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You’re a New Kind of Star

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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s Febraury 1, 2014 free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at  http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman: Even though all your segments are part of you, your new segments have had different life events that create different experiences for you now. The greater your transition the more unique your path. 

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for  http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com: “No Earth or Non-Earth Teacher is More Wise Than You”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” BlogTalkRadio.com show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Many of you are familiar with the duality that creates control. If you are a leader, someone or many are not as good as you. Even though that thought is perhaps not that detrimental, the actions involved with maintaining it are.

When informed that you were gods and goddesses, did you not feel a spark of, “I knew I was better than others” floating through your being? Such is so for a reason. For eons, most of you Lightworkers hid your light so you could fit in, become one with those who had not yet incorporated additional segments of their being into their earth body.

Enough of you have now claimed your true being for you to understand that you are one of millions. For some, such is a great disappointment, for others a sense of comradery – even joy. Neither is an accurate description of who you are. You are not less nor more, merely different. That is your new sparkle. Not better than – but different from anyone.

In the past, you wanted to be part of the most successful group. And if you displayed the right characteristics – most often tied to outer-directed power and money – you were considered a leader. You may not have felt like a leader though, for if you had tuned into your totality you would have known that your power, your leadership would last as long as you were able to con people in your group. Deep within, you knew someone would eventually appear more powerful – and that your group would then disperse leaving you alone and distressed wondering what happened to your glory.

Old Age power was fleeting and completely dependent on the thoughts, feelings – most often fear – of those following you.

But those at the top of the Old Age power pyramid seemed so radiant, so right to those of you looking towards them. Granted, they did not necessarily think or act as you would have without them, but they protected you in so many ways – until they did not and you found someone new.

Old Age power was fleeting for a number of reasons most pointedly because those in power needed to deny their inner-being to remain in power. From the outside looking in, it seemed as if those in power were extremely confident. They flaunted their power in so many ways as was their right – for you gave them the power and wanted them to do so.

What good would it have been for you to be in a power group of someone no one knew of or cared about?

Remind yourself of the number of Old Age stars who came and went with little thought on your part – rock stars, movie stars, political leaders, scientists, authors, lovers, etc. Even though some remained in your star corner longer than others, as you matured and shifted they lost their ability to wow you.

So it is with outer-directed power. Difficult to maintain for the star and the follower.

Your outer-directed stars played their roles perfectly – as long as they were able physically. For it is extremely difficult to have hundreds, perhaps millions wanting their attention. What they wear, eat, where they travel, how they live, what they think are all community property. There is nowhere to hide – others are tuning into them even in their sleep and after death. Expecting, hoping, wanting them to make their life better. A convoluted and difficult role to play.

So within your being, give thanks to those who dared to be Old Age leaders of whatever level – including you, for however long. And then return to the present day.

For you ARE now a leader of an extremely different type. You are the leader of your segments for you were the bravest of brave to enter earth at this time. More importantly, you and your segments are leaders of your path. Such perhaps seems like a petty leadership. In the Old Age, you would have ruled the entire road system. The difference is you no longer want the entire road system.

As you become more attuned to the new you, you will find others bother you in little ways not necessarily true before. Those little irritations are such for a reason. You have no need to gather others about you in a leadership role. Their concerns, fears and joys have little to do with your excitement of exploring your new skills. You have worked hard to release your care taking and victim roles. You are truly a new being.

You relish what others create. You celebrate with them as they move forward. But you no longer expect or even want them to follow you. You have far too much to achieve with your new skill set to slow down to work with or help them.

Such sounds counter intuitive for this New Age of love. To the contrary, it merely means you love yourself and you are excited about and fully trust you. Of course you trust others – but with their lives not yours.

A victim expects someone to take care of them. A care taker expects to be wiser and better than others. You have performed both duties time after time in small and large venues. It is time to fully explore you in all your glory.

You are the leader of one – and therefore, the leader of all. Displaying to others what is possible once you trust and love yourself. You are not better than others. Nor are you less than others. This is the Age to strut your stuff in any way you wish – but not expecting others to notice or care for they are strutting their stuff in their way.

That is your road to glory. That is your joy. Believing in yourself enough to discover and live your life whether that meshes with others or not.

Some are concerned that others will harm them or do something to “trip them up” – part of life in the Old Age. This New Age does not understand those concepts. For you are falling in love with you – not a movie star, athlete, politician, financial wizard, new earth guru, lover or any other entity that removes you from yourself.

How can romantic relationships survive with that seeming narcissistic view? For decades, have not your self-help books relayed that before you can love someone, you must love yourself? And so it is. Amen.

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February 4, 2014 at 11:22 am 25 comments

Are You Surprising Yourself With Your Actions?

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com

Overview of Brenda’s 15-minute, free, channeled show Creation Energies on http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com:Yesterday’s channeled radio show returned to the theme of  last week’s Brenda’s Blog available at http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com  titled Letting Go of a Piece of Your Heart. Relationship sharing means asking yourself what you want or need in a relationship. You’ve been trained to give without expectations for eons. It’s time to review that pattern along with your beliefs about your self-worth.

 

Dear Ones,

Even though you may understand intellectually what is happening to those relationships that no longer feel loving or valuable – whether human, animal or other entity – emotionally, you are exhausted and devastated. That person or entity might have been your touchstones of security for decades or eons. Please know that they are not bad or evil, they just do not fit within your being in a comfortable and loving fashion.

Perhaps it would be easier to understand if you think of yourself as  a round puzzle with round puzzle pieces and the other person or entity as a square puzzle with square puzzle pieces. One shape is not better than the other, merely different and not interchangeable. So it is for you now.

You do not hate the people or objects you are moving away from, you just do not feel comfortable with them any longer. You cannot understand them and they cannot understand you.

