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Put on Your Big Girl or Boy Pants

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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s June 8, 2017, channeled 15-minute “Creation Energies” show at http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  Perhaps you’re concerned you’ll never be of 5D or beyond for you continue to address 3D issues. You just need a bit of practice before you feel fully comfortable in 5D or beyond. Just as was true for learning to play an instrument or drive a car. Some of you even feel as if you’re ill, and will never recover. The next few days allow you to understand that you’re now a bird flying high in the sky instead of a fish in a small pond.

“Your 3D Segments May Be Exploring” is the title of this week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Many of you expected to become a Superwoman or Superman overnight. While such might be true internally, externally, most of you require a bit of practice.

Your internal being does sometimes fold into your external being, but not yet to the extent you dream of. Even though eventually you will dimension hop and frequency/time travel with ease, you must practice a bit before such is so.

Do you remember the first time (for those of you introduced to computers as adults) you tried to operate a computer? Perhaps you felt you needed a space bar – like those on typewriters – or could not remember how to save items. Actions you now do automatically. So it is for your physical shift.

Throughout these transition years, you shifted spiritually, then emotionally, and finally, physically. From inner to outer if you will.

So it is you are beginning to practice your physical skills regarding actions and receiving. For even though many of you eventually wish to time/frequency travel and dimension hop, it is likely you are now dreaming of something in your physical world that you have not yet created.

You are a bit like an infant trying to grasp something but not able to until your finger muscles are more developed. So you are frustrated, angry, and stating to others that you are giving up. Hoping that such dramatic phrases and thoughts will encourage an entity in the ethers to produce what you want.

Again, like an infant expecting someone to change their diaper when soiled, feed them when hungry and hold them when human contact is needed.

The problem now, if you will, is that you are mature enough spiritually and emotionally to care for yourself. So it is you must begin thinking of yourself as a self-contained entity.

Such a thought makes some of you angry for you are certain you cannot be as fruitful or caring as the gods you once worshiped as parental figures. But then, such a thought is little different from wanting your parents to protect and care for you as a young adult the first time you make a mistake.

Even though your parents might commiserate with you, it is likely they will encourage you to determine your own fate without a rescuing or caretaking. For young adults not taking responsibility for their actions, merely prolong learning self-care – the ultimate adult role.

So it is you are now on your own. It is time for you to put on your big boy and big girl pants, to take responsibility for your life – and your creations.

You have begun to create small items and will soon flex your creation muscles to the big items you dream of.

Even though we suggested you flex your creation muscles a year or so ago, the majority of you did not wish to become true Universal adults that rapidly. You wanted to remain of 3D instead of forcing yourself too rapidly into 5D or beyond.

Even though such a delay is not that dramatic for your months are but milliseconds in Universal time, you can no longer pretend you are not skilled enough nor Universal enough to be of 5D or beyond. You have crossed the 5D Rubicon.

So Universal beings can whisper suggestions in your ear, as would be true of a phone call to your parents when you are unable to determine your next move as a young adult, but Universal beings can no longer live your life for you pushing you here and there.

You are a fully contained adult with all the skills required.

You no longer need babysitters, nor do you need overprotective parents. You are a young 5D adult – and it is time for you to act like one.

It does not matter how loudly you scream to the heavens about your terrible life, any more than it would have helped you to have your parents take care of your every move once you became an adult.

So it is you are being forced, if you will, to become an adult even though most feel as if you are not ready.

All is as it should be regarding your acceptance that you are a 5D or beyond adult.

Of course, you will make a few mistakes – but in your mind only. Of course, you will wish that the Universes or someone would rescue you as is true of almost every young adult. But the only way you will fully claim new you is if you test your physical skills – as you are now doing.

Allow yourself to flex your new you physical skills, just as you allowed yourself to flex your spiritual skills by running hither and yon from one guru to another – until you were satisfied that you had absorbed all you needed from others.

So it is now. You are beginning to flex your 5D physical muscles – discovering you are more selective with human interactions, that you create items just by wishing for them, and that you are slipping between dimensions and frequencies without yet understanding how to move and speak as you wish, but knowing how you want to shift.

