perhaps such is not possible this year for you have already committed beyond your energy levels. This is the last year you will do so. For the shifts of the next few months will pull you further from 3D thoughts and obligations.

You have recently welcomed new segments into your being who wish to experience your 3D world. By doing so, the remainder of you is better able to play with new frequencies, time travel and dimension hopping.

By this time next year, your 3D segments will have adapted to new you and there will be little need to feed the shoulds of your 3D world.

But for now, for this year, your new 3D segments are confused and dismayed. They are not certain how they should act – pieces of this holiday season do not seem harmonious. Why are you expected to give money to others during this season and neglect them the remainder of the year? Are you giving gifts, time, energy and money because you should or because you feel joy doing so?

Your new 3D segments are bathed in love. So this ‘hit or miss’ holiday season does not compute for them.

And as the remainder of new you is called back into your 3D being to explain and coach, you are frustrated and not a little angry. The net effect is not necessarily one of joy, but of shoulds and have tos.

Such is not true for all. For indeed, many of you have cut back or cut down on your holiday festivities. Others of you have designated this time to share love.

But to believe that as a loving soul you must give and give, is to revert to 3D thinking – where giving is divine and receiving is selfish.

The new you – including your new 3D segments – wishes to share love.

Even though for some such has always been their holiday experience, many find themselves so exhausted, financially depleted or angry that it is not a season of love, but a season of shoulds. Give. Give. Give.

Few have yet addressed the complete continuum of giving and receiving.

But then, this is most likely your last year of emphasizing giving and ignoring or negating receiving. Claim yourself and your worth. And so you shall more and more with every passing day.

This holiday season is the cap as it were, the closure of 3D shoulds you have accepted for so long. So be it. Amen.

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December 21, 2014 at 9:26 am 17 comments

How Will NEW YOU React This Holiday Season?

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Summary of Brenda’s November 21, 2014 free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at  http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  You’ll probably experience less trauma or sadness this holiday season. Perhaps you have experienced headaches, a lack of joy or energy, the last few days. Such is probably part of your transition, just as was true in adolescence when you welcomed your shift to adulthood, but had some emotional/physical shifts to adjust to before becoming a young adult.

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for  www.LifeTapestryCreations.com:  “You’re a Beacon – Not a Rescue Boat”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Perhaps you have many memories – both good and bad – of this family holiday season. How will new you react the next few weeks?

Will you wish to be surrounded by those you love? Will you prefer being alone? Will you accept whatever your family or friends wish to create? Or will you create new holiday traditions? All questions pointing to your discomfort with what should or should not happen in your heart during this season. And fears of Christmas or holidays past.

Your society trained you to create feelings you may or may not feel. Love is in the air – love created by society for this season. Even though you are a new being with new beliefs, your societal demanded heart actions are difficult for many of you to ignore.

It is as if the world conspires to insist you open your heart for a few hours of a specific date.

Your heart no longer functions as in the past. You may feel great love for a friend, relative or community based on celebrations. But you could as easily feel little or nothing – and become concerned as a result.

When you review your belief patterns, you most often shift your perceptions to better fit new you. But even new you probably has difficulties switching off expectations or fears when  surrounded by those insisting you experience an activity as dictated.

You are no longer of the norm.

But then, you are not so strongly enmeshed in your new being that you can easily brush aside society’s expectations – including new earth friends. Do not most, no matter what new earth stage they are in, continue to wish you happy holidays, prepare special foods and exchange gifts? Indicating that a day or days of your calendar year – a calendar created by your 3D world – has significance for new you.

Indeed this season might have significance, but somewhat different from the past – including healing or ignoring family wounds, creating new rituals or returning to rituals. You cannot be a new being and observe the same rituals with the same feelings as in the past.

Do not be surprised, confused or angry with yourself if you feel little or nothing. If past rituals seem somewhat boring – or if they have different or more significant meanings. You are a new being with new needs.

Such shifts do not make you a callous or bad person, merely a different person. An entity you are learning to love with your entire being – allowing yourself to be as is right for you this holiday season. Does this mean you might skip a family or friend gathering or be bored with something that once warmed your heart? Yes. You are new you.

