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When Your Heart Says, “Yes” and Your Inner-Voice Screams, “No”

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestry Creations.com

Summary of Brenda’s January 1, 2021, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman: In 2021, you and others will begin heart motivated outer-actions as you shift from the intellect to the heart. Those pieces that were thought to be feminine actions are coming to the forefront. And mind-related actions secondary. 

“Adding Your Puzzle Pieces” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestry Creations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

You are beginning to align with your heart instead of your intellectual anger as you observe those who oppose you in thought or action.

Despite your need to display your outer-self love resulting from your heart opening, you must honor yourself first. For perhaps you think heart-opening means once again that others are more important than you. 

Without self-love, loving others more than yourself is merely another 3D caretaking mode with a different title. Because you were inundated with that philosophy in 3D, it is easy for you to again accept that displaying love means loving others is more important than loving yourself. Such is not true and never has been. Even so, that is a lesson some of you continue to have difficulties understanding.

Your inner-voice is your new command center. You no longer need to depend on the approval of friends, neighbors, relatives, or co-workers. For doing so is merely a replication of your 3D life.

The only approval you need now and forever is the sense of rightness you feel when your actions are from your heart, your new internal voice.

Your being is filled with personal wisdom.

But just as was true months ago, this distinction may be a bit difficult to discern as you begin to display your new heart-opening. Even though your heart-opening will be a natural progression deepening throughout this earth life, your beyond 3D need to love yourself as much as others will redirect your actions.

You are combining self-love with heart-opening – a new and somewhat difficult combination for some of you. So it is you will jump between caretaking and self-love for a bit until you find your balance. Your heartstrings will likely be pulled by those who want you to care for them despite you needing to negate yourself to do so. 

Not everyone in your sphere of knowingness has completed the transition phases you have. Those beings who have not might be in narcissistic or other self-need modes that care little for your needs or dispair. Those beings might push you to the limit to determine how strong you are in your new being. A bit like a three-year-old sneaking a cookie before dinner. Such action is cute in a three-year-old but can be devastating to you in your new, somewhat fragile open heart state.

Those who have not yet transitioned to this point will test you in every way possible, for they need your energy to continue their self-centered actions. Some might even label such actions as emotional vampirism.

You will know if opening your heart to someone is appropriate for you or merely meeting their needs by the contentment and joy you feel during and after the interaction.

You are opening your being in ways you never have before while of the earth. Doing so might attract those humans who feed off others without giving anything in return. Your need for the first few weeks of this new year is to discern which, if any of those beings, will bring joy to your being if you open your heart to them.

Many of you question the difference between 3D caretaking and this new declaration of your open heart.

You will likely be a bit more vulnerable because your internal being is opening as never before. At the same time, those who crave the need for a caretaker will be attracted to you in ways you will likely not understand. Allow yourself time to ponder their needs versus your needs. Then allow yourself to say, “No” or “Let me think about that.” or to disconnect from those beings completely.

Such will be difficult if they are family members, employers, or close friends. But remember you are on a new path with new skills, in a new earth. And everyone is evolving at a different pace in different ways.

By not allowing someone – no matter their relationship to you – to take advantage of your new heart-opening, you might be encouraging them to evolve more rapidly. Their sequence of evolution is no longer your priority or even of interest. For those who wish you to do their inner work for them are merely parasites who will never evolve if they have your ongoing support despite your needs.

You are no longer a savior of others. You forerunners completed your major earth shifting role. Your role now is similar to completing your course requirements and allowing yourself to address those fun courses that do not necessarily apply to your college major. Now, your key dynamic is self-evolution. The second and third waves following you are more likely to be transition models for those who want you to care for them without concerns about your needs or interests.

Allow yourself to evolve without feeling guilty that others are not or that others want you to do it for them. No one can transition on the backs of or through the caretaking of others. Ignoring your inner voice because you feel sorry for them or they touch your heartstrings despite your inner-voice shouting, “No!” is to delay your progress and theirs. So be it. Amen.

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January 4, 2021 at 10:01 am 22 comments

Stop Directing the Second Wave

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestry Creations.com

Summary of Brenda’s August 21, 2020, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman: You’ve likely experienced emotional upheaval the past few days as you evolve into new you. You’re no longer a global caretaker, for you’ve completed your role of helping the earth transition beyond 3D. You’ve become the role model of a loving, peaceful being of light. The second wave is beginning to create new, flexible structures of love. 

