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You’re Deliberately Creating Your Isolation

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Summary of Brenda’s October 4, 2019, channeled “Creation Energies” show at  Perhaps you’re concerned about the chaos created by 3D world leaders. They’re displaying childish temper tantrums fully expecting you to acquiesce to their demands. You, in turn, merely wish to play. So it is you’ll be both the adult ignoring temper tantrums and the child more interested in play than the silliness of 3D world leaders. You’re now of the majority.

2020 Preparation is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

The phrase, “You’re not alone.” has been bantered about the past few years.  Even though we, of the Universes, are dedicated to your growth, we are not you. Nor is anyone else. So in a sense, you are alone, not in terms of your actions, but in your emotions.

No matter how many of us are of your Universal support team, you are alone in the physical world. For likely, even those you love seem to be in such a different place emotionally, you cannot understand them or perhaps, wish to be around them.

So it is you feel alone – and frightened. For you never expected to feel thus when you initiated your journey of self-love. You assumed you would be welcomed by other humans with like interests and needs. Such has yet to happen. For as you extend further from your transition start-point, you feel more alone.

Of course, we could inform you that such is a mirage that has little to do with reality. In truth, loneliness has everything to do with your current reality. Think in terms of starting a new school looking for indicators of the correct behavior and words. In this phase of your transition, there are none to observe or to place your feelings of rightness, for you are the first to enter this school. There are no others like you in this new school. So it is you try this or that outfit, mock how others act, or try to relate to no avail. For even though others think you are in the right place with the right actions and words – for you are used to 3D pretending – your inner-compass is telling you that all is not well. You are lonely.

“Did I work this diligently to be alone, to be even more isolated than I was before I started this arduous transition journey? Why am I so alone?” Questions with no answers. For you want us to tell you that friends will miraculously appear tonight or tomorrow. Instead, we must inform you that you are the trendsetters. Something that does not feel accurate now, but will shortly.

You are no longer a follower, you are a leader.

Just as was true for most who invented everything from the wheel to computers, others are perhaps pooh-poohing your new being. For you are not like those with whom they are comfortable.

The difference between you and 3D inventors is that you are more prepared for this isolation than you realize. For if you note your reactions to others, you will discover you are isolating you instead of the traditional 3D action of indicating who is in or out of society.

You are creating your isolation. If we were to tell you that all you had to do to increase your friendship base would be to fit into society, you would laugh at us. For you already know how to do that.

You no longer choose to be in the circle of social rightness.

Perhaps you remember a recent time when you participated in a social group only to discover their conversation was boring. For you are a trendsetter for the first time since you entered the earth in any lifetime.

In past earth lives, many of you played roles such as a king or queen, political or religious leader, or wealthy being, which would seem to indicate you set the social trends. We beg to differ for you entered earth in that life as an adjunct to what was in place socially. You ensured you were in the right place at the right time. For if you were to study earth history, you would discover that even though leaders were at the forefront of rightness for the times, they were not the creator of those times. They slipped into the right spot for those times.

You, on the other hand, are now creating new social mores. Not because you need or even want to, but because such is part of your role in this new earth. The current social climate does not fit your new being, as can be noted through your disinterest with most social groups.

You are creating a new society of love. Something those following do not yet understand. So at times, you will find yourself snapping at those you love dearly knowing they are soon to follow. Much as you probably did with your younger siblings who could not understand your interest in dating or activities with your friends instead of playing with them as you once did.

You are perhaps wondering what this new society you are creating will look like. All we can relay is that you are creating this society as a result of your new self-love and joy needs.

Perhaps you will seem silly or frivolous to those following until they achieve a similar growth – or not. It does not matter. All that matters is that you know you are progressing exactly as you wish, and we expected. Allowing you, even forcing you, to change the social milieu instead of changing yourself to fit in as you have done all other earth lives.

What gives you joy? That is your only guideline as you shift earth from fear to love – one day at a time. And yet more rapidly than you now imagine. For 2020 is your new life in a new world. So be it. Amen. If you would like to receive Brenda’s Blogs, please click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her Blog & Subscribe page and then click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation.

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October 7, 2019 at 10:48 am 37 comments

Surface Wounds Clear Easily

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Summary of Brenda’s November 18, 2016, channeled, 15-minute “Creation Energies” show at   The past few days were likely emotional roller coasters. Even though some of you remain enmeshed in the resulting fear and pain, many have distanced yourselves because you no longer wish to feel the depth of those emotions. You’re free to discover your path – whether creating new communities or laying in a hammock. You’ll know by your interest level – not shoulds or have tos. 