What are you to do about the void left in your heart now that they are no longer part of you – at least at the level they were before the shift? What indeed? Who or what do you want in your life and why?

You see we have returned to the basics again. Who are you? Do you wish to be with someone who makes you uncomfortable? Why? And if not, why not? What is different about you…or them? Create the relationships that fit the new you much as you did when you left home or starting dating. You are not alone. You merely have to set your personal radar to a station that matches like-minded people or entities.

The key phrase is self-worth. For eons, you have accepted without question the phrase, “To give is better than to receive.” Do you realize how many belief patterns are attached to that phrase – including gender, race, religion, age, government and economics?

Historically, women were protected by their male relatives or spouses to the extent that they were not able to vote, hold office or own property. Such beliefs seem ludicrous now given that women are voting, serving in the military, owning property and serving in office. But many belief patterns needed to shift before such dramatic societal changes occurred. Such changes required decades of dedicated work by those who believed men and women were equal intellectually and physically.

Your recent shift feels so dramatic – and exhausting – because it occurred within days instead of decades. It was not something you planned for or protested for to obtain. The shift happened without your conscious awareness. And that is how shifts will continue to occur throughout this transition process – easily and naturally, but surprising to you in terms of your reactions and actions.

There is no historical perspective for this shift. Nor are there texts or professors to help you wade through the materials. Merely you acting and reacting according to your inner-being.

Now you ask what else will be expected of you in this transition? You have already given up a great deal in the last few days by moving beyond the people or objects you once held dear. In the not-to-distant future, you will review what you gave up recently and realize the person, entity or object did not expect or accept an equal relationship. For if it were equal, you would not have given it up.

Have you dated someone wonderful until you started noting discrepancies in their words and actions and you needed to let them go? So it was for you in the last few days. But again, there were no self-help books to tell you what to do. You acted from your inner-being not societal dictates – how frightening that is to many. No rules, no guidance – just you knowing who you are and what you need.

In the past, you were inundated with correct moves and actions provided your psychologists, self-help gurus, parents and religious leaders. Even though they may have had somewhat different viewpoints, they all provided a “correct” framework for who you were and how you acted. Those few people who dared to move beyond those rules laid down by others found themselves justifying their actions by pointing out a philosophy or text that indicated a similar activity. Such safety nets no longer apply.

How can a societal safety net apply when you have transferred your power to your inner-being? And how can your moves be correct for anyone else?

Allow yourself to know that you are a powerful, self-governing entity – as is everyone else. Then allow yourself to know that what occurred in the past few days was you allowing your self-governing being to move in a direction that was and is correct for you.

Your self-governing being is not mean, vicious or self-aggrandizing. It merely wishes to help your physical being move into the place that will encompass the joy, love and peace you have long hoped for. Your self-governing being is slowly but surely waking up to the New Age.

Much of what has transpired pertaining to the New Age/new energy/new earth in the past forty years has been an intellectual discussion of the possibilities. In the last few years, your physical being began shifting – but not to the extent that you felt or acted much differently. Perhaps you visualized, had your favorite mantras or associated with others who felt similarly – but your life continued much as was before you found the materials.

Your physical being is shifting to meet the intellectual thoughts you have processed for a few decades. You are becoming the person you wanted to be, and hoped to be, in the New Age/new earth. To do that you must move away from those people and entities that force or urge you to physically act as you always have. The New Age you is physically coming into being with all the twists of your personality such changes require.

Can you remain happily involved in what you term “dysfunctional relationships?” Not if you are moving into the New Age. You cannot be an alcoholic, spouse beater, thief, murderer or any similar activity and comfortably move into the New Age/new earth. Not that any of those labels are terrible in themselves, but rather do not include love, joy and peace. New actions for the new you. Paramount of which is self-worth. And self-worth is not synonymous with a dysfunctional relationship, rage, hate and anger.

You took a major physical step into the new earth/New Age in the past few days by acting on feelings that you no longer wish to be part of a dysfunctional anything. You brave souls in a matter of months moved into a place that would normally take hundreds of years.

No wonder you are starting to surprise yourself with your actions – you continually surprise us. So be it. Amen.

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August 31, 2011 at 5:39 pm 2 comments

Societal Rules are Now Constrictive

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for http://www.Life Tapestry Creations.com

Overview of 7/11/11 “Creation Energies” 15 minute, channeled, radio show at http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com: Until you rid yourself of your societal beliefs, you are allowing a self-made dam or barrier to reduce or end your flow of energy. Going with the flow is a New Age expression that is not possible for you if you retain beliefs designed to meet the needs of others.

Dear Ones,

You do not need to negate who you are to move into and possibly through the New Age – you merely have to be more than you have been.

When you were born on earth in this lifetime, you possessed a sliver of the totality of you. There was much more of you floating about in what you call space or the spiritual world. Your being did not find the need to expend all your energy in the heavy and difficult earth environment – even though extremely beautiful. You have perhaps read that you use 10% of your brain – such is also an accurate description of the capabilities you have accessed with your sliver of totality.

The sliver of you that you have allowed on earth has shifted dramatically in the last few months. Once you accepted your beings in all of your lifetimes on earth and in the Universes, you became more than a sliver. You were a being that could access more information, as well as one that felt complete.

Please know that you have not incorporated all your beings – past, present and future – into your physical body for that is not possible. Such a being would contain too much energy to maintain a physical body on earth. Instead, you have welcomed all parts of your being into your heart so that you have access to more information and skills than in any previous Age.

Inviting your various beings into your heart has resulted in a multitude of skills and interests that better meet your needs than has been true for the societal rules that have plagued you for eons. Rather than the Old Age committee meetings you are familiar with, your various beings want the same or similar outcomes and are able to offer the skills necessary to help you move in the direction that is correct for inner-directed you.

