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You’ve Left the Nest, Those Awakening Haven’t

Summary of Brenda’s March 5, 2020, channeled “Creation Energies” show at  Those awakening requested en mass that they be traumatized both within and without. So it is that the 3D fight or flight syndrome is overwhelming both for those awakening and many of you. Those awakening don’t require your fear. Instead, they need to discover their future of peace and joy, just as was true for you.

Younger Sibling or Loving Mate?” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

The energies bursting upon the earth now are radiant and joyful. Not because you cannot produce such on your own, but that the earth is in such chaos, those just awakening need some breathing space. For they are shifting inside and out.

Your shifts occurred in a more gradual fashion allowing you to dance between 3D and your transition needs. You held your fears within so those not transitioning could not sense your shift despite your extreme inner turmoil.

Granted, you ended many relationships – much to your surprise and that of others. But those actions did not necessarily label you as different or odd.

Those now awakening are not comfortable in their 3D skin, nor are they comfortable in their new beings. They are pulled in two separate directions. One is their inner calling to live in joy and love. Yet, the outer world is in such dramatic fear that even those of you who have shifted into your new being have difficulties coping.

So it is those awakening are pulling you emotionally.

This is an extremely trying time. The outer world is shouting that this shift is not possible. At the same time, your inner world is informing you and millions of others that it has to be.

We, of the Universes, cannot tell you how it will sort out, only that light and love are rapidly pushing through the heaviness of fear you lived with for eons.

This message is for you, as well as those awakening. For those awakening do not understand why or how they feel different. You do. If you wish to use a 3D analogy, think of yourself as a parent of a confused teenager. Even though you know that your teen will outgrow their volatility, you cannot know when that will happen. So you try to calm or redirect your teen only to discover that very little changes their erratic behavior other than time. So it is now.

You cannot calm anyone other than yourself. Those just awakening are jumping between childish antics and adult wishes. Neither of which is who they will eventually become. The same was true for you. But because your shift was more within, your antics were less notable.

You can worry and fret all you wish if you are near those awakening. Or you can go about your life knowing they have the skills to process all that is happening.

Many of those awakening are drowning in their emotions as they cry for help forgetting that they are encased in a life jacket. They will not sink, nor will they drown. They want someone to pull them ashore, so their struggles are over. But then, you wanted the same.

The difference is you held your desperation within. You were not flailing in public, as is true for those now awakening. For those just awakening requested a more in-depth emersion into their new being – so their transition would happen within months, instead of years as was true for you.

In the next few weeks, you will likely be torn emotionally. Wishing to help your new fellow travelers, but becoming frustrated because you do not know how. Such is so for a reason. You are NOT to pull those drowning in their confusion from the emotional waters. It is their role to right themselves and gently walk out of the waters of fear when they are ready.

Pulling them out of their emotional pain before they are ready, will force them to return to that quagmire until they have completed what they wish to achieve. Which is similar to a teenager’s development. It is possible to isolate a teen in a room until they have reached the age of maturity. But doing so is no guarantee that they will have developed the skills they need to function in an adult world. You are no longer your brother or sister’s keeper. Any more than you were as a young adult with younger siblings remaining in your earth’s home of origin.

You have passed the point of saving the world. You have completed that task. Now those who elected to be in the second or third volley of awakened beings are developing what they require to explore their earth skills. And for you to slow down, or pull them out of the emotional waters in which they are now immersed, is for both of you to lose your way.

You are a beacon on a craggy shore. They are the boats attempting to access your shore. And just as a lighthouse cannot reach out to rescue boats, neither can you. For to do so is for you to shift backward and decrease the amount of learning those awakening have prepared for themselves.

Because your heart is more open than ever before while of the earth, you perhaps feel guilty or sad for not pulling them ashore. Even though this phase will pass, allow yourself to feel what you feel. Or isolate yourself for a bit if that is the most appropriate way for you to reduce your guilt or sadness.

Those following are as strong as you. Remember how you felt as an older sibling when your younger siblings faltered. This, too, shall pass. Either by you deciding you cannot help or them deciding they are capable of saving themselves.

You are not cold or mean, you are merely the older sibling who cannot force your younger sibling to do anything.

Expect that the world will right itself in due time, for that is what you created. Your world parenting job is over.

You are initiating new creation experiences. Experiences that have nothing to do with rescuing those who do not need rescuing. Your role is to create joy and love, despite the fears of the world.

Your creation skills, your overwhelming love for others, and yourself will continue, but not to the point of returning to your earth home to care for your younger siblings. Just as was true when you were a young adult role model for those siblings who had not left the nest. So be it. Amen. To receive Brenda’s Blog, please click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her “Blog & Subscribe” page and then click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation.

