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Be Yourself, So Others Dare the Same

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Summary of Brenda’s December 12, 2019, channeled “Creation Energies” show at  By the end of December, there will be more earth light than darkness. Those exposing the earth’s hidden fears through manipulation, outer-directed power, and fear know their power is diminishing, causing their raging temper tantrums. Your choice is to observe those tantrums or go on with your life.

Your True North is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Perhaps you are in a “good” place, perhaps not. So many energies are now pummeling earth that most of you are likely in a topsy-turvey sense of well-being. One moment you are joyous and the next in despair.

Such is to be expected as you try to combine your 3D history with your 5D being. Despite the Universal energies, you are in the 3D world of holiday celebrations. So you feel alone if you have no celebrations to attend. And overwhelmed if you are participating. Of course, those statements are broad generations, but both affect more humans than not.

It is time for you to decide what is best for you. Even though we discussed that concept before, we did so with a gentle nudge. Now your inner-being is at the forefront of your decision making. So if you betray your new being by pretending to be someone you are no longer or never were, your inner-being will rapidly shift your mood from joy to fear.

Before, there were few repercussions for actions not related to your true self. You smiled and functioned like a happy being despite your discomfort with the person or activity. As you become more fully 5D, you cannot hide your discomfort, nor do you wish to. You have become a belligerent 5D entity and may not even understands yourself.

So it is you are discovering the number of falsehoods your 3D being lived daily. For in 3D, you used the charade of loving this or that, and all was well with your world. Now that you are of 5D, those same charades are no longer possible. That is unless you wish to feel heavy and uncomfortable.

In 3D, others rated higher on your pleasing scale than did you. Now that the scales are becoming balanced, you are discovering how unpleasant many of your 3D actions were. You performed those actions to please others, to increase your outer-directed power, or to harm others. None of which are joyous 5D activities.

So it is you are reassessing your actions and thoughts for you wish to feel the joy we and other channels tout as your new go-to emotion.

Instead, you are likely feeling confused, angry, frightened, and all other emotions that inform you that you are not true to yourself. Who are you is the question that keeps rambling around your thoughts and our words. For you are no longer who you were. And you are just discovering who you are becoming.

The key has been and always will be, what gives you joy? A simple concept – yet, given your 3D earth lives, very difficult. For throughout your 3D journey, you purposively lost yourself. Now that you are rediscovering your true being, you frighten yourself at times. For your inner-being is telling you to ignore this or repeat that. All confusing commands because you are not used to listening to yourself.

Of course, many of you are intuitive and may have been for many earth lives. But that intuition was most often applied to what others were feeling or potential actions. You studied others, but not yourself. Such was so for the obvious reason. If you had studied yourself, you would have discovered your inner-power. So you denied self-knowledge beyond your 3D reactions in any lifetime.

You are now discovering multiple 5D layers of yourself, which is not a little disconcerting. The difficulty is explaining your new feelings and actions to others, much less yourself. So you are experiencing emotional ups and downs as you attempt to find your new you groove. At the same time, this holiday season demands certain 3D actions that no longer fit who you are. So your disconnect is difficult as are the decisions about whether to participate in the expected holiday celebrations.

Jumping between the messages of your inner voice and those of society, all the while adapting to the energies now pummeling the earth, is heroic management of yourself. So it is your emotions are up and down and all-around. Which of you do you honor? Who you have been? Who you are becoming?

Of course, joy is the key. Your difficulty is determining that joy. Somedays, 3D expectations are joyful. Other days, those same expectations are onerous. The same is true for your new 5D actions. For even though they feel right – for example, hiding under a blanket until this season passes – it is unlikely you would feel entirely comfortable doing so.

Joy is not even part of the equation, much as is true if you have the flu. Mere existence and waiting for it to be over is more like what many are now experiencing. For you are betwixt and between. Very few times of the year demand as much 3D action as does this holiday season. Yet the energies pummeling you now are not only exhausting; they are also redirecting you to new places and times. Who are you now? And who will you be tomorrow are your concerns and your dread. Do you deny or accept the traditional holiday activities that are supposed to be joyous?

Everything will be easier in a few days. For now, do what you can when you can. Allow yourself to rest as much as possible. For your body is undergoing extreme changes. But then, such is also true for almost all you interact with. So it is that most are pushing themselves because they do not understand why they feel different. You do.