Perhaps you will revisit rituals to determine if they are of your new being or pieces you no longer wish to continue.

Allow yourself to experience what your being wishes to experience.

What is right for you? That is what you will experience this holiday season.

Must you share your experiences or feelings with others? Must you tell those ‘not in the know’ how ridiculous celebrating a holiday created by humans, but not necessarily felt by any or all, is? Of course not. This is YOUR new you – not anyone else’s. Perhaps your best friend will find joy in rituals you ignore. Perhaps your heart will open on a specific day given that society is stressing love during this season.

It does not matter what others are or are not feeling. All that matters is you know what you are feel/sense/wish to experience.

Perhaps you will wish to experience something entirely different the next holiday season. Such is well and good. There are no rules in this transition – other than learning to love yourself and to express that love with your beacon of light.

This is an easy transition, if you will. Shoulds are minimal. Love, miss, ignore or deny your earth family if you wish. Ignore, glory in or deny this holiday season.

This season is no longer a societal or religious season, it s a personal season of joy. What gives you joy is your only guidance. Not what the media tells you that you should feel. Or what your culture tells you that you should celebrate. Or how your family dictates your celebrations.

It is your personal holiday season. A season created for you, by you and evolving rapidly as new you becomes dominant in your earth being totality .

How will society react to this rebel in you – if that is how you decide to react this holiday season? It does not matter for all of earth are of new earth. Some shining their beacons of light. Some preparing to shine their beacon. And some refusing or frightened to do so for reasons you may never understand. It does not matter for even though you are one, you have a specific role to play.

Think of yourself as a hair cell and your family a nail cell. Do your toenails fall off when you cut your hair? Or do the two separate cell groupings function as unique entities until your being sends a message to the contrary that affects your entire physical body? So it is that this and all following holiday seasons are unique self-exploration adventuress – no different from selecting a new hairstyle.

Perhaps you are concerned your family or friends will not accept new you. Such might be true – especially during this holiday season. But that is not your concern. For they are not tasked with learning how to love you – you are.

So allow yourself to be in all your totality – most often easier in non-holiday seasons than those days and times of societal expectations. So be it. Amen.

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November 24, 2014 at 11:03 am 20 comments

Merry NEW Holidays to Us

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Summary of Brenda’s December 22, 2013 free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman: As was true in puberty, you’re changing hourly. Those people you might not enjoy today, may feel right tomorrow. All entities throughout the globe are evolving even if they elected not to be part of new earth. As was true for most in puberty, there are no earthly parents encouraging you to be. Your higher self, inner-being, spirit guide, angels, etc. are functioning in that role during this transition. 

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for  http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com: “Join the Sparkle Fest”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” BlogTalkRadio.com show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

This is indeed a glorious, loving time of year – not for all, but for many. Your media, religions and society explore love in many ways from charities to media presentations to joyous get-togethers of family and friends. All with expectations of love. Of course, those love sensations are rapidly discarded with thoughts of your New Year’s revelry.

Your Old Age love fests are portioned. Today I feel it – tomorrow love of all is not that significant. Such should tell you that those love celebrations were created by your society. Does that mean you will experience Christmas spirit (whatever that means to you) throughout the year in new earth? No more than all will dye their hair red.

In new earth, you can maintain the Christmas spirit throughout the year – or never. There are no shoulds.

But without shoulds or time set aside for love and companionship, how will you navigate new earth? What if you feel like celebrating in March and your loved ones in December? Will you celebrate once, twice or not at all?

Only you can answer that question. But just as all structures are shifting, so is it true for your society driven celebrations. Many of you are pining for the Christmas or holiday season of your youth. And believing that without a central celebration, life will be mundane – even if love is celebrated throughout the year.

Perhaps you have images of angels floating around sensing the same feelings day after day as they help you or whoever requests assistance. That the life of angels is fairly boring – not something you would apply for. Such is not the case.

Suffice it to say that the angels you believe you understand are beyond your current comprehension levels. And so it is for the new earth you are exploring and creating.