In earlier Ages, there was little need to bring the skills and interests created by your past, present and future selves into your earth being – you needed limited skills to follow the masses. Even though some negated those patterns to follow their own messages, most stumbled along without a great deal of original thought or direction. A bit like lemmings following the lemming in front whether or not they want to move in that direction.

At birth, you were expected to go to school,  find a job or perform the role most correct for your gender at that particular time, get married, have children and start the game all over again. Some of you moved outside those societal box of givens – but not enough to warrant a complete or more complete being than the original sliver of you at birth. Why waste resources? Why bring the totality of your skills to earth if you only needed a small percentage to learn the lessons you had to learn?

Your being has shifted dramatically. You have worked diligently to reunite your various parts or slivers. You have tried this and that to create new ideas and goals – all the while tapping into the resources of your various beings. You think and act differently because you are more complete now than any previous life on earth.

Uniting all parts of your being was the initial phase of your New Age work. Now that you have completed that phase, we are moving you into phase two – removing those societal beliefs appropriate for the sliver of you, but most certainly not for the totality of you.

You have more skills and a larger knowledge base than you have ever had on earth – which means you no longer need or wish to be a lemming, a follower. You are discovering your true being and as you do so, the rules of society become more and more constrictive.

Until the recent energy shifts, societal rules were comforting. You knew what was expected of you and when. Some of you were rebels – especially in your youth. But even Old Age rebels were part of  society for their rebelliousness was not inner-directed, but instead merely fighting the outer-directed status quo. Such rebels gave the power brokers licence to create more rules and regulations.

Now that you have gathered your pieces into one totality, you are no longer particularly interested in doing what you are supposed to do to support an outer-directed society. You are not a rebel for you do not care if you offend someone or deviate. You are only you…or soon will be. It is not terrible to be you – that is your role in this lifetime. But by being you, you will no longer fit into the nice boxes created by society. That world you knew – at least for you – is over.

You are replacing societal roles with a broader spectrum of you. This broader, stronger spectrum of you will not deviate from its urge to move into love, joy and inner-directed power. You have become a salmon swimming upstream.

How will your radical new thoughts and directions shift society? How indeed? Will you all be moving in different directions, creating havoc? Quite the contrary. You will all be swimming to love and joy – perhaps in different streams – but for the first time in earth history, you will all be moving towards one inner-directed goal – joy.

Let that last thought process a bit before we close. Know that your new, and perhaps to you, odd thoughts and feelings are not inappropriate. They are wonderfully freeing – and moving you to the joy and love of the New Age. So be it. Amen.

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July 12, 2011 at 5:48 pm 3 comments

Eclipses, Solstices, Full Moons – Oh My!

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com

Overview of this week’s “Creation Energies” 15-minute, free, channeled radio show on blogtalkradio.com: We’re now able to “flit” between dimensions – which is no different from selecting an AM radio station instead of FM.

Dear Ones,

So much has happened to you in the last few hours that it is somewhat difficult for us to know where to begin. You are ripping and roaring through these transitions in a fashion far beyond anything we envisioned for you or with you.

Many of you are sensing, seeing or feeling sensations and entities you did not think possible a few weeks ago. Each of you reading these materials has shifted dramatically. But that shift happened in such a way that you have not necessarily noted the changes – similar to the temperature extremes many of you experience every year. Is it not true that a 40 degree Fahrenheit day in North Dakota in July is very cold? Yet, a 40 degree F day in North Dakota in January is a heat wave? Do you not acclimate every year to both heat and cold in gradual increments?

Which is what has happened to you in the last few days. You have more capabilities, more sensory perceptions and perhaps even somewhat different behavior patterns. But because those changes happened at a pace correct for you, you have not necessarily noticed that they occurred.

You were born into the third dimension of reality (Words such as the third dimension are not necessarily correct, but because they help you sift through the information we offer, we will continue to use them for a bit). Those of you reading these materials have since shifted into the fourth, fifth and sixth dimensions. But because you have so gradually, you are not aware of the shift.

This is not a race to determine who can stay in the sixth dimension the longest. But an explanation to help you understand your new skills and interests. Each dimension you move through will shift your perceptions, actions and thought processes. That which was once fun, may now seem tedious. That which was boring, might now seem exciting. We cannot tell you how the shifts have affected you – but you have changed.

To decide what dimensional level you are most comfortable at or on, you merely need to ask your inner being and you will know.

Even though you may be most comfortable in the sixth or the fourth dimension, you will hop around a bit so some hours you will be in the third dimension and others in the sixth dimension. There is nothing that stops you from moving from one dimension to another.

The easiest way of describing your dimension hopping skills is to transport you to Europe. Countries in Europe are clearly delineated by language and culture. Yet nothing technically separates the countries. Those of you who have visited or lived in Europe probably have a favorite country. So it is for you now. You can easily move between the dimensions – that is the gift the Universes have given you in the last few months – but you will find your favorite dimension, the one most correct for you.

Because the boundaries between the dimensions are fluid, you may start your day in the fourth dimension, jump to the sixth and then complete your day in the third. Have you grown or shifted if you do so? Most definitely.

Prior to the last few years of energy shifts, you allowed yourself glimpses of the sixth dimension, but believed that the fourth dimension was as far as you could travel in the heavy earth atmosphere. You did not allow yourself to dimension hop because you wished to fully experience the third dimension. You have completed that task. If you had allowed yourself to dimension jump, do you think you would have felt as much pain lifetime after lifetime? Remaining solidly in the third dimension was an ingenious game plan you helped create. That game is over.

Now you need to dimension jump to get access to different pieces of your being and to function in the New Age. To find your place in this new world/New Age, you need to discover your “home” dimension. Will you live in France or Italy – knowing that you can travel to the countries/dimensions you did not select at any time.