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March 9, 2020 at 10:52 am 27 comments

Rolling, Rolling, Rolling


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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for

Summary of Brenda’s January 2, 2015  free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at  Some of you feel transition symptoms, others are addressing their shadow side and still others of you have reached the top of your mountain – a very difficult climb indeed – and are now descending via beautiful green rolling hills filled with spring flowers and sunshine. You’ll probably descend much of 2015 – re-learning to play like children and to truly love yourself. Your promised land is in the valley below.

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for “Why Not?” 

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

The next few days will bring many changes to your life and that of others. You have surfed through wild energy surges and climbed emotional mountains. You have experienced feelings like salmon swimming upstream – accepting all, always moving forward. But you have not yet truly accepted the AHAs that are now of your life forever more.

Part of your climb has been accepting your true worth. Even though many of you feel as if you have many mountains yet to climb, you are further ahead than you realize.

You believe you do not deserve rewards until you have completed all your tasks – a 3D belief that has little to do with new you.

Such fears, concerns and the need to be perfect are what you are leaving, not what you are moving to. Even though some of you feel a need for an A+ in all parts of your transition, all you have ever needed to do was acknowledge your interest in new you and the rest followed automatically.

Perhaps you remember your ‘dark night of the soul,’ that terrible period when you let go of your greatest fears, your worthlessness, your inability to be whole. Or perhaps you remember how many times you revisited pieces of your dark night of the soul – only to experience those fears yet again.

That was yesterday. You have transitioned beyond that.

Any additional clearing is your old 3D need to be perfect in others’ eyes. Something you could never really achieve for others set guidelines that had nothing to do with your innate being, but instead helped control society.

Now that you have cleared those 3D feelings of lack and not good enough, it is time to fully own your being. So it is in the next few days you will discover pieces of yourself you have not accepted or noted before.

You are gods/goddesses of the highest form. No one including society, gurus, angels or beings in other dimensions is more powerful than you.

In the next few days, you will BEGIN to accept that concept. You will know you are capable of whatever you wish, of whatever your inner-being whispers in your ear.

Does that mean you will leave your job, family or friends to start a new life? No, merely that you will know you can do so if you wish – but only if you wish.

Many cling to the belief that you must save the world, that you must be an example for others by creating this or that.

It does not matter who or what you are in earthly realms for you will soon know within every cell of every segment of your being that you truly are a god/goddess in every sense of the word. You do not have to prove to yourself or anyone else that you are. You merely have to follow your inner-voice to find the joy that is your right – and role.

Do not ever think that you must be THE role model for anyone other than yourself.

By being yourself in total freedom, you will be the beacon you elected to be before entering earth in this lifetime and most likely, many others.

This transition is far beyond anything you imagined lifetimes ago or even before you entered earth in this lifetime. Your new world is about to explode in fun and joy for you have climbed your mountain. You have surfed the waves. You have completed every difficult task set before you including energy surges and software uploads. Yet, you continued movement to your promised land on faith and some channeled messages.

You are about to explode into your new life. For after you climb your mountain, you gently roll down the other side in childish glee – reclaiming those pieces of you forgotten in this lifetime.

This next wonderful phase is about claiming your totality. You are now probably thinking, “So what is new?” This phase is not the arduous climb up craggy mountains filled with snow and wild creatures that frightened you in your need to reach the top. But instead, reclaiming joy and self-love as you gleefully role and skip down the rolling hills to your promised land below.

There are some who continue to climb their mountain. That is fine and good for this transition is in stages. But those of you climbing your mountain need to know that those who went before left a bright path for you so you will complete that part of shedding old you in a much shorter time than was true for them.

Know that your mountain scout masters have become children waiting for you to play with them as they scamper down the gently rolling hills that is now their domain. Allow and encourage them to be for they are the ones who will allow you to be when it is your turn to roll down the gentle hills covered in green grass and spring flowers.

Once you reach the valley or the promised land – perhaps in a few months or a bit longer – you will be both child and adult free of the restraints that 3D earth imposed upon you for eons. So be it. Amen. If you would like to receive Brenda’s free blogs when posted, please click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her blog and subscribe page and then click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation.

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January 5, 2015 at 11:45 am 43 comments

You KNOW You Downloaded New Physical Software

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for

Summary of Brenda’s January 20, 2013 free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at Some are concerned that if you listen to your inner-voice, you’ll harm yourself or others. Those who wish to harm themselves or others are following their mind/thought patterns, not their heart/inner-voice. 

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for ”No One is Going to Coax You Into Your Role”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

This week will feel odd, maybe even hopeless for most of you. Not because you are not a Lightworker or that you are doing something wrong. But because you are adjusting to the energies of last week.

This blip will be short-lived.