“Creating a New Global Society” is the title of this week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly, channeled blog for

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Many continue to reel emotionally following the chaos of the past few days. Do not worry for such is no longer your natural state. It might take a few days to balance yourself, but you will. For you are no longer of 3D and your step back is merely a step back not a leap. You are healing parts of yourself you did not know were wounded.

This healing phase is quite different from the clearing phase you experienced for months, years or even decades. Of course, you beg to differ for you feel uncomfortable despite the ongoing promises and prophecies of joy.

Think of this phase as a slight skin wound that never quite healed until you discovered a healing salve.

For eons, you and all members of 3D society covered up, hid and feared to address those insults, anger, slights and fears that stopped you from being yourself. Perhaps it was no more than a neighbor ignoring you, or as fearful as you wondering if you and your family would survive an earth or human holocaust.

Even though you did survive, the ongoing wound of “When will it be my turn?” lingered throughout your being. Those hidden fears you treated with band-aids are now exposed for your final healing.

Your skin wounds are surface level only. Perhaps that does not seem like much of a distinction now, but it will. As you apply your loving salve, you will be on your way.

Those who have not cleared their internal beings are in the dark night of their soul. A phase you successfully completed.

An ingrown toenail is unpleasant and most often, painful. And before that toenail is healed, it is your focus. But once you apply the correct medication, you forget the incident.

The internal fears you collected before you expunged them in this lifetime lasted for eons and affected you externally and internally. You are quite able to attend a loving party with an ingrown toenail, but unlikely to do so if you mistrust the love of those at that party.

That is the difference between a surface wound you will soon clear and a deeply held wound that impacts your being for eons.

Perhaps you cannot yet distinguish between the two for you are suffering.

Your current suffering is at a surface level and will not be something you need to address for weeks or months as was true for your eons of internally held fears.

Maybe you are fearful that the earth is slipping backward regarding diversity and ecology. Such is not true. For if you are reading this material, you have clarified within yourself what is acceptable to you. You have focussed and cleared your fears to the point where you can express your fears knowing deep within you that all is well despite messages to the contrary.

For what is happening now is not compliance, but instead, “This is not acceptable in my world.” So it is you, en masse, are focussing on what you want, instead of what you believe is.

Your current fears and anger are that all will continue as it has regarding your leaders and the earth as a whole – instead of understanding that such fear is no longer valid.

It is time for you to adjust to a new world where your past fears are no longer your reality. That is not to say that you will float above it all, as much as it is that you will discover within yourself your new being of love that will crush (Yes, crush is the correct word.) the fear that is now expressed.

You no longer need to cower in the corner telling others that he or she did this or that to me. You are different beings than you were mere months ago. And so it is even though you will sense and feel the hate, you know deep within you that is not your world for you are creating a new world.

Before this transition, the current anger and hate would have survived for decades, even eons for that is WAS your world. It is no longer. So it is that you can shine a light in those dark spaces instead of cowering in the corner.

This is a new world with new light. A light that will shine on all. And all you have to do to be part of this new revolution is to know deep within you that no one and nothing is more powerful than you.

Perhaps you feel isolated. As if you are the only one shining your light. Or as if you have no like-minded friends. Or as if you are in a country or location so filled with hate that your puny light will not make a difference. Or that you do not wish to be part of a social/cultural revolution. Or that you are tired and cannot fight any longer.

Fighting is not your role, love is. Shining your light so those out in the cold, as it were, know something else is available. Your light will touch your so-called ‘leaders’ (for you no longer need leaders) as much as the common person. Your light of love will radiate throughout the globe even helping earth move through its pain and anger.

This is a win-win time, instead of the lose-lose times you have experienced for eons. The eons of fear that placed you on an ongoing wheel of hate, fear, retaliation and then more hate.

This is a time of love despite your fears, healing those who wish to heal and allowing those who do not to continue to experience their karmic wheel of hate and anger.

We told you that your karmic slate is clean. And so it is despite your ongoing fears to the contrary. With that clean slate – once you acknowledge and heal your current surface fears – you will once again feel the freshness and joy you have already tapped into for brief periods.

This time in your society is to allow those who have not yet started their transition journey to do so if they wish. For the factors, you en masse created to ‘be in your face hatred,’ as it were, gives all a chance to determine if they will continue their life of fear and hate or emulate the love and joy that will soon return to you for much longer periods than has been true in the past.

You will discover, that the rage and fears of others does not impact you as it once did. That, in fact, it feels a bit silly. For you know who you are without anyone needing to tell you who you should be. So be it. Amen. If you would like to receive Brenda’s Blogs when posted, please click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her Blog & Subscribe page and then click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation.

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