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When Your Heart Says, “Yes” and Your Inner-Voice Screams, “No”

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestry Creations.com

Summary of Brenda’s January 1, 2021, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman: In 2021, you and others will begin heart motivated outer-actions as you shift from the intellect to the heart. Those pieces that were thought to be feminine actions are coming to the forefront. And mind-related actions secondary. 

“Adding Your Puzzle Pieces” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestry Creations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

You are beginning to align with your heart instead of your intellectual anger as you observe those who oppose you in thought or action.

Despite your need to display your outer-self love resulting from your heart opening, you must honor yourself first. For perhaps you think heart-opening means once again that others are more important than you. 

Without self-love, loving others more than yourself is merely another 3D caretaking mode with a different title. Because you were inundated with that philosophy in 3D, it is easy for you to again accept that displaying love means loving others is more important than loving yourself. Such is not true and never has been. Even so, that is a lesson some of you continue to have difficulties understanding.

Your inner-voice is your new command center. You no longer need to depend on the approval of friends, neighbors, relatives, or co-workers. For doing so is merely a replication of your 3D life.

The only approval you need now and forever is the sense of rightness you feel when your actions are from your heart, your new internal voice.

Your being is filled with personal wisdom.

But just as was true months ago, this distinction may be a bit difficult to discern as you begin to display your new heart-opening. Even though your heart-opening will be a natural progression deepening throughout this earth life, your beyond 3D need to love yourself as much as others will redirect your actions.

You are combining self-love with heart-opening – a new and somewhat difficult combination for some of you. So it is you will jump between caretaking and self-love for a bit until you find your balance. Your heartstrings will likely be pulled by those who want you to care for them despite you needing to negate yourself to do so. 

Not everyone in your sphere of knowingness has completed the transition phases you have. Those beings who have not might be in narcissistic or other self-need modes that care little for your needs or dispair. Those beings might push you to the limit to determine how strong you are in your new being. A bit like a three-year-old sneaking a cookie before dinner. Such action is cute in a three-year-old but can be devastating to you in your new, somewhat fragile open heart state.

Those who have not yet transitioned to this point will test you in every way possible, for they need your energy to continue their self-centered actions. Some might even label such actions as emotional vampirism.

You will know if opening your heart to someone is appropriate for you or merely meeting their needs by the contentment and joy you feel during and after the interaction.

You are opening your being in ways you never have before while of the earth. Doing so might attract those humans who feed off others without giving anything in return. Your need for the first few weeks of this new year is to discern which, if any of those beings, will bring joy to your being if you open your heart to them.

Many of you question the difference between 3D caretaking and this new declaration of your open heart.

You will likely be a bit more vulnerable because your internal being is opening as never before. At the same time, those who crave the need for a caretaker will be attracted to you in ways you will likely not understand. Allow yourself time to ponder their needs versus your needs. Then allow yourself to say, “No” or “Let me think about that.” or to disconnect from those beings completely.

Such will be difficult if they are family members, employers, or close friends. But remember you are on a new path with new skills, in a new earth. And everyone is evolving at a different pace in different ways.

By not allowing someone – no matter their relationship to you – to take advantage of your new heart-opening, you might be encouraging them to evolve more rapidly. Their sequence of evolution is no longer your priority or even of interest. For those who wish you to do their inner work for them are merely parasites who will never evolve if they have your ongoing support despite your needs.

You are no longer a savior of others. You forerunners completed your major earth shifting role. Your role now is similar to completing your course requirements and allowing yourself to address those fun courses that do not necessarily apply to your college major. Now, your key dynamic is self-evolution. The second and third waves following you are more likely to be transition models for those who want you to care for them without concerns about your needs or interests.

Allow yourself to evolve without feeling guilty that others are not or that others want you to do it for them. No one can transition on the backs of or through the caretaking of others. Ignoring your inner voice because you feel sorry for them or they touch your heartstrings despite your inner-voice shouting, “No!” is to delay your progress and theirs. So be it. Amen.

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January 4, 2021 at 10:01 am 22 comments

Adding Your Puzzle Pieces

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestry Creations.com

Summary of Brenda’s December 25, 2020, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman: You no longer need to “make” friends or “find” interests for you’re now a magnet attracting friends and interests to you. In the past, you likely clung to something or someone who seemed somewhat interesting because you were afraid nothing better was available. In 2021, you’ll have the confidence to let go easily as you tap into a variety of people and interests.

“Friendship Loss?” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestry Creations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

You are likely no longer comfortable being the source of others’ jokes or the instigator of downplaying others’ importance. You are discovering an inner voice that often stops you in mid-message or sentence. A voice that invalidates what you once thought or said. For you are beginning to lead with your heart instead of social norms.

Perhaps there was a time when you made fun of a certain person or action. But doing so now does not provide you with the same feeling of conquest. It merely makes you sad. For you are a different being with a different focus, and most importantly for this topic, different needs.

Your needs before your transition and the energies of this December were often to be better than others. And to project that difference, you needed to make fun of their mistakes, their being. You needed to talk down to them and about them. 

You are discovering that doing so no longer gives you the same high, the same feeling of satisfaction. Instead, doing so makes you feel different, a difference you are beginning to explore. Some of you will display those unpleasant feelings physically. Others of you will merely lose your sparkle, your sense of fun. For in the past, “getting one over someone” was fun, but it is no longer.

You are a different being. It does not matter if your former targets have changed. For you feel bad even if they have not. You express fewer negative, hurtful comments, for you no longer wish to live in that world.

Such will not happen in a few minutes or even a few days. Instead, you are shifting in that direction daily. You might still enjoy teasing someone – until you do not. We are merely informing you that new you will have different feelings and actions – from the heart instead of the mind. 

Conversations will likely be confusing for a bit because one of you will speak from your heart and the other from his or her mind. And perhaps those of you speaking from your heart will be hurt until you build your strength in that area. Similar to building your physical body at a gym, your heart instincts will become stronger the more you use them.

You will find less need to tease, to pretend something is, that is not, to spread “little white lies,” to try to be better than someone. 

In 3D, better than someone was a key survival element. Beyond 3D, following your heart is the key. You will discover interests and people that speak to your heart regardless of the panache such interests or people might have in the greater society. It will no longer matter if you are the best at something. Interest, not dominance, is new you. Something you will learn throughout 2021.

You are building your structure on the 2020 foundation you created—a structure right for you and no one else. You are beyond living for others in whatever form that takes. 

That is not to say you will be isolated for the opposite is true. As you develop and explore numerous interests, you will tap into larger and larger groups of like-minded people. The difference between doing so in 3D and dimensions beyond is you will connect with like-minded and like-hearted others.

You will have little need to compete, to outshine, to be better than. For your new interactions will be like a giant puzzle in which the pieces lock together easily and effortlessly. You might wish to explore one area of the puzzle for a bit and then move to another, only to return to the first area – or not. And doing so will not reduce your interactions or your love.

This is a new world dominated by the heart instead of the mind. Your interests will be heart-based instead of mind directed. Eliminating the need for competition, greed, or self-compensation.

Instead of a tall building of have and have-nots based on greed and better-than as was true in 3D society, your new world is a flat puzzle in which every puzzle piece is equally important and beautiful. So be it. Amen.

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Copyright 2009-2021, Brenda Hoffman. All rights reserved. Feel free to share this content with others, post on your blog, add to your newsletter, etc. But PLEASE maintain this blog’s integrity by including the author/channel’s name: Brenda Hoffman and source website link: LifeTapestryCreations.com.

December 28, 2020 at 9:41 am 20 comments


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