Your task this week is to discover your home dimension. Are you most comfortable in the fourth dimension? That is fine. You can visit the other dimensions when you wish, but your decisions, behaviors and thoughts will be fourth dimension based.

All we can tell you is that the third dimension is no longer your home base. You need to determine where you belong, what skills/languages are part of that home base and to start learning those skills/languages. But such skill/language development is for another blog.

Suffice it to know that you no longer live in the third dimension. You can visit the third dimension when you wish, but as you become more acclimated to your home base, you will have less interest in doing so. Such a visit will be like trying to solve a problem with an old, extremely large computer that requires punch cards in the correct sequence to solve that problem. Are  you not much more comfortable pulling out your laptop at a coffee shop and solving dilemmas as you sip a cup of coffee? And so it will be for you as you discover your dimensional home base.

We wish to add one last thought. It is possible – even probable – that today you will feel most comfortable in the fourth dimension, but within weeks, months or years, you will evolve to higher dimensions.

In this lifetime and this New Age all dimensions are available, but the likelihood of any of you moving beyond the sixth dimension does not have a high probability. But then, we never thought you would open yourselves to the sixth dimension.

You are indeed beautiful soaring eagles discovering your direction and your life. This is the Age you have waited for. So grasp a piece here and there knowing that your goal is not reaching the highest dimension, but finding your greatest joy. So be it. Amen.

 

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June 21, 2011 at 4:57 pm 6 comments

Care Taking Remains Deeply Embedded in Your Belief System

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry Creations.com

5/9/11 “Creation Energies” 15-minute radio show highlights: Yesterday, the Universes provided a buffer that will greatly enhance our ability to move into and expect joy and love. The complete channel is available at http://www.lifetapestrycreations.com or blogtalkradio.com.

Dear Ones,

Care taking others is so deeply embedded in your belief system that you continue to have difficulties understanding your true role in this New Age/new earth transition.

You have been taught for eons to give is proper, but to receive is selfish or somehow wrong. Granted, you allow yourself to receive token birthday and holiday gifts, but you continue to feel it is your duty to protect others while denying yourself.

That perception needs to shift during this transition period. If you continue to put others before yourself, you will not hear that soft inner voice that directs you to your role. For indeed, is it not true that when you move to a place that is comfortable for you, someone asks you to move over so they receive the same benefits or more?

Taking care of others means denying your self-worth. Both parties are victims. You are a victim for moving away from your dream to help others fulfill theirs. And they are a victim in that they do not believe they can create for themselves. You are not teaching them to fish – you are giving them the fish.

Many parents understand this principle – it is more difficult to encourage your child pick up their blocks than to pick up those blocks for them. Just as it is easier to smooth out any wrinkles in the life of another than to teach them how to care for themselves.

This New Age does not reward victims or care takers. Everyone will know they are strong enough to create what they want when they want it.

We have used that last line over and over in our blogs and books. It remains a difficult concept for you to accept. Once you accept the concept, you will know without a doubt there is no longer a need to take care of others. And you will also understand how care taking forces you into the victim role.

Are we indicating that you should not give to others? No. What we are saying is that it is time that you consider yourself an equal in the equation. Does it feel warm and loving to help others, does it radiate from within you? Or is it merely something you think you should do?

Doing what you think you should do will give you less and less pleasure during this transition, until there is a point that you become angry with yourself and with the person who feels incapable of directing their life without your help.

In the Old Age, victims and care takers were wonderful and demanding roles that allowed many to create outer-directed power bases.

In this New Age, both roles are not only unnecessary, they are physically harmful. For the anger and rage you develop over time as you again and again help someone who refuses to learn how to take care of themselves will be internalized by you because you will know that you are allowing them to use you.

Let us explain. In the past, care taking and victim hood were honored roles. People bragged about what wonderful friends and neighbors they were as they put off their lives to care for someone else. A role that was eventually re-labeled “enabling” in your self-help dialogues. Both roles will be further degraded until no will wish to admit they are participating. “My life was on hold to put him through college.” “I gave up my dream because she needed me.” “I work 70 hours just about every week because my boss needs my specific skills and doesn’t have the money to hire another person.”

Why would anyone need to put their life on hold if everyone has the power and skill to direct their life? That is a difficult concept to absorb is it not? Do you see how deeply entrenched those care taker/victim modes are?

Yesterday, in our radio show we discussed how a buffer has been provided that will more easily allow you to move into joy and out of fear. Care taking and victim hood are not part of joy – both are offshoots of fear.

Ask yourself why you wish to take care of someone. Is it because your heart sings when you do so? Then it is right for you.

Or is it because you feel you should? If it is the latter, you are moving both yourself and the person you are care taking off the path of joy. For the person you are care taking must reciprocate with feelings of gratitude, even if their heart tells them that they wish to do this piece on their own. Who among you has the courage to tell a loving care taker to take a “flying leap?” And so it has been for ages.

The net result is that even if you feel strong enough to do it on your own, pushing the caretaker aside seems cruel. So the two of you continue a dance that neither wants to be part of. And if one partner wishes to continue in that dance and the other does not, it merely means that one has moved into the New Age and other wishes to live in the Old Age.

What are you to do if your child, parent or friend begs for help and you do not feel as if it is something you wish to do? Yes, what are you to do? Do you follow your heart or follow the dictates of society? Do you do what you need to do to move into the New Age or do you stay stuck in the Old Age because of guilt and fear?

Do you see how enmeshed you are in some of  the Old Age belief patterns? It is time – actually far beyond time – for you to stop believing you can make anyone stronger, better or healthier than they can themselves. They have access to the same tool kit that you do and always have. You are not stronger or better – just different, with a different role to play.

Your society has used both care taker and victim roles to control the masses. If someone “out there” can make whatever is bothering you all better, why would you spend time trying to work out your issues, pain or fears?