Allow yourself to be the leader in determining what you can or cannot do. Others will be relieved by your actions and strength, for they too need to rest. This holiday season has become a time of most attempting to be who they used to be and wondering why they do not feel as they have in the past. Allow them to rest, as you allow the same for yourself. Be yourself, so others dare do the same. So be it. Amen. To receive Brenda’s Blog, please click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her “Blog & Subscribe” page and then click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation.

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December 16, 2019 at 10:21 am 20 comments

So, What is Your Role?

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Summary of Brenda’s February 8, 2019, channeled “Creation Energies” show at  You’re talented in many areas – talents you developed throughout the ages. Your role is that which gives you the most joy within those many talents. No one but you can define or give you your role. You cannot fail.

“Followers Want Instant Gratification” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Many of you believe that all is not well in your world. That the fear boogeyman continues to hold the earth in its hands. That you are not in control of your life or your livelihood. That someone outside of you continues to pull strings making you dance to fear.

Even though the Universes have informed you over and over that such is no longer true, you see or sense little information to the contrary. So it is you wait for the earth to change from fear to love so you can understand your role.

What you have neglected to notice is that you are different from before initiating your transition in this lifetime. Likely, you are more self-confident or comfortable with your being than was true previously.

Most of you have attributed those differences to age or your freedoms from certain social interactions such as work, school, or parenting. Your changes are not about a natural relaxing once you no longer need to generate money through paid employment, completing school coursework or relief that your children are now self-sustaining adults.

This channel is about you accepting you without concerns about outside forces. A difficult concept for you to understand because you believe a different job, more money, etc. is all that is required for you to display your full strength.

What you have forgotten is you are evolving from the inside out. Your true being is not attached to your job, financial security, relationships, or parenting skills. You are evolving despite those outside elements.

Hense, you believe little is changing in your world.

Yes, there are many promoting and acting upon 3D fear. But there are more tired of that game but do not yet understand how to unravel the ball of fear they depend upon to tie them to others and more importantly, themselves.

They sense 3D fear is no longer fun or even acceptable, but they do not have the wherewithal to understand what they can do about their new feelings.

It is your role to display your joy of life in whatever form that takes. For that display more than counteracts the fear that is old and tired for the majority of earth beings.

Eons ago at the beginning of this fear phase, finding and displaying fear was fun with thoughts of, “I am a powerful Universal being playing with fear.” Much as many of you watch a scary movie or ski down a steep slope – creating fear playtime if you will.

The difference for most is that fear no longer brings a sense of accomplishment, but instead dread of a continuing soap opera with no end. Even though horror movies continue to be produced and mountains are available for the most adventuresome skier, what most earthlings are starting to crave is a sense of peace and goodwill.

This sense is dormant within most of those with whom you interact waiting to flower given the right soil (allowing them to be) and sunshine (your joy). Your encouragement for all is your ongoing need to be yourself.

So it is you are clamoring for your unique being both in thought and deed.

You are the light beacon of joy as a result of claiming your new being. No matter how diligently you try to hide your power, your being, it squeezes out of every pore of your being. It is that joyful power that others are starting to notice and wish to know more about.

You are not changing earth one person at a time. Instead, you are changing earth by knowing you are powerful and creative.

Accept your power and then allow yourself to display that power. You will not be harmed or scorned as was likely true in past earth lives. For your time has come to be yourself in all your truth – a far more powerful reason to be than any fear of discovery you can imagine or remember.

Come out of your shell for the world is waiting. More importantly, you are waiting for you to become as one in your power and glory.

You are changing the earth and thereby the Universes. You are not a weak entity waiting for the next fear to disturb your being. You are a powerful Universal being who accepted this responsibility to be in all your glory.

Stop pretending you are weak or that you must answer to others. Stop pretending that the rules of past lives or even this life have anything to do with new you. You are a destroyer and creator in one. Destroying the earth of fear and creating a new joyful earth.

Your need to have someone define you is a waste of your time and our time. You define you.

When you discover your joy, you will discover your role. And when others observe that display of joy whether it is a smile or new creation, they too will dare to become. Your role and only role is to follow your joy, and everything else will fall into place.

Most of you believe you must have some grandiose plan of creation to be a viable new you. Which is little different from the old dictate that you are important if you have the right income, job, skin color, sex, etc. All 3D fear control factors that have nothing to do with you.

You are as powerful smiling at a small child as someone who creates a new social environment. The size and weight of your joy has nothing to do with your role or your activities. Such measurements are merely a throwback to 3D better than. Follow your joy, and you will change the world.