This is indeed a time for celebration for you have moved beyond the half-way point in your Old Age/new earth continuum. You are sensing new pieces and receiving new blessings from one another and the Universes. At the same time, you are of earth – just as you declared you would before your entrance to earth in this lifetime.

Perhaps you thought your holidays would not change. This is not a partial shift.

What will holidays be like in the future? What do you want them to be like? They are your holidays. Can we guarantee that Christmas or this holiday season will withstand the structural shift? No. Not anymore than was true when pagan rituals were incorporated into religious holidays eons ago.

Your holidays are not Universal holidays. If they were, there would be no change. Your holidays were created by your society for a specific reason.

If all entities are inner-directed, how can you join others in a central celebration? How indeed?

Is a central celebration important to you? If so, you will continue to celebrate as will others who feel the same. Is Christmas a day to reflect? If so, you will continue to reflect as will others who feel the same. Is Christmas something to be avoided because of the pain associated with past celebrations? Then you will disassociate more and more with holiday thought processes – or create a different experience.

Perhaps you cannot understand how such diversity allows you to continue your life of expectation and joy. For the Christmas/holiday season has been the highlight of your year. What you are feeling is little different from what was felt by those who left their small town wondering if they would ever find new friends. Only to discover that their new connections were as loving – only different – than was true for those who had known them since birth.

You no longer expect to live your entire life in the same house where you were born.

Your holidays are shifting, just as are you. Who are you? What do you wish to celebrate and when? You will find others who join you in those celebrations. There are many levels to the word ‘community’ in this new age. Levels you have not yet begun to contemplate or create.

Will all happen within the next year? No.

This shifting of your outer world will happen in stages, much as has been true for your inner-being.

Is it likely that Christmas will not be celebrated throughout the globe in your lifetime? Maybe. But it is more likely that phasing out some celebrations and creating new ones will happen more gradually than is true for many structures.

You will change those structures that are painful before those that no longer ring true for you.

If you are mourning the thought of the Christmas/holiday season evolving into something you are not comfortable with, remember that some of you celebrate Christmas on the 24th, some the 25th and some a few days before or after – depending on your interests, family history and travel needs.

You have already shifted your holiday – you just do not perceive that such is true. For indeed, before your society became one of rapid travel, the thought of celebrating before or after the holiday was not a consideration. Christmas Eve or Christmas Day were the days.

As you life shifts, so will your holidays and the sensations attached to those holidays. You are creating the world that is right for you. Do not mourn that which was created for everyone. So be it. Amen.

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December 23, 2013 at 12:14 pm 18 comments

Holidays – Another Should?

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Special Event: Brenda is a featured guest this week of BlogTalkRadio.com/DoubleDutchRadio – the Netherlands based Internet show of Lucas2012Infos.WordPress.com.

Summary of Brenda’s November 19, 2013 free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman: The goals of last week’s vehicle creation exercise was a reminder that creations aren’t permanent and you can create in whatever medium you wish. Your child-self used to create with freedom and joy. Your adult dreams are often encased in shoulds. Your new assignment is to create in your mind your most joyful Thanksgiving or special day.

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for  http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com:   “Between Comfort Zones and Fear”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” BlogTalkRadio.com show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

The media, your community and family encourage you to believe that most, if not all, of your friends, relatives and neighbors are enjoying a loving holiday season, that all is wonderful in their lives.

Such is not the case – but deep within the recesses of your being you feel as if it is. Your belief is that you and you alone are wondering where love and joy is.

Even though you might have moments of joy and love throughout this holiday season, you do not seem to have the level of joy others are displaying.

Perhaps it is difficult for you to decorate, shop and prepare to host or take part in holiday festivities. It is as if you are watching from the outside wondering why you feel little or nothing. Or a dull ache of loneliness as others laugh and party their way to the new year.

Your sense of not fully participating in festivities is more about your transition than loneliness. You have detached from friends and relatives in small and large increments. Somewhat like a being from the outside looking in. Perhaps an old-fashioned snow globe is an apt analogy – the kind you shake so sparkly snow falls upon the little village or house within. Even though you enjoy the effects of the globe, you are not in or of the globe.