Let us return to an example with which all parents are familiar. Is it not easier to pick up your child’s blocks than to encourage them to pick up their blocks? Some parents do not have the strength to wait as the child picks up one toy, looks at it, whines and then asks why they must pick up their other toys – over and over again. Are not those parents the ongoing care takers of their adult children?

Teach them to fish and they will swim on their own. Teach them to depend on you or anyone else and they will never leave their small pool of comfort. So be it. Amen.

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May 10, 2011 at 4:20 pm 10 comments

You Created the Blueprint for Our New World

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry Creations.com

5/3/11 “Creation Energies” radio show overview: Let the sunshine in! Allow yourself at least a few minutes outdoors this week so the sun can radiate inner-power energy to you. This week’s free blogtalkradio.com show and archives are available at www.lifetapestrycreations.com

Dear Ones,

Let us return to an issue about which you might have a concern. You fear that you are not moving fast enough – that others are able to tap into these new energies and you are not.

You are all unique individuals with unique time frames for opening up to the new energies. We have discussed this issue before – this is not new information. The piece we wish to highlight today is that all of you agreed to play a specific role in this New Age transition.

We discussed that you were trailblazers, pioneers, scout masters – all words that indicate you will be in the forefront of this transition. And so you are. But this transition is not about fireworks and instant gratification.

You are in the midst of a process and within that process you have a specific role – a role you selected before birth. Perhaps an apt analogy would be baking a cake. A cake requires a number of ingredients including eggs, oil, and flour. By themselves, those ingredients do not produce the cake. It is only when those ingredients are combined with heat do they create the structure you label a cake. If any of the ingredients are missing, the cake will look or taste differently than anticipated by the creators of the recipe. So it is for you.

Even though you may be a trailblazer, your role may not be activated until you are combined with other ingredients or individuals. Those ingredients might be a social alteration, interactions with a certain someone, an unexpected climate change or millions of other activities or connections.

All of you reading these materials are chomping at the bit to get started. You know a cake is to be created – you just are not yet certain what ingredient you are in that cake. And by the way, a cake is an apt description for indeed the New Age is about joy and celebration. But let us return to your role.

Those of you reading these materials are NOT slow learners or slow starters. You merely are waiting for your onstage cue. Of course, some of you have created some aspects of your new world through the various exercises we provided. But we must tell you that those creations are merely an introduction to the new world.

Now some of you are upset feeling that you have chanted and visualized as we instructed only to find that those activities were practice sessions and not the creation of your new world. Of course you have to practice. You were not a musical genius the first time you picked up your oboe and attempted to create music. Ah – now you understand.

We have given you the oboe, but you must practice with it before you can perform before or with others. So it is with your new earth, new energies. You have the tools necessary to perform in a large musical group, but not all the skills to do so.

This time is about practice and testing which skills or activities interest you. Perhaps some of you are intrigued by the thought of helping others return to the spirit world, others by experience/time travel, others by the creation of objects and still others, by sharing what you are learning through messages or healing. It does not matter – for all of you have the skills to play your instrument in a loving and harmonious fashion.

But as is true for baking a cake, some of you will be activated before others. Not because you are fast learners or have different skill levels – like the bluebird and redbird groups of your early school days – but because you are creating a new world.

This new world is not being created in a haphazard fashion. There is a central blueprint that all of you participated in creating before birth. Now that you are activating the blueprint, you all want to be first – a bit like putting a cake pan in the oven with no ingredients and expecting to create a cake.

Your role now is to practice your new skills. Review the lessons we have provided if you wish. Or merely tune into your being to sense what activities and processes you need to practice now. For one day you will wake up and know without a doubt that it is now time to fully activate your particular skill.

Will that be in a few days, months or years? Only you know. For you selected your role prior to this lifetime. You agreed to use your skills in a specific fashion – and you will not deviate from that plan no matter how badly you now wish to.

Those of you reading Brenda’s materials will be activating your particular piece sooner than others – but not as soon as you would like.

What will happen to those of you who do not practice? Will you remain part of the orchestra? Of course, for your talents are innate. But you will “fly higher” and have much more fun if you practice. Just as is true for anyone who has ever been part of an orchestra. It is one thing to merely play the notes on the page – and quit another to be able to see the notes with possible variations that would make the musical piece even more lovely. And so it will be for those of you who opt to practice versus those who merely wish to play an instrument.

Those of you reading these materials wonder when you will be fully activated. Much sooner than you realize, but not today. So allow yourself time outdoors this week as described in Brenda’s radio show; attempt to create something you want; allow yourself to not feel responsible for the feelings of others and allow yourself to move through the veils of time and space.

Some of you will be able to practice all of these lessons. While others will have difficulties with some. That does not mean you will not be in the orchestra, merely that you have yet to select the correct instrument for you. So be it. Amen.  

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May 4, 2011 at 12:54 pm Leave a comment

Hone Your Creation Skills

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry Creations.com

Overview of 4/24/11 “Creation Energies” free, channeled radio show available at http://www.lifetapestrycreations.com or blogtalkradio.com: We are experiencing a deep cleansing this week that will help us view our world differently. We’ve been trained for eons to accept responsibility for the feelings of others – especially fear and anger. With this week’s ‘car wash’ as my guides labeled it, we will begin to understand why the anger of others is more about how they feel about themselves, than our actions. 

Dear Ones,

It is once again time for you to test your new tool kit of resources.

Let us start with having you close your eyes. Now imagine the dream that has been part of your being for some time. Perhaps it is a new job, community or a different set of friends. The size does not matter nor whether it is human, animal or matter for all is energy and all energy is flexible.

Now that you have the image of what you wish to create, place that image on a pedestal – perhaps at the top of crystal stairs or on a golden pedestal.

Place yourself close to the image. Once you are within inches and on an equal plane – not above or below – ask that image what aspects of your being need to synchronize with that object to create it in your current reality.