“The Second Wave are the Rebuilders” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestry Creations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Today we address the angst many of you feel as you let go of your need to control the world. Perhaps you laugh at that last statement for you feel as if your personal world is so out of control, you do not have the energy for global issues.

Your current angst is much deeper than you realize. You are not frightened about your future – or even your present. For you have surmounted more significant obstacles as you transitioned from 3D to your current dimension.

For eons, you focussed on transitioning the earth to dimensions and frequencies beyond 3D. Even though that role is basically complete, you have difficulties letting go of that control, that focus. So it is you want those in the second wave to create what you believe is right – and you want it now. Any deviation from your blueprint of earth correctness creates ongoing angst of “They don’t know what they’re doing. They’ll mess it up. I better get involved, so they do it right.”

In truth, you do not know the correct way to proceed from this point. You respond that you are fully aware New Earth is to be enmeshed in love and joy, so you definitely know how to proceed. What you do not yet understand is that your solutions are based on 3D knowledge. For your focus for eons has been on the entirety of the earth, the overall sensations rather than the specifics required to rebuild a new earth of love and joy.

Perhaps it will help you better understand if you think in terms of an orthopedic surgeon versus a heart specialist. Both are medical doctors, but neither has the expertise to perform one another’s skillsets without additional education. So it is for you now.

You are a globalist in the most significant sense of the word. The second wave or those now awakened honed their expertise in the finite details of rebuilding flexible structures – building walls of love. Those in the third and beyond waves are the decorators – adding touches here and there that provide heart warmth. Each successive wave has areas of expertise that will finalize the project for future generations.

All you need to know is that your magnificent role in helping create this new earth is over. It is time for you to hone your self-love skills – and resting is step one. For even though your global role is over, you have not yet allowed yourself to accept that such is so – a bit like a mother worrying about her child during his or her first days of kindergarten.

You, like all others, are being pummeled with strident energies of love. The sensations you feel as a result of that pummeling seem overwhelming. Not because you cannot internalize those energies, but that you retain the need to use new energies to help earth for that was your focus for so many earth lifetimes.

In a sense, you are retired from your forerunner job. It is time to discover a world that does not include your work-a-day schedule. Of course, you want to poke your nose in here and there to ensure your earth is shifting according to your beliefs. But when you do, those in the second wave ignore your suggestions and concerns. Which, of course, only makes you worried that the second wave does not know what they are doing, that your eons of work are for naught.

Perhaps you need to remember that those waves following you did not interfere or even understand what you were doing. Allow the second and beyond waves to perform their tasks without your interference.

Whether you have yet acknowledged it, your current role is just as intense as shifting the earth. For you are finding that internalizing self-love is not as easy as you once imagined. Self-love is a role/job in itself. The fact that you are trying to find tasks outside your self-love role should indicate how challenging your new role is.

Some of you reading this message are retired from the 3D work-a-day world and understand what we are alluding to. ThreeD retirement requires new life directions. So it is you are in the process of discovering new life directions through self-love directed interests.

As is true in 3D, your forerunner retirement can be joyful with new insights and activities or painful with nostalgic thoughts of what was. It is your choice.

If you decide to explore self-love in more detail, you will not have time or energy to worry about what the second wave is doing. The second wave is as skilled in their area as you were/are in yours. The difference is they will complete their task in less time than was true for you as you were a forerunner while fully enmeshed in 3D.

Your need to intervene in the rebuild tasks of the second wave will only slow them down and shift you from your new role of fully discovering how to love yourself.

Please know that all is moving according to the plan you helped develop, including the flexible rebuilds of the second wave. So be it. Amen.

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August 24, 2020 at 10:06 am 24 comments

Others Will Evolve Without Your Interference

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestry Creations.com

Summary of Brenda’s July 24, 2020, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  As you aged in 3D, your life became more concrete. You established plans, dates, and activities. At the same time, you readily accepted that toddlers and infants explored without expectations. So it is now for you. Your world and life flow. What seems probable today might not be tomorrow. So don’t frighten yourself with what could happen tomorrow or next month.

“Practicing Your Global Creation Skills” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestry Creations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

We wish to address your need to be everything to everyone except yourself. For these unusual times seem to be calling you to care for others. But if you do, you will lose your balance, your place in this new earth.

That is not to say you must isolate yourself, but instead, to remember, you are now as fragile as any you feel the need to care for.