Your joy is shifting to different places than the somewhat hollow joy of the traditional holiday season.

Perhaps the phrase, ‘hollow joy’ is not appropriate for you love family gatherings. So you might and so you can. But many of you feel less joy than before, or wished you felt, as you participate in this year’s holiday festivities.

Your Old-Age joy was condensed to a few days near the end of the year and labeled the holiday season. Even though there were other holidays and gatherings, those gatherings were not featured throughout your society as is true for the last few weeks or first few weeks – depending on your country of origin – of the calendar year. According to society myth, anger and fear disappear once the holiday season begins only to be replaced with a loving need to give to others emotionally and physically.

That myth was never accurate for many – and is especially not accurate now.

Perhaps you used to enjoy the holidays. Perhaps they were a respite from family disagreements. Perhaps you were alone and lonely. Perhaps you felt harried and confused. Perhaps you tried to enjoy the holidays for others. Perhaps you enmeshed yourself in the love and joy that seem to permeate your world during this period. You always felt something because your society set an extremely high emotional bar for what you should feel.

You may feel little or nothing this year. You might enjoy the company of family and friends – or not. But most likely, you will not muster the energy of joy, fear, anger or disdain that carried you through previous holiday seasons.

You have not become a zombie, Instead, you are declaring yourself independent of society dictates. You are reclaiming your right to be.

That does not mean you must stop loving during this time or that your love is limited to a day or two a year. But instead, that you are beginning to feel holiday joy throughout the year. No longer do you need to have a few days a year set aside for love. No longer do you need to care for others or to be nice so others can enjoy the holidays.

You are not tied to society shoulds. You are a free agent.

If you wish to share holiday joy, please do so. It is indeed a lovely time of year for many. But do not be pressured into feeling something that is society driven – whether joy, angst or sadness. It is not your holiday season, it is society’s holiday season.

Your new holidays are every day you wish to experience joy. Create festivities that fit your joy, interests and needs.

In the Old Age, joys were limited to a few days to help you remember what joy was – a dictate that was only appropriate if you felt joy. Many of you were depressed or sad because your (society) expectations did not meet your reality.

You can now declare “the king wears no clothes.” That the hype around the holidays may be wonderful for some, but not all. That it is perfectly appropriate to not celebrate the holidays, to do so in a different way or to shift the shoulds to fun.

Holiday shoulds are no different from any other should. They were designed to herd you into a pen of assimilation.

Perhaps you feel this message spoils your holidays. Such is not true. We are merely pointing out that some of you are preparing for the holidays with dread, sadness or feelings of “just more work.” None of which speak to joy.

Why are you not encouraged to feel holiday spirit in March or August? Why are holidays limited to a few days each year?

Of course there are holidays throughout the year with different feelings of joy perpetuated by your society. But because you should feel joy on a specific day does not mean you have to – you can feel loving joy when you wish.

As you distance yourself from your 3D world, you will find it more difficult to feel what society tells you that you should.

Perhaps you are now feeling sadness or loneliness when none is warranted. You are creating a new life of joy not encased in society shoulds – including holidays and other occasions.

You are free to declare joy when you wish. The same is true for sadness. Your new feelings are generated from within you – not society. Review your joy and sadness to discover their origins – society’s or inner-directed?

Do you find it delightful to shop for Christmas gifts on Thanksgiving Day? Then do so. Are you shopping for Christmas gifts on Thanksgiving Day because you are so harried with holiday preparations you need to crunch the holidays together? Then perhaps you wish to review your need to fill society dictates. So be it. Amen.

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November 25, 2013 at 3:17 pm 27 comments

Live, Laugh and Love Yourself This Holiday Season

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry Creations.com

Dear Ones,

As we move closer to the solstice/eclipse of December 21st you will note that your feelings – perhaps even your physical being is changing. You will find it more difficult to concentrate and when you are able to do so, you will find yourself thinking of many others you previously did not care for with a warmer heart. You will find yourself falling in love with yourself and thereby, others.

It is true that some of you reading this material may not change in the least for you have already opened your heart to yourself and thereby, others.