Perhaps you will receive a message, sense or vision that it is not time to create it. Ask why that is so. If the response does not mesh with your inner being, ask how the time line might be changed.

If the message feels right, allow the time to pass so that you grow into the object. For example, you might feel the need within yourself to close a few emotional gates – including a lack of self-worth – before you create that object. Or, maybe creating that object immediately will change a relationship you do not yet wish to change. Allow your inner-self to direct you to the time that is correct for you – and allow yourself to understand why.

You are no longer a child. You are a young adult of the New Age. You have the right to know why you create what you create and when it is best for you to do so.

In the past, your results were random and time-consuming. You created a piece of what you wanted, but not in the timeframe or image you first envisioned. Your creations felt random and not necessarily in your control. Perhaps you even thought God withheld your visions for something you had done in a past lifetime or this lifetime.

You now have the right – and always have, you just did not believe that you did – to know what you are creating and when it is to be created.

Your creations will no longer feel random, nor will they feel as if they are a result of how well you follow societal beliefs.

Your creations are your creations – not God’s nor society’s.

Some of you contend that you could not create without God. We remind you are part of God, just as your skin cell is part of you. God expects you to explore and reproduce – just as you expect to reproduce skin cells throughout your life on earth. God only notes the reproductions or creations lacking in joy. Just as you only note your skin cells when they are not in harmony. 

Does that mean God will stop any creations that are not joyful? No. All creations are the right of humans. It is just that creations lacking in joy are no longer fashionable in this New Age.

Fear, anger, dread and hate were all important creations throughout the Old Age. So it was not appropriate to know when or if any creation would materialize. Did you have the power to create or was it luck, karma or God’s will – all avenues that produce fear, dread and anger.

Now that joy is the keynote, it is time to know your creation powers – and to exercise them fully.

Allow yourself to go within your being to create when the time is right for you. No one knows that better than you.

Visualize your object on a pedestal and ask why it is not available now. Then ask what areas you need to alter before you create it. Or are you not creating it because it is time for you to create something bigger and better?

Your creation process is no different from creating a new company or logo. Is it time? If not, why not? And if not now, when? Start thinking of your creations as an economic venture instead of a glorious entity that is only available to the highly spiritual – of which you are probably not!

Why do I want to create? When is the best time for me to create? And what resources will change or be enhanced once I create?

Start your creation business plan tonight. And do so by placing your object on a pedestal – not because you are less than that creation, but because you wish to study the object in terms of the benefits to your life – just as you would any business plan.

Review your creation/business plan by asking yourself what is stopping you – and are those reasons logical for your being or merely society’s beliefs?

Create big or create small. But create whatever lights up your inner world. These energy transitions are shifting your belief patterns and thus, your creation maturity.

But do not expect to shift from believing that whatever happens to you is luck – to you can create what you like, when you want – without some practice.

So put your object on the pedestal for that is where you still believe creations reside, and then ask your questions. We promise that within a few creations, you will no longer feel as if creations belong on a pedestal – anymore than you believe breathing is unusual. And so it is. Amen.

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April 27, 2011 at 12:52 am Leave a comment

Both Power and Love Can Corrupt

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry Creations.com

This week’s 15-minute “Creation Energies” channeled radio show discusses why it isn’t necessary to enmesh yourself in the teachings of others to move into the New Age. Follow the gentle guidance of your inner self. Maybe walking your dog is as spiritual for you as reading lightworker materials. Allow yourself to be.

Dear Ones,

Let us look at an issue that is seldom discussed among lightworkers.

Many of you firmly believe that power corrupts. And so it can. But love can also corrupt. Ah. That is a difficult thought for many of you, is it not? You note politicians haggling over this and that. You have worked for and with power-hungry people. You have perhaps even felt corrupted as you moved into your power base in this lifetime or others. That was to be expected. Until this lifetime, you hid your power base so skillfully that you are now having difficulties bringing it to the forefront and acknowledging it’s extremely important part in this New Age transition.

The power we are speaking of is an inner-directed power that allows you to know without a doubt that you are as skilled, as important and as powerful as any entity on earth or in the Universes.

Old Age power was to rule over others – to establish policies that ensured others followed your dictates. The same power you most often see displayed by American politicians during the nightly news. Old Age power is about control and fear.

There are two types of power. The power you are familiar with and most often displayed in past eons –  and the power you are slowly starting to accept for yourself and others. Power is no longer about one-up-manship or “I am more powerful than you so you must do what I say.” New Age power is knowing that you have abilities that others do not and allowing yourself to display those skills without fear of retribution or of thinking yourself better than others – as so many of your parents and teachers encouraged you to think for eons.

Inner-power is extremely important now because you have a piece of the New Age puzzle. And only by believing in yourself and displaying that power – whether it be to build a new energy system or to be a loving friend – will your New Age puzzle or tapestry be complete.

Some people will be too afraid to explore their inner-power, much less display it. Will that result in a less lovely New Age for you? No. Merely that the New Age will not be apparent to them, as it will be for those of you who dare to be who you are.

We now wish to discuss an issue that might have sent shivers up your spine. Love can corrupt as easily as is true for Old Age power. If you use love to control others for whatever reason, how does that differ from Old Age power?

Perhaps you have felt the need to care for your child beyond what is necessary and by so doing have felt that you were a loving parent. In truth, you were probably doing so to tie that child to you in gratitude.

It is now not unusual for an adult child to return to their home of origin – fully expecting their parents to finance their latest interest or care for their children. Many of you continue to think of this as love. But is it? Are you buying their love? If so, that love is as corrupt as any Old Age power base.

You have been taught for eons to care for others more than yourself. Again, negating your power and your being -to be selfless. And if you were not selfless, you were most likely labeled selfish.