If you follow the dictates of fear such as “I’m not good enough or someone might laugh at me,” you are following 3D guidelines in a beyond 3D world. And you are denying the creative skills you have worked eons to hone.

You are not like what you used to be, and neither is the earth. Claim yourself in all your glory through your joys, and you claim your role. Wait for someone to tell you who you are or should be and you return with a thud to 3D being. So be it. Amen. If you would like to receive Brenda’s Blogs when posted, please click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her Blog & Subscribe page and then click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation.

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February 11, 2019 at 11:31 am 18 comments

Join the Holiday Reality Club

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for

Summary of Brenda’s December 19, 15-minute, free, channeled “Creation Energies” show on     Your holiday feelings may have shifted from previous years. Just as the Occupy Movement and the recent toppled governments display the unwillingness of many to follow dictates established in the Old Age, your need to follow the rules – including holiday roles – have changed.

Title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” her free, channeled blog at http://www.Life Tapestry “Create Your New Paradigm of Financial Resources”


Dear Ones,

Are you so exhausted that you just want the holiday season to be over? Or do you find yourself angry at the people you are preparing to entertain or please during the holidays? Do you find that your holiday gatherings are filled with more anger than love? Join the holiday reality club.

Perhaps you have the time, financial resources, joy and energy to fully prepare for this holiday season – most notably Christmas. We are not directing this particular blog to you. You have found your place, and by doing so, you are nurturing yourself as well as those you love.

The wayshowers / lightworkers / trail blazers we wish to address are those of you who feel as if you must perform according to expectations despite a limited budget, exhaustion, over extension of services and all of those other uncomfortable feelings you have pushed aside for decades to meet the Christmas needs of others.

Some of you love the holiday season. Again, that is perfect for you. But not everyone has the support system so glowingly portrayed in your media.

Yet, you must pretend that you care and that others care about you. Or that being alone on the most loving, family holiday  of the year is preferable to experiencing the joy of a family gathering. Or that you wish to spend time and money providing joy for those who do not care or do not reciprocate.

This year, allow yourself to explore your feelings. Stop pretending to yourself and others that you wish to be part of their holiday celebrations. Stop pretending that your gift will make someone’s life different or better. Acknowledge who you are and what you need.

It is time for you to be you in all aspects of your life – including your thoughts, feelings and actions during this holiday season. It is no longer appropriate to pretend in any aspect of your life. Acknowledge your feelings and then change your direction accordingly.

Just because someone, somewhere declared December 25 a day of love and peace does not mean that it is the correct day for you.

You have accepted that you are a unique person with unique needs. Yet, you continue to do act on “shoulds” – not your wants or needs.  Perhaps this Christmas you would feel more loving if you were home reading a book, than if you attended a family gathering. Perhaps you would be more comfortable if you did what you wanted this Christmas instead of what your friends expected you to do.

All holidays have been created by humankind. What if you feel like celebrating Christmas in July? Would that be inappropriate, silly or just eccentric? Yet, if Christmas is about love – why is one day designated as the day that such love should be shared? Why must everyone get a gift on Christmas? What if your friend or relative has a greater need in July than Christmas Day? Does that call for two gifts or no gifts? Only you can decide.

Perhaps you feel we are trying to remove the joys of Christmas. Not at all. We are merely pointing out that Christmas was established to create harmony and has evolved into shoulds and have tos.  So many that you, as usual during this season, are exhausted.

And as you are attempting to remain within third dimensional mainstream society, you are incorporating energy bursts internally that are shifting you into a fourth, fifth, sixth or seventh dimensional being.

You are no longer who you were last year or even three months ago. Yet, you continue to force yourself to do the “right” thing.  Christmas is not for the faint of heart. You are expected to give of your time, money and energy and to do so with an open heart and a smile. Yet, you are a different person. Those in your immediate circle may not even have noticed the difference –  for it is an internal shift that is rapidly moving your away from shoulds into nurturing yourself and others who reciprocate your love.

It is time to be you. If that means you thoroughly enjoy the activities of the season, so be it. And if that means you no longer wish to play the role assigned to you by your society, family or friends, so be it.

You are no longer part of a herd. You are a unique individual with unique needs and interests. Start acting on your unique interests and you will have given yourself and the Universes the most wonderful and loving gift of all – you. That is all we ask. Discover yourself  and act on that discovery. So be it. Amen.


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