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Terrible Twos Anyone?

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Summary of Brenda’s May 25, 2019, channeled “Creation Energies” show at  You’ll feel less fearful the next few days as you disengage from the chaos. Feeding chaos will or has started feeling inappropriate. As you remove your light from the turmoil and display a more peaceful demeanor, others will follow your lead until those creating fear and chaos have little to attach to. So it will be that earth shifts from fear to love.

“Push or Flow? is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

How you start your day is most likely how your day will end. Words of wisdom, perhaps or perhaps not. For such words indicate that there is little to be salvaged once you become angry, frightened, or any emotion other than joy.

So it is you are in a belief pattern that has little to do with your reality. For you have been taught that you MUST feel, express, and therefore, experience ‘niceness.’

Is it not true that once you declare that you are or will be a nice person, you feel guilty when a snarky remark escapes? Not because you are a terrible person, but because you negated your niceness creed. Are such snarky statements, not your truth? And are your inner urgings now not about honesty?

At first, your honesty might go beyond what you expect. You might find yourself blurting something you are ashamed of or surprised about. Such is not terrible, but instead a clearing process to end your 3D need to sift your words through social shoulds and have tos.

Do you not expect some calibrations when you change the ink in your printer? Perhaps you find the color is too light or dark on your first attempt to print after the new cartridge is inserted. Do you not then adjust until the color or ink meets your needs? So it is for your new inner honesty.

You are not used to being honest while of the earth – even with yourself. For you have honed your words and actions to your social role.

Your anger, depression, fears, and emotional suppressions are the result of trying to fit in – verbally and physically. You have 3D roles as spouse, parent, child, community member, supervisor, leader, etc. And in the past, you performed as expected even though you did not always agree or find doing so easy.

So you often needed to buoy your spirits with self-talk like, “He’s my friend, so I will travel with him to places I don’t want to go.” Or, “She’s my child, so I should care for her no matter how she treats me.”

And if you do not perform as expected in any social category, 3D society claims the right to negate your worth. “She’s not a good friend. He’s not a good father.” Strongly encouraging you to fall into the social pattern of rightness.

You are likely starting to experience mini temper tantrums within those social interactions from “I don’t want to talk to her now, so I’m not going to call even though she told me to.” Or “I’m not going to use my one free day to take care of your needs.” And though your words might not express that temper tantrum, your tone might. For you are tired beyond tired of transitioning, as well as maintaining social mores.

You want to do what you want to do.

You are at the 5D adult evolutionary phase of returning to your ‘terrible twos,’ of stamping your foot and saying, “NO!” And not in a gentle tone.

You are exhausted trying to please the Universes, your society, your loved ones, and yourself.

You can no longer be all things to all people or beings. You are you. And you likely do not have the energy to carry anyone, no matter how much you love them or owe them. You are exhausted.

You shifted earth – for which you prepared for eons. So you could complete that task while remaining, for the most part, within the 3D world.

Your current self-love piece is more trying for you have never before attempted to fully claim yourself and so many new segments in dense 3D energies. So it is you feel, at times, as if you are in quicksand. Your loved ones are demanding this, your employer wants something different, and your society expects more. Pulling and pushing you this way and that until you finally declare, “I’m not going to take it anymore.”

Of course, the pushing and prodding is not an accident. You, en masse, created such so you would shift beyond your 3D ropes, beyond the limitations established by your past and present 3D lives. Forcing you (often kicking and screaming) to declare yourself a sovereign being following inner directives instead of societal shoulds and have tos.

Such willfulness is expected of two-year-olds, but most certainly not of the 3D socialized adult, you believe yourself to be.

But before you can fully claim yourself, you need to discover those actions and pieces that are 3D requirements. Such is what is now happening.

So it is you will find yourself saying, “NO” more often and more loudly in the most unexpected places and times. Of course, you might offend those of 3D. Not because what you are saying or doing is wrong, but because you are eradicating social mores without replacing them with others that are socially acceptable.

You are a new person in a new world. And you are claiming that new person, slowly at first, for your seeming tirades or words will frighten you as well as others.

“What if I cross the line, and no one likes me?” is a constant threat to your newness. Not because that is something you need to be concerned about, but that you are so socialized to shoulds and have tos you cannot always remember who you are.

Suffice it for you to know that you are a new being. So it is you may blurt something that surprises you as well as others, or you might refuse to do something that others expect of you. Neither of those actions is terrible for you are a new being adjusting within a 3D world.