New Age love is different from Old Age love, just as is true for power. New Age love is about loving yourself as much as you love others. And accepting your power to care for yourself and expecting the same of others.

Many of you are thinking that such a statement is cruel and unrealistic. Does that mean you send a seven-year-old off to fend for themselves? No. But it does mean that even an infant is an individual with unique talents. Your role as a parent is not to suffocate that child in love and entanglements, but rather to encourage the growth of that uniqueness. And a large part of that uniqueness is to care for themselves and create the world that is correct for them

As a parent, it is appropriate to teach your child not to run across a street without being aware of traffic dangers. But you do not have the right to teach your child your fears or to insure that they are committed to proving their love for you by not living their life. In turn, your child’s role is to discover their unique direction and to create the life that best displays their inner-power.

Does that mean you need to “put up” with temper tantrums when your child does not get what they want? No. Merely that you teach them that they are a wonderfully, powerful individuals who you love with all of your heart – and that they are capable of and need to live the life that is correct for them.

What if that life is to care for you? Or to be your best friend? They will know, as will you.

Inner-directed love is the love we speak of when we outline the joy and love that will be paramount in the New Age. Many of you continue to think of love as you did before this New Age transition, “If I say or do the right action, he will love me.” “If I give my child whatever she wants, she will never leave me.” That is not love – that is outer-directed power defined as love.

Allow yourself to listen to your inner being and you will find both inner-love and inner-power. And once you integrate those feelings into your being, you will truly understand New Age joy.

You no longer have to care for others to the extent that you negate yourself. And you no longer need to tie others to you to control their love. All is self-directed. You merely have to listen to your inner being. So be it. Amen.

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April 6, 2011 at 1:56 pm 2 comments

Use Your Courage to Soar in Creative Heavens

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry Creations.com

This Saturday April 2nd at 1 pm, Brenda and her friends/co-channelers, Beverly J. and Rick Thompson, will hold an open channeling session at the Greenville, SC Festival of Healing and Spiritual Awareness Conference. Throughout the Conference, April 1, 2 and 3, additional speakers, vendors and healers will be presenting and displaying materials. Contact Jan Posey at 864.233.3033 or janthemother@aol.com for more information.

This week’s 15-minute “Creation Energies” channeled radio show discusses how you’re reviewing and removing those beliefs that stop you from creating the life you dream of.

Dear Ones,

We wish to discuss something Brenda heard earlier this week, “creativity requires courage.” So it does, just as is true for creation. Both force you to move outside your comfort zone, to be different – even laughed at. Indeed, creativity and creation require that you think differently than others.

To create is to produce something that is new to you or others. Everyone has created something – from a garden to a new corporate idea. Even though you have practiced creativity every life you have had on earth, most likely, you have done so within certain limits – safe colors, safe plants and safe corporate structures. A few of you have dared to color outside the box – such as musicians creating a new sound or designers a new look. But most of you have played it safe throughout many lifetimes on earth.

You knew you could create – or in a phrase more comfortable – be creative. But most likely, you limited that creativity to the designs, patterns and colors of the day. Leonardo De Vinci was not a popular artist – he experimented and worked too slowly for most patrons. Thoreau was chided for not taking the secure route of managing his family’s lucrative pencil factory. He followed his dream to create writings that continue to influence the thoughts of millions. Yet in his lifetime, as was true for De Vinci, he was not considered a success.

Perhaps such thought create fear in your being. Does this mean you need to forsake all of your comforts to create what you dream of. No. In this New Age creativity and creation are more important than safety.

Actions in the Old Age were  “group think.” Even though a few such as De Vinci, Jimi Hendrix  and Gandhi escaped that process, they were the exception and not the rule.

The New Age flips that action pattern. Creation and creativity are your New Age keys. In the Old Age you tried to be like everyone else. In the New Age you will not wish to be like anyone.

Yet we keep telling you that you are all one. How are those thoughts compatible?

Prior to this transition, you felt that the only way you could be accepted was to follow the guidelines created by someone outside yourself – whether that be the church, government, family, friends or community.

Now that you have moved into the New Age, you are beginning to understand that being unique does not disqualify you from anyone or anything, it merely enhances the whole. Let us explain. Those few on earth in past eons who created whatever it is that you now admire, had to fight for their place in society. Please review the lives of those people you consider geniuses and you will find that their lives were not necessarily easy.

You are now advanced enough to understand that each person, each entity has something unique to share. As others create what brings them joy, your life will be more fulfilled. Do you have an interest in creating a new energy system? If not, think how wonderful it is that someone else cannot wait to do so. And the same is true for every field, every aspect of your life and all the entities on earth.

It is no longer appropriate to hold others back, to force them to be part of the group, so that you will not feel left out. It is time to encourage others to produce those goods and services that will help make your life more joyful.

Let us give you a different perspective. Do you remember Junior High when everyone was expected to wear the same clothing, be interested in the same activities and how those who did not comply were ostracized? That is how you have lived on earth for eons. It is time to graduate and create the life that is right for you.

Which returns us to our original thought. Creativity and creation require courage – much more than you realize. We applaud those who have already moved beyond the expected in whatever area interests them.

Jump, leap, skip to your new life – the life you are creating for you – not for society, the church, the government, the corporate world or any venue not right for you.

The earth no longer needs everyone rowing at the same speed, in the same type of boat. It is time to create new boats; and to stop when you wish to explore. You will know what you wish to explore by listening to your heart. Write a book. Build a new computer. Form a new religion. It does not matter. All that matters is that the process makes your heart sing.

Are we promising that all of you who wish to write a book will create a literary masterpiece? No. We are stating that if you wish to do so, you will. But if you merely wish to play with words, that is all you need to do. Create what you want, when you want it and it will be right for you and for the Universes.

Create what society tells you to create and it will not sparkle. Old Age creations are much more about group think than individual processes – just as was true for most of you in Junior High. You have graduated.

