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Be Yourself, So Others Dare the Same

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s December 12, 2019, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  By the end of December, there will be more earth light than darkness. Those exposing the earth’s hidden fears through manipulation, outer-directed power, and fear know their power is diminishing, causing their raging temper tantrums. Your choice is to observe those tantrums or go on with your life.

Your True North is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Perhaps you are in a “good” place, perhaps not. So many energies are now pummeling earth that most of you are likely in a topsy-turvey sense of well-being. One moment you are joyous and the next in despair.

Such is to be expected as you try to combine your 3D history with your 5D being. Despite the Universal energies, you are in the 3D world of holiday celebrations. So you feel alone if you have no celebrations to attend. And overwhelmed if you are participating. Of course, those statements are broad generations, but both affect more humans than not.

It is time for you to decide what is best for you. Even though we discussed that concept before, we did so with a gentle nudge. Now your inner-being is at the forefront of your decision making. So if you betray your new being by pretending to be someone you are no longer or never were, your inner-being will rapidly shift your mood from joy to fear.

Before, there were few repercussions for actions not related to your true self. You smiled and functioned like a happy being despite your discomfort with the person or activity. As you become more fully 5D, you cannot hide your discomfort, nor do you wish to. You have become a belligerent 5D entity and may not even understands yourself.

So it is you are discovering the number of falsehoods your 3D being lived daily. For in 3D, you used the charade of loving this or that, and all was well with your world. Now that you are of 5D, those same charades are no longer possible. That is unless you wish to feel heavy and uncomfortable.

In 3D, others rated higher on your pleasing scale than did you. Now that the scales are becoming balanced, you are discovering how unpleasant many of your 3D actions were. You performed those actions to please others, to increase your outer-directed power, or to harm others. None of which are joyous 5D activities.

So it is you are reassessing your actions and thoughts for you wish to feel the joy we and other channels tout as your new go-to emotion.

Instead, you are likely feeling confused, angry, frightened, and all other emotions that inform you that you are not true to yourself. Who are you is the question that keeps rambling around your thoughts and our words. For you are no longer who you were. And you are just discovering who you are becoming.

The key has been and always will be, what gives you joy? A simple concept – yet, given your 3D earth lives, very difficult. For throughout your 3D journey, you purposively lost yourself. Now that you are rediscovering your true being, you frighten yourself at times. For your inner-being is telling you to ignore this or repeat that. All confusing commands because you are not used to listening to yourself.

Of course, many of you are intuitive and may have been for many earth lives. But that intuition was most often applied to what others were feeling or potential actions. You studied others, but not yourself. Such was so for the obvious reason. If you had studied yourself, you would have discovered your inner-power. So you denied self-knowledge beyond your 3D reactions in any lifetime.

You are now discovering multiple 5D layers of yourself, which is not a little disconcerting. The difficulty is explaining your new feelings and actions to others, much less yourself. So you are experiencing emotional ups and downs as you attempt to find your new you groove. At the same time, this holiday season demands certain 3D actions that no longer fit who you are. So your disconnect is difficult as are the decisions about whether to participate in the expected holiday celebrations.

Jumping between the messages of your inner voice and those of society, all the while adapting to the energies now pummeling the earth, is heroic management of yourself. So it is your emotions are up and down and all-around. Which of you do you honor? Who you have been? Who you are becoming?

Of course, joy is the key. Your difficulty is determining that joy. Somedays, 3D expectations are joyful. Other days, those same expectations are onerous. The same is true for your new 5D actions. For even though they feel right – for example, hiding under a blanket until this season passes – it is unlikely you would feel entirely comfortable doing so.

Joy is not even part of the equation, much as is true if you have the flu. Mere existence and waiting for it to be over is more like what many are now experiencing. For you are betwixt and between. Very few times of the year demand as much 3D action as does this holiday season. Yet the energies pummeling you now are not only exhausting; they are also redirecting you to new places and times. Who are you now? And who will you be tomorrow are your concerns and your dread. Do you deny or accept the traditional holiday activities that are supposed to be joyous?

Everything will be easier in a few days. For now, do what you can when you can. Allow yourself to rest as much as possible. For your body is undergoing extreme changes. But then, such is also true for almost all you interact with. So it is that most are pushing themselves because they do not understand why they feel different. You do.