As a new you terrible two, you only need to be concerned about how you feel at the moment. Did your two-year-old son decide to protest changing his clothes based on your needs or his?

So it is you might say something that hurts others’ feelings, not because your statement is wrong, but because you are not following the 3D should of the moment. Allow that to be as you evolve.

And allow yourself to rest for you have forced yourself to comply with both 3D and 5D demands beyond what your physical being is capable of.


Allow yourself to be – temper tantrums, shifts in actions and interests, and maybe a return to some of your 3D activities. No one knows, including you, what this terrible-two phase will shift. Just know that such is an accepted and expected need allowing you to negate deeply ingrained 3D shoulds and have tos.

It is time to be as nice to yourself as others expect you to be to them. So be it. Amen. If you would like to receive Brenda’s Blogs when posted, please click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her Blog & Subscribe page and then click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation.

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May 27, 2019 at 8:17 am 37 comments

Exposing Your Inner Thoughts

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Summary of Brenda’s April 12, 2019, channeled “Creation Energies” show at Some of you continue to search for your role in this new world. You believe you must write, lecture, or create something to shift others. Such is a continuation of your outer-directed 3D world. Your new being in this new world merely needs to be, and you’ll disseminate love frequencies throughout the globe. Anyone, including media, creating outer-directed fear in your new inner-directed world will or has lost the power to do so. The next Creation Energies channel will be Friday, May 3, 2019.

“Our New Universal Reports” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

You are no longer as you were.

Even though you have heard that phrase over and over, we wish to highlight an area you might not yet understand. For new actions and thoughts are bombarding you, as well as all those open to their new beings.

You are likely discovering you can “hear” what others are not telling you. Or you know something without words. Neither of which is any more exceptional to 5D than learning to read.

But you are discovering these skills without understanding why you are doing so or if the information is accurate. For your 3D world was a fact-based world that did not allow for in-depth feelings, sensations, or as many of you label it “woo woo” messages.

Some of you are concerned that by accessing hidden thoughts and feelings you are invading the privacy of others. We will remind you that once you or anyone crossed the 5D Rubicon, open communication became the operative interaction. So it is those you can “read” or “know” without words have either given you unspoken permission to better understand them or have accepted openness as part of their new world.

For some of you, such openness is personally frightening for you do not always know what others know about you. Throughout your 3D earth lives, you hid your inner-most thoughts and feelings from even those you loved dearly. As a result, only a small portion of who you were was available to those with whom you interacted.

So it is this openness, this honestly is a bit unsettling for you. Not because you are a terrible person, but because your inner-most thoughts have been hidden for so long. You are concerned that as a result of exposing those thoughts you will be friendless, alone, punished, sad, or any other feeling you attached to exposing your true self earth lifetime after lifetime.

You have an inner fear that true you is not acceptable, that you will be isolated even more than many of you have been the past few months.

You do not believe your emotions are pure enough, loving enough, or kind enough to be exposed to the world. So it is you are now feeling uncomfortable in many settings. Not because you are acting or speaking incorrectly, but instead that others may be able to “read” you beyond words. And no matter how diligently you try to explore your world and others in love, your 3D habits often override your 5D intentions.

Please know that all of you are learning together. And just as you “catch” yourself being more 3D than 5D in your thoughts, so are others.

Perhaps you remember how derogatory terms for races, genders, or others unlike you were often the common language for you and your friends until such became socially unacceptable. Did you not initially stop using derogatory labels because it was socially unacceptable to do so? Even though at first you believed such social reactions silly, you eventually became uncomfortable with derogatory terms because you no longer thought or acted in those terms.

Something similar is happening to you now. Initially, knowing that others can “read between the lines” in your statements will be uncomfortable – maybe even anger producing. But in time, such skills, such interactions will seem right and normal.

All of you are novices learning how to interact without words. So it is at times, others will note unloving thoughts radiating from your being, as you will note the same of them. For none of you are yet versed well enough in this skillset to interact without some discomfort and a few apologies.

You are remembering how to be free. Even though your 3D thoughts were free, that freedom cost you in terms of hiding who you truly were – for the need to fit in was more important than the need to be. Such is no longer true and will never be again. So be it. Amen. If you would like to receive Brenda’s Blogs when posted, please click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her Blog & Subscribe page and then click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation.

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