Let your creative and creation abilities soar and you will create miracles. Listen to others and your creations will never quite “gel”. Take your courage and soar in the creative heavens. There are no longer any  limits – not even the sky. So be it. Amen.

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March 30, 2011 at 5:25 pm 4 comments

The Joy of Recent Earth Events is That You Care

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry Creations.com

This week, Brenda channeled on her free, 15-minute “Creation Energies” blogtalkradio.com show, how the recent disturbing earthquakes are an indication that just as we entities are shifting, so too are the earth and Universes. This is a micro/macro shift of epic proportions.

On Saturday April 2nd at 1 pm, Brenda and her friends/co-channelers, Beverly J. and Rick Thompson will hold a live, open channeling session during the Greenville, SC Festival of Healing and Spiritual Awareness Conference – 119 Beverly Road, Greenville, SC. For more information, e-mail Brenda at lifetapestrycreations@gmail.com; Beverly at thomps99@charter.net or call Jan Posey, the coordinator, at 864-233-3033.

Dear Ones,

Let us return to the recent scene of potential disaster – Japan. Many of you, despite your New Age thoughts about negating victim hood and fear, remain concerned about those who were killed, hurt or injured. That is not terrible or even unacceptable. Many of you cling to Old Age thoughts of right and wrong, despite our discussions that such judgments are not an issue in this New Age. Your only concern, your only issue is how your heart/inner being feels about something.

Do not berate yourself for caring, compassion or even sadness. Even though you are aware that there is no death, merely a transition to a different environment, you can still note the pain of those who remain – in a sense – to be tortured through injuries or loss of loved ones or their community. It is not terrible to care or even to worry. That is part of being human.

You are moving across the New Age bridge to joy. Part of that joy is caring for others. The statement, “We are all one” should not be taken lightly. In truth, give yourself accolades for being concerned, even sad.

If you were to see an injured animal – would you feel joy or sadness? If you were to find a tortured child – would you feel joy or sadness? If you were to find that a beautiful forest were destroyed – would you feel sadness or joy? Do you now understand how wonderful it is that you feel emotions for people, animals and the earth – even though those now in Japan are in a part of the world that you have never or may never visit? Do you see how wonderful your feelings are? Let us give you another example. If you were in a car accident that resulted in the loss of your leg, would your first thoughts be of joy or sadness – perhaps even anger?

So it is for you now. You have lost a part of yourself through the unexpected upheavals of the earth/Gaia. It is as if you have lost a leg through no fault of your own. The joy in all of this is that you care. You feel. And you are feeling for people and places that are not of your immediate community.

Perhaps you will contend that such has always been the case. We beg to differ. In the Old Age, your concern was for your immediate circle – those in your family, community, state/province or country. And though some of you may have sent funds to the various locals injured in a natural disaster – that disaster was “out there” somewhere and did not really affect you internally.

What you have not noted, perhaps even to yourself, is that this disaster, Haiti and even Hurricane Katrina affected you differently. You may or may not have sent money, but your “heart bled” for those in the “eye of the storm.” Many of you will claim that you and others only feel as long as the media points out the pain to you. That is a somewhat accurate description – but it is rapidly changing.

You are feeling the pain of others deeper and longer than has been the case in the past. Your heart is awakening to the pain of others far beyond your field of vision and connection.

Let us give you an example of what most often happened in the Old Age. The horrors of the  Holocaust were displayed and discussed immediately after World War II. Your media continues to explore what happened to the Jewish people and any other group the Nazis found unacceptable. Even so, in the 1950s, many Jewish doctors were not allowed to practice in Christian or even general hospitals. And after many generations of Japanese-Americans integrating into United States society, Japanese-Americans were forced into camps during World War II. German-Americans  and Italian-Americans were not thought to need camps.

The New Age has not arrived for everyone. There are still many people who wish to blame someone or something for their discomfort – whether that be economic, physical, spiritual or emotional. But with each disaster, more people are shifting to “think” with their hearts, rather than their pocketbooks or preconceived ideas of which group of people is right or wrong.

“We are all one” is becoming more and more of an accepted belief pattern. Your beliefs are shifting to African-Americans dating Caucasians, homosexuals marrying and younger men dating older women. The lines of conformity are blurring into a beautiful gray. And disasters such as occurred in Haiti, New Zealand and Japan are instrumental.

It might be difficult for you to understand it now, but your New Age, your joy is about people blending on the basis of feelings, not color or economic status. Which returns us to our original thought. How wondrous, how joyous for those of you in the United States who feel extreme empathy for the very people you wanted to annihilate 70 years ago. Your heart is expanding and therefore, your joy.

Honor yourself for feeling empathy. Send love to those in need much as you would have 70 years ago to those of your race fighting in WWII. Know that your feelings are an instrumental part of your movement into the New Age.

And honor those who agreed to play roles many of you did not opt to play – those in Haiti, New Zealand and Japan. Honor your humanity, earth and the Universes. All are joining together to ensure that you are enmeshed in love and joy. So be it. Amen.

We will one more piece for Brenda. Even though those who are suffering in Japan, Haiti and New Zealand seem to be in a hopeless situation, the earth is shifting just as you are. And just as a natural forest fire seems overwhelming at first, it is necessary to introduce new growth and animals to that area. The people of Haiti, Japan and New Zealand will rebuild more rapidly than now appears probable. That rebuilding will become a model for new communities throughout the Universes. Will it happen tomorrow? No. Will it happen in your lifetime – most probably. Just as you felt different and stronger after you allowed yourself to “pass through the eye of the storm” as you cleansed yourself for the New Age, so to will it be true for those parts of earth who agreed to move through their traumas en masse. So be it. Amen

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March 15, 2011 at 5:04 pm 6 comments

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