Allow yourself to be the leader in determining what you can or cannot do. Others will be relieved by your actions and strength, for they too need to rest. This holiday season has become a time of most attempting to be who they used to be and wondering why they do not feel as they have in the past. Allow them to rest, as you allow the same for yourself. Be yourself, so others dare do the same. So be it. Amen.

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December 16, 2019 at 10:21 am 20 comments

Should You Go or Should You Stay?

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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s August 3, 2018, channeled 15-minute “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:    For many, the outer chaos is becoming more illogical. You feel like parents watching two children fight over one sand pail despite another available pail. Some of you will continue to focus on outer energies for you’re discovering new ways to create a more equal and harmonious world. Others of you have little interest. You will know your objective by your interests which are more focused daily. 

“Flitting Between Relationships” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

We wish to address your fear that all is not well in your life. That what you experienced the past few days will be forever.

Even though such might be true for those who do not wish to join the light train, those of you reading this message no longer need to believe in doom and gloom. For you, en masse, have transitioned beyond fear.

You are no longer of 3D no matter how diligently you try to be.

Some of you are laughing because who would wish to remain in fear given the opportunity of a life of joy? Who indeed? So it is you have cleared entire lifetimes of fear, as well as fear dust pockets. Resulting in your accurate proclamation that you are no longer of 3D.

If you are angry or fearful, you are merely playing at being of 3D. A somewhat difficult concept to grasp for who would wish to play with fear and anger? You or you would not be asking about fear.

So it is you are learning you no longer wish to feel or play with fear. The fear that was is no longer fun, interesting, or practical. For when you become fearful or angry, you halt the flow of love and joy that is now rightfully yours.

What are you to do if someone in your inner circle is projecting fear or anger? The answer is always your choice. But the choice you are discovering as the most uncomfortable internally is to join them in their fear or anger. For doing so merely enhances their anger, their fear.

Perhaps such does not necessarily yet compute with you, but it will. For you are discovering that joining someone beginning to transition or solidly in 3D, does not make your life or their life more joyful. It merely becomes a group pity party.

Perhaps, you are doing so to “whip them into shape” or in more Universal terms, “for them to partake of love and joy.” Something you are not capable of doing. For each must declare freedom from fear in their own way and time.

Some of you are concerned those you love may never shift away from fear. You cannot make anyone do anything even though their need for love is obvious.

Many are now moving through their deepest fears, their dark night of the soul. Something you accomplished months or years ago. So just as is true for an older sibling who cannot understand why their younger sibling does not comprehend the rules of the game they wish to play, so it is for you now.

You have found the light. But that does not mean those you love are at the same place or Universal age if you will.

You cannot make anyone do anything, or more to the point for this channel, feel anything. This is an inside-out transition. So your words of love, support, anger, or fear mean little or nothing to them for they are a different Universal age.

Allow them to transition in their time. The question then becomes, “What if the two of you are too far apart emotionally?” Again, that is your choice. Do you continue on your path knowing you will leave them behind? Do you slow down to help them along? Or do you leave completely?

A quandary in which more and more of you are finding yourselves enmeshed. Such is little different from an older sibling remaining in a school grade so his or her younger sibling can catch up. Of course, such does not happen for each child must learn what they are capable of learning when they are capable of doing so.

So it is for you. Even though you may wish to slow your progress so those you love will catch up to you, such is not possible for you are too advanced to slow down. In truth, you are racing down your path.

Perhaps you are fearful of losing a relationship – not that that relationship is particularly right for you, but that it is what you know. It is comfortable.

Those who make you angry or fearful, but remain of your heart, will catch up eventually just as is true for a younger sibling.

The difference is that it will not take decades or years for such to happen for you are their beacon, their light. And they are more afraid of losing you than you can possibly imagine.

Of course, such an explanation does not cover those who have no intention of transitioning or are not part of your beacon. For your beacon can only be seen by those on their transition path.

You will know without needing to check with friends or relatives if those who make you angry or fearful will continue to be of your life. If the thought of leaving them, gives you a feeling of great relief, it is time to go. If such a thought creates sadness or a feeling that you do not wish to leave their presence, it merely means they are of your beacon just not at your current level.

Which of course, appears ominous for when will you feel the need to leave? Those in your light, your beacon are transitioning much more rapidly than was true for you.