You adapted to caring for others, lifetime after 3D lifetime. Always ready to help others while neglecting yourself.

Some of you may contend you were selfish in this or other earth lifetimes. Such was so to balance your being, to add self-care elements for this lifetime.

Given your 3D need to punish yourself whenever you have the opportunity to do so, many of you recalled past lives or incidents in this life that feed your need to punish yourself.

Please allow yourself to know you needed those experiences, or you would not have created them. And now you continue your 3D self-flagellation because your friends and family are in pain. Your inclination is to join them. Not necessarily to experience the same fears or pain, but to stop and comfort them despite your need to be elsewhere.

Such is not a sin (there are no sins), but instead a needless activity for you and those you believe you are helping. They are as strong and capable as you. For if they were not, they would not have selected this time to enter the earth.

This is not an earth life for the faint of heart.

You prepared for eons to be of the earth at this time. Bravo! But so did everyone. This is not an earth life in which one or two people function so differently from other humans that they are noted in history books. You are an Olympic Star, for you helped shift the earth and are now doing the same with your inner-being. But then, so is everyone else. Those of the waves following you have a different focus. You are a star of this magnificent earth shift, and those following will be a star of something else.

If you stop or slow down to help them, you will do so from your focus, not theirs. Such would be counter-productive for both of you. For you would encourage those following to focus on your area, forcing them to negate theirs. And all the while, you would feel off-balance, maybe even angry for being “forced” into their dilemmas.

Perhaps you believe those of 3D did the same to you when you initiated your transition process. So they did. For you were an oddity, someone they could not fully understand. Which encouraged them to try to return you to their 3D boxes.

The difference is, you are more powerful than were your 3D naysayers. You are stronger in your love and your need for others to be like you. So it is your attempts to push others – through what you believe is caring – is much more harmful to both of you than was true of 3D others when you began your transition.

Of course, your heart breaks at times as others cry in fear and pain. Such is to be expected as your heart has opened in ways you never before experienced while of the earth. But such caring is not productive now. The two of you have different roles to play. And if you feel the need to push or pull someone into your world, they will neglect theirs.

It is time for you to implement your self-love, for you cannot live anyone else’s life even though both of you might wish that such was possible.

You are different now. Wiser, stronger, and more powerful than you likely now understand. It is time for you to allow those in the second and third waves to find their power. Carrying them or encouraging them to pity themselves is not productive for either of you.

You do not have the energy nor the earth time to help them climb their mountains, to wade through their dark night of the soul. You completed those phases before them for a reason. You are the abstract instructor. You have completed the steps necessary to be where you are – not in 3D caring for everyone but instead discovering yourself.

Know that others have or will soon have the same power and strength as you, just not in the same arena. So you can no more teach them how to be than it is likely a mechanical engineer could teach a first-grade instructor how best to interact with his or her students. Even though both the instructor and engineer have unique strengths, those strengths seldom cross over. So it is now.

You are you in all your glory. Those in the second and third waves are doing what they need to do to be in the same place as rapidly as possible. Allow them to develop without your interference.

Those parents who continuously coddle their children often discover their children have difficulties becoming responsible, for their children have not learned how to or have a reason to do so.

Our final point is for you to remember to love yourself. For these are indeed trying times. You are adjusting to new you. While those following are crying out for you to care for them. And the energies just keep pummeling every one.

You need downtime, rest, joy, and peace. None of which is possible if you continue to ponder or worry about the needs of others without concern for yourself.

Open your heart to yourself, and you will know the right actions for you and those you love. Care for others, despite your needs, and neither of you will be in self-love. So be it. Amen.

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July 27, 2020 at 10:48 am 29 comments

You’re Worthy of Instant Gratification

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s February 21, 2020, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman: Because of the energies many are experiencing for the first time, the world is in chaos. Most of your discomfort isn’t about the energies pummeling the earth. It’s the fear of those just awakening. Their fear of shifting beyond 3D is overwhelming the earth’s vibrations. As a result, you’re returning to your caretaker of the world mode. Stop. You’ve other roles to play. It’s time for those starting their transition to be responsible for themselves.

What Does Peace Mean to You?” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Even though you read the words and watched the films, you have yet to fully believe you are capable of creating anything. That the title of earth angel applies to you for you are little different than you have always been. So you express the correct transition words hoping that doing so will convince you as well as others that you are no longer of 3D.