But most will find the next three or so weeks quite dramatic. For indeed, not only will your emotions soften, your physical being will become a bit more lovely as a result. Have you ever noted how someone in the first stages of love often looks younger than had been true before? Such is what we are speaking of. For indeed, the shift has much more to do with emotions than with any physical changes in diet, exercise or even plastic surgery. Love will allow you to feel and look younger.

Again, some of you have completed this shift so you will note little difference; other than a greater than usual ability to concentrate on the tasks at hand – most notably completing your holiday preparations. Those of you who are about to go through this self-love  shift will find your world in disarray – but then, you will not care that it is so.

Do you remember falling in love? You felt light and airy – everything was beautiful and you could not wait to be with the object of your love. Apply those same thoughts to falling in love with yourself and you will see the joy and yes, silliness of such thoughts in the midst of your holiday preparations. Much of what you do during the holiday season is about making others happy. This season, your priority will be making yourself happy.

Those of you fearful of being selfish merely need to review your past holidays to determine that you have “paid your holiday dues.” You have stayed up all hours baking your cookies, shopping for and wrapping your gifts and spending money you did not feel comfortable spending – to make others happy.

Your society shifted the arena of love from loving yourself to that of giving to others at the cost of yourself. Even though many of you may receive joy in doing so, we are merely pointing out that you may have done so not because you wanted to, but because others expected it of you.

Do you really enjoy shopping, wrapping, cooking and cramming thousands of activities into a few days a year? If so, that is wonderful. You are doing what is right for you. But if you, like most people reading this message, are thinking of the holiday season in terms of deadlines, hard work and giving of yourself despite your exhaustion, perhaps you will want to review your priorities. That is what this solstice/eclipse is about.

Are the holidays to celebrate love – for yourself and others – or to show others what a wonderful person you are? In essence, to buy their love with your kindness? Are you having fun or is it a ritual dictated by society?

If you have fun with holiday preparations, very little will change. You have already determined what gives you joy. But if you find yourself exhausted and irritable year after year, you will find it difficult to focus this year.

Your being is shifting from giving all of yourself to others, to loving yourself as much as others. Does this mean you will do away with your holiday celebrations? Perhaps. But more likely, you will find yourself less willing to take part in the rituals that mean little to you and therefore, to others.

Let us explain. Prior to this year, few humans were “clear enough” to know if rituals were to please others or if they had personal meaning. Year after year, the rituals continued because they were expected. How many women breathed a sigh of relief when it was no longer their “duty” to cook and clean for hordes of guests? That is what we are speaking of. It will be as if you wake up one morning and ask, “Who am I doing this for and do I enjoy doing it?” A very simple question but one that the majority you have never asked before. Holiday preparations were your duty, your obligation –  joy had little to do with it.

Granted, joy often did arrive at some point. Perhaps when someone you love opened the “perfect” gift. Or when your child or grandchild’s eyes sparkled with anticipation. But at what cost to your well-being?

For the first time, you might question yourself. But you will do so in a fog. A bit like waking up in the morning and not being able to focus without your first cup of coffee. You will attempt to maintain your traditions, but you will have so much difficulty focusing that you will pare down your preparations to those you can do easily and effortlessly.

We have returned to joy and self-love. How can you love yourself when you have driven yourself to distraction with various preparations? How can you have fun when you are too exhausted to think?

In the next three weeks, you will question yourself repeatedly, “Why am I doing this? Who is it for?” And you will come to the radical conclusion that you may like this piece, but not that piece. You will simplify and adjust your holiday preparations to those you feel like doing, rather than the usual what you “should” be doing.

The net result will be a more loving and joyous holiday season than you have had for a very long time. For as you put yourself first, as you fall in love with yourself, you will have more to give others.

No holiday, no activity is a should. It is time for you to return to joy – which is only possible when you love yourself. It is time for you to enjoy the holidays. It is far beyond time for you to breathe a sigh of relief that you have completed your holiday rituals.

Live, laugh, love. These are the key words for your life and all holiday celebrations in your future starting with this 2010 season. So be it. Amen.

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