You are a physically young 5D or beyond adult just beginning to explore your options. Allow that to be without berating yourself for not being perfect. And instead, being in joy with your self-hood experiments. So be it. Amen.

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June 12, 2017 at 10:51 am 40 comments

Earth Dreams Require Dedicated Self-love

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Summary of Brenda’s January 8, 2016, channeled, 15-minute “Creation Energies” show at  http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com / brenda-hoffman:  In your next phase, you’ll transition beyond expanding all that there is of the earth to all that there is. Once you create your personal earth dream, you’ll transition to expanding the Universal circle of knowledge through interests already part of your being. But like learning to drive a car, such does not mean you will leave earth, merely that you have more freedom to explore, learn and share.

“New Frequencies are Waiting” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly, channeled blog forwww.LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

So it is that you are preparing to open your beings to the next transition phase. Many of you worry that you have not yet created your earth security dream. You will. For it is time to move on.

Such is not to belittle your earth security dream, but instead to inform you that you have moved beyond earth in so many ways. You will inform yourself of that truth once you celebrate your earth graduation with the creation of your earth security dream.

To create your earth dream, you need to love yourself enough to allow the impossible. For your earth dream is not only an indicator to you that you have graduated from your earth learnings, but also a beacon of possibilities for those wishing to love themselves as much as all that there is loves them.

Some of you remain caught in the earth tangle of, “I must not love myself as much as and certainly not more than I love others.” Of course, those of you who have created your earth dream know that such is exactly what is required. A deep commitment to self-love and self-care – beyond any commitment to others in any form.

Even reading those last words give many of you pause. For your earth need to place everyone before you is so deeply ingrained that loving yourself, as much as loving others, continues to feel bad, wrong or evil. Not because it is, but because you remain tied to earth dictates. You have not yet joined your Universal being.

That last statement is not to scold you, but instead a reminder of how important learning to truly love yourself is. If your earth dream includes saving others and it feels right within your being – so be it. But if that feeling is tied to shoulds, have tos or any earth sentiment other than self-love, you will continue to spin your wheels instead of creating your earth dream.

Allow yourself a few seconds of pleasure by imagining what you would do if your finances were unlimited, you were with your dream partner or you were surrounded by that which gives you personal joy. Do others quickly become part of that picture or do you first reward yourself with trinkets, baubles, homes, romantic love, etc? The correct answer is that you reward yourself first in whatever fashion feels most right.

Do you see how you continue to be tied to the earth dictates of shoulds? “I shouldn’t be selfish. I should think of others before buying silly baubles and trinkets.”

If you continue to believe those last statements, you have not yet allowed yourself to enter fully into new you. For it is wonderful that you are so loving of others – but that is something you have been trained to do. It is not from the heart – it is from your conscience, your mind. “What will others think if I just reward myself?” What indeed?

This is a difficult concept for many to grasp but as is true for any continuum, you must move to the opposite side of where you focussed previously to find the middle. Doing so is no more selfish or different from refusing the roles of caretaker or victim that you worked through previously in your quest for new you.

It is time to place yourself front and center. So you will. And when you do, you will create your earth dream and be fully prepared to move to your next transition phase.

Indeed, why would others follow your lead if your earth dream creation were merely a repeat of what was already available of the 3D earth?

Your earth dream creation is meant to be new, fresh, fun and surprising. Surprising enough that others take note. And so it will be.

For once you dare to love yourself enough to create as does a little child with little regard for what others want or need, just thoughts of fun and joy, you will move to your next transition phase.

Your next phase is about daring to love yourself enough to explore those areas not of your earth being that give you joy and provide the Universes with more information – a much larger Akashic record if you will.

Such a thought does not seem that difficult does it? But then, neither did learning to fully love yourself until you attempted to do so. For your next phase requires complete freedom from taking care of others of the earth, from rescuing anyone, from being a victim of others’ needs or wishes. Complete freedom to be you. And such will only happen if you fully love yourself.

So we have returned to the basic principal of fully loving yourself, the foundation of all that you are and will continue to be forever more.

Just be in all your self-loving glory. You are not selfish. You are not evil. You are merely returning to your childhood visions of creations for the sake of creation – not for anyone else. And so it is. So be it. Amen.

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January 11, 2016 at 11:01 am 59 comments


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