Perhaps such thoughts disturb you for you want to believe. You note this indicator or that thought and pronounce yourself cured of 3D fears and actions. Yet, you believe deep within you that all is a beautiful dream that will never come to fruition for you. Even though others might experience such glories as peace and joy, you are merely an observer.

You even have difficulties believing you or anyone is capable of changing the world.

Such is similar to the beliefs of your teen years. As a teen, you likely worried about dating, classes, and interactions – believing that someone was better, smarter, prettier, or more physically talented than you. Even if you achieved some of the markers you pined for in your teen years, you were never capable of achieving them all. Years later, you probably learned that those you wished to be like in your teen years had similar doubts and fears.

So it is now. You feel you are no different than you were a few years ago. You might have some new thoughts or actions, but not enough to qualify as an earth angel. So you read the information believing such MIGHT be possible for others, but not you.

And you act accordingly. Waiting for someone to wave a magic wand in your direction. Which is no different than your teen years waiting for the cutest boy or girl to look your way. And if that cute boy or girl did not, you confirmed within yourself that you were missing some vital element.

Most of you are repeating your teens, maybe even your young adult years. Fully believing you missed the golden ring because of your image, conversation, actions, clothes, money, education, religion, and on and on. There was always something you wanted and could not create. So it is now. You believe you lack something, and if you only knew what that was, you could be the earth angel superstar we label you as.

You need nothing more to claim your earth angel status than to be.

Many of you remember extremely difficult 3D times. And as you do so, you add to your belief that even though you might score a personal victory via additional income or the right mate or job title – all could disappear in a moment. You are prepared for the worst and have a limited belief in the best.

What you have not yet accepted is that you are not of 3D. No longer do you need to hope for the best, accepting what is. You are a new being in a new world. Even though your physical being might not look that different, your inner being has evolved to meet your new world.

The only way you will change your beliefs is by creating that which gives you joy without the expected pain. Such is likely a bit in the future. Not because it has to be, but because you cannot yet believe you are different in a different world.

Do not emotionally beat yourself up, as you did in 3D, for not producing, for believing you are not an earth angel. Merely accept that your life is rapidly evolving, and those little or big thoughts of how you would prefer your life to be, have hit their mark. For your frequencies have evolved to allow that life to be.

In 3D, you needed to perform for years, maybe even decades, to create that which you pined for as a young teen. A good job, a happy family, and a stable home. Perhaps in 3D, those pieces never came together for you. Such has absolutely no bearing on your current life. Your 3D life is merely a memory of what was. You no longer require a graduation ceremony to know you are qualified. Nor do you need a specific mate to create your joy.

Yet, you continue to play by 3D rules. Believing that before you can create this, that needs to happen. Or before you find your joy, others have to find it also.

This new world is a new game with new rules. It is about instant gratification instead of “wait and see.” And instead of everyone having the same dreams, each of you is unique.

Even though you might wish to learn more about a specific subject because it is interesting to do so, that learning is not required before creating that of which you dream.

You no longer have prerequisites, as was true in 3D. Many of those prerequisites were the result of the karma you collected in 3D life after 3D life. That ended when you exited 3D. You have a clean slate. So do not pine for the time when you can be joyful, as you did in 3D. You are fully capable and worthy of instant gratification.

Do you now understand your new circle of self-love? You act on your joys, which leads to more joy and on and on. It is not about, “I will paint my masterpiece after I have taken this course.” But instead, “Wouldn’t it be fun to explore various colors or to buy a canvas I might use someday?”

Your new life is about exploring your joy. Your 3D life was about completing karma and hoping that by doing so, you might find joy.

You are not who you were, and neither is your new earth playground. Remember the excitement of playing with blocks when you were a toddler? You learned as you explored that joy. Yet, that learning was not expressed by you, it was merely fun to play with blocks.

So it is now. If it’s fun or interesting, do it. When that activity or thought stops being fun, move on to something that enthralls you. Just as you did as an infant or toddler. That is until you were old enough to be forced into 3D fear and karma.

You have no rules other than discovering and interacting with your joy. No prerequisites, no karma, no parents, or teachers telling you no or that you are a bad boy or girl. You are just you. Reborn into joy and negating your fear – especially the fear that you are not an earth angel or if you are not as qualified as others. Stop it!!!! Claim your joy, and all will fall into place without worries, tests, or fear. So be it. Amen.

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February 24, 2020 at 10:27 am 20 comments


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