Downloading new software, as you physically did last week, often feels counterproductive. Even the most common activities are cumbersome and time-consuming. Not because there is something wrong with the software, but because you do not yet understand how it functions. And so it is or soon may be for you. What was easy in the Old Age is no longer.Your physical form is adapting to your New Age software.

Most software has more capabilities than you wish to use – as is true with your new physical being software.

Everyone on earth also received “charges” of energy on 12/12/12 and 12/21/12. But not everyone is using that energy the same way –  or at all. Excess energy makes most irritable or frantic.

Some of you are mastering your new physical software. Others are building electrical charges – as it were – making you feel as if you need to do something, anything – but not knowing what that something is.

For Lightworkers, it is a short-term feeling as you unlock your New Age software. For those frightened of the New Age, the next few days or even months will be uncomfortable.

This week, most will feel and act out of sorts. Schedules will change without notice. Activities, once easy, will seem difficult. Nerves will be on edge.

Such thoughts are not to frighten you, but to forewarn you that many will seem angry or confused. That confusion has little to do with you.

This is the beginning of your new New Age role. You might also feel confused, especially at the beginning of this week, as you begin using your new software. But soon you will feel stable, more attuned to yourself. NonLightworkers might flounder for some time.

You Lightworkers expected this physical shift. Those not familiar with the Lightworker journey will feel as if their world has turned upside down.

Your role is to remain as centered as possible throughout the next few days so others will notice that even though your world is confusing, you are not frightened by the confusion. Perhaps this role seems too much for you. It is similar to the office computer expert who reassures others that they will appreciate their new software once they become familiar with its new features.

For some of you Lightworkers, our request feels inappropriate, “Where are my things?”

Did we not promise last week that you would create something of great worth or that you would know you were a Lightworker? So it is. For the very people who once questioned their Lightworker status are now upset that they have a role to play.

Remaining as centered and as comfortable as possible during a chaotic time seems too easy and too difficult. Easy in terms of, “How can you receive accolades if you are merely being yourself?” Difficult in that you might want to “fall apart,” to become angry, to request the help of others – yet there is no one to ask for you are the Lightworker.

Let us return to “Where are my things?” You transition in a specific order. First you transition spiritually, then emotionally and finally physically. While some of you have mastered the physical elements, most are just moving into your physical abilities, your new software. Those who mastered your physical piece prior to last week’s energies are manifesting your things. Those of you – and that is most – Lightworkers who are just starting to use your New Age software are not yet familiar with your new software capabilities. But you soon will be.

That last thought is your calming piece. You KNOW you downloaded new software. You KNOW you will soon be proficient in applying that software.

That is what you need to model for others. Others will feel as if they were comfortable with their computer, their physical being yesterday; only to return today not knowing how to turn on their machine. They will be frustrated, worried, concerned and feel as if all they have known has disappeared and replaced with something they do not like.

Allow them to rant and rave – just as you would if you were the computer expert knowing they will soon master their new software – if they WISH. It is not a given that they will want to. But then,  it is not your role to tell them over and over that all will be well if they practice.

You are a role model, not a guru.

A guru expects followers to hold them in such high esteem that they will not leave the guru’s circle. A role model expects others to observe what they are doing and use similar skills to create what they wish to create. Perhaps some just want to know how to turn on their computer. Others might wish to observe you as you meander through your new software finding those bits and pieces most comfortable for you. It does not matter – for you are not invested in their role. Nor are you required to sit with them as they cry in frustration.

Perhaps such statements seem inappropriate. Did you not believe that once you had discovered the path, once you had mastered your physical software, you would hold class after class for those who wished to be just like you. AH. You are a role model – and even though that might include some teaching – the energies are arriving so rapidly you do not have time to help/teach everyone who wishes to learn. Some of you may feel the calling to do so. That is right and true. But most of you Lightworkers will wish to explore the next energy cycle, dimension or world. You  will not find joy in teaching everyone who wishes to learn.

So how will this new software be processed by those who are not Lightworkers? In whatever way they want. They can toss their new software in the waste basket, play with it to discover what works for them, ask for help from those assisting earthlings or to just expect they will learn how to use it – just as is true for you now.

Some of you are concerned that you are not computer literate.  You are all Lightworkers. You do not need a software manual, an instructor or any other 3D services. You KNOW you will access what you need when you need it. And  so it will be for all those who wish to move into the New Age.

You are their role model – an excellent role model indeed. But you will not stop your learning to make certain that all who wish to be Lightworkers are completing necessary steps. Rather, expect that those who view you as a role model will understand that you are showing them the possibilities by being yourself. You need not do more. And yes, all of you reading these materials will master your new software. Not in an Old Age fashion, but in your wonderfully enlightened way.

Do not feel that you need to be part of the chaos that may occur in the next few days. You are an observer who has much to learn as you play with your new physical software. So be it. Amen.    If you would like to receive Brenda’s free blogs when posted, please click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her subscribe and blog page and then click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation.