As a historical reminder, the first United States scoutmasters needed years to discover what lay beyond the Mississippi River. Those scoutmasters were followed by wagon trains and eventually railroads and automobiles. Each method of transportation or discovery more rapidly completing what initially required years. So it is for you now – and those you love.

If you need to leave them, you will know. And if such a thought strikes fear in your heart, most likely they are transitioning but at a different level. Allow them to be as you continue your joy life. They will catch up more rapidly than you can imagine. Not in years or decades, but months, weeks, and days. So be it. Amen.

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August 5, 2018 at 9:05 pm 39 comments

Heartfelt or Nothing

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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s May 10, 2018, channeled 15-minute “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:   As a child, you maintained few pretenses of who you were. Growing into 3D adulthood included adding facades to increase your chance of interacting with others. You’re discovering you no longer wish to hide your true self.  Your focus is joy and joy doesn’t include facades.

“Joy Role Model” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Your dreams are shifting – yet they are not. Making you question whether you are of 3D or 5D. For if you were of 5D, would you not have different or more sophisticated dreams?

You question your validity and progress despite so many indicators that you are of 5D or beyond.

Shifting from wanting to be like someone you were competing with to who you are is one of the first indicators of you moving from 3D compliance to discovering who you are.

Even though your inner shifts might not be overly dramatic, they contain the seeds of new 5D you. You are no longer of 3D.

With that assurance, we return to an issue that requires a refresher for even though your past, present, and future segments are now part of you, these recent shifts were dramatic enough for you to forget some important elements.

It is likely there are very few people you can truly be yourself with, so your loneliness is becoming deeper the longer you are of 5D.

Causing your dreams to revolve around how best to obtain and retain interactions with like-minded people. Not necessarily that they think and act just as you do, but that they are living from their heart, that they are also striving to live from within instead of outside their being.

So it is, you are becoming more and more annoyed with your transition. You gave up this and that. You climbed your mountain of fear and rolled down your hill to the promised land. Now the promised land does not seem that inviting.

Granted, you are experiencing more joys than was true just a few weeks ago, but still not at the level you expected. You are almost pining for how you used to feel because those 3D feelings were comfortable. Even though you did not experience a great amount of joy, you knew what to expect and when.

You now feel as if you are in an emotional desert. For lovely pieces of your dreams are coming together, but your current most important element of interacting with others from your heart to theirs is not as strong as you expected.

A new car or more financial freedom is important to you, but neither is as important as interacting with others from your heart.

So it is you know without a doubt you are fully of 5D or beyond. For your life is no longer about keeping up with the Joneses, but instead of finding heartfelt interactions that provide more joy than anything else you could create.

That is not to say you will not create your dreams whether that be financial freedom, a new job, or community. But instead, it will be more important for you to create those dreams with others through a heart connection.

For you are discovering that without a heart connection, baubles mean nothing. So it is you are of 5D discovering new elements of your being that you did not foresee before this most recent shift.

Your current quest is not for outer-directed show, but for inner-directed joy and collaboration.

Those of you who have not reached this point might question our words for you continue to be most interested in dreams that do not necessarily include heartfelt connections. You will.

The cry of the New Age, New Earth, and your new being is, “We’re all one.” Such could not come to fruition if elements were created without heart as was true in 3D.

Some of you question that last thought for you have always loved your family, your community, or your nation. This concept is much larger than your immediate loves. It is knowing that someone living on a different continent is as much a part of you as are your children, significant other, or community.

It is a different love than you experienced in 3D for this love has no parameters or barriers. It is someone suffering on another continent that makes you feel the same as if your child or spouse were suffering. For all are part of all.

A fact denied for eons as you of 3D built your mansions, businesses, structures, and governments based on your limited heart feelings trying to outdo your neighbors, your family, and other countries. “We are the best,”was your 3D battle cry. Your new and ongoing cry is, “We are one.”

Of course, such will not happen overnight, but inklings of your ongoing life on earth in this lifetime are starting to light up within you. So it is that not only are you of 5D but you are lonely and will be until you start acting on your new heart connections with others throughout the globe. And so you are beginning to do so finding that heart connections are your dominant need.

“We are one” is rapidly becoming your reality which in turn will be true for all who wish to follow. So be it. Amen.

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May 14, 2018 at 10:19 am 34 comments


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