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January 22, 2013 at 10:50 am 16 comments

Who Should be “Saved” on 12/12/12 or 12/21/12?

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for

Summary of Brenda’s December 9, 2012 free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at Before entering earth, you determined the New Age role you wished to play. Whether a media star or a loving neighbor, you will move into that niche with ease. Ignoring that role or trying to jump into another role will prove difficult and lacking in joy.

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for ”You’re Becoming 3D Ghosts”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show contains different channeled material than “Brenda’s Blog” even though both might be about a similar topic.

Dear Ones,

What do you believe is going to happen on 12/12/12 or 12/21/12?

Your beliefs create your reality.

Those who die or transition from earth create the environment they believe is true before their earth transition. Some believe they belong in a hell-like setting – so they create that. Others that they will be floating on clouds playing harps (But never snare drums or acoustical guitars!). So it will be.

But this state between earth and reality does not last long for most. The newly transitioned soon realize the joy of exploring new areas.

The same is true of what you believe is going to happen on 12/12/12/ or 12/21/12. Perhaps you believe you will ascend to a different plane. Or that those who remain in the third dimension will disappear from earth.

Such beliefs are as limiting as the beliefs of those who expect a boring eternity playing harps.

Maybe you fear you will create your earth transition or death with your current ascension beliefs. Such is not the case. Your higher self will not allow you to transition because of your 3D beliefs. Anymore than the Universes allow you to spend much time floating in the clouds before tapping you for your next exciting adventure.

Or perhaps you disappointed that a parallel earth will not be created, that you will not ascend or that rockets and fireworks will not occur. For many, 12/12/12 and 12/21/12 will not be much different from any other day.

Of course, those of you interested in opening your being to other dimensions, might have indicators that such is happening. Perhaps a buzzing in your head, a headache or similar non-emergency sensations that indicate something is shifting.

Can you imagine the global emotional pain of cutting the earth in two in terms of those who now wish to be part of different dimensions and those who do not? Who determines which entities have enough interest to exist on a different earth? Should such happen the first day of questioning a 3D life? Or the first day one believes in life after death? Or once the entity begins dimension skipping?

Do you see the difficulty in determining who should be “saved” or placed on a new earth and when? Do you understand how such a division would actually delay the development of all that you hope for and believe in? Those with a more scientific bent might be less likely to jump on the New Age/new earth band wagon leaving gaps in your global shift process. Or if only those of like thought were included, no one would question the validity of the experience – or more to the point, add spark to the development process.

Many are somewhat sanctimonious about what is going to happen to believers.

But then, there are divisions even within the so-called believers. Some believe the only path to a new dimension is meditation or a specific diet. Others believe that neither is important. Yet both groups are certain they are the ones who will be saved. Are such thoughts not similar to a 3D religious revival?

The new earth/New Age is freedom. The freedom to progress at a pace and into the life that feels most correct for you. But then, neither is probable for most on earth at this time for you are still forming and shifting your new beings. Granted, you Lightworkers might be a bit advanced in those areas, but what good would your processing and clearing be if you left those not at your stage of development behind?

All are equal.

You advanced Lightworkers merely accepted a different role than those not yet starting to awake. This transition is for all, not just a for the few who believe they know the truth.

Your role is not to move to another earth so you can congratulate yourselves on your abilities and early interest in this transition. But instead, to glory in your new skills and interests so that those who wish to awake to their new earth/New Age roles will have many loving role models to choose from. An extremely important statement for you all.

It does not matter that your inner-being declares meat inappropriate and another does not. It only matters that you are following your inner messages. Not media messages or your friends’ messages. But yours.

Your inner-being is the only guide you need to move into your life of joy. You are not wiser, nor less wise than anyone.

All of you are moving to the same endpoint – love. Most importantly, love for yourself. That is not possible if you believe you are better or not as good as someone else. Merely Old Age thinking.

A wondrous transition is occurring. Your role in this transition is provided to you by your inner-being. A role that is part of a larger tapestry than just those of you who are now interested or part of the New Age/new earth. You are role models, not gurus.

You are wondrous, but so is everyone courageous enough to be on earth at this time or to assist from other dimensions as earth and it’s entities transitions into a new spiritual awakening.

You are loved and talented, as is everyone. There are no class distinctions in this transition. To believe that only some will be part of a new physical earth, is to recreate the class distinctions that made living on earth so uncomfortable.

All who wish to be part of the new earth in this lifetime will be – whether it is before or after 12/21/12. So be it. Amen.    If you would like to receive Brenda’s free blogs when posted, please click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her subscribe and blog page and then click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation.

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December 11, 2012 at 11:51 am 34 comments



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